Delete comment from: Captain Capitalism
Wouldn't touch a woman at work OR church. If things go south and she turns nasty then you risk her poisoning your career or church life.
Better to just go speed dating and only tick yes on women you can see fit in your life.
That said, last time I went speed dating they were clearly short of women and had planted a few. They must have even seen to it the plants followed up with a date because I got one but she behaved like she didn't want to be there so I left early.
I still regret not asked her if she was a plant.
I can't offer alternatives, but I do know where I'd steer clear of them.
Source: a guy I know (the pastor's own son!) was kicked out of his church after a relationship gone bad and another guy was pressured into making a working relationship work after his late-30s colleague got pregnant. Oops.
Had the work guy done what he wanted to the office would have turned on him since he'd been there a few years less than her and her uncle was a Senior Manager in the company.
Apr 10, 2015, 1:22:52 AM
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