Delete comment from: Captain Capitalism
I agree with the woman who said this reality goes both ways. I'm still young-26, and have more or less left the marketplace because ive understood just what I am to most men and have realized ill likely never attract anyone im attracted to for more than a fling, even though I'm slim, fit, smart, fun, cultured, cute in the face etc... I'm black, and therefore devalued. Doesn't matter that I'm good with men, I'm no ones trophy girl, unless they're someone much much less attractive than I am. They're only human, so am I, we all want to be with someone we desire. So maybe with enough time I'll just decide to settle on someone I don't really want just for the sake of not being alone, even though that's unfair to them; or maybe I'll just choose to stay alone and make the best of my life focusing on the things I CAN control, which is good advice from the blog author.
Aug 24, 2013, 5:18:59 PM
Posted to To the 30/40 Something Woman Who Wouldn't Leave Me Alone