Comments on Extra Marital Affairs: December 22 Christmas Present(s)

Julie Doesn't sound to me like a brag so much as...

2008-02-16T00:19:00.000Z

Julie

Doesn't sound to me like a brag so much as just a desire to share delight. Edith's as generous as she is careful.

Can you please tell me some thing about anal sex. ...

2007-02-09T06:37:00.000Z

Can you please tell me some thing about anal sex. because my wife never allow me to do. Please advice how can I able to achive my desire.....

I'm a man married to a bit of a prude, so I may ne...

2007-02-07T22:35:00.000Z

I'm a man married to a bit of a prude, so I may never know the joys you share as a couple. Reading your letters is a great outlet for me. I live vicariously through your husband's lucky eyes.

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Followed your link from Cosmopolitan.co.uk. You ne...

2007-01-12T22:37:00.000Z

Followed your link from Cosmopolitan.co.uk. You never say what you'd feel if your husband was sleeping with other women.

Julie Yes I did initially feel terribly guilty, e...

2007-01-11T19:01:00.000Z

Julie

Yes I did initially feel terribly guilty, especially as I have known S's wife for many years. And in fact after our very first "liaison" I did tell S, and my husband J, that I couldn't do it again as I just wouldn't be able to face her. But I did succumb to the temptation again after just a week or so. I couldn't help myself. It was just such a thrilling feeling to experience that different pleasure and different sensations.
And anyway I always made it perfectly clear to S that I did not want to change his life, or mine, that I was completely committed to my husband and children and that our fun could only ever be just that, just fun and adventure.
And so, I soon lost my feelings of guilt towards her. After all, she and S hadn't had sex for years (and I'd heard her say that several times when we were out amongst friends). On remembering those remarks, and when S told me that she never returned his advances anymore, I felt even less guilty about our relationship. And he is a nice guy as well, and a very patient and caring lover. I decided that she just didn't know what she was missing and as I wasn't going to threaten her marriage then why should I feel guilty. And anyway, S has told me on many occasions over the last few years that having his relationship with me has actually SAVED his marriage. So why should I feel guilty.
With my new lover, M, I have never met his partner (they have been living together for years though they are not actually married). He his younger than me, and they don't have any children (she doesn't want children). They both have very high-flying jobs and both apparently work long hours.
Again I have made it plain to M that I don't want to change my own life in anyway and he knows that I tell my husband everything. (J actually doesn't think my affair with M will last all that long, but I am having fun!).
I had lunch with M yesterday (just lunch nothing else!) and he told me that the very next evening after we had our night together at the hotel, he and his partner had the best sex they'd had in years.
So, isn't everyone benefitting?
I've told both my lovers that should their wife / partner ever finds out about me I won't lie, or won't be made to feel ashamed. I will just tell them the truth, that their men are nice people, good lovers, and good fun to be with, but that I have never had any intention of trying to steal them away.
So please don't try to make me feel guilty . . . I know this may be unusual for some women, but I think every woman should have an occasional fling, it is good for you.

A friend told me about this page. Affairs are not ...

2007-01-05T09:03:00.000Z

A friend told me about this page. Affairs are not glamorous you don't say anything about how the other women will feel when they find out their husband has been with you. I left my husband recently because I found he has been sleeping with a woman at his workplace. It has ruined our lives and our childrens happiness. I don't know how can you justify this and how can you go on the internet boasting about it.

Terrifically exciting just reading your blogs. Can...

2007-01-04T20:02:00.000Z

Terrifically exciting just reading your blogs. Can we meet. Where can I find women like you?
Looking forward to reading more posts.