Philippine Trip: Beaches, Resorts & Hotels, Manila and Beyond

Exotic Filipino Food & Delicacies: Dinuguan or Pork Blood Stew

2009-07-10T20:10:00.004+08:00

Would Edward of Twilight and New Moon fame love the Filipino Dinuguan or Pork Blood Stew? I know I do.

Dinuguan is a popular favorite throughout the Philippines. It is usually paired with soft fluffy rice cakes but I prefer it over hot rice. I also like Dinuguan that is thick, spicy and on the sour side.

I have never tried cooking the dish, though. I usually order it from restaurants that specialize in Filipino dishes.

If you're daring enough to try making Dinuguan at home, here's a recipe I unearthed.

Ingredients:

3 cups cubed pork (with fat)
1 1/2 cup pork blood
1/2 cup vinegar
1 cup water
1 tablespoon salt
3 tablespoons cooking oil
3 cloves garlic, peeled and crushed
1 medium onion, peeled and sliced thin
1 green hot chili, chopped
1 green hot chili, whole

In a deep pot mix vinegar, water and salt with the pork cubes. Bring to a boil and then reduce heat. Cover and continue cooking for one hour till pork is tender. Check regularly and add a little boiled water if you notice it getting dry.

In a separate pan, heat the oil and saute garlic and onion. Transfer this mixture to the boiled pork pot. Add the pork blood slowly, stirring all the time. Bring to a boil again. Add the chopped and whole green chilies. Simmer for a few minutes uncovered until the sauce is reduced to the consistency you prefer. Serve hot.

Beaches, Resorts, Hotels, Manila & Beyond: Boracay Island's Balinghai Beach

2009-04-13T17:56:00.003+08:00

If a romantic vacation is what you seek, head for Balinghai Beach in Boracay Island.

Almost like the setting of a romantic film, Balinghai Beach features a tiny cove with high walls of rock standing guard. Of course there's a cliff and, better yet, it can be climbed by its steps.

There are no crowds nor noisy and nosy vendors around. Only you and the sand and the surf. During the day, the sun warms you and at sunset it awes you with its beautiful colors.

Still within easy reach, however, are great resorts and individuals bungalows expertly kept private by shielding trees. Also there for your convenience is a restaurant at the top of the cliff. Not ready to give up your isolation for the day? They will willingly lower your meal in a basket. If you wish to remain on the beach till evening, they can also arrange a private dinner beside a camp fire on the sand.

Go swimming or, better yet, go snorkeling to marvel at the coral garden under the sea.

You can sail to Balinghai Beach from Boracay's White Beach, or vice versa. Either way it's a scenic boat ride.

Balinghai Beach is also accessible by road.

Beaches, Resorts, Hotels, Manila & Beyond: Boracay Island's Puka Beach

2009-04-13T16:02:00.004+08:00

Puka shells used to be the rage as accessories in the 60s and 70s, and the best of them were said to be found scattered on Puka Beach in our very own Boracay Island. Alas for retro fashionistas, puka shells are a rare find these days and picking them off the beach is no longer allowed.

That should not dampen the spirit of vacationistas, though, because Puka Beach still has much more to offer.

Its fine sand is known to be heavenly to walk on barefoot, thus, its other monicker as Yapak Beach. Yapak in Filipino means bare feet.

The 800 meter long Puka Beach is the second longest beach in the island, ending in the rugged Lapuz-Lapuz cliffs.

Located at the northern tip of Boracay, this beach is quieter than most, with few vendors to be seen. It would be wise to bring provisions such as food and drinks.

It would also be advisable to closely observe safety measures in swimming and snorkeling because although the waves are mild, there can be strong currents and the beach has a sharp drop to the sea.

Before or after swimming, visitors may want to sail on the paraw (native outrigger boat) or banca (motorized boat).

Quiapo Fiesta: The Feast of the Black Nazarene

2009-01-08T12:24:00.000+08:00

Quiapo is probably the heart of Manila, with the Quiapo Church as its central symbol. This is where commerce and spirituality meet, strange bedfellows that they are. Traders and shoppers flock to the Quiapo Market and the surroundings of the Church while devotees visit the Church regularly to hear Mass, say their novenas and light candles for petitions.

January 9 is the most important day for Quiapo for it is the Feast of the Black Nazarene, its patron. It is quite unlike all other fiestas in the Philippines, though, for it shows perhaps the greatest outpouring of fervor and passion in folk spirituality.

On this day, the Black Nazarene – a life-sized statue of Jesus Christ carrying the cross, blackened by a fire in the ship that carried it to Manila from Spain in 1607 – is mounted on a carriage to be drawn in procession through the streets. The only other day this is done is on Good Friday.

The simple procession becomes a spectacle with thousands of devotees, men and women alike, surging like a tide to try to get near the carriage. It is believed that to touch it brings healing, either physically, emotionally or spiritually, and answered prayers as well as prosperity. Those seeking absolution walk barefoot. People cheer, “Viva, Señor!” and throw white handkerchiefs and towelletes in the air.

The sheer mass of people joining the procession makes it quite dangerous for children and the elderly. Commuters going through the area are also advised to seek alternative routes on this day.

First Solo Exhibit of Maia San Diego, 12 Year Old Filipina Child Artist, Extended

2008-09-18T18:32:00.003+08:00

"Larong Bata" or "Child's Play" has been extended to October 14 at Likha Diwa sa Gulod Cafe, C.P. Garcia Avenue, UP Diliman.

12 Year Old Filipina Child Artist Holds 1st Solo Painting Exhibit

2008-08-17T23:34:00.009+08:00

Maia Angela C. San Diego, fondly called Inkay or Inx at home, has been playing with colors since she was a toddler. She began with crayons, watercolors and oil pastel. Her parents noticed that she preferred to use watercolors practically undiluted from the tube so they gave her gouache and acrylic paint. She gravitated toward acrylics and at age eight was making acrylic paintings on canvas without any formal instruction. Her colors have always been very vivid.

Big Waterfalls; Magical Garden

Maia began attending Mr. Fernando B. Sena’s painting workshops at nine and has gone through four levels since then. The workshops have guided her in honing her craft.

Maia has also been reading up on the masters through books at home and the Internet. She has an affinity with Van Gogh’s textural style but loves the colors of Matisse. She continues to experiment with various styles in her journey toward finding her own identity as an artist.

Popstar-ry Night; I Scream

Being in the Home Study Program of Angelicum College where she is in the equivalent of first year high school, Maia has ample time for her workshops and for painting at home while staying ahead in her academics. Perhaps in a subconscious effort to allot time for preparations for her first solo exhibit this year, she finished first year level Science and half of Christian Living Education by the end of her sixth grade level last school year. She finished CLE in the first few months of this school year while also working on her other subjects.

Flowers in a Violet Vase

This First Solo Painting Exhibit titled "Larong Bata"or "Child's Play" is intended as a celebration of Maia’s 12^th birthday last July 28. The exhibit runs from August 16 to September 13 at Likha Diwa sa Gulod Cafe, C.P. Garcia Avenue, UP Diliman, Quezon City. There are 25 acrylic on canvas paintings on display, with 19 of them for sale. Four have already been sold on opening day.

This early, Maia already sees art as her life’s work, planning on further studies not only in painting but in graphic arts and multimedia arts as well. It is a great source of pleasure for her, making it all seem like child’s play.

Beaches, Resorts, Hotels, Manila & Beyond: Puerto Galera

2008-03-27T22:18:00.005+08:00

One of the world's most beautiful natural harbors is found in Puerto Galera, Mindoro. No wonder it is called the Pearl of Mindoro.

Puerto Galera also has several beautiful beaches, spectacular dive sites and breathtaking coral reefs. It is the perfect place for swimming, snorkeling and scuba diving. You will find accomodations of every kind for every budget in each of the beaches.

Most popular among the local people is White Beach with its numerous commercial establishments. Tourists, on the other hand, favor Sabang Beach and its nightspots.

There is a beach named La Laguna and a bigger one named, incredibly, Small La Laguna. The former has several resorts and water sports facilities. The latter is beside Sabang Beach and has many dive shops that rent out diving equipment.

For a quiet retreat, Punta Guarda Beach and Talipanan Beach are recommended.

There is a total of 16 dive centers in Puerto Galera, with each one having about 25 dive sites. The water currents are strong so make sure to be accompanied by experienced divemasters or instructors.

Another attraction of Puerto Galera is the 423-foot Tamaraw Falls. Hikers and mountain biking enthusiasts can also enjoy the Adventure Mountain Trail, a two-to-three-day walk along the Tabinay-Talipanan Trail, crossing three mountains and ending on the white sands of Talipanan Beach. Mountain bikes can be rented.

From Manila, Puerto Galera can be reached in three and a half hours by bus to Batangas City, then by boat to Calapan, Mindoro and, finally, by jeepney to the town proper.

Beaches, Resorts, Hotels, Manila & Beyond: Boracay

2008-03-05T19:57:00.005+08:00

It's almost summer in the Philippines and everyone's dream destination is Boracay. Yes, locals and tourists alike can't have enough of the white sand beaches of Boracay Island.

Since April and May are the months when Philippine schools are on summer vacation, these are also the most festive months in Boracay.

Boracay's white sand is known to stay cool even under the hottest midday sun. This perfectly complements its waters, always the bluest blue.

Boracay boasts several beaches. The main and most popular one is called White Beach. No other name seems more apt.

For windsurfing or kiteboarding, Bulabog Beach is recommended. You can even get lessons there. It has been the site of the annual Boracay International Funboard Cup since 1988. This has been made an official leg of the Asian Windsurfing Tour.

Windsurfing peaks during the first months of the year, though, while kiteboarders prefer to wait
for the southwest monsoon in June and July.

The more quiet beaches are Balinghai, Puka, Tambisaan, Tulubhan, Ilig-Iligan, Punta Bunga, Bunyagan, Cagban, Manoc-Manoc and Diniwid. These are perfect for picnics and for lazing around.

Those who crave more activity aside from water sports can play golf at the world class 18-hole par-72 Fairways & Bluewater Golf Course.

You might also want to explore the Dead Forest and the Bat Caves, or hike up Boracay's Mount Luho.

Don't worry about your budget, accomodations or food. There is something for everyone. You can choose from the most basic huts and rooms to the most decadent villas and hotels, with a wide range in between. There are restaurants and bars of every kind. There are even shopping places for almost anything you need.

At night, you can choose to be secluded or join the all night dancing and partying on the sand.

The dress code is simply beach casual. Many people prefer to walk barefoot on the powdery soft white sand.

No wonder Yahoo! Travel has named Boracay Island as the seventh of the World’s Best Beaches in June 2007. Find out for yourself.

Travelling Home From the Philippines: Pasalubong Again

2008-01-02T19:58:00.000+08:00

Yes, pasalubong goes both ways. Those who are leaving the Philippines are also expected to bring something to relatives and friends back home especially if they are Filipinos, too. Again, as I said in my previous post, this is meant to be a gesture of affection or goodwill and should not be made into a burden. You do not have to spend for excessive gifts.

Pasalubong is usually expected to consist of food or souvenirs representing the country. If you choose to bring out local delicacies, do check first whether these are allowed into your country lest they be confiscated at your port of entry. Also check for expiration dates, especially of pastries and candies.

It's safer to choose small luggage-friendly souvenir items. These are widely available at Filipiniana departments of stores. There are even specialty stores selling only such items. Refrigerator magnets and paperweights are popular choices. Inexpensive t-shirts and canvas shopping bags are also useful.

For your female relatives and friends, I highly recommend real freshwater pearls. These are unbelievably inexpensive here in the Philippines and ladies of all ages will always appreciate pearls. They are available in various sizes, shapes and hues as stud earrings, necklaces and bracelets. You can get a pair of earrings or a bracelet for less than a hundred pesos. That's less than US3D!

They say you can get freshwaterpearls at their cheapest at Quiapo, but since I've never been to the pearl suppliers there I can only recommend Greenhills or Market! Market! You can get many other good buys in these last two places, too. If you know someone you can trust who knows Quiapo well, though, you can ask to be accompanied there for better bargains.

In the end, I hope you will take home not only these souvenirs as pasalubong but also lots of good memories of your stay here.

Coming to the Philippines: Pasalubong

2007-10-05T23:06:00.000+08:00

Pasalubong is the Filipino term for gifts brought in by someone coming to the Philippines from out of the country, or even simply coming home from out of town. It's even used to mean a treat brought home at the end of the day. This is another example of how affectionate Filipinos are as a people.

Unfortunately, pasalubong can sometimes become a burden. This is especially true for those coming in from abroad. Somehow,they are expected to bring in pasalubong for everyone, not only for the immediate family but even other relatives and neighbors. Family members sometimes even have the gall to ask for expensive designer items, as if the one coming home has an unlimited budget.

It's sad that many Filipinos coming home are actually pressured by this mentality and give in to expensive requests, going out of their way to please everyone. For some, it becomes a matter of pride or saving face, as if not bringing the expected pasalubong would mean they had somehow not achieved enough. For others, it's simply a matter of embarassment.

I always advise friends and relatives not to give in to this pressure. Bring in pasalubong if you must, but stick to inexpensive tokens of thoughtfulness. You don't have to break your budget. Never mind the expectations and don't get embarassed. The ones expecting you to bring them expensive gifts should be ashamed instead.

Some balikbayan Filipinos, especially those who haven't been home in a long while, also tend to bring home items that are widely available here anyway. It has even become a running joke that you will know a balikbayan by his or her boxes of corned beef and other US canned goods.

I know that most Filipinos, especially those who have made good abroad, sincerely want to share their blessings with those here at home. You are very welcome to do so, but perhaps it would be more productive if you first assess the situation of your relatives here and then decide how you can best help them. There may be other ways where your resources could be put to better use.

A Home Study Program in the Philippines

2007-07-17T11:13:00.000+08:00

I read a lot about children being homeschooled in the U.S. One school in the Philippines, Angelicum College, has its own version of the home study program for elementary and high school.

At AC, home study students are given modules to study at home. Each subject has a certain number of modules per year level. These modules contain both lessons and exercises to be worked on by the student. After finishing a module, the student reports to school to take a Mastery Test. If he fails to get a satisfactory score, he has to take another test with a different set of questions on the same module. He does this until he passes the module. After half the number of modules for a subject has been passed, the student is given the first Achievement Test. After passing this, he proceeds with the rest of the modules and their mastery tests, and is then given the second Achievement Test. He needs to pass the second Achievement Test to be considered cleared for that subject for that year level.

The student has a choice on how to tackle his subjects for the year. He can opt to concentrate on one or two subjects until cleared before proceeding with the others, or he can take all subjects simultaneously a little at a time.

Students report to school for the tests twice a week, and they get to choose the day of the week from Monday to Saturday. Some hands-on subjects - like Speech laboratory, PE, home economics and drafting - are scheduled on Saturdays by batches.

When home study students report to school, they come to a large room where teachers' tables are arranged against the walls. All year levels report here and a teacher is assigned to each subject of each year level. They approach the teacher and submit their finished modules for checking. If the work is satisfactory, they are given a permit to take a test. They proceed to the testing area and give the permit to the proctor. They are then given the test indicated in the permit.

The setup allows interaction with students of various year levels. We found this appropriate to our children because they usually find themselves more compatible with those who are older than they are. Friendships are, therefore, not limited to age groups.

It is a good system for those who cannot attend regular daily classes due to some illness. We found that with less stress from daily travel to and from school (with Manila traffic and pollution) our children's health has improved much.

It is also a good system for a child to find his own natural learning style. The child can even progress more rapidly in less time, as compared to the traditional system. Conversely, this allows the child to spend more time on subjects that are more challenging to him.

I wouldn't recommend the home study program if a parent or another responsible adult cannot stay home to guide the child's studies, though. In our case, there is very minimal supervision - the kids love being independent - but they do have questions from time to time.

Our eldest went though the home study program from elementary to high school and is now doing very well in her third year in college. The system has prepared her to manage her time efficiently. She has consistently been in the Dean's List and is also a leader in several co-curricular and extra-curricular organizations and activities.

Her siblings are still in the home study program and are thriving.

It is an educational option that we are lucky to have here in the Philippines.

Looking for Sexy Filipinas?

2007-07-06T09:18:00.000+08:00

Lots of men from around the world seem to be searching Google for the keywords "sexy Filipina." Unfortunately, most of the search results show smut and porn sites or mail order bride sites. Even a search for the neutral keyword "Filipina" shows similar results.

Many Filipinas - and Filipinos - have been decrying this very unfair and lopsided image of the Filipina online. Most definitely, the majority of Filipinas are NOT porn stars or porn star wannabes. And even if there may be Filipinas seeking relationships online, they do not comprise the majority and should not define the Filipina in general.

Yes, Filipinas are beautiful. Yes, Filipinas are sexy. But their beauty is not only skin-deep. And they are sexy not just in the physical sense. Filipinas may look fragile but they are strong, courageous, capable and resilient in the face of crisis and challenges. They are keenly intelligent and value learning and education. They are discerning and wise. They are confident and forward-thinking even as they are modest. They have dignity. They are naturally and sincerely caring for their fellowmen, and cherish friendships. They love deeply and passionately, and treasure family above all else except God.

Yes, the beautiful and sexy Filipina is indeed worth looking for. But no, you will not find the real Filipina in smut and porn sites. And you will not be doing her justice if you think that all there is to her is in the lists sold by mail order bride sites.

If you are looking for the real Filipina, look for the real person behind the image. Look for the unique individual proudly carrying the heritage of her people. Only then will you find true beauty.

Schooling In The Philippines

2007-06-24T12:52:00.000+08:00

Basically, the Philippine educational system is divided into elementary, high school and college education. Increasingly, children are also being placed in preschools and college graduates are going into post-graduate studies.

Children are often accepted into first grade at 6-7 years old.

Preschools, therefore, usually accept students from 3-6 years old, classifying them in age-specific levels. The levels vary - some use the terms Toddler Class, Junior Class and Senior Class. Others use the terms Nursery, Kindergarten 1 and Kindergarten 2. Sometimes the Kindergarten level comes before the Nursery level.

There is no hard and fast rule and no set curriculum for preschools. In general, children are expected to recognize and write the alphabet, write their names, do basic counting, recognize colors and color drawings within the lines. Better preschools teach the children how to read and write words and simple sentences and do simple math, as well as acquaint them with the basic science.

Preschool is largely affordable only to the middle class. Others send their children straight to Kindergarten at public schools at the age of 6. That is if they could afford the transportation fare and daily food allowance.

Public school education is free from elementary to high school, but food is not provided. Transportation and school supplies are shouldered by the students, as well. This is beyond the reach of many, and there is always a large number of out-of-school youth.

Elementary school spans seven years, from Kindergarten to Grade Six. Those who passed through preschool usually qualify to go straight to Grade One.

Some private schools have Grade Seven. This is not very common, though.

High school takes four years.

Aside from the many public and private elementary schools and high schools, there are also a number of International Schools following the American Educational System, from the curriculum and grade levels to the schedule of terms. These are quite expensive and cater to children of expatriates as well as the moneyed class.

College courses, in general, also take four years. Some courses may take longer, e.g., Engineering. Law and Medicine require having a four-year bachelor degree before application. Law then takes another four years and then the bar exam, while Medicine takes five more years and the medical board exam.

Nursing is currently the most popular choice not only for college freshmen but also for those seeking a second degree. Many doctors are even taking up Nursing just to qualify for job openings abroad.

Graduate school is sparsely populated. Most graduate students have a career in academe, or are taking MBAs.

A large number of Filipinos also opt to take post-graduate courses abroad.

The MyBlogLog Community Exchange Goes On A Philippine Trip

2007-06-24T00:55:00.000+08:00

Garry Conn of successful blogging tips fame created the MyBlogLog Community Exchange.

I joined MyBlogLog very soon after I put up my first blog. I can attest to its being one of the best social networking sites online.

You can power up your MBL membership further, though, by hosting the MyBlogLog Community Exchange. This will bring you new readers and new backlinks.

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Philippine Weddings: Not Too Many June Brides In The Philippines

2007-06-19T14:32:00.001+08:00

The "June bride"may be a cliche, but not so in the Philippines. June is not a particularly popular month to get married in here.

Perhaps June weddings are favored in other countries because it happens to be summer there. The weather is good even for outdoor celebrations.

The opposite is true in the Philippines. June means rainy weather. Not particularly compatible with white wedding gowns.

June also happens to be school opening in the Philippines. Families have their budgets geared toward tuition fees and school supplies. Again, not a good time to spend for a wedding. Also not a good time to expect nice gifts from your guests.

Ironically, December is the most popular wedding month here. This should be puzzling since Christmas is also big spending time for Filipinos. You are expected to give gifts to family, friends, officemates and a lot of godchildren. So why add wedding expenses to that?

Oh, ok - I, too, got married in December. I guess it's the spirit of the season permeating everything during that month. Everyone is in a loving, giving mood. It's a time for gatherings and celebration. Everything seems magical!

And yes, most everyone gets a Christmas bonus, too :D

So if you're expecting a lot of June brides in the Philippines, you'll be disappointed.

I'll be tackling many other aspects of Philippine weddings in future posts. Do visit again!

Attending A Wake or A Funeral In The Philippines

2007-06-19T13:47:00.001+08:00

For visitors to the country, it would be good to know the traditions in attending wakes.

1. Avoid wearing red or other bright colors.

Many young Filipinos are now no longer very much concerned about this, but the older generation still feels that it is disrespectful to wear red and other bright colors to a wake. It would be best not to ruffle their feelings.

2. Bring any or all of the following for the family:

- "Abuloy" is a gift of money to help in the funeral expenses. The amount is variable, depending on your capacity and your relationship to the family. This is purely voluntary, though, and is much appreciated but not required. It is placed in a small envelop with a message of sympathy and the name of the giver, and is given discreetly.

- A mass card if the family is Catholic. This can be bought from the Parish office of most churches or from religious stores. It promises perpetual masses to be said for the deceased by the religious congregation from whom the card was bought. Make sure you have the full name of the deceased to be written on the card.

- A card of sympathy.

- Flowers. Even a small bouquet for the casket or a small basket to be placed beside it will be much appreciated. Most people send large floral arrangements, though. These are available in flower shops near funeral parlors.

3. If you are a relative or a very close friend of the family, bringing food is also much appreciated. It is best to bring finger food that can be served with the least fuss, and food that will keep for several hours even without refrigeration.

4. As soon as you arrive, ask for the person you know in the family. If this person is not around, introduce yourself to whoever is there to meet you. Explain how you are connected to the family. Give your condolences. If possible, speak to the immediate family of the deceased.

5. Pay your respects to the deceased. It is customary to stand by the casket for a moment of silence.

6. Sign the guest book.

7. If the wake is being held in the home, do not be surprised to find people gambling. This is also a tradition that still persists for many. Part of the winnings are given over to the family of the deceased as "abuloy."

8. Most wakes are all-nighters, especially when held in homes. You don't have to stay all night, though. When attending wakes in funeral parlors, try not to stay way past midnight to give the family time to rest.

9. Do not be surprised to hear quite a number of superstitious beliefs regarding wakes.

10. Do not be surprised to find people weeping in one corner while others are laughing in another. This is not disrespect. Wakes are also seen as a time to retell stories of good times with the deceased, and good times in the family and among friends.

You need not avoid coming to a wake in the Philippines. It could show you a lot about Filipino families, friendships and community.

A Funeral In The Philippines

2007-06-14T11:14:00.000+08:00

My husband, my youngest daughter and I were on our way to a wake last night. The mother of a friend had passed away.

While we were driving, my migraine peaked so bad that we had to turn around and head home. Perhaps it was my body's way of telling me that I wasn't prepared to face another funeral, especially of a friend's Mom.

We have only recently had my Mom's funeral - just a month ago. We also had my Dad's funeral a year ago. I am the only child and these two funerals just a year apart have been very difficult for me.

It was a great consolation that Philippine funerals are marked with such solid support from family and friends.

My husband, our kids and I spent all five days and nights at the funeral parlor. It meant sleeping on the coach and sleeping bags in the anteroom or wooden pews in the main chapel.

There was also a spacious toilet-and-bath, as well as a kitchen sink, refrigerator and dining set in the anteroom.

Relatives and friends would come and stay with us from mid-morning until midnight everyday. They provided most of the food and drinks for everyone. There were always shopping bags full of biscuits, nuts, candies, tetrapaks of juice and 3-in-1 packs of instant coffee. There were boxes of pastries and platters of noodles. Some even brought us rice and viand at mealtimes.

There were plenty of flowers, too, and mass cards. The mass cards meant masses would be said perpetually for my Mom's soul in many churches by various congregations.

While there were plenty of visitors I was fine. I was busy talking to everyone. After they left, I would be too exhausted to feel anything else.

Just being surrounded by family and friends was very comforting. They especially came in full force during the cremation. My two daughters and I were quite overcome with emotion while waiting for the urn and they kindly allowed us to nap in the anteroom while they stayed on in the chapel, waiting with us.

It was almost the same experience we had during my Dad's funeral last year, except that I was then focused on comforting my Mom. I realized that it was much more difficult this time when I no longer had that "escape."

There were some superstitious beliefs that were pointed out to us during the funeral, too. A popular one was for the deceased's immediate family not to step outside the threshhold when seeing guests out. Doing so would reportedly mean that another death would come to the family. We decided to abide by such beliefs, if only for the peace of mind of those who believed in them. It was a small thing in exchange for the warmth of the Filipino funeral tradition.

I am glad that these funerals were held in the bosom of our family right here in the Philippines.

How to Show Our Pride in Being Filipino

2007-06-12T00:01:00.000+08:00

Philippine flags will be flying high and Filipinos around the globe will be celebrating Philippine Independence Day today, June 12.

I hope we all stand by our heritage and wear it proudly by embodying only the best in being Filipino, wherever we are and at any time.

Philippine Cinemas: Going to the Movies in Manila

2007-06-11T18:31:00.001+08:00

This sign at SM mall cinemas says so much about Filipino moviegoing habits. Why else would they have to spell out that these types of food are not allowed in the theaters if no one has tried to bring them in?

I admit my family almost never goes to the movies without taking in some munchies. The all time favorites are, of course, popcorn, chips and chocolates. We've also been known to bring in hamburgers, hotdogs, nachos and pizza. But that's as far as we go.

I can still imagine having chicken nuggets in the theater, but regular friend chicken would be too messy. And imagine if people spill the gravy on the seats. That goes for pasta, noodles and soup, too.

Pinoys just love to eat. Anytime. Anywhere. Everywhere.

June 12, 2007 - Philippine Independence Day - is a Working Day in the Philippines; June 11 Is Not

2007-06-07T02:27:00.000+08:00

I stand corrected. I said in my previous post that June 12 is an official holiday. Well, it has always been one and should be one.

Apparently, President Arroyo has declared it inconvenient to celebrate Philippine Independence Day on a Tuesday. So June 11, a Monday, is now the non-working holiday, instead. June 12 is a working day but, according to the proclamation, all activities and celebrations in observance of Independence Day will be observed on June 12.

I am told that this is a common and very popular practice - to have long weekends. So if Christmas Day falls on a Tuesday, should we then move our celebration to December 24 instead?

December 25, 2007 does fall on a Tuesday!

Thankfully, President Arroyo has not declared December 25, 2007 a working day. She has, instead, declared December 24, 2007 a special non-working holiday in addition to Christmas Day. Whew!

Send Your Page Rank Up With ViralTags

2007-06-07T02:00:00.000+08:00

Please pardon this off-topic post. This will allow us to rank higher in Google searches and, therefore, serve more readers seeking information on chronic headache, fibromyalgia and chronic fatigue syndrome.

ViralTags, created by Founders Cafe, will enable us to build more links throughout the blogosphere with relevant anchor text of our choice. I got this from The AnitoKid Chronikos.

The program is easy. Just follow the instructions below:

============== Copy and Paste below this line ================

Instructions:

1.) Copy and paste everything within the broken lines but provide your own unique introductory paragraph.

2.) Substitute the Host Tag and one of the “Viral Tags” in the matrix with your anchor text of choice and your blog’s URL. Please keep anchor text to a max of 3 words to keep the matrix size manageable.

3.) When you get a ping back from someone that has your link in one of their “Viral Tags”, practice good karma by copying his/her Host Tag’s anchor text (automatically the associated link will also be copied) and paste it over one of your “Viral Tags” below.

4.) Encourage and invite your readers to do the same and soon this can grow virally.

ViralTags:

Host Tag: Philippine Trip

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Rules:
No Porn Sites
Only 1 link per blog (i.e don’t hog the viralink!)
Please don’t tamper with other peoples url’s

Important: Once I get a ping back from you, I will add your anchor text and the associated link you designate as “Host Tag” here, replacing one of the “ViralTags” from the matrix above.

As more and more bloggers copy and paste this matrix, the more backlinks you will have with your anchor text. If everybody who copy and paste from your blog does the same, pretty soon this will spread and go viral. So, the sooner you participate, the more links with anchor text you will receive.

================ Copy and Paste from Above this line ==========

Post this on your blog, then please come back and leave me a note here just in case I don't get your pingback. Your comment will ensure that I add you to the matrix.

Let's hope this works so we can accomplish more in our niche!

June 12 is Philippine Independence Day

2007-06-05T13:12:00.000+08:00

The Philippines celebrates its Independence Day on June 12. Take note that it is an official holiday.

On June 12, 1898, General Emilio Aguinaldo declared Philippine Independence in Kawit, Cavite.

The Declaration of Philippine Independence was read by Ambrosio Rianzares Bautista who had prepared it, patterned after the American Declaration of Independence. It was then signed by 98 persons, including an American military officer.

On the same day, the Philippine National Anthem composed by Julian Felipe was first played by a band. It would have its words written about a year later, in August 1899, by Jose Palma.

Also on June 12,1898, the Philippine flag was first formally unfurled. It had been made by Marcela Agoncillo with the help of Lorenza Agoncillo and Delfina Herboza.

Ironically, Philippine independence was declared by Aguinaldo's dictatorial government.

According to Teodoro Agoncillo's "History of the Filipino People," Aguinaldo declared on May 24, 1898, his assumption of "command of all the troops in the struggle for the attainment of our lofty aspirations, inaugurating a dictatorial government to be administered by decrees promulgated under my sole responsibility..."

Historical ironies...

This Viralink Traffic Is Good For You

2007-06-05T13:00:00.000+08:00

For once, traffic is good. Traffic to your site, that is - and if you do have a blog or site. TheViralink Star Matrix will then do wonders to bring you links and visitors.

I was told about this by The AnitoKid Chronikos. It seems to be have worked well for him, seeing that he has a PR4 blog that is 55th in Ratified.org's Top 100 Philippine Blogs, and rising. Thank you, AnitoKid!

Thanks, too, to Andy Coates who created Viralink!

So this is how it goes:

———copy and paste the Viralink and instructions below this line———

Below is a matrix of 120 stars, I have already added a link to my blog onto one of the stars, all you need to do is copy and paste the grid into your blog and add your own link to one of the other spare stars, and tell others to do the same!

Viralink:

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New Addition: When I receive a ping back once you have added the Viralink to your site I will add your link to this grid, and each person who copies the grid from here will also link to your site!

———copy and paste the Viralink and instructions above this line———

AnitoKid's add-on rules, to which I agree:

No Porn Sites
Don’t tamper with other peoples url’s
Only 1 link per blog (i.e don’t hog the viralink!)

You may host the Viralink in each of your blogs if you have several. I suggest, however, that you use different text outside the copy-and-paste to personalize each post.

Now see your traffic build up!

Rainy Season in the Philippines: June

2007-06-03T19:24:00.003+08:00

June ushers in the rains in Manila and the rest of the Philippines.

Somehow, one expects the rain to relieve the high heat of summer. It's not that much of an improvement, though, because the weather has turned humid instead.

Bring your umbrellas whenever you venture outside. Be careful with your choice of footwear, too. Make sure they can stand not only going through puddles but also going through flash floods. Yes, that happens often even in main thoroughfares.

Wear something cool and just layer on your rain jacket. I suggest something lightweight. Remember the humidity.

Have snacks and a drink in your bag because traffic is going to get worse, especially because June is also school-opening month. These snacks and the drink will also save your tummy if you get stranded because public transportation is going to be packed and some of them could get stuck in flooded areas.

In case you get stranded, hope that it's at one of the many wonderful malls. The airconditioning will make you want to stay inside. The great shopping finds will also make you forget your predicament.

When outside, what I always try to look out for during these rainy days, though, are children happily playing in the rain. It's no longer a common sight these days and it brings back memories of simpler and more laidback times especially in the provinces.

2007-05-23T11:34:00.000+08:00

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