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"Time to Choose"

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Anonymous Anonymous said...

I find it ironic that the CRC wants to include material on ex-gays in the curriculum. The whole issue with ex-gays is extremely controversial and it has absolutely no place in a public school's health education curriculum. Teaching this material in a public school would be indoctrinating the students into biased principles and beliefs.

The term "ex-gay" is also misleading since it implies that a person is no longer gay. Being "gay" means different things depending on who you ask, but I think it would be safe to assume that the majority of people in the world believe being gay, means having sam sex attractions. To a minority of people, being gay simply means living the gay "lifestyle," so "ex-gay" would mean one who no longer lives the gay lifestyle. Going by that definition, celibate homosexuals and (young) homosexual virgins would also be called "ex-gay," yet they themselves would still identify as gay.

Since the term "ex-gay" currently has a single definition, derived from a word with multiple definitions, it's difficult to use. The term "ex-ex-gay" also exists, defining one who has left the gay lifestyle but chose to go back to it. I personally find both terms quite ridiculous since I don't think being "gay" is just a lifestyle.

The success rates of reparative therapy are low regardless of whether organizations wish to reveal the actual statistics or not. Very few people have actually expressed true conversion. Many are living the "straight lifestyle" but with same sex attractions. Usually any reference to "overcoming" homosexuality is vague and brief.

The bottom line is, adding ex-gay material to a curriculum designed for high school students is just not appropriate. Having gay students hating themselves and potentially going through reparative therapy is emotionally damaging, and could possibly have a great negative affect on their mental health. At that age, they shouldn't be worrying about such contraversial matters that are debated about by religious and political organizations.

May 17, 2005 4:15 PM

Anonymous Anonymous said...

So,

If you are gay and you can't change whether you are gay or not,

What does a questioning youth mean ?

And if questioning means I haven't figured out IF I am gay or not, wouldn't it be beneficial to such youths to know that there were people who had thought they were gay and then decided they weren't (if you take the they were straight all along attitude) - OR to know that there were people who thought they were gay and then decided not to exercise that lifestyle....


The whole existence of "questioning" terminology for youth (supported by the gay community) and the assertion that homosexuality is not a choice - seems somewhat of a non sequiter to me....

May 19, 2005 11:17 PM

Anonymous Anonymous said...

And were does bisexuality fit into all of this? It seems to me if a person can choose a sexual partner of either gender, that person is bisexual.

May 20, 2005 7:04 AM

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