tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8839129284985526376.post-13448597667116809902008-02-23T18:53:00.000-08:002008-02-23T18:53:00.000-08:00The only kind of parent you need to be is the one your kid needs. What you do or don't do or how you do ordon't do it is no ones business but yours and your childs.<BR/><BR/>I am happily partnered but beyond that, we do not fit the mold of a couple appropriately trying to conceive. My partner just quit her job to go back to freelancing. I work for an small NGO and earn crappy money. We have educational and credit card debt. We have no savings. We are decades from owning a house and the one we rent is small. There will be no nursery a la Juno.<BR/><BR/>We have cultural capital coming out our ears and because of that, our child will have the greatest privilege of experience and love and to me, that's the most important thing.<BR/><BR/>No matter how we parent, someone will find a way to disapprove. <BR/><BR/>You're dedication and passion is what ensures me that you are going to be a great mum. For sure. xoplumphttp://plump.wordpress.com/noreply@blogger.com