"Rejection educates. Failure teaches. Both hurt. Only distraction comforts."
It's really true. So many happy people go through life thinking "I could do that" about most things, but it really isn't true. It's only through lots of rejections and hard work, or a lot of luck, that people actually get somewhere. Though you can argue talent is luck. How it's utilized decides whether a person gets anywhere with it though.
November 18, 2015 10:25 PM
I've recently read How to Fly a Horse: The Secret History of Creation, Invention and Discovery by Kevin Ashton. It contains many insights on creation, more than I could do justice to in a review, but I do want to share a few quotes from the book.
Creators must expect rejection. The only way to avoid rejection is avoid making anything new. Rejection is not a ticket to quit. It does not mean the work is bad. It does not mean we are bad. Rejection is about as personal as gravity.
At its best, rejection is information It shows us what to do next....Rejection is not persecution. Drain it of its poison and what remains may be useful.
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Great creators know that the best step forward is often a step back -- to scrutinize, analyze, and assess, to find faults and flaws, to challenge and to change. You cannot escape a maze if you only move forward. Sometimes, the path ahead is behind.
Rejection educates. Failure teaches. Both hurt. Only distraction comforts. And of these, only distraction can lead to destruction. Rejection and failure can nourish us, but wasted time is a tiny death. What determines whether we will succeed as creators is not how intelligent we are, how talented we are, or how hard we work, but how we respond to the adversity of creation.
Why is changing the world so hard? Because the world does not want to change.
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Nothing begins good, but everything good begins. Everything can be revised, erased, or rearranged later. The courage of creation is making bad beginnings.
posted by Mark Mayerson at 5:15 PM on Nov 15, 2015
""Nothing begins good, but everything good begins.""
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Thanks for this, Mark.
November 15, 2015 10:03 PM
"Rejection educates. Failure teaches. Both hurt. Only distraction comforts."
It's really true. So many happy people go through life thinking "I could do that" about most things, but it really isn't true. It's only through lots of rejections and hard work, or a lot of luck, that people actually get somewhere.
Though you can argue talent is luck. How it's utilized decides whether a person gets anywhere with it though.
November 18, 2015 10:25 PM