I am over 40, I have worked as lineman/cable jointer and a technician and have done many jobs (freezing works, a cheeze factory, etc etc) - I am divorced - have three children - my daughters are in a music group - I am a poet. I play a lot of Chess at my 'peak' I beat a few International Masters...but I'm not there now! I have lived in Auckland all my life and - only visited Fiji (1973) and NY (1993).