Delete comment from: Captain Capitalism
Those who are in the third category you mentioned I would say are the ones who know that no amount of self improvement or game will ever make them attractive to women. They've tried. They've seen that it made no difference. They've been shot down too many times in bars, been made fun of in front of their friends, been friend zoned, had girls pretend to like them only because they were being used, and so their impression of women in general is very different from them men who are successful. The man who picks up the good looking woman because he's got game and she thinks he's hot, she's the same "bitch" or "whore" that shot down the other guy and laughed at him in front of her girl posse, and is the same woman that a MGTOW would ignore on his way from the bar to the toilet to take a piss. All women are not like that? It depends on who the man is. All women are like that if all you get is stomped on. All women are not like that if all that matters is getting them in bed. All women are like that if you want one worth spending the rest of your life with and they screw you and take everything from you.
The second group might have had some experience with women, seen what bad experiences others have had, and are currently enjoying their life too much to let a woman tie them down, or force them to settle. My nephew is going to med school next year. He's very charming, good looking, athletic, goes rock climbing, kayaking, biking, you name it. He had a really cute girlfriend who also enjoyed outdoor activity. But she made the ultimatum. Buy me a ring or I walk. If he bought her a ring she'd own him. He'd have to settle down. If he got married now his dreams of becoming a doctor are over as I'm sure his parents wouldn't pay for his tuition if he ran off and got married. So he said no. So she lost that one. And he's still enjoying life, working hard, and has new friends.
I'm fairly sure that there are at least three groups but I don't believe that all of them in group three are whiners. Maybe there is a fourth group that truly are cowards and whiners and don't even want to try to be a man. If they are I feel sorry for them. If not for the experience, good and bad, that I have had I wouldn't know how much better off I am now that I don't NEED a woman in my life. I'd still LIKE to have one, but my world doesn't revolve around them. I have women friends and that is enough for now.
Jan 3, 2015, 12:41:52 AM
Posted to The Nicene Creed of MGTOW