seriously, i don't know why i didn' get it immediately. must still have my brain in neutral after the travel... :-) but one's perspective is all about where one is sitting, isn't it?
Well I'm glad you didn't get it right away because it makes a great blog post ;) Because our primary instinct is to think of ourselves first, I think it's only natural that you saw it from your point of view and not hers.
as my sister pointed out..i should have realized it right away when someone was actually polite. don't really know where my brain was! :-)
May 22, 2008 at 10:51 PM
yesterday it was a typical crowded monday at the grocery store. at one point, while i was examining the bright, cheerful kitchen towels in the "spotvarer" section, i squeezed close to the shelf to let an older woman by. she said, in english, "thank you." for a good five minutes, i thought, "how did she know i was english-speaking? do i have an especially english-speaking look about me today? what is it that made her know i was english-speaking? am i dressed differently? is it my hair? or my seven for all mankind jeans?"
then i got to the cash register and she was at one of the other registers and i heard her say, "thank you" again. then and only then, it hit me. SHE was english-speaking!
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Close this window Jump to comment formHA!! Too funny!
Reminds me of the Anias Nin quote, "we don't see things as they are, we see them as we are".
May 20, 2008 at 5:26 PM
seriously, i don't know why i didn' get it immediately. must still have my brain in neutral after the travel... :-) but one's perspective is all about where one is sitting, isn't it?
May 20, 2008 at 8:31 PM
Well I'm glad you didn't get it right away because it makes a great blog post ;)
Because our primary instinct is to think of ourselves first, I think it's only natural that you saw it from your point of view and not hers.
May 20, 2008 at 10:23 PM
as my sister pointed out..i should have realized it right away when someone was actually polite. don't really know where my brain was! :-)
May 22, 2008 at 10:51 PM