I work with a college-mate of mine and we have that same discussion all the time. We're both married and our families are friends. We're like-minded couples striving to do better. We just don't see the benefit trying to hang on to relationships that would result in negativity.
@anonymous... are you ready to hop on this journey together?
@shellyp... yes!! it makes more sense to gravitate to that positivity. i'm lovin' it!
Tuesday, April 05, 2005 6:42:00 AM
When you make changes in your life, your whole routine is different. Your set of friends are different. Your daily discussions are different. Your routine is different. It's just like that!
I am loving the positive changes my husband and I are making. We have raised our level of thinking and have NO TIME for the little stuff that used to get in our way. We FINALLY have more common goals than common differences. That is VERY IMPORTANT! We also agree on the road that gets us to the common goals. That's rare.
I am excited about the road ahead of us. I am excited about the endless possibilities. The only sad difference is that if our old set of friends can't change along with us, they get left behind. And it's not because we choose to leave them behind. It's more that we gravitate towards like-minded individuals as will they. If our conversations only lead to differences than it makes no sense to continue the arguing. And I'm okay with that. We will continue on our road to success and they will continue to do how they do.
Sanity defined -- ALWAYS doing the same thing and expecting a different result. I'm changing my ways. Change is coming. Change is happening as we speak.
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Close this window Jump to comment formI'm behind you 100% I'm glad that you are both moving in the same direction;
I wish you all the best in the road ahead
Monday, April 04, 2005 10:00:00 PM
I work with a college-mate of mine and we have that same discussion all the time. We're both married and our families are friends. We're like-minded couples striving to do better. We just don't see the benefit trying to hang on to relationships that would result in negativity.
Monday, April 04, 2005 10:57:00 PM
@anonymous... are you ready to hop on this journey together?
@shellyp... yes!! it makes more sense to gravitate to that positivity. i'm lovin' it!
Tuesday, April 05, 2005 6:42:00 AM