nicelegs: but sometimes they call me ah fa..

i saw her again... after 6 yrs..

2009-06-11T21:07:00.002+08:00

it has been sooo long..

anyway.. today went for lunch at ghim moh.. and i saw her.. after so long.. 6 yrs i think ....

its always when you don really look out for someone you want to see.. tat you see tat someone..

she looks largely the same... put on a bit of weight.. but still has the same look on her face.. and just as tan as before..

but oh well... i don hate her tat much now.. just sigh.....

船到桥头自然直, 试问这艘船何时才会到桥头？part 2

2009-04-11T16:31:00.007+08:00

船到桥头自然直, 试问这艘船何时才会到桥头？

last post was kinda a exclamation of annoyance....

i think i might have found someone who really is the kind i like.. the problem is.. she doesnt think tat way..

i prob have been interested for a long time liao... prolly since last year when i saw her in a grey suit( the suit has nothing to do wit it.. its just her).. well as usual.. i normally screw up when i meet someone i really like.. start saying the wrong things.. bah bah bah..so you know... i guess impressions werent really good..we kinda stop tokking for a while.. cos.. i figured.. nothing much to tok also.. better give it a rest..

recently.. we had been toking a fair bit again...and i have managed to finally get her out.. know more about her.. and tat all make me think.. eh.. this gal is a keeper..

so here is the hard part.. she is incredibly difficult to chase.. has got so much activities tat makes it soooo difficult to ask her out (of cos.. it might be she just doesnt want to go out wit me la.. i accept tat).. im also sure that she has other guys going after her.... just tat she always maintains tat she hasnt seen anyone she likes..

well.. watever.. shes cute.. very cute.. to me at least..

船到桥头自然直, 试问这艘船何时才会到桥头？

2009-04-11T00:53:00.002+08:00

nicelegs is vexed ah.. knn..

why are some things soooo difficult?? why does she has to make things sooo hard?

haa..

2009-01-31T00:40:00.001+08:00

Cyanide & Happiness @ Explosm.net

ginny i love you!!!

2009-01-25T00:32:00.013+08:00

long long time ago..last apr i think i wrote about this "chiobu" called ginny in this post...haha.. interesting.. i knew it was a prank or sorts.. but i haven been able to confirm it cos tat ginny cant be contacted anymore..

well... now i have more confirmation.. my dear ex mrs nicelegs msg me yesterday and ask me if i know her curent bf.. funny question cos i don really know who she is going out with ever since we broke up... didnt want to know too much too.. anyway.. ask her why and discovered that that bf of hers has been telling her i have been badmouthing her and he has been defending her against my accusations.. anyway.. wat accusations i actually donno la.. forgot to ask.. siao la..somemore he say is we have been msging on facebook wor.. and i tell him everything.. haha.. stupid fuck..

his main bone to pick was that we did something in the bedroom.. siao la.. bedroom only meh.. but then again.. the things he said we did seem to match all the rubbish tat i was feeding ginny.. it was quite fun actually.. feeding ginny all that rubbish... did i say before my imagination was very vivid?.. anyway.. i can only remember some of the rubbish i told him la.. and it all seem to match..

so i told her about this ginny incident.. and she seem to think its him too.. that can only mean a few things:

1) he got my number.. which i believe he took from her hp without her knowledge..

2) he is very free.. and really stupid.. haha.. but got to give it to him for effort la.. he went to get a prepaid card just to msg me.. and he went to create a msn account just to msn with me.. best thing is he donno go where and take the 2 photos of ginny to put on msn wor..

unfortunely.. i haven got the msn chat history anymore cos i reformatted my comp some time ago.. or else sure post up..

summary:

the thing is.. why do you care about your gf's past(almost spelled wrongly.. "pass"..heng i saw it in time.. or else paiseh.. my england is A2 leh...just thought i mention it) if you decided to chase her in the 1st place.. everyone has a past... i don believe you don have a past.. so get over it loser.. if you cannot accept it.. go jump into a drain and drown yourself.. you don get together with somebody so that you can have issues with her about what happened before you even appear...

you are really stupid... and dumb.. and stupid.. repeat many times after me and maybe.. you will get it into your head how stupid you are... you really think i don suspect anything when a really pretty gal just appear out of thin air?.. i have seen enough in life to know that such things only happen if you are really lucky and even so you will prob have to strike the $10million toto before that actually happens..

you are entertaining though.. was fun.. came at a time where i was actually quite bored..got lots of unused smses....and you help me use them up... thanks man!!.. been a great help.. haha..

but i need a favour from you though.. can you tell me where you get your msn photo from?.. izzit your sister?? let me know ya? her nei nei looks good leh..

love ya.. mok mok..

nicelegs and his very random grumbles..

2009-01-21T14:25:00.012+08:00

there are many things i don like.. sooo many things.. sometimes i think my blog is based on things i don like.. it makes for a better read anyway..

anyway.. i haven been angry or haven really shown anger for some time due to being:
1) very busy at work, hence no time and energy to be angry...
2) cannot be bothered to be really angry anymore
3) more matured as i age gracefully( i insist).. hence leading to pt 2.

in any case.. there are still some things which still manages to get under my skin..

1) pple who don reply smses..

this one i really hate.. as you can see from my side bar... i hated it when i started the blog.. i still hate it now..so pls god.. bless those pple who don reply my smses.. cos i would be really happy for them when something bad happens to them..

2) pple who brag..

these pple tok like they own the whole world.. the best part is they tok like they always know better than you.. offically.. pple who really know better then me are
a) my father(sometimes)
b) my mother(sometimes)
c) my boss (for work)
d) limpeh(all the time)

the above four pple.. better to listen.. show some respect cos they are really more experienced..the rest of the braggies.. can really ignore la.. or sometimes when im feeling really bitchy which is like all the time.. i just shoot back.. which normally shuts them up.. but i try not to do that la.. no pt also.. just walk away would be better..

3) pple who fly me aeroplane..

cb.. this one i really don like.. esp when i plan my time properly.. if im going out with you.. means i already plan tat time slot for you.. if you bloody cb fly me aeroplane.. means im doing nothing during that time.. and to me.. its a complete waste.. if you have a good reason then maybe still acceptable.. but if its becos you have a pimple... then pls.. let the pimples mutiply...

4) pple who preach..

oh pls.. don preach to me pls!.. i really don like it when they tell me the tat their god is the real deal.. i mean..to you ya.. to me no.. and i really like my religion.. so im staying with it no matter wat you say.. i might be tempted to stray if you preach to me naked though.. but tempted only..

ok.. prob complained enough now.. im sure i have lots more things that i don like.. but cant really think of more now..

in general.. i really do think im not so angry liao.. i used to burst alot last time.. but now im not too bothered to burst anymore.. or maybe im just nua la.. cannot be bothered.. pple who i don give a shit about.. i just cannot be bothered to be angry at at all.. so pple.. if im not scolding you.. only 2 things.. one is you are pretty.. two.. you don mean anything to me at all..

oh ya.. there a very cute intern in my office now..
cheers

busy like siao

2008-11-23T18:22:00.003+08:00

nowadays also no time to update.. cos work is busy like siao.... weekends work.. weekdays work til late.. sian la..

anyway found a good website.. quite alot of information....but er.. NSFW

good stuff

nicelegs turns 30

2008-10-27T21:48:00.000+08:00

yes.. nicelegs is 30 liao.. there is no turning back..

anyway.. one this day.. i had dinner with some of my hymc bros..normally on my birthday... i will go vegetatrian... so its a vege dinner..

actually planned to go to xinmin at kreta ayer rd.. but i couldnt get them on the line.. so i decided that i better go down to take a look..went down.. couldnt find the shop anyway anymore.. haiz..prob already closed down le.. so no choice la.. must go to plan b.. decided to go to miao yi at coronation plaza.. and i got to say.. the food is really good..

took some pics.. other pics where lost when i del them by mistake.. haiz.. effects of aging...

this one is slumperman and his son slumperboy.. cute sia..

well.. im was borned in 1978 anyway..

ya.. i look fat.. haiz..

ah.. this video must see cos i one month finish the cake... well .. they made me do it.. i didnt want to ...haha..

anyway.. thanks for the cake.. and the dinner.. it was a good day.. cheers..

Petrol prices down five cents, diesel 10 centsBy

2008-10-17T13:40:00.001+08:00

SINGAPORE: Pump prices are down again - the second time in just over a week. The last time fuel prices were cut was on Oct 7.

On Thursday, Shell took the lead by reducing prices at 10.30am, followed by Singapore Petroleum Company (SPC) and ExxonMobil at 11.30am, and finally Caltex at noon. All four companies have cut petrol prices by five cents per litre for all fuel grades, and 10 cents a litre for diesel.

Premium 95 grade now stands at S$1.846 a litre before discounts, while the price of diesel is reduced to S$1.603. The latest revision follows a series of petrol price cuts since July 2008, after a drop in crude oil prices.

Crude oil futures were down more than 50 per cent from record highs of above US$147 reached in July, when prices rocketed on fears of supply disruptions. In early London trade on Thursday, Brent crude slid below US$68 a barrel to the lowest level in more than 15 months, as slowing energy demand took its toll.

Brent North Sea crude for November delivery slumped to US$67.17 a barrel - the lowest level since mid-2007. New York's main futures contract, light sweet crude for November delivery, was down US$2.06 at US$72.48 a barrel after sinking as low as US$71.21.

lame jokes

2008-10-11T15:40:00.002+08:00

叉烧包和空心包去看一个很伤感的电影，为什么只有叉烧包哭了？
因为叉烧包有filling （feeling）

叉烧包后来和豆沙包去看一个很伤感的电影，为什么只有叉烧包哭得比较伤感？
因为他们有不同的 filling （feeling）

小明是喝牛奶长大的，那么请问大明是喝什么长大的？
酒（酒养大名“明”）

有一天阿包被杀了，警察很快就找出凶手，请问是谁杀的？
阿豆杀的（豆沙“杀”包）

为什么米粉会说鱼不老实？
因为鱼片“骗”米粉

两个女人面对面冲凉，猜一句成语。
豆奶（斗奶）

Happy姓什么？
Lee （因为：Happily）

Happy是男的还是女的？
Male （因为：Happymeal）

请问人的心是什么颜色的呢？
黄色（因为人心黄黄（人心惶惶）

什么书是任何书局都买不到的？
秘书

狗为什么害怕日光浴？
因为它怕变成热狗

小明只会花钱，天天花很多钱,可最后却成了百万富翁,为什么？
他以前是億萬富翁，千萬富翁

什么动物的头最常被人扭？
水龙（头）

美丽的公主结婚以后就不挂蚊帐了，为什么？
因为她嫁给了青蛙王子

motor show

2008-10-04T14:24:00.007+08:00

Went to motorshow yesterday nite..
it was quite pathetic actually... there was not much pple and very min cars on show.. no continental cars.. luckily the race queens were ok..

bought a clay bar to clay my xiaohong.. 20% discount.. so buy lor..

too some photos of the cars ... too lazy to arrange them properly la.. so just anyhow..

this ang mo quite pretty sia.. when she smiles la.. and it looks like the ice cream on my t shirt is looking at her boobs..haha

all in all.. lousy show.. nothing much.. didnt got for super imports nite.. but i think should be better..

nicelegs went to f1 qualifying

2008-10-01T11:00:00.000+08:00

nicelegs and frens went to f1 qualifying.. got lobang from cow tat got free pass.. ok la.. must go lor..

anyway.. nothing much to say nowadays.. i not so angry liao.. so pictures..

numbers have been removed to protect the innocent... who we are supposed to give a treat to at paris..

boon and cow..

we went in at gate 5..

ticketing booth.. no need to... and.. im not taking photos of the gals in the foreground.. serious.. also donno why they are there..

f1 practice start.. damn noisy.. heng i bought earplugs.
its a force india car.. even for the slowest car in f1.. its bloody fast..

red bull...

ninja...

along the esp bridge.. quite nice..

limpeh and boon... quite nice too!

cow and e***

just trying out the video thing in blogger... also donno this video got cars in side bo....
anyway.. picture of the cars zooming by damn difficult to get la.. you press the button only they zoom by liao.. sian.. so in the end.. more videos..

Its hell to get old

2008-09-19T13:49:00.001+08:00

An 85-year-old man was requested by his doctor for a sperm count as part of his physical exam.

The doctor gave the man a jar and said, 'Take this jar home and bring back a semen sample tomorrow.' The next day the 85-year-old man re-appeared at the doctor's office and gave him the jar, which was as clean and empty as on the previous day.

The doctor asked what happened and the man explained, 'Well, doc, it's like this--first I tried with my right hand, but nothing. Then I tried with my left hand, but still nothing. 'Then I asked my wife for help. She tried with her right hand, then with her left, still nothing. She tried with her mouth, first with the teeth in, then with her teeth out, still nothing.

We even called up Arleen, the lady next door and she tried too, first with both hands, then an armpit, and she even tried squeezin' it between her knees, but still nothing.'

The doctor was shocked! 'You asked your neighbor?' The old man replied, 'Yep, none of us could get the jar open.'.

sexy jokes

2008-09-18T15:28:00.004+08:00

got this list of jokes from http://sggeratberlin.blogspot.com/.. damn funny..

1. When I was born, I was given a choice - A big dick or a good memory. I don't remember, what I chose.

2. Your birth certificate is an apology letter from the condom factory.

3. A wife is a sex object. Every time you ask for sex, she objects.

4. Impotence: Nature's way of saying 'No hard feelings...'

5. There are only two four letter words that are offensive to men - 'don't' and 'stop', unless they are used together of course.

6. Panties: Not the best thing on earth, but next to best thing on earth.

7. There are three stages of sex in a man's life: Tri Weekly, Try Weekly, and Try Weakly.

8. Virginity can be cured.

9. Virginity is not dignity, it's lack of opportunity.

10. Having sex is like playing bridge. If you don't have a good partner, you'd better have a good hand.

11. I tried phone sex once, but the holes in the dialer were too small.

12. Marriage is the only war where you get to sleep with the enemy.

13. A couple just married were happy with the whole thing. He was happy with the Hole and she was happy with the Thing.

14. Q: What are the three biggest tragedies in a mans life?A: Life sucks, job sucks, and the wife doesn't.

15. Q: Why do men find it difficult to make eye contact?A: Breasts don't have eyes.

16. Despite the old saying, 'Don't take your troubles to bed', many men still sleep with their wives!!!

4 THINGS YOU PROBABLY NEVER KNEW YOUR MOBILE PHONE COULD DO

2008-09-10T08:56:00.002+08:00

There are a few things that can be done in
times of grave emergencies. Your mobile phone
can actually be a life saver or an emergency
tool for survival. Check out the things that you
can do with it:

One: Emergency

The Emergency Number worldwide for Mobile is
112. If you find yourself out of the coverage area
of your mobile; network and there is an
emergency, dial 112 and the mobile will search
any existing network to establish the emergency
number for you, and interestingly this number
112 can be dialed even if the keypad is locked.
Try it out.

Two: Have you locked your keys in the car?

Does your car have remote keyless entry? This
may come in handy someday. Good reason to
own a cell phone: If you lock your keys in the car
and the spare keys are at home, call someone at
home on their mobile phone from your cell
phone.
Hold your cell phone about a foot from your car
door and have the person at your home press the
unlock button, holding it near the mobile phone
on their end. Your car will unlock. Saves
someone from having to
drive your keys to you. Distance is no object.
You could be hundreds of miles away, and if you
can reach someone who has the other 'remote'
for your car, you can unlock the doors (or the
trunk).

Three: Hidden Battery Power

Imagine your mobile battery is very low. To
activate, press the keys *3370# Your mobile will
restart with this reserve and the instrument will
show a 50% increase in battery. This reserve will
get charged when you charge your mobile next
time.

Four: How to disable a STOLEN mobile
phone?

To check your mobile phone's serial number, key
in the following digits on your phone!: * # 0 6 #,
a 15 digit code will appear on the screen. This
number is unique to your handset. Write it down
and keep it somewhere safe. When your phone
get stolen, you can phone your service provider
and give them this code. They will then be able
to block your handset so even if the thief
changes the SIM card, your phone will be totally
useless.

You probably won't get your phone back, but at
least you know that whoever stole it can't
use/sell it either. If everybody does this, there
would be no point in people stealing mobile
phones.

wine appreciation at siemens center

2008-09-05T17:22:00.002+08:00

last thurs had a wine appreciation class at siemens center..

the place is dam nice la.. wit gym and a nice enviroment.. however.. too far away from jurong east.. 1st PIE sucks.. next.. ERP sucks more.. knn.. so no matter how nice the place is... i hope we wont shift there...

we had like 5 kinds of wine.. 2 reds and 2 whites.. donno wats the name.. forgot liao.. cant really tell la.. but heng i know how to gek the seh.. haha..

new mods

2008-08-26T14:22:00.003+08:00

did some impulse buying again..

went for the mcs meetup and saw another bro go this grill instead of the ugly stock one.. so had to change la.. cos me 50 bucks...

and since im at jdm.. might as well fix the reverse cam also la.. cost me 300 bucks..

so its another 350 bucks gone.. and now im broke... i must not do anymore mods for the next 2 months.. or else i will be damn broke..

are these mods necessary??? no..
are they nice to have?? yes..
am i happy playing with them??.. hell yes!!
am i broke after tat??... knn.. yes..

totally love this..

2008-08-23T22:57:00.001+08:00

japanese tradition.. dating..

Life and how to survive it

2008-08-18T10:07:00.002+08:00

My coll sent it to me.. its adrian tan's speech at ntu convo this year..
its going to be a long post.. so bear with it.. or just switch over to some child porn site if you like..

i would say.. my convo was kinda of boring... anyway..

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I must say thank you to the faculty and staff of the Wee Kim Wee School of Communication and Information for inviting me to give your convocation address. It’s a wonderful honour and a privilege for me to speak here for ten minutes without fear of contradiction, defamation or retaliation. I say this as a Singaporean and more so as a husband.

My wife is a wonderful person and perfect in every way except one. She is the editor of a magazine. She corrects people for a living. She has honed her expert skills over a quarter of a century, mostly by practising at home during conversations between her and me.

On the other hand, I am a litigator. Essentially, I spend my day telling people how wrong they are. I make my living being disagreeable.

Nevertheless, there is perfect harmony in our matrimonial home. That is because when an editor and a litigator have an argument, the one who triumphs is always the wife.

And so I want to start by giving one piece of advice to the men: when you’ve already won her heart, you don’t need to win every argument.

Marriage is considered one milestone of life. Some of you may already be married. Some of you may never be married. Some of you will be married. Some of you will enjoy the experience so much, you will be married many, many times. Good for you.

The next big milestone in your life is today: your graduation. The end of education. You’re done learning.

You’ve probably been told the big lie that “Learning is a lifelong process” and that therefore you will continue studying and taking masters’ degrees and doctorates and professorships and so on. You know the sort of people who tell you that? Teachers. Don’t you think there is some measure of conflict of interest? They are in the business of learning, after all. Where would they be without you? They need you to be repeat customers.

The good news is that they’re wrong.

The bad news is that you don’t need further education because your entire life is over. It is gone. That may come as a shock to some of you. You’re in your teens or early twenties. People may tell you that you will live to be 70, 80, 90 years old. That is your life expectancy.

I love that term: life expectancy. We all understand the term to mean the average life span of a group of people. But I’m here to talk about a bigger idea, which is what you expect from your life.

You may be very happy to know that Singapore is currently ranked as the country with the third highest life expectancy. We are behind Andorra and Japan, and tied with San Marino. It seems quite clear why people in those countries, and ours, live so long. We share one thing in common: our football teams are all hopeless. There’s very little danger of any of our citizens having their pulses raised by watching us play in the World Cup. Spectators are more likely to be lulled into a gentle and restful nap.

Singaporeans have a life expectancy of 81.8 years. Singapore men live to an average of 79.21 years, while Singapore women live more than five years longer, probably to take into account the additional time they need to spend in the bathroom.

So here you are, in your twenties, thinking that you’ll have another 40 years to go. Four decades in which to live long and prosper.

Bad news. Read the papers. There are people dropping dead when they’re 50, 40, 30 years old. Or quite possibly just after finishing their convocation. They would be very disappointed that they didn’t meet their life expectancy.

I’m here to tell you this. Forget about your life expectancy.

After all, it’s calculated based on an average. And you never, ever want to expect being average.

Revisit those expectations. You might be looking forward to working, falling in love, marrying, raising a family. You are told that, as graduates, you should expect to find a job paying so much, where your hours are so much, where your responsibilities are so much.

That is what is expected of you. And if you live up to it, it will be an awful waste.

If you expect that, you will be limiting yourself. You will be living your life according to boundaries set by average people. I have nothing against average people. But no one should aspire to be them. And you don’t need years of education by the best minds in Singapore to prepare you to be average.

What you should prepare for is mess. Life’s a mess. You are not entitled to expect anything from it. Life is not fair. Everything does not balance out in the end. Life happens, and you have no control over it. Good and bad things happen to you day by day, hour by hour, moment by moment. Your degree is a poor armour against fate.

Don’t expect anything. Erase all life expectancies. Just live. Your life is over as of today. At this point in time, you have grown as tall as you will ever be, you are physically the fittest you will ever be in your entire life and you are probably looking the best that you will ever look. This is as good as it gets. It is all downhill from here. Or up. No one knows.

What does this mean for you? It is good that your life is over.

Since your life is over, you are free. Let me tell you the many wonderful things that you can do when you are free.

The most important is this: do not work.

Work is anything that you are compelled to do. By its very nature, it is undesirable.

Work kills. The Japanese have a term “Karoshi”, which means death from overwork. That’s the most dramatic form of how work can kill. But it can also kill you in more subtle ways. If you work, then day by day, bit by bit, your soul is chipped away, disintegrating until there’s nothing left. A rock has been ground into sand and dust.

There’s a common misconception that work is necessary. You will meet people working at miserable jobs. They tell you they are “making a living”. No, they’re not. They’re dying, frittering away their fast-extinguishing lives doing things which are, at best, meaningless and, at worst, harmful.

People will tell you that work ennobles you, that work lends you a certain dignity. Work makes you free. The slogan "Arbeit macht frei" was placed at the entrances to a number of Nazi concentration camps. Utter nonsense.

Do not waste the vast majority of your life doing something you hate so that you can spend the small remainder sliver of your life in modest comfort. You may never reach that end anyway.

Resist the temptation to get a job. Instead, play. Find something you enjoy doing. Do it. Over and over again. You will become good at it for two reasons: you like it, and you do it often. Soon, that will have value in itself.

I like arguing, and I love language. So, I became a litigator. I enjoy it and I would do it for free. If I didn’t do that, I would’ve been in some other type of work that still involved writing fiction – probably a sports journalist.

So what should you do? You will find your own niche. I don’t imagine you will need to look very hard. By this time in your life, you will have a very good idea of what you will want to do. In fact, I’ll go further and say the ideal situation would be that you will not be able to stop yourself pursuing your passions. By this time you should know what your obsessions are. If you enjoy showing off your knowledge and feeling superior, you might become a teacher.

Find that pursuit that will energize you, consume you, become an obsession. Each day, you must rise with a restless enthusiasm. If you don’t, you are working.

Most of you will end up in activities which involve communication. To those of you I have a second message: be wary of the truth. I’m not asking you to speak it, or write it, for there are times when it is dangerous or impossible to do those things. The truth has a great capacity to offend and injure, and you will find that the closer you are to someone, the more care you must take to disguise or even conceal the truth. Often, there is great virtue in being evasive, or equivocating. There is also great skill. Any child can blurt out the truth, without thought to the consequences. It takes great maturity to appreciate the value of silence.

In order to be wary of the truth, you must first know it. That requires great frankness to yourself. Never fool the person in the mirror.

I have told you that your life is over, that you should not work, and that you should avoid telling the truth. I now say this to you: be hated.

It’s not as easy as it sounds. Do you know anyone who hates you? Yet every great figure who has contributed to the human race has been hated, not just by one person, but often by a great many. That hatred is so strong it has caused those great figures to be shunned, abused, murdered and in one famous instance, nailed to a cross.

One does not have to be evil to be hated. In fact, it’s often the case that one is hated precisely because one is trying to do right by one’s own convictions. It is far too easy to be liked, one merely has to be accommodating and hold no strong convictions. Then one will gravitate towards the centre and settle into the average. That cannot be your role. There are a great many bad people in the world, and if you are not offending them, you must be bad yourself. Popularity is a sure sign that you are doing something wrong.

The other side of the coin is this: fall in love.

I didn’t say “be loved”. That requires too much compromise. If one changes one’s looks, personality and values, one can be loved by anyone.

Rather, I exhort you to love another human being. It may seem odd for me to tell you this. You may expect it to happen naturally, without deliberation. That is false. Modern society is anti-love. We’ve taken a microscope to everyone to bring out their flaws and shortcomings. It far easier to find a reason not to love someone, than otherwise. Rejection requires only one reason. Love requires complete acceptance. It is hard work – the only kind of work that I find palatable.

Loving someone has great benefits. There is admiration, learning, attraction and something which, for the want of a better word, we call happiness. In loving someone, we become inspired to better ourselves in every way. We learn the truth worthlessness of material things. We celebrate being human. Loving is good for the soul.

Loving someone is therefore very important, and it is also important to choose the right person. Despite popular culture, love doesn’t happen by chance, at first sight, across a crowded dance floor. It grows slowly, sinking roots first before branching and blossoming. It is not a silly weed, but a mighty tree that weathers every storm.

You will find, that when you have someone to love, that the face is less important than the brain, and the body is less important than the heart.

You will also find that it is no great tragedy if your love is not reciprocated. You are not doing it to be loved back. Its value is to inspire you.

Finally, you will find that there is no half-measure when it comes to loving someone. You either don’t, or you do with every cell in your body, completely and utterly, without reservation or apology. It consumes you, and you are reborn, all the better for it.

Don’t work. Avoid telling the truth. Be hated. Love someone.

You’re going to have a busy life. Thank goodness there’s no life expectancy.

leg room light

2008-08-15T15:00:00.002+08:00

my latest addition..

leg room light.. do i need it? not really.. do i like it??.. hell yes!!

the driver side.. with my nicelegs.. and shoes..

the passenger side.. with no babes..

cost me 50 bucks.. but ok la.. nice.. i like..

I KNOW THE WAY!!

2008-08-13T17:40:00.000+08:00

finally.. i went to get myself a gps. not tat i need one.. cos my sense of direction damn good.. just make a few more u turns.. as the old saying goes.. all roads leads to rome..

anyway... its damn fun la.. and ya i admit it.. im quite lost in the east and north... esp the small roads.. so this gps comes in handy.. since gals in the east are prettier... this gps unit is a good investment ya.. haha..

i got a garmin nuvi 200.. not a bad unit at all.. got it at $299 plus another charger at $20. so total is $319....went down to jdm to hide all the wires for the car charger which cost another $25.. so total for the gps for the car is $344....

the nuvi is portable.. next time go overseas can use... just have to download the correct maps... hence the additional charger comes in handy..

the nuvi with maps..

the startup screen.. had to be xiaohong..

the future is so bright i need a pair of ray ban

2008-08-05T19:54:00.000+08:00

recently...
got myself a pair or raybans.. real one ok...good for driving.. for looking good.. for gekking seh..

anyway.. want to get ray ban must get aviators.. like tat then got the seh..

can claim vision care anyway.. so just buy lor.. this shop in queensway can get cheaper.. i is lobang king.. just don get from the shop near the middle.. the big big spec shop with a few not so chio bus that are way pass their display date.. the attitdue damn bad..

used to wear those tat i bought from guangzhou.. good ones actually.. but fake ray bans.. i bought like one dozen.. so if spoil also ok.. cheap like siao.. anyone wants can tell me.. i sell cheap..

anyway.. must take pics of my new ray ban...

and my pig sister has to come in with her donno wat brand shades.. chek..

more ray ban..

my ahma mata...

2008-08-03T22:10:00.000+08:00

went back to ntu on sat for dental checkup.. i still go back ntu la.. near my house... and the dentist nice person.. very chatty.. makes you feel comfortable.. which is very impt when you go dentist.. since young in pri sch.. ganna go dentist means die.... so ah.. i need a good dentist so tat i wont have the same feeling and turn violent....

anyway.. ntu has changed so much.. the canteen tat is.. not mpe.. mechanical and production engineering.. which has changed to mae.. mehanical and aerospace engineering.. which i think it quite rubbish cos they anyhow change the name so that it suits the current climate.. chek.. but thats another story altogther..

the dental center is at the biz side near canteen b.. where all the chio bus are... mostly go there to bio the gals la.. the food no good though.. change alot liao..

after tat i drove over to canteen a.. where all the shaolin monks are.. there got macs and everything.. nice leh.. they changed the canteen layout also.. all the stores disappear.. asked the pig..she said will come back..

now the canteens all change pattern.. looks way better.. if my time got all these things.. the no so sian..

theres even a seven eleven below lt1... most of my lectures were in lt1.. in the morning.. go in book one seat at the back row.. then go canteen buy one large tea.. and one large bao.. go back to lt and eat.. then sleep..haha..those were the days..

and the place where i spent the most time in.. lee wee nam lib.. or lib 1 in my time.. from 8am to 930pm.. slogging like hell in the lib.. but still results suck...

and sorry.. not going to donate even though they keep sending me letters.. siao.. so rich liao.. i very poor one ... need to feed my xiaohong..

paintball

2008-07-28T05:40:00.000+08:00

This is really really outdated.. played paintball wit my colls about 3 weeks back..

it was fun.. and also dangerous.. cos i happily injured my knee... and now its damn painfull.. even though it has been 3 weeks..

we played at orchid country club.. abit far for me.. but heng.. i got xiaohong..

so briefing before the battle.. and i was taking out my fujikura long sleeze t shirt... at last found some use for it..

ok.. after the 1st round.. i dived behind a screen to avoid being shot at... and the skin on my palm was off.. knn.. my knees were also bloodied..

the paintball instructor applying antibotic spray to my wounds.. he tried to put a plaster but i got too much leg hair on me nicelegs.. so it didnt stick.. haha.. he gave up in the end..

after tat went back to play.. damb fun la..haha

all in all.. it was a fun experience.. although painful.. will play again when i recover...

xiao hong thus far

2008-07-21T18:24:00.003+08:00

When i 1st got xiao hong.. it was stock... very stock.. ok. maybe not exactly cos i ask the SE to actually changed the antenna... fog lights.. exhaust tip.. huber optic..

i had great things planned for it..without touching the engine of cos.. so 1st things.. rims..

from stock to volks racing 17 rims.. with 215/R45/17 Falken tyres...

damage: 1000 sg bucks

on that same day.. i lupped GT wing... the low one cos i think the higer ones abit too much la..

damage: 280 sg bucks

and i also install eyelids on the headlights..

damage: 60 sg bucks

before

after

and since the carpet is traps dirt damn well.. which results in my carpet being damn dirty all the time.. i have to change the mats..

damage: 60 sg bucks

and cos im vain.. and want my car to show my nick.,.. i went to customise stickers.. so far only put up 2.. i still have lots.. but haven put up yet... different size different price..

damage: 2 sg bucks each

next i went for gauges..

damage: 340 sg bucks

without lights on

with lights on

latest mod is momo combat evo red gearknob.. momo handbrake and cover

damage: 380 sg bucks

there is also the 60 red cabin leds : 58 sg bucks

and... the grooming i did so far on the car: 133 sg bucks

up to now... total damage: 2315 sg bucks

i think i spent too much money le.. haha..

wats next...

reverse camera.. est damage: 300 sg bucks

gps unit: 299 sg bucks

leg room light: 50 sg bucks
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i love my xiao hong ok..