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Blogger Sabio/Jōsen said...

"I have found it a very good thing to give something to anyone that I am feeling resentment towards"

Great technique - it sets up cognitive dissonance for the brain so its choices are either:
(1) I am an idiot to give to an enemy
(2) This person is not an enemy

The brain takes #2 and then the analytic brain can compare the new judgement to the old and see how the easy classification as enemy was not useful.

Sounds much like "turn the other cheek" -- another skillful ethical suggestion.

"What motivates a Buddhist to go to all this trouble?"
This is am important question behind many of your posts -- Buddhism and Morality. Christians think that without God morality is impossible. They accuse Atheists of thus being fundamentally immoral. Atheists have shown more about the true nature of morality by studying animals and show that far less of morality is connected with cognition than thought. People don't need a Christian God or Jesus' teaching to be good any more than Buddhists need the 6 paramitas to be good. Can they help, well sure.

But what motivates Buddhists: fear of a poor next life, fear for good things for their kids -- well, I know in fact that for many Buddhists in Japan and China this is true. The common day lay Buddhist is motivated just like a Christian. I am reading a book by the Dalai Lama where he encourages good practice for rebirth considerations.

As for your analysis that "Mostly we do it because it feels better" -- that sort of "I am good because it feels good" analysis only works sometimes.

Saturday, October 23, 2010

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