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learnt from breakups"},{"scheme":"http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#","term":"Break Ups"}],"title":{"type":"text","$t":"Seven Things I've Learnt About Myself Through A Break-Up"},"content":{"type":"html","$t":"\u003cdiv class\u003d\"separator\" style\u003d\"clear: both; text-align: center;\"\u003e\n\u003ca href\u003d\"http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yDYa88WLKwk/VkiQsO_6CeI/AAAAAAAAJLw/2SoYX1MPEaU/s1600/break%2Bup.jpg\" imageanchor\u003d\"1\" style\u003d\"margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;\"\u003e\u003cimg border\u003d\"0\" height\u003d\"590\" src\u003d\"http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yDYa88WLKwk/VkiQsO_6CeI/AAAAAAAAJLw/2SoYX1MPEaU/s640/break%2Bup.jpg\" width\u003d\"640\" /\u003e\u003c/a\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eEverything in life is about learning. Every situation, be it good or bad, provides lessons and teaches you something. My first proper break-up has taught me invaluable lessons about many things - but most of all about myself.\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eThey haven't all been good, I'll be honest there are things I have learnt which I wish I hadn't. Nonetheless these lessons are invaluable to my constant personal development, and to help me improve the person I am.\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eLife is about learning. Learning about absolutely everything you can - whether than be your job, your friends or yourself. \u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cb\u003e\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eI'm not as weak as I thought, and I'm not as cold as I wanted to be.\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/b\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eYou get hurt and your thoughts go something like this:\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\"I feel so useless, pathetic even - I wish I had \u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003esomeone\u003c/b\u003e\u003c/i\u003e to comfort me\"\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\"Fuck this - \u003ci\u003eFuck him\u003c/i\u003e - I don't need anyone. Love doesn't exist, it's bullshit\"\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\"I am going to emotionally shut down - that's how I prevent this from happening ever again\"\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\"Don't need a relationship - I will keep it casual. That's it, nothing else. \u003ci\u003eNo love, no feelings\u003c/i\u003e - they're banned\"\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eA swarm of emotionally loaded thoughts clog your head, and they're irrational due to the circumstances. It's hard not to listen to them and let them programme themselves into our heads. I thought all of the above, and \u003ci\u003e\u003cb\u003ereally\u003c/b\u003e\u003c/i\u003e\u0026nbsp;tried to live by the emotionally shut down rule. I succeeded for a while - until I realised that isn't me. I am not that person - \u003ci\u003eI didn't know who that person was\u003c/i\u003e. I was someone I would hate.\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eI've learnt that I am not weak enough to need someone in my life purely for the reason of being lonely or scared, but that I am also not a robot. I cannot cut off my feelings, I cannot be a cold, inhumane person who doesn't care. \u003ci\u003eI care, and I care a lot.\u0026nbsp;\u003c/i\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cb\u003e\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eI don't need anyone - I am enough.\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/b\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eI don't need anyone - I never did, I just thought I did. Simple as that - I am enough.\u0026nbsp;\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eI just want more for myself.\u0026nbsp;\u003c/b\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003eWho wants to settle which something mediocre when you can work to give yourself the world? I will no longer ever settle for something which makes me moderately happy. I want the world, I want the best.\u0026nbsp;\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eIt's okay to be unhappy sometimes.\u003c/b\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eI convinced myself for an extended period of time that if I looked happy and acted happy then I was...but that's not really the case. It took me a while to realise that being unhappy isn't a sign of weakness, nor is it me being depressed/giving up/etc - it's a part of life. You simply cannot operate being overly happy forever, you need to be unhappy and feel shit sometimes. And it's okay.\u0026nbsp;\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eMistakes are there to be made - don't beat yourself up.\u003c/b\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eWe've all been there\u0026nbsp;\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\"It's the end of the world - I cannot believe I let this happen. Why oh why did I do this\"\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\"Great, I drunk dialled. I called my ex 13 times last night\"\\\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003ci\u003eFuck, fuck, fuck.\u003c/i\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eWhatever the spectrum of mistakes - it's okay. You learn from it. Yes there is a chance you could have impacted your life - but you're alive, you're healthy and everything goes up.\u0026nbsp;\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eMistakes are there to be made and it's not going to change anything beating yourself up about it.\u0026nbsp;\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eBeing alone is okay.\u003c/b\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eI stayed with someone I knew wasn't right for me because of my fear of being alone. I didn't want to be alone with my own thoughts, time to think - I wanted to take the easy route.\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eThe moment I became okay with being on my own was the moment these distractions were removed and my life dramatically became better. I wasn't wasting time with people that brought nothing to my life - I chose the people because I wanted to spend time with them, not to fill a void.\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eYou're only as good as the company you keep, afterall...\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cb\u003eI'm not innocent - and I have a lot to work on\u0026nbsp;\u003c/b\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eThis was a good wake up call for me. For a while I genuinely believed that I couldn't possibly be to blame for anything going wrong. I blamed everyone and everything else in my life for the bad - \u003ci\u003ehow could it be me?\u003c/i\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003ci\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/i\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eIt took taking the main things, or people, I blamed out of my life to realise that some of these bad things were down to me. Bad personality traits, bad habits - they were entirely my fault and no matter how much I wanted to I cannot blame someone else for these.\u003c/span\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: arial, helvetica, sans-serif;\"\u003eI learnt what my weaknesses were, what my downfalls were and I've been able to work on them. Slowly but surely I am eradicating them from my life, and it all comes down to admitting them.\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cspan style\u003d\"font-family: \u0026quot;arial\u0026quot; , \u0026quot;helvetica\u0026quot; , sans-serif;\"\u003e\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/span\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n\u003cdiv\u003e\n\u003cbr /\u003e\u003c/div\u003e\n"},"link":[{"rel":"replies","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"https://www.ourldnlife.com/feeds/25777932363632886/comments/default","title":"Post Comments"},{"rel":"replies","type":"text/html","href":"https://www.ourldnlife.com/2015/11/seven-things-ive-learnt-about-myself.html#comment-form","title":"0 Comments"},{"rel":"edit","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"https://www.blogger.com/feeds/6326008086876232355/posts/default/25777932363632886"},{"rel":"self","type":"application/atom+xml","href":"https://www.blogger.com/feeds/6326008086876232355/posts/default/25777932363632886"},{"rel":"alternate","type":"text/html","href":"https://www.ourldnlife.com/2015/11/seven-things-ive-learnt-about-myself.html","title":"Seven Things I've Learnt About Myself Through A Break-Up"}],"author":[{"name":{"$t":"kbj"},"uri":{"$t":"https://www.blogger.com/profile/11227820428968844214"},"email":{"$t":"noreply@blogger.com"},"gd$image":{"rel":"http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#thumbnail","width":"35","height":"35","src":"//www.blogger.com/img/blogger_logo_round_35.png"}}],"media$thumbnail":{"xmlns$media":"http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/","url":"http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-yDYa88WLKwk/VkiQsO_6CeI/AAAAAAAAJLw/2SoYX1MPEaU/s72-c/break%2Bup.jpg","height":"72","width":"72"},"thr$total":{"$t":"0"}}]}});