tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9089158848261329413.post-46572385377802974512008-03-12T08:41:00.001-07:002008-03-12T14:23:39.415-07:00Discussion 1: Violence, Self- Respect & Self- DefenseMainly, the group discussed less obvious forms of violence that women experience in capoeira- namely, verbal abuse, humiliation, and disrespectful behaviors.<br /><br />The question becomes complex because of the nature of the relationship of teacher to student as well as the history of capoeira as a discipline, which teaches commitment, respect for elders/teachers and has cultural implications from its Brazilian roots.<br /><br />Just how much "teasing" can we allow before it's disrespectful?<br /><br />Is my mestre being cruel to me or "testing" my commitment?<br /><br />Is he telling me these things because he cares?<br /><br />How much does this criticism fracture my self-respect and self-esteem?<br /><br />As a woman, am I more sensitive to this treatment, or is it more personal?<br /><br />These are questions the group came up with for all Angoleiro/as to ask themselves and also to offer support when they see another student going through a hard time, growing in capoeira.<br /><br />(Thanks, Michelle!)I CAME HERE TO PLAYhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08952514847693311418noreply@blogger.com