tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089158848261329413.post-71365063412798093842008-03-12T08:36:00.000-07:002008-03-12T08:54:04.767-07:00This group tackled a growing issue in capoeira... considering how many kids we had at the conference!!<br /><br />They talked about how many women feel obligated to take care of everything and be "Superwomen". They considered the positive and negative factors related to this idea of being a "Superwoman", and whether it is even possible.<br /><br />They noted that the history of a strong women's presence in capoeira is quite recent, and we are seeing the first generation of women mestres, as well as large groups of women continuing in capoeira. We are making history as we speak!<br /><br />The group suggested that everyone in a school try and help to support a family when they have a child-- from watching a child during class, to helping create a space where the kids can play, to simply being a good friend. Also, parents have to remember that training is not the only way to participate in a capoeira group; you can help organize events, play music, do some administrative work, and many other things.<br /><br />For women who have relationships with other capoeiristas, the group suggested that if these relationships go sour, instead of leaving the group, these women consider their relationship to their ex, as well as their relationship to capoeira. They suggested that groups discuss personal relationships in general, as this is sometimes a subject that simply gets swept under the rug or shrugged off as good people leave the group.<br /><br />They also wanted to suggest to those who have left and want to come back, but worry about being fit enough to do capoeira-- "Capoeira will get you in shape!"<br /><br />Also, remember that "Capoeira heals"-- just like love and friendship. Capoeira is good for your physical health and your mental health.I CAME HERE TO PLAYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08952514847693311418noreply@blogger.com