I graduated in 06 but went back several times between then and 08 because my now-spouse was 2 years behind me at the same school, so I had a lot of reasons to go visit. I still miss the camaraderie and the friends I made constantly.
I was most nostalgic for college when I worked in my office job and sat in a cubicle all day. Now that I'm at a bookstore part-time and otherwise self-employed, I'm much happier. I think a lot of it is the scheduling; I actually thrive on instability and not having set hours.
May 5, 2009 at 12:09 PM
After graduating college, I returned a handful of times over the course of a few years. I've now spent the last three weekends out there and, boy, am I exhausted!
It's not that I didn't enjoy college while it lasted, I just don't understand the longing to return that everyone else seems to have. Now that I've gone back and spent a significant amount of time there, it has reaffirmed my feeling that I'm happy to be done with it. I even made a mental list of the things I do and do not miss about college. Things I miss: having most of my friends in close quarters, being able to sleep in late, having the energy to stay up late. Things I don't miss: pretty much everything else -- the food, lack of privacy, an unstable schedule, the drama, the immaturity, the daily annoyances, I could go on and on.
Looking around me, though, I noticed that these people who long for their college days really do exist. They're not the urban legend I thought they were -- they eat, breathe, and sleep college well into their twenties. Is there something they experienced that I did not, or vice versa? What is it that draws them back to the same environment I avoid like the plague?
Like I said, there isn't something that I particularly disliked about college. I had good classes, great friends, and a fair amount of extracurricular activities. I gave myself a lot of responsibilities and I also had a lot of fun. But once it was over, I was definitely glad to be done with it and I did not look back. Is there something wrong with me, or with these people who can't seem to let go? Maybe I'm just becoming old and cranky at a young age...
What was your college experience like? Have you been back since you left and did you like it? Why or why not?
"School Daze"
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I definitely miss college!
I graduated in 06 but went back several times between then and 08 because my now-spouse was 2 years behind me at the same school, so I had a lot of reasons to go visit. I still miss the camaraderie and the friends I made constantly.
I was most nostalgic for college when I worked in my office job and sat in a cubicle all day. Now that I'm at a bookstore part-time and otherwise self-employed, I'm much happier. I think a lot of it is the scheduling; I actually thrive on instability and not having set hours.
May 5, 2009 at 12:09 PM