We Are THAT Family

If I Keep Eating, I Won't Even Need a Costume

2009-07-10T13:00:00.005-05:00

Today, if you dress like a cow, you get free chicken at Chick Fil A!

Did you really think I would pass up the chance for free chicken?

Not to mention the chance for sweet tea.

DIYP: Decorating on a Dime (or two)

2009-07-10T07:00:00.003-05:00

My garage sale love runneth deep. I love the unknown...the next treasure around the corner.

I love what a $5 bill can buy!

Here are a few of my favorite finds so far this summer:

1. A unique $5 wicker drawer unit:

2. A $5 white cabinet for my laundry room (they were asking $8):

I added a little black paint and a red knob:

3. A unique, large $5 bird house made from scrap wood:

It makes the perfect over the toilet cabinet in my powder bathroom:

(this room is so tiny, I had to hold my camera above my head to show it off. I've got serious skills, y'all).

4. A lovely $5 glass house:

(What do you think I should put in it?)

And this next item actually cost me two $5 dollar bills, but who's counting?

It's my favorite piece. Don't you think it has a lot of character?

It's an antique printer tray turned table. It even came with the glass on top.

What do you think I should put in all those tiny display spaces?

WFMW-Summer Tips

2009-07-08T07:00:00.007-05:00

I have an odd assortment of quirky, but helpful summer tips.

And let's just assume that I'm not odd.

Or quirky.

Ahem.

So, here they are, in no certain order (like I need to point that out):

Splinter removal is easier if you soak area in olive oil first.
Toss coffee grounds in vegetable or flower garden for healthier soil.
Apply lemon juice to mildewed towels, clothes and let the sun dry them.
Pure vanilla extract will deter mosquitos (and make you smell like dessert).
In case you don't want to smell like a cupcake, BenGay cream relieves insect bite itching.

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Works for Me Wednesday Participants

1. Smockity Frocks (EZ Homemade Caramel Corn)
2. Kate @ Which Proverbs 14:1 Woman? (How to Get a Good Night's Sleep)
3. Jen@Balancing Beauty and Bedlam(Frugal Fashionista)
4. Amy @ Finer Things (snack lunch tray)
5. The Shabby Chic Cottage
6. Lee @ foodie plus 4 (stuffed mushrooms)
7. Saving and Giving (Lessen After-Travel Chaos)
8. Sandwiched (Drive-in movies)
9. The Diaper Diaries (Google Reader)
10. Bake at 350 (Pure Vanilla Extract)
11. Everyday Becky (portion sizes)
12. Sunnymama (child's washing line)
13. Summer @ Wired For Noise (breastfeeding help)
14. Jowanna @ The Porch Swing (Freezing Food in Jars)
15. This Side of Eternity (College at 15)
16. Hoosier Homemade (Birthday Present)
17. Laura @ Heavenly Homemakers (Homemade BBQ Sauce!)
18. Heather Kay(Cleaning tips)
19. Erin @ Closing Time (keep it simple)
20. Susan @ Practicing Thrift (composting cheat sheet)
21. Homemaker Barbi (How to Clean a Garage)
22. Cooking Up A Family-Make Organizing Work!
23. Our Nifty Notebook (unclickable pics)
24. Homemaker Barbi (Plan Your Days)
25. It Feels Like Chaos (save money)
26. The Meanest Momma (Minimizing the Fast Food Feeding Frenzy)
27. Weird, Unsocialized HS'ers (mom's retreat)
28. ElizabethG (reducing food waste)
29. Garibay Soup {Inspiration - MULTIPLE PRIZES GIVEAWAY!!!}
30. GROCERY CART CHALLENGE (homemade frozen hashbrowns)
31. My Frugal Adventures (Organize your makeup)
32. cool mum (cheap fix for dangly earrings)
33. Molly Green (stinky summer trash)
34. Kristen (homemade english muffins)
35. Lynn's Kit Adv (tips for traveling)
36. Corrie @ "Cents"able Momma (Camping)
37. Heather@Thoughts from Holland(special needs ezine)
38. Home School Dad (Free )
39. Inside The White Picket Fence (Backseat Boredom Buster)
40. Three Boys And Counting (coffee with a friend)
41. Muses of Megret (magazines for toddlers/preschoolers)
42. Steady Mom (Moms - Just Relax)
43. Sue (plastic shopping bag storage)
44. Green Baby Guide (Boost Your Blog Traffic!)
45. the animators wife (taking fireworks pictures)
46. Kristi_runwatch (menu planning for breakfast, lunch, and snacks)
47. Tara@Not So Perfect(Custom Sticker Giveaway)
48. Heather @ Just Doing My Best (occupy children while cooking)
49. Barbara H (NEED craft organization tips)
50. Kate @ Stolen Moments (simple summer salads)
51. A Simple Walk (corn shuckers)
52. Julie From Inmates (Arbonne Give Away)
53. Jordan @ MamaBlogga (get more out of feedburner)
54. Thrifty Jinxy (Get More from Free Item Coupons)
55. Cardamoms Pod (Great Garlic!)
56. Kansas Mom (cleaning bread machine paddles)
57. Lizzie ~Peppermint oil for nausea
58. Free 2 Be Frugal (Pick Your Own)
59. Colleen - Mommy Always Wins (a new sport!)
60. NerdMom (Cheap and Easy Stain Remover)
61. Holly@Homebody (Remove Ballpoint Ink from Skin)
62. Christine @ becomingp31 (Simplifying Your Life)
63. Caroline @ That's FAMtastic (Easy picture hanging)
64. Jean Stockdale (Entertaining Toddlers)
65. Tara@Not So Perfect(ATM Machine@home)
66. kirwin @ graceful creative (a system for completing projects!)
67. Michelle@Delightful Learning (Make a Summer List)
68. Janis @ SneakPeek (Sun Shade)
69. Creative2xmom (planning ahead for company)
70. Lora@ my blessed life (creating an art tray)
71. the BLAH BLAH BLAHger (candle holder as TP storage)
72. Pickles In My Shoe (Lunch Making Made Easy)
73. BerryMorins Bits & Tips - Health Insurance for Teens
74. Jackie @ Loving My Domestic Life (Freezing Cherries)
75. se7en (A Mother's Almanac - Se7en Summer Desserts)
76. Harper @ Trial and Error: Baby Spoons
77. Alana @ Good Girl Gone Blog (BlogHer Packing list)
78. Rachel @ The simple me (alternative uses for vodka)
79. The Inspired Room (reality check!)
80. Monica@DailyDwelling
81. Monica@DailyDwelling (homeschool curriculum)
82. momstheword (Money Saving Don'ts)
83. aHappyMommy (Free Summer Entertainment)
84. Alea @ Premeditated Leftovers (Using a Pressure Cooker)
85. Donielle @ Raising Peanuts (Potty Training!)
86. Stephanie (My Biggest Mommy Sanity Saver: Stayin' Put)
87. HomeGrownMommy (Price Compare: AngelFood vs WalMart)
88. Tristan@OurBusyHomeschool (Bug Collections)
89. Sandra @ A Lot of Savings (Making A Little Money on Ebay)
90. Becky @ Our Sweet Peas (Organizing all the LITTLE toys)
91. Simply Practical (using fewer paper towels)
92. Tracey @ Girls to Grow (Corral the Essentials)
93. The ProverbsWife-Stockpile (Freezer Meals)
94. The ProverbsWife-Stockpile (FREE FOOD)
95. Shannon (5 tips for inspiring productivity in the home)
96. Jolanthe {Drippy Swimsuit Help.}
97. Health Begins With Mom (Florida Orange Juice)
98. Brilliant Moms (small groups)
99. Newlyweds (4th of July Food and Fun)
100. pennypinchinmomma(big family, small house)
101. Camian Academy (FoodSaver)
102. Cage Free Monkeys (Wine Rack Towel Holder)
103. Heather @ Not a DIY Life (egg carton crafts)
104. Aunt LoLo (Clean Floors)
105. Carol@Songberries(Storing extra cards)
106. Sonshine(backpacks)
107. exhale. return to center. (baby steps back to knitting)
108. Jodi (need decorating help!)
109. Houstonmom (? @ pest control)
110. ElCloud Homeschool (2 natural care swimming tips)
111. Happy Hectic Homemaker (iPod Touch tip)
112. Bailey's Leaf (Organic Beetle Spray)
113. Tara @ Feels like home (how to make fruit butter)
114. Chic Critique (Kiss My Face Kids GIVEAWAY!)
115. Jen @ Sabbtical Mom (self-portraits)
116. Jackie @ Blessings Overflowing (Quick Freezing)

117. Marci (Inexpensive and not messy fun activity for kids)
118. Katie @ Clean & Classic Interiors (first aid storage)
119. Moneywise Moms (Making Money on Craigslist)
120. TidyMom (Easily move iPod files to PC)
121. Jeni (Hymns as Lullabies)
122. Traci (Yearly Calendar)
123. Jendeis (Scrolling Blogroll)
124. Beverly (free Mc d's mocha)
125. Lisa (Taking a Shopping Break)
126. Amy Lynne @Mom*s Balance
127. K@ThriftyTeacherBlog (Freezing Fruit)
128. Jill ( Redshirting Kindergarten)
129. Steph @ My Country Haven (Plan A Baking Day)
130. Sara (brownies in the waffle iron!)
131. Tanya (marindes)
132. FamilyMakesCents ... Healthier Pancakes
133. Jennifer (lowering electric bill)
134. Bloom Where You're Planted! (happy wives)
135. Joesette @ S.A.H.M. I Am!
136. KLee (meal on the grill)
137. Crunchy & Green (Art Clean-up Tips)
138. Alicia (fav cook out side dish)
139. Sandra (cook out essentials)
140. Jane@Frugal Fine Living
141. Perfectly Provident (Savings Email Account)
142. Adventures in Mommydom (museum membership and why do it)
143. Pages by Heather (Eating out Deal!)
144. Effortless Savings (Cheap & Easy Cards)
145. ET @ Titus2:3-5 (dealing with cranky kids)
146. Sharon @ Because I Must (vinegar tips)
147. Amy @ CouponPsycho -the Weather!
148. Mary @ Giving Up on Perfect (southern hospitality)
149. Titus2Homemaker (Edible Oatmeal)
150. JM@princesswithahalfpricetiara(traveling snack bag)
151. Mrs Random (yummy and easy "company" dinner)
152. Robin - How to Check for Ticks
153. Susan (Peerless hand-held shower head)
154. The Nifty Newlywed (Stand Mixer)
155. Sarah's Musings (Thai Favorites at Home!)
156. Rhen @yestheyareallmine
157. Heather of the EO (on staying sane)
158. MamaHall (vinegar)
159. Sandy @Jesus & Dark Chocolate (Lessons/Tips kids learned playing sports)
160. Amy @ Amy Loves It! (Cheap Bee Sting Relief)
161. Robin - Prevent Mosquito Bites
162. Grannyann-U Do Yard Decs
163. Clappy Shoes - Incredible Bible Study
164. Sockpile Recipe - Ice Cream Cake!
165. Paula @ Organizing Tips 4 Moms (Getting Stuff Done)
166. Penny Raine
167. Teri Lynne @ Pleasing to You (Ten Year Rule)
168. Jessica (Zoo Trips)
169. Milehimama (Fix gum messes all natural)
170. TV Watching Mama (Food Tips)
171. Melissa (WorkingMamas)
172. Sherean (when an Exercise Ball isn't for Exercise)
173. Carrie (sippy cups)
174. Julie Stiles Mills (sunburn? vinegar.)
175. Mothers' Hideaway (PMS Save)
176. The Gaines Gang (Summertime Veggies)
177. Common Cents Mom (Vacation Planning)
178. Fly Away Family (First Birthday Gifts for 2nd child- Need Ideas!)
179. Fruit of the Womb (Baking with An Egg-Allergy)
180. Tara @ The 5 of Us (TP Roll Crafts)
181. Tara ("green" shopping bag and **GIVEAWAY**)
182. Mama Manifesto {watercolors with less mess}
183. aunt mommy (basket man!)
184. Lori@NotSoSuperwoman (Pizza on the Beach, 2nd WFMW)
185. Treasures From Heaven (Removing back from contact paper)
186. Tricia @NorCalMom (Stockpiling w/Coupons)
187. LANA (Safe Mosquito Repellent For Babies)
188. Lauren @ Team Giles {Getting over that Cold}
189. Laura (Swiffer Sweeper cloth substitutes, cheap!)
190. 4 sweet sisters- 911 & Rolling Pins
191. Sarah Eliza @ devastateboredom (ultimate cheatsheet for cheap organic)
192. Amy @ Momstoolbox (Fruit of the Spirit Tree)
193. Cara (Recovering from summer weight gain)
194. Liz @ Frugally Blonde (Vacation Savings Tips)
195. Samantha (earn gift cards for searching the web)
196. Bring on the Lloyds... (Fabulous Menu Planning Site)
197. Domestic Extraordinaire (frugal kids room redo)
198. Sarah Mae (Helping Widows)
199. The Thrifty Mommy- To Get The Fruit In...
200. Lori-Homeschool Reviews and More (Free Online Homeschool Helps)
201. Jen (Potty Training Rewards)
202. PJ's All Day (Lots of Menu Planning Help)
203. Abigail's Mommy (Microwave Cleaner)
204. Beulah (Line Drying tip)
205. Andrea@HHW (how to have the same shirt as adam lambert)
206. Hip Mama (Eggs In A Basket)
207. 'Becca (healthy snack)
208. Iowa Expat (Read-Aloud Handbook)
209. Angela @ Testesterone Palace (the beauty of bubbles)
210. Rookie Mom 101 (Fingerpoint Bonanza)
211. Be Home Happy (laundry stain remover)
212. Suzanne in TX (crafting hint)
213. Beautiful Calling (Thoughts on Reviews/Giveaways)
214. Christine (sweet dream spray)
215. MomsMagic - storing outdoor toys
216. Intentionally Katie (Scrapbooking Organization)
217. Michele @ Frugal Granola (Postpartum Herbal Bath/Rinse)
218. PapuaGirl (help share the gospel with the illiterate)
219. Angie (Healthy Summer Snackin'
220. Amyswandering (Stay-At-Home Hotel)
221. Audra @ PennyPinchingPenguin (crock pot tip)
222. Jill @ MoneySavinDiva (Giving without draining your pocketbook!)
223. BusyMom (garage sales)
224. Unfinished Mom (Symbol Code)
225. Heather (pulling weeds, fixing stinkies)
226. back40life (read more)
227. SWAP SAVERS (Where Can I Find Freebies?)
228. Terry @ Cherished Treasures(Promo Codes)
229. Michelle (sippy free)
230. Bobbie (keep clutter off table)
231. Keeping on top of the laundry {Julie@TheClarkChronicles}
232. Adventure Mom Janna~31 Day Prayer Guide for Hubby

Rock What You Got

2009-07-07T13:30:00.003-05:00

Doing the dishes after dinner takes on new meaning with a little music by Superchick.

And something I never thought I'd hear myself say on video:

"Get off the table with your butt!"

Sew Sweet {Giveaway}

2009-07-07T07:00:00.003-05:00

*Update* Congratulations to the two winners! ethanzachemma's mom and Caroline of QA Mom!

Everyone else can visit Sasha Sews for FREE SHIPPING for any order this next week. Please use the code WATF 1 and your shipping will be refunded thru Paypal.

My daughter has been asking me all summer to teach her to sew.

I don't sew. (Because using fabric glue to make a pillow out of napkins doesn't count).

But Sasha does!

Meet Sasha Sews and the unique creations from her sewing machine.

She sent me an adorable little tote like this one to review. My daughter confiscated the bag for her Bible.

Sasha is one talented lady!

Her cozies make a coffee cups feel as pampered.....

as the child who will end up with the adorable apron!

Sasha Sews is giving away TWO $25 Gift Certificates today!

Leave a comment and you'll be entered to win!

My New Uniform

2009-07-06T15:12:00.005-05:00

I randomly chose a winner. Check out the forum to find out who got the sweat tee!

I need your ideas!

I'm giving this shirt away (minus the perfectly proportioned bust/waist) in my forum.

All you have to do is reply to the discussion to be entered to win!

My sweet tea recipe

To Make a Long Story Longer

2009-07-06T07:00:00.000-05:00

In the interest of being completely random, I've decided to give you an update on some of the things I've written about or get regular questions concerning.

Why, yes, it is your lucky random day.

How is your toddler doing in a big girl bed and did you ever take her pacifier away? The bed transition went really well for the first month. But we've been on a steady decline ever since. I think she's clued into the fact that we don't want her to potty in her bed and clearly she'd rather sit on the commode for 40 minutes before she actually slumbers. (All suggestions welcome). As for her pacifier, it's gone! But we killed the habit slowly. We only let her use it in her bed and then we gradually let her use it every other night, until it lost it's appeal entirely. I'm writing a book about it (just kidding).

How are your Russian friends from (The Persecuted Church) doing? They are doing good. Please keep them in your prayers. They will be traveling home at the end of July. And the African violets, while technically still alive, could use some encouragement.

What happened with the squirrels and your garden? Funny you should ask. The squirrels proved to be no match for our cunning intellect and strength (plastic fencing around vegetables). But our tiny vegetable patch has been abused by too much rain in the beginning and now too much sun. But it's like the little engine that could!

For example, feast your peepers on this harvest:

Split 5 ways

Whatever happened to your Venus Fly Trap? In a word, Dead. We'll leave it at that.

And what about the Magnetic Field? Not magnetic.

Did you ever follow thru with your MRI? Yes. It was seriously very scary for me. It turns out that the term Open MRI, isn't so open. But I did it. My doctor read the results and it looks like I have some structural damage to my spine. There are some temporary pain relief options, but they are very temporary. In order to correct the problems, I need two surgeries, one on my neck, the other on my lower back. I haven't made any decisions yet, but I am getting a second opinion.

How's your rabbit doing? Considering you can fry an egg on the bunny's cage in the blazing Texas sun, he's doing very well.

What are you thinking about RIGHT NOW? (Okay, technically, no one asked this, but I want to share the beautiful image in my mind:

Did I forget anything? Got any questions? Fire away.

THAT Family Tree Society-Issue 47

2009-07-05T00:01:00.003-05:00

Photos of the Week:

The Week in Review: My big kids are always asking to use their "pocket knives." (They were unapproved gifts, but thankfully they are extremely dull). I gave them each a bar of soap and let them carve away! They had a blast and even my toddler whittled with a plastic Ikea knife. It made for a great Daycation activity! Oh, that, and ice cream!

1) Tell us a little about your blog (name/reason why you blog):

My blog is called It’s a Vivas Thing! For years my family has just, well, been one of THOSE families…it happens when you have five children. Many friends have started saying they *had a Vivas Day* or *It was a Vivas Thing*. Several of them started telling me I need to write these things down or no one would believe them. This year, I decided to start a blog….and hence, “It’s a Vivas Thing* was born! My very first blog I was trying to decide what to write when my teenage daughter started screaming in the bathroom because a spider had decided to join her! I love writing and am having a ball with the blogging.

2) How long have you been blogging?

I started my blog in January 2009.

3) How would you define THAT family?

We’re the ones that other’s talk about and shake their heads at and secretly would love to be part of THAT family, but are afraid of what it would entail! ha ha! THAT family is full of craziness, laughter, adventure, love and spirit.

4) When did you discover you were part of THAT family?

I’ve been thinking it for a while, but it was pretty much confirmed for me this morning when chaos erupted as we tried to get kids to school, hubby to work, and catch a wild bird that the dog had brought in…and let loose in our house! As kids were running and screaming and hubby was rushing back into the house to find out what the commotion was about, all I could do was laugh and think, “We are part of THAT family!”

5) Where can we find your blog?

www.itsavivasthing.typepad.com

Fourth of July: THAT Family Style

2009-07-04T13:32:00.008-05:00

Happy 4th of July from THAT Family...you know the ones!

Our fabulous neighbors who Bake at 350, brought patriotic cupcakes to our town's parade:

(click over and she'll tell you how she made them!)

Two things that don't mix well: the blazing Texas heat and parades. We nearly melted!

Even the best seat in the house was hot!

It didn't take long for my toddler to realize that the water felt better on her head than in her mouth. It was really cute, until she pulled up her dress, scooted her panties over and started squirting water.

I couldn't blame her.

And the parade wouldn't be complete without a family picture in our color-coordinating clothes (in which I had to convince my hubby that it's perfectly acceptable to do this on Independence Day).

Don't wipe your screen, turns out my camera lens was dirty and gave our two year old a Groucho Marx mustache.

Fitting, dontcha think?

See ya tonight at the Fireworks!

DIYP # Art Gallery

2009-07-03T07:00:00.002-05:00

I just finished an easy, but meaningful project.

I have a huge stack of kid art. My creative kids have produced some great artwork and it's been sitting in the top of my closet in a box. Year after year, I add to it.

I've always wanted to display some of my favorite pieces, but didn't know where to start and I figured it would be a costly project.

Until I found these frames at WalMart for less than $4 each:

Since I go to WalMart often, I decided to pick up a frame on each visit.

I trimmed the art and have started a beautiful gallery:

I made a little alcove between the laundry room and entry our art gallery. I would love to add some special clip lights to highlight the pieces, but there aren't any outlets.

Do you have any ideas for lighting?

I feel happy every time I walk past my kid's creations!

P.S. Are you a Southern Living at Home fan? I am! There is a HUGE summer sale going on. If you place a catalog order for $29.95 (I get no credit, just the satisfaction of seeing you with something pretty), you can take advantage of the great sale prices in the flier. You can even go in with a friend and split the $29.95! Here are the details to the sale!

Life is a Beach

2009-07-02T14:43:00.003-05:00

I found this darling William Sonoma castle cake pan at a thrift store.

It retailed for over $30 and I got it for just a couple of dollars!

Today is my Mom's birthday. In an uncharacteristic move, I offered to make the cake from scratch.

Yes, I may be possessed.

I added brown sugar around the cake for sand and a few shells from my daughter's seashell collection:

I made the flags with paper and toothpicks!

Happy 61st Birthday, Mom! I love you.

The Challenge

2009-07-02T07:00:00.000-05:00

My hubby and I shared a professor in Bible college. We took the class separately, but we were both impacted deeply by this wise man.

He was in his late 50's and a new father, again. He and his wife adopted a young boy, after their children were grown. He wove his parenting challenges into his weekly lessons and while he taught us how to study the Bible, he also taught us how to be parents.

He spoke of how modern day parents put too much emphasis on non-eternal issues. And while I agree, I don't think there's anything wrong with rewarding our kids for good grades, clean rooms and baseball championships, as long as we also reward them for memorizing scripture, being kind to their siblings and respectful to their teachers.

I'll never forget the professor coming in one day and saying, "I told my 9 year old son that if he could memorize The Sermon on the Mount, I would buy him any bike he wants!"

Y'all, The Sermon on the Mount is LONG. Chapters and chapters of tiny verses in red.

At the end of the semester, we celebrated with him when he said he was going bike shopping after class.

In the car a few weeks ago, our kids were chatting with us and we ended up talking about the story of Jonah and the whale from the Old Testament.

My son said, "I don't know this story."

I answered, "yes, you do..." and I tried to jog his memory.

"Mom, I've never heard that story. How could a man live inside a whale?"

My daughter piped in, "Haven't you at least seen the movie?"

I looked at my hubby and he mentioned our college professor's name and that's when our idea was born.

The Challenge: We told our children if they read The Bible, they would be given a HUGE reward. My kids are two years apart, so we made the challenge within their capabilities. (My 9 year old is reading The New Testament in The Message Translation and my 7 year old is reading his entire Children's Adventure Bible. Both kids have around 400 pages to read).

They have already read over 150 pages. Each.

Even though they both love reading, I know the big reward is not far from their minds.

After each page is completed, they initial the corner. After a couple of chapters, they tell us what they learned.

I have to admit, I've had to crack open my Bible and try to answer some tough questions like "Mom, why did Saul kill himself?"

I love that my kids are hiding God's Word in their hearts. I know many parents might disagree with our approach of rewarding our kids for such a task, but we are trying to parent with a positive approach.

We don't remind them, push them or coerce them to put their nose in The Book. We haven't set a time limit either.

What do you think about it? Do you reward your kids? How?

WFMW-Summer Recipe Edition

2009-07-01T07:00:00.001-05:00

For someone who doesn't possess the joy of cooking, I sure have been talking a lot about it this week!

It's necessary though, since the people who live with me hold up empty plates and give me puppy dog eyes.

I love the idea of not heating up the kitchen in the hot summer months! You can read some cool kitchen ideas (and enter to win free chicken and cookbooks from yesterday's post) here. I'm a big salad person. Actually, my hubby is too and my kids will eat anything with Ranch dressing on it.

Here's my favorite summer salad:

Summer Strawberry Salad

Roman lettuce, chopped

A pint of fresh sliced strawberries

Crumbled feta cheese-3 tablespoons

Chopped pecans-1/4 Cup

Raspberry Walnut Vinaigrette

I add grilled chicken on top if it's our main course!

My mother-in-law makes an unbelievable Boston Cream Pie. It's divine, easy and it's adding a thickness to my hips since we just polished one off today!

Boston Cream Pie

1 round yellow cake layer (8 or 9 inches) Cut into 2 layers

1 Cup cold milk

1 pkg Jello-Vanilla Instant Pudding, Pie filling

1 1/2 Cups Cool Whip (thawed)

Beat together (milk, pudding, Cool Whip) and spread on layer. Top with second cake layer.

Microwave on high 1 square Baker's Unsweetened Baking Chocolate and 1 Tablespoon butter.

Add 3/4 Cup Powdered Sugar and 2 Tablespoons cold milk.

Spread chocolate mixture over top layer and refrigerate.

You'll be glad you did (except for the hip-thickening part).

Thank you for joining me for WFMW! {You can read the guidelines here.}

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Works for Me Wednesday Participants

1. Erin @ Closing Time - Mexican Dips
2. Kate @ Which Proverbs 14:1 Woman? (We All Scream for ICE CREAM!!)
3. Bake at 350 (THREE ingredient Chocolate Sorbet!)
4. cool mum (trash can-free living)
5. Home School Dad (Newspaper Chicken)
6. Lauren @ Team Giles {Sweet Potato Fries}
7. It Feels Like Chaos (blueberry bread)
8. The Diaper Diaries (Asian Turkey Burgers-no really they are yummy)
9. Heather @ Just Doing My Best (Save time prepping coffee)
10. Key Lime Pie!
11. The Meanest Momma (Tutti Fruity Chicken Kabobs)
12. Aunt Mommy [first link BAD] (cousins' freezer jam)
13. JEN@Balancing Beauty and Bedlam(many 4th of July recipes)
14. Hoosier Homemade(4th of July Decorating)
15. Molly Green (different taco salad)
16. TrentTribe (Peaches 'n Cream)
17. PJ's All Day (Glops)
18. The Shabby Chic Cottage
19. Weird, Unsocialized HS'ers (2 yummy desserts)
20. Robin ~ PENSIEVE (Vidalia Onion Pie--YUM!)
21. Christine @ becomingp31 (Summer Express - Fresh and Easy Meal Ideas)
22. Frugal Girls! {4th of July Fruit Kabobs!}
23. The Happy Housewife ~ Quick and Easy Dessert
24. Homemaker Barbi (4th of July Party House Cleaning)
25. HomeGrownMommy (Cool Summer Recipes)
26. Hoosier Homemade(4th of July Cupcakes)
27. Muses of Megret (several recipes!)
28. ElizabethG (summer peach salad)
29. Beachbrights (Mango Lassie How-To Video
30. Mom of Faith (Youth Camp Edition)
31. Susan @ Practicing Thrift (being a SAHM)
32. Saving and Giving (Watermelon Ice Recipe)
33. A Maui Blog (Maui Book - giveaway)
34. Parent Wonder (Tips on finding quality time for children)
35. NerdFamily Food (Freezable Chocolate Chip Zucchini Bread)
36. Amy @ Finer Things (Summer DESSERTS!)
37. Lee @ foodie plus 4 (summer soup)
38. This Side of Eternity (Fourth of July Menu)
39. Susana @ My Family My Forever (3 chocolate yummies!)
40. Beachbrights (Mango Lassie How-To Video)
41. Diane (cleaning with friends and challenge)
42. Just Mom (Not-Your-Usual Potato Salad)
43. Angie @ Many Little Blessings {Quick and Delicious Cucumber Sandwiches}
44. Mari (Teriyaki Chicken and Pasta Salad)
45. Laura @ Heavenly Homemakers (Make HOMEMADE Vanilla!)
46. Myra @ Happy Housewife Living Life (Pink Lemonade Pie)
47. Tara @ Feels like home (pesto primavera)
48. Amy Lynne @ Mom*s Balance
49. Green Baby Guide (Safer Sunscreens)
50. the BLAH BLAH BLAHger (best dang corn ever!)
51. Lisa @ Moore Minutes (Couch to 5k RUN OFF THE CALORIES)
52. My Frugal Adventures (Organize Your Car)
53. Rocks In My Dryer (Strawberry Pie)
54. Diann @ The thrifty Groove (Decluttering roll!)
55. Cara (Natural Baby Food)
56. Lisa @ Stop and Smell the Chocolates (Tortellini Chick Salad, No-Bake Desserts)
57. Effortless Savings (Orange Julius)
58. Karen @ Thrifty Mommy
59. Jai@wifeof1momof4 (Bacon, bacon, bacon)
60. kirwin @ graceful creative (portobello quesadillas with scallions)
61. your cool friend Cheryl (super easy cherry pie)
62. GROCERY CART CHALLENGE (eat out cheap!)
63. your cool friend Cheryl (practically fat free CUPCAKES)
64. Lisa @ Stop Eating All The Chocolates (Healthy Summer Recipes)
65. Julie From Inmates (Ice Cream Cake)
66. TRUTH ABOUT "FOOD INC." (Corrected link) - Kelly the Kitchen Kop
67. Michelle @ Steadfast@Home (Grilled Hot Wings)
68. Carolina Mama (Southern )
69. The Southern Mama-summer chkn salad
70. Lisa @Celebrate the holiday Cake
71. ORGANIC AND THRIFTY (easy grain-free cereal)
72. Holly@Homebody (Summer Salad w/ Blueberry Vinaigrette)
73. Sue (grilled jalapeno poppers)
74. Monica @ DailyDwelling (Banana Split Cake)
75. Life from the Roof (pre-chopping herbs for spontaneous gourmet meals)
76. Tara@Not So Perfect(Puff Pastries)
77. Simply Sweet Home (berry cheesecake)
78. Garibay Soup (TASTY, EASY TACO SALAD!!)
79. MrsM@I've Changed My Name To Mommy (Recipe Organization!)
80. Simply Sweet Home (11 recipes)
81. Here's The Diehl (grilled meatloaf)
82. Amy @ LivingLocurto (Fresh Blackberry Cake)
83. Jennie (summer kid tips)
84. Jackie @ Loving My Domestic Life
85. BusyMom (Jump Start program and giveaway)
86. BusyMom (oops - here's a Corn Dog Muffin recipe)
87. Lori @ The Book Lady (things that travel well)
88. Melissa @ Frugal Creativity (blueberry coffee cake)
89. Steady Mom (The One-Time Rule - jelly beans)
90. Beautiful Calling (23 Rainy Day Ideas)
91. Tracey @ Girls to Grow (Pretty Brownies)
92. Beautiful Calling (Yummy Spinich Salad!)
93. Kitchen Stewardship (4 Pasta Salad Variations)
94. Bonnie (Easy Couscous Salad)
95. Alana @ Good Girl Gone Blog
96. Megan @ Daily Essentials - Milkshakes and Slushies
97. Health Begins With Mom (Healthy Summer Treats)
98. JM (Four Bean Salad)
99. 867-5309 (Satay/cake)
100. Jolanthe {Chicken & Veggie Pizza Packets}
101. Moneywise Moms (Lemon & Dill Crockpot Chicken)
102. Simply Practical (from the garden)
103. rachel from springpad (grapefruit & strawberry granita)
104. Momma Roar
105. Everything Moms ( Smores brownies)
106. Bailey's Leaf (Hot Dog People)
107. Newlyweds (view through my lens)
108. Shannon (creamy peppermint shake)
109. Nourishing Days (turnip greens quiche)
110. Aunt LoLo (Mango Pudding)
111. chili pepper
112. Becky (easy smoothies)
113. Jackie @ Blessings Overflowing (Stroganoff Sandwhich and More Recipes)
114. Cage free monkeys (Natural Baby and Mom Product)
115. Iowa Expat (Summer Fruit Kuchen)
116. K@In The Lord's Path (kids healthy breakfast)
117. Joy in My Kitchen (lots of summer recipes)
118. ThriftyTeacherBlog(TwoDeliciousDips!)
119. Stockpile Recipe - Entire Menu
120. Chief Family Officer (Couscous Salad w/ Heirloom Tomatoes)
121. Camian Academy (Summer Tomato Pasta)
122. BandSP (Grilled Pesto Chicken Packets)
123. Cardamoms Pod (Favorite Blueberry Pie)
124. Carol-Friendship Bread Starter-Blueberry Pancakes
125. Moving Forward - Pineapple Cake
126. TidyMom (Summer in a Glass)
127. Sandy @Jesus & Dark Chocolate (EASY Grilled Ham Steaks)
128. April(My tips for baby gear)
129. TidyMom (Garlic Noodles & Shrimp)
130. Steph @ My Country Haven ( Sun Tea)
131. Nikke (gazpacho & pie)
132. Stephanie (Grilled Chicken & Pasta)
133. Stephanie (Southwestern Rice Salad)

134. Stephanie (Garden Vegetable Calzones)
135. Steph @ My Country Haven ( No Bake Chocolate Oatmeal Cookies)
136. Judy (double duty for kitchen cloth)
137. Mom of Faith (Blueberry Muffin Mornings)
138. Bloom Where You're Planted! (stay plugged in)
139. Amy @ CouponPsycho -French Dips
140. ET @ Titus2:3-5 (real fruit popsicles & home renovations)
141. Vanderbilt Wife (blueberry pie)
142. $30 Grocery Challenge: Organizing "memories"
143. Sonshine(no bake dessert collection)
144. Rachel @ Must Share (Asian Chicken Salad)
145. Traci (easy Mexican dip)
146. Steph @ My Country Haven ( Banana Pudding)
147. Superchikk (Oreo Ice Cream Cake)
148. The Nifty Newlywed (Summer Fruit Recipes!)
149. Anna at Purposely Parenting
150. Tanya (chicken tostadas)
151. kristen (homemade dill relish)
152. Lori (The Peterson Family)
153. Joesette @ S.A.H.M. I Am!
154. se7en (Se7en Tips For Bulk (Frugal) Shopping
155. Gretchen @ Extraordinary Ordinary Life (DIY Nursing Cover)
156. Beth @ Red and Honey (Camping Tips with a Baby)
157. Sara (skillet meals)
158. SWAP SAVERS (Healthy Meatloaf)
159. Beverly (easy blueberry cobbler)
160. Sherry @ Lamp Unto My Feet (Yummy Summer Recipes!)
161. MC (Blueberry Corn Bread)
162. Mama Koala (cheap, healthy recipes)
163. Houstonmom (morning moo milk alt)
164. Angie (Fru-Shi instead of Sushi)
165. Becky (foil dinners)
166. Condo Blues (tips for staycation fun)
167. FishMama (cheese tongs)
168. BerryMorins B & T - Dog Adoption
169. Memphis Mama
170. Kristi_runwatch (chicken wonton appetizers & a GIVEAWAY!)
171. Summer @ Wired For Noise (banana split cakes)
172. Mother Hen (Character Lesson & Recipes)
173. Kristen @ From My Tiny Kitchen (Chocolate Flourless Cupcakes)
174. Rookie Mom 101 (New Obesessions)
175. Perfectly Provident (Strawberry Mango Milk Tart)
176. Tracey@Be A Wonder (Crock Pot Fajitas & Guac)
177. Michelle @ Saving Some Green (Label Cloud)
178. angelina (yummy yummy!)
179. Penny Raine
180. CENTS TO GET DEBT FREE (FRUGAL BAKED BEANS)
181. Intentionally Katie (Crock Chicken Burritos)
182. songbirdtiff- (cucumber salad)
183. Charlene @ Secrets of a Southern Kitchen (no-cook blackberry jam)
184. Pages by Heather (Freezing Corn)
185. brittney @ back to the quarry - raspberry lemonade
186. Amanda (recipe book)
187. Girls in White Dresses (strawberry rhubarb pie)
188. Maria @ momof3litlbugs(Fruit and Nutty Tuna Salad)
189. mombrud (fabulous salsa)
190. Michele @ Frugal Granola (Homemade Garden Fertilizer Recipe)
191. Heather @ Drivel&Whatnot (Cookie Dough Pie!)
192. Wanda (Salads & Burrito's)
193. Cassandra-Noncooking ideas
194. Jerri @ Jerri's Journey (Summer Recipe Links)
195. amanda:)
196. Amy @ Tiny Blessings (simple strawberry pie)
197. Becky B (Raspberry Apple Crisp)
198. Grannyann-Turkish Salad
199. QAMom - Tomato Mozarella Salad
200. mary - keeping weight off
201. Milehimama (Salad Bar, Restaurant Style)
202. Pam (Southwestern Chicken Salad)
203. Donna @ Way More Homemade (Italian Sausage Skewers)
204. Fly Away Family (Australian Pavlova cake)
205. Harper @ Trial and Error-cucumber salad
206. Stephanie (Strawberry Smoothie)
207. Holly @ A Mommy's Blessings(chocolate carrot cake w/ choc cream cheese icing)
208. Amanda @ Faith Food and Family (Fiesta Salad)
209. Deedee (Loveys)
210. Life on 7th Ave (fav salad and sub)
211. 'Becca (spicy peanut salad, etc.)
212. Maria D. (Wedding Registry Advice)
213. Erin (The Grill)
214. Cooking Up A Family- Energy Green Smoothies
215. Cooking Up A Family- Summer Salad
216. Angie @ Sweetbippy (5 min. tortilla soup)
217. Mary Ann(delicous cole slaw)
218. Jill @ MoneySavinDiva's Love from the Kitchen (Grandma's Potato Salad)
219. Jennifer (watermelon lemonade)
220. Bless the Cook
221. Michelle @ Lollypops and Lizards
222. april(no bake cheesecake)
223. Alea @ Premeditated Leftovers (Carribean Taco Salad)
224. Niki @ Free 2 Be Frugal (Grilled Lime Fajitas)
225. ElCloud Homeschool (Easy Crockpot Dinner Recipe)
226. Michelle (summer salads)
227. The Desperate Cook
228. Jen (Chicken Tacos)
229. Britt from Mom's Kitchen and Stuff (No Bake Peanut Butter Pie)
230. Unfinished Mom (Whole Wheat Peach Muffins)
231. Kelly @ Fruit of the Womb
232. Lori (pasta salad)
233. Lauren @ Home with Olivia (Yummy Summer Desserts)
234. JenT
235. Melody@LovingLifeSouthernStyle (Easy Ice Cream)
236. Beth
237. Dawn@PSHelovesyou..(easy night out cassorole!)
238. Amyswandering (Best Ever Strawberry Cake)
239. Becky (summer bowtie pasta and chicken)
240. staci @ teaching money to kids (one grain of rice)
241. Rhonda in OK - reviving NonStick cookware
242. Jean Stockdale (Orange Soda)
243. Melissa Chocolate Popcorn
244. Patricia (Adobo marinade)
245. Creative2xmom (Tomato Basil Chicken Salad)
246. Kara(Best Peach Cobbler and give-away)
247. Mama Manifesto (smoothie recipes)
248. Intentionally Katie (Blueberry Pie with Graham Cracker Crust - YUM)
249. the animators wife (lemonade)
250. Veggiemomof2
251. Sharon @ Because I Must (Hooked on Math)
252. Grateful for Grace (breakfast)
253. Beth@(A Mom's Life) Easy Method for Husking, Silking and Cooking Corn on the Cob
254. Lesley
255. Cerissa (watermelon dessert salad)
256. Hip Mama (NO TV 4 ME)
257. Monica (cutest baby shower idea ever)
258. Clappy Shoes - yummy dips
259. Adventure Mom Janna~ MONKEY PANCAKES
260. back40life (spicy super pasta salad)
261. Momma Roar (Grilled Pizza)
262. The Prudent Homemaker (summer salads)
263. Laura @ Pink Like the Color
264. Jessie (Dorito Taco Salad)
265. Julie Stiles Mills (a few of my favorites)

Living in the Mundane

2009-06-30T13:00:00.012-05:00

Congratulations to the following CD winners: BeckyJoMama, Stonefox and reader (no blog) TallyMichelle!

*UPDATED* Here is Part 2 of the video.

My life is mundane.

It's full of dirty laundry and stinky feet. Stains and spills. Unexpected bills and quarreling kids. (I'm asking about sibling rivalry here. Please, tell me how you handle it!)

There are no celebrity's here. We're just regular people with normal problems.

Average.

Except for the occasional lice check, family nasal experiment, or paranoid freak-out session in a an MRI machine.

(I'm still processing my doctor's appointment today concerning my neck and back. I have some choices to make. I'll tell you all about it soon).

I've always disliked the mundane. I still remember the girl who used to be me that was going to change the world. I grew up and now I only change the cat litter.

I want you to meet someone who has challenged me to invite the glorious into the mundane.

Because it's those monotonous moments that make up a day, a week, a life.

And I want to capture them, rather than wish them away.

Christy Nockels is an up and coming Christian singer who's album Light Life Up debuted on June 2. She accompanied Chris Tomlin in vocals in his recent tour.

She's also a Mom. Just like us. And she struggles with the mundane too.

Would you listen to this and let it challenge you?

Being A Mom {Part 1} from christy nockels on Vimeo.

After you listen, please let me know how you feel about being a Mom, mundane moments and all. Three commenters will win Christy's new CD Light Life Up.

You can download her song here for free.

This giveaway will end on Friday.

*UPDATED* Here is Part 2.

And This is Where I Give Away Some Chicken

2009-06-29T20:30:00.002-05:00

*UPDATE* Well, all you wild chicken fans, we have some winners! Congrats to Christi of In His Step, Christie O of Baby Tea Leaves and reader (no blog) Kate at kdmyzell@yahoo.com.

So, when I was contacted about interviewing Food Network's Robin Miller about her new cookbook Robin Rescues Dinner and her Tyson partnership, I asked this burning question, "Does it include free chicken?"

Because I'm all about the yard bird.

Hiding from my kids in my backyard at 7:15 AM in my pajamas to interview a TV star, well, that was just a bonus.

I'm not much of a foodie blogger, but I was really intrigued by this new cookbook because Robin has filled it with nearly 400 recipes (52 weeks) that focus on healthy, easy family-friendly recipes. She also uses a lot of the Tyson Frozen Chicken and Beef Strips in her recipes in an effort to not heat up her oven in the summer.

And if you haven't heard by now, it is hot in Texas. Our church actually prayed for rain on Sunday. And a rain dance my be next on the agenda.

So, here's what I asked Robin:

1. How did you go from the Mom cooking at home to the Mom cooking on TV?

"I didn’t pursue it. I was on TV working for Family Circle magazine. I went from cranberry sauce, that I’d never made before on Tuesday, to making cookies with Al Roker on Sunday on The Today Show. Cooking came first and then my boys, who are 5 and 7 came next. So, my cooking style has changed. I used to carmelize and deglaze and spend hours in the kitchen. Now I try to get the same flavors in a shorter amount of time and that’s why I write the way I do."

2. Do you have a lot of no cook, oven-free recipes?

"Yes. I have full meals including desserts that don’t require heating up the kitchen. There are so many ways to keep it cool in the kitchen and still have a healthy meal. I also like to use the early morning hours to boil rice and heat up the stove when it’s still cool."

3. Do you have any healthy fun snack ideas for toddlers?

"I try to think outside the box. I like to make sure my kids get a lot of protein throughout the day because my little boys are active. Why can’t you have whole grain cereal as a snack after school or breakfast for dinner? If my kids are starving at 4:30 pm, I give them dinner and a snack at 7:00 pm. I love using Tyson’s fully cooked chicken dipped in salsa or honey mustard. This is a great healthy snack. I like to make every snack count and not just feed them."

And because I couldn't resist:

4. Have you had any THAT family moments in the kitchen?

"We are always THAT family. In WalMart or the Supermarket, my kids are the ones running around. We drop eggs on the floor, too. Kitchen disasters happen once a week. It’s usually a spill or a mess. I like bringing my kids into the kitchen to cook with me. It’s a bonding moment and they like to cook with me. I like to turn those THAT family moments into I’m proud to be THAT family moments. There’s no shame."

Today, I'm giving away 3 of her brand new cookbooks. They are fabulous. Each winner will also got 3 coupons for bags of Tyson chicken or beef strips! (These coupons retail at $9.99 each). Today's total giveaway value: $150

That's a lot of chicken.

Just leave a comment and tell me how you keep your kitchen cool in the summer to be entered!

This giveaway will end on Thursday.

WFMW: Themed Edition Reminder

2009-06-29T14:30:00.000-05:00

Don't forget that this Wednesday is a themed edition of Works For Me Wednesday: Best Summer Recipes!

I've been trying out recipes with chocolate. Lots of chocolate.

It's been terribly hard.

But it's the least I can do.

(You can link up a current or older post. Please remember that this is just a suggestion. If you have a non-themed tip you want to share, please feel free!)

Now, if you'll excuse me, I've got a spoon to lick.

The Magnetic Field

2009-06-29T07:00:00.001-05:00

My son woke up the other day bright and early.

He had one thing on his mind and it consumed his thoughts the entire day: a magnetic field.

I have no idea why.

But for some unknown reason, he thought I would be a great source of information.

You can stop laughing now.

We were heading to the library for our weekly trip, so I encouraged him to find a book on the subject.

"Unless you like hearing me say, 'I don't know,'" over and over again.

Later during room time, he devised a plan. His goal: to create his own magnetic field.

By the afternoon, he had talked his big sister into joining his scientific research.

They spent two hours sitting side-by-side on his bed with a notebook. I could hear them brainstorming, debating and planning while I cooked dinner.

It was music to my ears.

They presented me with a shopping list:

lots and lots of tiny, super powerful magnets
zip lock baggies
tin foil
a toilet paper roll
rubber bands
candy (not for the experiment, but we will need a snack)

The team resumed their research after dinner.

After I tucked my toddler in bed, I peeked in my son's room to check on them.

"Mom, we're glad you're here," he said.

"Yes, Mom, we need to ask you an important question," my daughter added.

I sat down on the edge of the bed and tried really hard to keep a straight face.

"We are going to make history. We are going to create the world's first man-made super duper magnetic field out of everyday stuff," they proclaimed proudly.

"And we need your help. It will take us years and years and you'll be very old when we are done. We need you to test it out since you'll have led a full life....ya know, in case something goes wrong."

I bit my lip.

"But don't worry Mom, when we're famous, we'll give you a little bit of credit."

"Sign me up," I said.

It was an offer I couldn't refuse.

Summer Daycation: Balloon Yo-Yo's

2009-06-28T13:04:00.002-05:00

Water Balloon Yo-Yo's

Supplies needed:

small balloon

water

rubber band

Fill the balloon with about 3/4 cup of water. You want it to be the size of a baseball so you might need to add a little air. Tie it and then tie off the rubber band on the knot.

Bounce away!

My kids loved playing with these. It occupied them for an hour! Once the rubber bands broke, they wrapped up their balloons in a blanket and played baby.

And then they smashed the balloons on the ground (but only after they were thru playing house with them!)

I've heard that these can be dangerous with the rubber bands popping kids or being tied around things. Please make sure you supervise your kids and then dispose of these homemade toys when they are done.

THAT Family Tree Society-Issue 46

2009-06-27T22:25:00.001-05:00

Picture of the Week:

The Week in Review: My hubby and I enjoyed a couple of days away while my kids played. We had a great time, but I'm so happy for all of us to be together again. And I've decided that I'm terribly in love with these two guys.

Introduction into The Society: Help me welcome From the Desk of a Princess to the family tree!

1. Tell us a little about your blog (name/reason why you blog):

My blog is "From The Desk of a Princess"...and no, I don't have a strong penchant for Disney princesses (except for my Cinderella nightgown...). I am a Daughter of the King, royalty of the Highest Order; I serve a King! The original purpose of my blog was to journal my faith walk, and to write devotions with the hopes of reaching anyone who would stumble upon my blog so I could share the joy of a relationship with Christ. It has become much more personal over this first year, but He remains the central focus.

2. How long have you blogging?

I'm coming up on my one year anniversary and can't imagine not blogging! I've met so many wonderful Christian ladies along the way. Kim of Thoughts by Kim probably being my closest connection...hopefully I will get to meet her this side of heaven!

3. How would you define THAT family?

They have a way of taking life, good, bad and in between, and making a memory out of it. THAT family has lots of laughter in their home. And it seems like the wackiest shenanigans happen to them! THAT family is pretty much The Brady Bunch..I mean, helloooo! Marcia getting her nose busted by a renegade football...the Hawaiian idol that causes Greg to have a surfing accident...Peter's volcano that spews all over the snobby girls from Marcia's high school! What family hasn't experienced this?!?

4. When did you discover you were a part of THAT family?

Ya know, I think I only became part of THAT family when I got married last year! My husband's parents are so much fun! There is constant laughter when we're together and they are just a spirited group of people! My husband has brought out the "Dorky Dorkenstein" in me (and I the "Nerdy Nerdikens" in him) which usually leads to some pretty memorable and fun moments! We enjoy our life, taking the good with the bad, laughing all the way, even if it's laughter between tears...

5. Where can we find your blog?

You can find me at http://paperphan.wordpress.com.

Watching Grass Grow

2009-06-26T14:28:00.001-05:00

Her shoulders are sun-kissed from the blazing sun.

Her nose bares tiny new freckles.

The sparkle in her eyes speaks of stories I'll never hear.

The new confidence in her stride declares a change.

I spent 84.5 hours away from my oldest child. The longest separation for both of us.

I wasn't there to help her fix her hair. I wasn't there to monitor her decisions. I wasn't there.

But she didn't need me to control every choice. She didn't need me to parent every moment.

She grew in my absence.

And this is just the beginning.

Parenting is a lot like gardening. We prepare the soil purposefully. We tend the plants carefully. We watch prudently. We protect from weeds actively.

But we don't see the daily growth.

Until we step away.

DIY Disasters & A Magnetic Wall

2009-06-26T07:00:00.001-05:00

For every good do-it-yourself project I share with you, there is at least one untold disaster.

I'm a Mom, not a renovator/artist. I have three kids (one that is 2, so that raises the total even more). I have a limited budget and I'm messy.

So, disaster, is but a paint spill away.

I don't want you guys to think that my weekly projects always go as planned. Because they don't. I just don't usually talk about the laminate bookshelf I spray painted three different times because the paint wouldn't adhere to the laminate.

But it did adhere to my skin. For 3 days. I was blue, just like a Smurf.

Or remember my fancy pantry door? What I didn't tell you is that I spray painted the door inside my garage. My hubby rigged up something so it could hang and I could get even coats. What I wasn't counting on was the paint grabbing onto every dust particle in the air and covering everything in the garage with a fine red dust. It took weeks to clean it up.

Another example is the wall in my toddler's room. I found a can of Magnetic Spray Paint on the clearance aisle at WalMart. This stuff is not cheap, except I found it for just a couple of dollars. My big idea: paint part of a wall and let my daughter use it to hold magnets.

Brilliant, right?

Um, no. Because it was spray paint. But I didn't want to waste money, so I did it anyway. She couldn't sleep in her room for two days due to fumes. The overspray was horrible and the bonus? It wasn't magnetic (I would have been much better off with the roll on magnetic paint). Of course, I didn't learn this until after I painted the yellow Latex room paint over the gray magnetic paint.

A disaster.

But rather than give up, I decided to be creative and flexible. Here's how I fixed it:

Rather than buy roll-on magnetic paint that runs about $20, I found two magnetic dry erase boards for less than $20 for both. I adhered those over the non-magnetic mess I'd created. I used some bright pink paint to create a border to cover up the overspray.

The magnetic boards didn't cover the entire area, so I used some leftover rub-on alphabet letters.

Not exactly what I had planned, but still good, and most importantly, useful.

When your DIY turns DISASTER:

Don't panic.
Rethink your plan and lay out all your options.
Google-this is a great resource for stain removal ideas.
Don't be afraid to ask for help,
Buy used items to redo from garage/thrift sales so if it does get ruined, you haven't invested a lot.
Learn from your mistakes.
Give yourself a break. Most DIY-selfer's are trying to save money. It takes a lot of courage to paint your kitchen cabinets or rip out carpet. So, don't be too hard on yourself. Not everything always goes according to plan.
Be realistic. If you expect perfection on every project, you will be disappointed.

Go ahead, share one of your DIY disasters. There's comfort in numbers.

I May Have Created a Monster

2009-06-24T21:37:00.001-05:00

Well. Who knew that a getaway was exactly what we needed?

Okay, me.

I cannot believe how much my hubby and I crammed into our 2.75 days alone.

First off, my kids survived and thrived. We are picking up my oldest from camp first thing Thursday morning before heading back to Texas. I know she will be smitten with her own getaway, even though the camp nurse called to tell me she lost her mouth appliance.

Good thing I missed her so much.

My mother-in-law survived the toddler and called her a delight.

Whew.

(Because this is the key to another getaway....) Although, I will be the first to admit that it didn't take our 2 year old 10 minutes to throw a humdinger of a fit. It makes me feel proud that she welcomed us home so vocally.

And my son didn't even know we were gone. He filled his days with boy cousins and dirt.

Our getaway highlights:

My hubby and I watched THREE movies at a real-live movie theatre. We ate at very kid-unfriendly places. We shopped during nap time. I fell in love (like the rest of the world) with a bunch of vampires (I'm on book 3) and didn't mind at all that my hubby drove around Tulsa in circles without asking for directions, while I read. Oh, and my hubby had his first pedicure with me.

(I'm pretty sure I've created a monster on that last one. He wants to know when we can go again!)

Oh, and we reignited the spark for at least another 15 years.

My suggestion for you: If a getaway is completely out of the question for you and your spouse, plan an entire day to getaway. From 9 am to 9 pm on the first day, we discovered something we'd lost along the way: each other. Our kids demand so much of our attention and we could feel the stress melt away...Make it happen. You'll be glad you did!

P.S. There's a little contest going on over in my forum. Just introduce yourself and you'll be entered to win a $25 Target gift card. Reply to others and you'll be entered multiple times!

WFMW: Tips for Traveling with Kids

2009-06-24T07:00:00.000-05:00

(I published this post last year, but since I'm on a road trip this week and had to refer to this list, I thought it would be helpful for your summer trips too).

I started to call this list "The Ultimate Stress-Free Traveling (With Kids) Guide."

But, I'm a mom of three and the words 'stress-free and kids', don't exactly go together. Especially when you're traveling.

Know what I mean?

We have a couple of small trips planned and so I created this list out of necessity. Because frankly, driving 250 miles to Family Camp, isn't exactly relaxing with a screaming toddler.

Here's a list of some ideas for your next road trip. Maybe one of these or 23 of them will help!

Most of these are items to be taken on a road trip, although many will work for flying too.

Audio books (my library checks them out) or you can download them here
Ice chest w/drinks
DVD player, preferably with movies that haven't been seen
We've been driving our smaller less gas-consuming car that doesn't have a built-in TV. So, we strap our laptop on an ice chest with a bungee, so the kids can watch a movie. (Yeah, we are THAT family).
Bag or backpack with coloring books and small toys for each child.
This site says pack a plastic box for kids personal things and then use the lid as a tray to eat on.
Lap Desk for writing and drawing
Headphones for MP3 players and/or DVD player
Kid's camera
Sketch pad/pencil
Extra change of clothes, separate from luggage. Because if it can happen, it probably will.
If you're traveling with a toddler, leave when they are tired. If you leave first thing in the morning, this is their active time and they don't make the best travelers
A package of pipe cleaners (to bend, twist and create)
Pack paper towels, wipes, and a couple of blankets. Remember, we're talking kids.
Buy $5 Tape Recorder and 'Read' stories to your kids in your own voice
Put a trash box in the back seat
Travel Journal
Sing silly road trip songs
Travel games from the store (Target has some great ones in the stationary section that are cheap and magnetic!)
Travel freebies-links to free stuff for traveling
Play the I spy game with license plates
Wipe-off white board/marker
Magnetic sets (paper dolls, fire trucks, found in book sections)
Snack bag filled with pre-portioned zip-lock bags of non-messy foods
Kid's music
Tin foil for creations
Play Go Fish
Make string figures
Check out these awesome games (like Noah's Ark, Build a Story and Fooler, Fooler) to play in the car!
Kids pillow and blanket
Treasure Jar
Rest Stop Box-stock with jump rope, frisbee, inflatable beach ball and Nerf ball, according to July's issue of Parents Magazine.
They also encourage travelers to 'crank up the radio, open the doors and have an outdoor dance-a-thon).
Printable Car Trip Check List
Child-safety scissors and paper (it worked on a long flight w/my preschooler)
Invisible markers/Magic paper
Chalk Cloth Oil Mat
Moon sand on a tray
Post It Notes-draw on them, then decorate the car (Women's Day, July Issue)
Spill-proof Bubbles (yes, in the car. My toddler loves this).
Printable Car Bingo
Stickers
Band-aids (again a toddler-pleaser)
Leapster, DS Lite or hand-held game
Magna Doodle
Cookie sheet with magnetic alphabet letters
The following incredible ideas came from MomsMinivan: travel tickets, surprise packages, and more (Actually EVERY idea on this site is amazing!)
Printable Boredom Busters
I spy bags/jars
Ear plugs for when the "how much longer questions begin"

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211. Andrea@Hopefulhousewife (Easy fan cleaning!)
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215. April @ ElCloud Homeschool (CUTE clothes pin bag)

Vintage Pearl {Giveaway}

2009-06-23T07:00:00.001-05:00

*UPDATE* We have a winner, people. Mr. Random chose a man (my hubby will be proud)! Congrats to Dave HomeSchool Dad!

While I'm bonding with my hubby this week, I thought y'all might enjoy a giveaway from one of my favorite Etsy stores!

Y'all know I love my hubby (even when he takes pictures of me sleeping with my mouth open).

How could I not? Especially when he comes up with stuff like this:

He contacted The Vintage Pearl and had her create this necklace for me:

You're what works for me

(as in WFMW)

I'm glad I work for him. And I'm assuming he's not referring to the laundry.

Erin did a fabulous job. I absolutely love her hand-stamped jewelry!

Today, she's offering a reader a custom piece. Winner's choice ($50 value)!

Visit her shop, tell me what you'd put on a custom piece, or even better, what your hubby would engrave on a necklace!!

This giveaway will end on Friday.

You Might Want to Read This First

2009-06-22T07:00:00.002-05:00

My oldest child (who thinks she is much older than I think), has been begging to attend our 4-day out-of-state church camp for years.

But I am a weenie when it comes to being away from my kids.

She thinks she's getting her way without realizing that I'm maintaining a little of the control.

Since the camp is only an hour and half from my in-laws farm, we dropped her off yesterday. Her clothes neatly labeled and sorted in zip-lock bags.

Yes, I am THAT Mom.

We left our son and toddler with the grandparents and are staying for three WHOLE days at a Bed 'n Breakfast, less than an hour from all of our kids.

I need to say that again, BY OURSELVES.

This is our 15th year of marriage, so obviously, we are celebrating it.

I mean, I'm celebrating in-between sudden urges to grab a child's hand, wipe a nose and lick my finger to clean a sticky mouth.

My 2.5 year old is the youngest child on my hubby's side. The next youngest is my 7 year old son. I totally trust my mother-in-law, but only thought it was fair to offer her step-by-step instructions for handling a toddler. Because some assembly is required:

How-To Assemble:

Clothing must be pink in nature. Subject tends to move quickly, so a firm hold is necessary. Subject will remove assembly every time you blink. Don't blink. (see figure a)

How-To Extend Battery Life:

Subject loves food, but does not enjoy the same thing twice. It is not uncommon to prepare a complete meal and it remain untouched. Subject will always consume M&M's, or food on a necklace (see figure b)

How-To Replace Batteries:

Subject will run low on battery power after noon and evening feedings. The best way to recharge said batteries is unplugging subject. Read instructions to subject in sing-song voice, cover with favorite filthy blanket, shut door and run.

How-To Clean:

Cleaning is a top priority in the long term satisfaction of your new subject. Bubbles are a key ingredient. Adult supervision is required. Goggles and plenty of towels are suggested. Repeat as needed, as subject likes to break open ink pens with her mouth. (see figure c).

How-To Miscellaneous:

Subject is prone to loud, frequent outbursts. This is completely normal and expected. If subject thrashes on the floor, carefully step over them and resume normal activity. This may last for several minutes and is not covered under warranty.

Most of all, handle with care.

Love your daughter in-law,