tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-68770308257414710612009-02-20T17:20:54.552-07:00Mental Clarity is one of the Key's to SuccessAt Mentoring For Free every Wednesday we have a special skills training call. This is the day we learn about ourselves and learn how to clear the clutter in our minds. The world gives us so much to think about every day. Well, we are learning how to clear out the stuff we don't need. I hope you can find an "ah-ha" moment or two! <a href="http://1crazydream.bigmlmlies.com/?mad=17344">Success in 10 Steps</a>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-12142013324488527992009-02-20T13:21:00.000-07:002009-02-20T13:22:05.490-07:00Chapter 15-The Six Ghosts of FearChapter 15, Fear<br /><br />FEAR- an icy hand grabs my stomach and squeezes as I<br />start this discussion, yet again. Last time we did<br />Chapter 15 I decided not to participate - why ? Fear<br />of facing unnamed DEMONS yet again.<br /><br />Is it fear of criticism, always thought so - hmm not<br />true, fear of not being accepted - yea that's it - If<br />I am criticized, then am I being shunned - again ??<br /><br />Is that the question, Did I do something wrong again ?<br />Must be other wise you would not leave, it might be me,<br />must be my fault.<br /><br />I started to think about facing this chapter last<br />night - and did not, so tonight I decided , lets do<br />it again, so what happened I read the first page and<br />stopped - walked around the house - and went straight<br />for chocolate ( luckily one of my Sisters had given<br />me a box for Valentines day, so far writing this has<br />required the ingestion of 8 pieces of chocolate -<br /><br />I am hoping to finish writing before I consume the<br />entire box) Hill says "Before we can master an enemy,<br />we must know its name, its habits, and its place of<br />abode."<br /><br />I seem to be of two minds at once on this issue - one<br />part the professional woman fully understanding<br />professional criticism as a constructive method of<br />learning and I am ok with that.<br /><br />However, on a personal level when criticism is aimed<br />I immediately ( wow, just realized as I was writing )<br />have a fear of loss - If I am criticized , then I am<br />not the person you thought I was and You will leave<br />me - then the hurt begins again .<br /><br />I know that hurt - deep searing hot gashes run across<br />my heart - seems logical that since criticism has<br />always been followed first by physical, then by<br />emotional pain, then after criticism and pain, I<br />am alone again, no smiles, no kind words, no hugs,<br />only tears to quiet the hurt.<br /><br /> Tears run freely - these tears run only in the<br />darkest corners of my heart - someday they may stop,<br />when they see daylight the pain is brought back, just<br />as night follows day, and summer follows spring pain<br />follows criticism, loss follows pain.<br /><br />I keep a safe distance - should I get too close pain<br />slithers in - I let you get too close here the sound<br />of slithering keeps me on constant vigil I can not<br />let the pain come back living in tears is NO longer<br />acceptable.<br /><br />I have huge Demons still to fight - the war is not<br />over, not yet - This fear quiets my voice - has many<br />times kept me in the background - or after speaking<br />up I review what I let out and will spend hours<br />assessing the potential for loss .<br /><br />Risk assessment ,No that is not what I am doing. I<br />am trying to manage fear, instead of working to<br />eliminate the demon I have spent a lifetime working<br />to manage this fear.<br /><br />I still do not like chapter 15- no I do not like this.<br />I do however believe it is necessary for me to read and<br />write to read and write until there is no more writing<br />left to be done .<br /><br />Big Bunches of thanks for this family that loves<br />enough to believe in me, and keeping the fires<br />going while I fight the battles to overcome my<br />aged Demons -<br /><br />Love always<br />Your Friend Forever<br />Mustang Sarah<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-1214201332448852799?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-13948936164351977622009-02-12T13:56:00.002-07:002009-02-12T14:01:46.376-07:00Chapter 14~The Sixth SenseTwo lessons from the 30 Day Cleans, offered by Mentoring For Free.<br />The first is my own lesson and the second is a great read, thanks to<br />Tommy Georgakopoulos for it!<br />I enjoyed it and hope you all do as well. If you want to check out our 30 Day<br />Cleanse, please email me at MentorRhonda@gmail.com<br /><br />Chapter 14<br />The Sixth Sense<br /><br />Having read this chapter many time,<br />I have my own "invisible counselors".<br />It is not something I do every night, but<br />find that when I am down I do go to the<br />counselors for uplifting. Realizing this,<br />I know that this particular council is solely<br />for making me feel better about who I am.<br />What I didn't realize, until reading the<br />chapter this time, is that I need more than<br />one council!<br /><br />I have many people I would like to emulate<br />or better yet talk to for hours to start to<br />comprehend where they are and where they<br />begun. I would have to say none of them were<br />born into money. Rather they came from similar<br />family backgrounds as mine. Where the family<br />was in constant battle with money. But each of<br />these people have overcome this battle and I<br />want to know how and why?<br /><br />So, I will begin a new council and I will invite<br />each of these brilliant people to share ideas<br />and I know this will stimulate my brain and<br />subconscious mind. One thing I realize is that<br />I have been unknowingly carefully studying these<br />people and know how their minds work. I listen<br />to them weekly and know their thoughts and<br />feelings. These people will help me to develop<br />my mind into the success I want and the success<br />they have. Not just with money but with life as<br />well.<br /><br />Michael and Linda as a whole, will be there<br />guiding me. They are very successful in both<br />money and life. To me they are a "super couple".<br />They make each other tick. They both have loads<br />of valuable information to share.<br />I have to thank you both for being here in the<br />physical form and being awesome people that you<br />shall be able to stimulate my subconscious mind<br />as well!<br />Rhonda Wudarczyk<br />=======================================<br />Chapter 14 the Sixth Sense.<br /><br />My aha moments happened when I learned that<br />the mind actually creates the reality of what my<br />true thoughts and desires are whether good or<br />bad.<br /><br />I also have asked God and so far a few others to<br />join my table of mastermind in my mind. I place<br />my trust in these members to help guide my<br />decisions and actions towards successful<br />mentality and events.<br /><br />Recently I have had an intuitive mental picture in<br />my mind concerning a relationship and I had to<br />dwell on this and trust my members for this vision.<br /><br />It has served me so far and has relieved myself<br />and the other person and because of this vision<br />warning me that I had to act upon ASAP! Also,<br />my decision has shown me that faith and proper<br />thinking ( Positive thinking) has proven to me yet<br />again that to step out and act out on faith and<br />trust in my sixth sense is always the #1 way to<br />dealing with any problem and or solution.<br /><br />Thanks again for the support and belief in me!<br />God Bless and may the Universe bless you<br />with infinite positive energy!<br /><br />Your Friend and Student,<br />Tommy Georgakopoulos<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-1394893616435197762?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-48080735600644062632008-10-08T09:49:00.000-06:002008-10-08T09:51:44.708-06:00Chapter 11 Think and Grow RichThank you Hugh~ What an awesome lesson!<br /><br /><br />Hill is telling me that if I can harness this power,<br />be aware of it and use it in a positive manner, it<br />is a means of tapping into my creative imagination.<br /><br />Infinite wisdom. The universe. And use that higher<br />vibration to achieve what I truly desire.<br /><br />In the course of my life I have risked life, limb,<br />physical harm and reputation for sex, love,<br />intimacy, and sensual pleasures.<br /><br />I have been through marriages, relationships, and<br />encounters. Never realizing until a few years ago<br />what exactly I was seeking but could never find.<br /><br />Hill describes it clearly in this chapter.<br /><br />Several years ago, in disgust, growing tired of<br />the demolition trail of relationships behind me,<br />I made a conscious decision to stop seeking and<br />resign myself to living alone, with a little<br />peace and quiet.<br /><br />When I recall the energy that I expended, the<br />creativity I demonstrated, the shear will of<br />getting what I wanted, I have to marvel at this<br />power.<br /><br />I had not been able to name it prior to reading<br />Hill. I had used my power indiscriminately.<br /><br />I live alone. I have carried with me for many<br />decades now a vision, of the woman that I dream<br />of, both her physical and emotional make up.<br /><br />Having never met her, but knowing that I would<br />know her on sight, I've come to a theory after<br />reading this chapter.<br /><br />Knowing that my mind is a creature of habit,and<br />knowing that my dominating thoughts can be my<br />self talk, then attracting this desire of mine,<br />can be built into my self talk.<br /><br />I am very conscious of this belief; that I must<br />be successful in order to attract her to me,the<br />woman that I dream of. I would otherwise be<br />shamed, and incapable of the belief that I am<br />worthy of her.<br /><br />So this begs the question:<br /><br />Can I transmute this desire,this energy,into<br />reality?<br /><br />Can I change my mediocrity into the sterling<br />performance that would bring to me not only the<br />business success I desire, but even more im-<br />portantly, the woman I desire?<br /><br />The love that I desire and believe I am worthy of.<br /><br />.......It seems to me that one does not have to be<br />actively involved right now, in one of those truly<br />wonderful relationships that generate this kind of<br />energy.<br /><br />Not if I believe that I can reprogram my sub-<br />conscious mind to believe what I want it to believe.<br /><br />My mind could believe that I am already in the<br />relationship with my dream woman. In my mind I've<br />always known know her anyway, and have spent years<br />looking for her.<br /><br />If I accept that this is possible, then I have to<br />accept that I can use this energy to tap into that<br />creative imagination that can take me over the top<br />in my own business.<br /><br />I can use my self talk, belief and faith, to not<br />only attract to me the people that I want and need,<br />the business success that I want and need, but the<br />love that I want and need.<br /><br />What a concept! What a fantastic belief! Talk about regenerating hope! All from my mind and my active<br />choice of thoughts.<br /><br />I've read and re-read this chapter. It's 4 Am<br />again, and Hill has my wheels turning again.<br /><br />Hugh Ervin<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-4808073560064406263?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-290533406104896032008-09-23T22:26:00.003-06:002008-09-23T22:42:29.443-06:00Persistence<span style="font-size:130%;">We learned about persistence this week during our reading of Chapter 9 in the book Think and Grow Rich, by Napoleon Hill. I have always found this a tough thing. I start things with a bang and then dwindle away after a while. For example, I set chores up for my children, they change monthly. The beginning of setting these chores up I print out these awesome little papers for them to check off and this will show all of us they did their chores for the week. Then after about a week or two of this, we stop doing the check marks, sometimes stop doing the chores all together. I am 1, teaching my kids how to not ever be persistent and teaching them to give up on their goals. Because to be honest, I want my house clean, that is the goal for them helping with the chores a cleaner house. So this goal of mine is not being reached because I am not persistent with what has to happen in order for it to be reached.<br />Sometimes we need to take life a little slower and build up a persistent attitude. I am learning how to do this by reading the book by Hill, but also by staying close to my Mastermind group that meets every Wed to discuss the chapter of the week. My goals are becoming more of a reality as I continue on this path.<br />Changing the way you see yourself and knowing you deserve to even have goals and dreams is a first and a must in your home business. If you don't believe in you, you can't reach to hi in the dream department, you will sabotage yourself every time! Know this from an experienced person who has been sabotaging herself for years.<br />Not anymore. I will take it one goal at a time, until I have reached ALL my goals.<br /><br />If you would like to know how to reach all of your goals and dreams whether you are in network marketing, a stay at home mom, a real estate person, a construction worker. At Mentoring For Free we can show you how to reach all of your dreams and goals!<br />We concentrate on the network marketer, but hey we are all network marketers, have been all of our lives, we just never got paid to do it!<br />Ask me why this is when you send me an email!<br />1crazydream@gmail.com<br />Rhonda Wudarczyk<br /><a href="http://1crazydream.bigmlmlies.com/?mad=17344">Download the 10 steps to your Success!</a></span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-29053340610489603?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-55345904110260031402008-09-16T08:16:00.003-06:002008-09-16T08:20:03.614-06:00Mental Cleanse Chapter 8 Think and Grow RichProcrastination, I have dealt with it all my life. I have<br />always taken a little tooo long to do what it is I had<br />decided to do and yes I changed the decision a lot.<br />Which left me worse off than when I first made the decision.<br />I have always relied on the wrong people to help me in<br />making decisions. I have taken opinions from those that have<br />wanted me to stay the "little girl" they have always seen me<br />as. I am always a step behind them and they like it this way.<br /><br />So I had to make a quick decision to separate myself from<br />these people. Was this easy, NO. In doing so I slipped back<br />to procrastination. Did I do the right thing for my kids, myself,<br />my husband? Slowly killing every dream and goal I had set for<br />myself. I was drowning in self pity and honestly NOT liking the<br />"me" I was becoming.<br />I half heartedly listened to these calls, and actually fell asleep<br />a few times during them.<br />Then, I made another quick decision to go on a little trip to Texas.<br />I couldn't think about it anymore! I had to ACT! This was also in<br />part because of another little mastermind group within my team<br />of leaders who were "believing in me, even though I wasn't<br />convinced to believe in myself."<br />So I went to Texas, met awesome leaders. People of all walks<br />of life, short, tall, red headed, some wore glasses, some didn't,<br />it didn't matter what they looked like, they were my family! Not<br />in the traditional sense, but family that all wanted the same thing,<br />SUCCESS! Success for themselves, all those around them, and for<br />ME! Do you know what it is like to be in a room of amazing people,<br />who all have positive energy flowing from them. Let me tell you,<br />amazing is not a good enough word. I don't think one has been<br />made up for what that feeling is like!<br />What is amazing though, is the fact that not only did I meet these<br />wonderful leaders face to face, but I now almost everyday get to<br />listen to them, and I am soaking up every bit of advice they are<br />giving! I am positive, without one doubt that I am SUCCESSFUL,<br />I am achieving my dreams and goals.<br />Did you ever see Charlie and the Chocolate Factory? Maybe read the<br />book? Do you remember at the end when Charlie and Mr.Wonka rode the<br />elevator straight out of the building through the glass roof? Do you<br />remember wondering if they would make it? Then when they did the<br />joy in your heart? I do!! Let me tell you I have just broke through<br />the glass roof and I am flying high above it all!<br />Wooo Hooo, what a feeling!<br />Love to you all,<br />Rhonda Wudarczyk<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-5534590411026003140?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-49704961664227654112008-08-18T16:17:00.001-06:002008-08-18T16:20:19.051-06:00Chapter 3 FAITHCh. 3 - Faith<br /><br />Could ANYONE say the same thing in any more<br />countless ways than Dr. Hill does???<br /><br />I AM exactly what MY dominant thoughts have<br />created me to BE. And the good news is that<br />IF I don't like that result, I CAN change it by<br />changing what MY dominant thoughts are right<br />now...and every moment hereafter.<br /><br />If I do not have the gumption to write my self-talk<br />and say it out loud as well as silently all day,<br />every day...then, I have no excuses...no amount<br />of whining about my past or my present situation<br />is going to do squat to improve my situation.<br /><br />But taking the bull by the horns and doing my<br />self-talk with "green diligence"...no matter what<br />color personality you are...that's the only way<br />to get it done. If I am going to control my<br />wandering thoughts instead of letting them<br />control me...it's going to take some massive<br />effort on my part. Now how tough is it to know<br />that it can be done that simply?<br /><br />That may in fact be 95% of the problem...it's<br />just too simple. We think if we're this "messed<br />up", then the solution to the problem is obviously<br />complicated. It's not. But my self-discipline has<br />to kick in and stay kicked in for the duration...<br />that's how I've come to believe every single thing<br />that I believe today. I was just doing it<br />"on automatic". That means I've allowed myself,<br />thru neglect, to accept other people's programming.<br />But now, things are different...now that I'm a<br />critical thinker, I DECIDE how to think and<br />therefore...what to think!<br /><br />When my subconscious is "soaked up" with<br />the self-talk that I HAVE CHOSEN to program<br />my Self with...well...it won't feel like I'm in<br />"Kansas" anymore! And this being my 3rd trip<br />thru the Mental Cleanse...(if you can do it in<br />30 days...CELEBRATE!)...the changes in my<br />thoughts and my ongoing mind-set are evident.<br />The gradual change slips in and when you stop<br />to take a look...what a nice surprise!<br /><br />Another thing that really popped out at me in<br />this chapter was in the US Steel Corporation<br />story...which I usually find somewhat boring.<br />This time through it...two things...<br />first...the "giving before you try to get" - the two<br />men who hosted Mr. Schwab at a dinner in<br />his honor where the rest of the story unfolded...<br />"their hearts were full of gratitude for the lavish<br />hospitality bestowed on them by Charles Schwab<br />during a recent visit to Pittsburgh, so they<br />arranged the dinner to introduce him to<br />eastern banking society." I think that may<br />be an excellent example of the Universal Law<br />of Reciprocity.<br /><br />Second...and this seriously reminded me of<br />some of Uncle D's comments to us on more<br />than one occasion...did you notice when<br />Charlie Schwab verbally grabbed his listeners<br />by the back of their collar and jerked their<br />thinking from their "lack mentality" and<br />adjusted them to "abundance thinking". How<br />many times has Michael (Uncle D) reminded<br />us that there is enough to go around for<br />everybody. When I think 'lack'...that's<br />what I get! When I think 'abundance'...<br />amazing...the ebook downloads start to<br />come in ever-increasing numbers, people<br />start calling me, more people want to get<br />involved with my business...and on and on.<br /><br />Does it come automatically??? NO!!! I've<br />lived with 'lack thinking' for many years...my<br />self-talk has to happen non-stop to keep my<br />thinking on the "abundance" side of the scale.<br />Being on the MFF calls is part of that<br />reprogramming process!<br /><br />I can't say that I remember feeling that jolt<br />when I've read this in the past! Mr. Schwab<br />told them that their "shortsightedness lay<br />in the fact that it restricted the market in<br />an era when everything cried for expansion".<br />So, I ask myself...are my daily activities<br />reaching out for expansion...or clutching<br />what I have now - close, so I don't lose it?<br /><br />Reaching out to gather abundance feels<br />much different than clutching what little<br />I have now closely so it doesn't get away.<br /><br />I CHOOSE reaching out for abundance.<br />And right under our noses is the perfect<br />proven system of Mentoring For Free<br />and untold numbers of leaders willing to<br />reach out to guide and direct our every<br />action IF we choose to ask for help and<br />follow the recipe! And there's abundance<br />enough for all of us! 155,000 people per<br />week looking for or signing up for a home<br />based business in this world...and we<br />know they're not all getting into 5 Pillar<br />companies. Now that's abundance<br />enough for us all.<br /><br />Thank You Michael and Linda for all You<br />do to make these life-changing lessons<br />become reality for each of us...in whatever<br />time frame WE CHOOSE to take to connect<br />with the Abundance that is waiting.<br /><br />Friends Always,<br />Patti Blevins<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-4970496166422765411?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-33821784911673843652008-05-26T14:10:00.000-06:002008-05-26T14:11:31.986-06:0030 Days to a New U Chapter 6Chapter 6 Imagination<br /><br />When I think of the synthetic imagination I think<br />of Michael Dlouhy always talking about stopping the<br />chatter in our mind. So if we are watching TV, or<br />listening to radio talk personalities our thoughts<br />are not really our own are they?<br /><br />We think and act on what we see and hear. It is very<br />difficult to come up with a new idea if all we have<br />to use is the combination of others negative thoughts.<br /><br />If we start now by collecting positive thoughts from<br />those around us, or even our own positive ideas, how<br />much more powerful would that be in creating a new<br />idea. Negative thoughts bring out negative ideas.<br /><br />I do not think anyone will be truly successful by<br />thinking negative thoughts or having negative ideas.<br /><br />So, if we surround ourselves with the good positive<br />thoughts and ideas of others, won't we be able to<br />achieve success much sooner?<br /><br />Michael and others tell us of their history and the<br />sometimes terrible things that happened in their<br />lives. We hear it weekly on the mental cleanse calls<br />from all sorts of different backgrounds, upbringings.<br /><br />This is part of our cleanse, but do you believe<br />Michael or any of the others want you to feel sorry<br />for them or want to create a negative thought in you<br />head? NO!! ..........Just the opposite!<br /><br />What they are doing is bringing out in the open their<br />actual success story of how they are overcoming such<br />a battle. It helps me to know there are people out<br />there that have actually gone through things I have<br />gone through and to know they are overcoming their<br />obstacles.<br /><br />I do not feel sorry for them, I feel alive with the<br />thought that we all can make it thorough anything,<br />if we surround ourselves with this type of master<br />mind group.<br /><br />It said that we use the synthetic imagination all<br />the time. We come up with new ideas from older ones<br />floating around our brains. So if we make sure we<br />are using the positive ideas floating in our brains<br />what great new ideas we can come up with.<br /><br />Now lets take a look at the creative imagination.<br />My son is a brilliant boy with a wonderful creative imagination. He is 11 years old and invites new<br />ideas daily. As an adult in my own thoughts, never<br />aloud, I think "ya right like that's ever going to<br />happen".<br /><br />As adults we forget how to have that creative im-<br />agination. We forget how to think outside the box.<br />My son does it daily and without even knowing it,<br />I put a negative spin on all his ideas.<br /><br />I felt terrible about that when I first realized<br />what I was doing to his great ideas. So now when<br />he tells me of his next great invention, I help<br />him by making him write down the idea and help<br />him think of ways to achieve what he is trying<br />to do.<br /><br />By doing this with him I am not only encouraging<br />him to be creative, but I am opening up my own<br />creative imagination.<br /><br />Go back to childhood and think of some of the<br />things you wanted to achieve as you grew. Have<br />you succeeded at any of them? If not really look<br />deep into yourself and see what you can do with<br />those old ideas to make new ideas.<br /><br />Children do not usually have the burden of the<br />responsibilities that we adults have, so it is<br />easier for them to come up with creative ideas.<br /><br />Try to think like a child again. Stop worrying<br />about what your future holds for you and work<br />at it one day at a time. It is not so easy to<br />do, but it is possible!<br /><br />You can achieve any goal you put into your head.<br />Do not think of what you don't want, think of<br />what you do want.<br /><br />We all can become the successful people we want<br />to be, but only if we use the resources we have<br />right in front of us. We all have great ideas<br />and desires, we all want something we do not<br />have right now.<br /><br />But we also all have the power inside ourselves<br />to achieve it! I get more excited every time I<br />do a lesson plan. I know I am going to succeed<br />and I know it will be with the help of all of<br />you hear in this mastermind group.<br /><br />By hearing and really learning from each persons<br />lesson they turn in and read on the call, I am<br />growing mentally every day.<br /><br />Rhonda Wudarczyk<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-3382178491167384365?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-6613450534247459672008-05-02T11:04:00.003-06:002008-05-02T11:14:08.474-06:00FAITHDo you know what a word picture is? It is sitting back listening to someone explain something and seeing what they are saying in your thoughts. It is explaining something in such great detail that people can imagine in their thoughts exactly what you are trying to get across to them. This week we all shared in a wonderful lesson from Patti Blevins.<br />I needed this more than ever, so thank you Patti for sharing this with us all and thank you for brightening up what was a long sad week for me! So please read what Patti has written and really think about what she has said here! Awesome!<br /><br />FAITH<br /><br />Napoleon Hill makes the following statements about<br />FAITH...<br />* Faith is the Head Chemist of the mind, so obviously<br />I need it.<br />* Faith is a state of mind which may be induced,<br />created... by affirmation or repeated instructions to<br />the subconscious mind, through the principle of auto<br />suggestion.<br />* Faith is a state of mind I may develop at will.<br />* Repetition of affirmation of orders to my sub<br />conscious mind is the only known method of VOLUNTARY development of the emotion of faith.<br />* Any impulse of thought which is repeatedly passed<br />on to the subconscious mind is, finally, accepted and<br />acted upon by the subconscious mind, which proceeds to translate that impulse into its physical equivalent by<br />the most practical procedure available.<br />* All thoughts which have been emotionalized (given<br />feeling) and mixed with faith begin immediately to<br />translate themselves into their physical equivalent or counterpart.<br />* My belief, or faith, is the element which determines<br />the action of my subconscious mind.<br />* It is essential for me to encourage the positive<br />emotions as dominating forces of my mind, and discourage<br />and eliminate negative emotions.<br />* A mind dominated by positive emotions becomes a<br />favorable abode for the state of mind known as faith.<br />A mind so dominated may, AT WILL, give the subconscious<br />mind instructions, which it will accept and act upon immediately.<br /><br />OK...I could go on and on--in fact, my favorite page<br />in this chapter is just ahead...BUT GUESS WHAT? This<br />is NOT some phenomenon we've never experienced before.<br /><br />We ALL know how to do this already. We've been doing<br />it since the day we were born.<br /><br />We think about what we want or don't want (fear) and<br />what we DECIDE we really, really desire, or what we<br />really, really fear, and... WALLA...our life becomes<br />blessed or doomed with whatever we desired or feared--<br />or what we thought about and believed and sprinkled<br />some emotion on day after day!<br /><br />NOW we KNOW it WORKS! All we really need to do is<br />take one more step and use our self-talk like its<br />an inhaler that we need for our "asthma" and breathe<br />deeply of that pre-written self-talk as many times<br />per day as we need to breathe--you know, like Michael<br />always says..."You need it MORE than you need oxygen".<br /><br />If I am too preoccupied or too lazy to take time to<br />bathe and brush my teeth, would the people around me<br />continue to put up with me day after day without<br />squacking about it? I doubt it!<br /><br />Well, there's also no excuse good enough for me to be<br />too busy or too lazy to keep putting off my self-talk.<br />I need it more than I need oxygen IF I desire to create<br />my dreams.<br /><br />And if I'm inhaling, I am looking for oxygen to inhale<br />rather than the air someone else exhaled in my face...<br />and I don't care if it's my soul mate's or my newborn<br />infant's carbon dioxide... I desire oxygen... so I move<br />my head a little bit and breathe in what I desire rather<br />than what someone else just breathed out into my face!<br /><br />Self-talk is even easier, but I have to do it if I<br />desire the "oxygen" of my own desires versus the left<br />over, spewed-upon-me "carbon dioxide" of fear and<br />negativity from myself or others.<br /><br />Would I walk around with my hands cupped over my mouth<br />and nose trying to smell my bad breath all day?<br /><br />Probably not!<br /><br />Then, stop allowing used up oxygen into my head in all<br />the other ways it sneaks in...by doing my pre-determined<br />self-talk over and over and over again--it will be like<br />wearing an oxygen mask 24-7 and I won't even have to<br />carry the tank!<br /><br />So...we wrote it in Chapter 2..the self-talk is written. Michael has shared his with us...start with that if you<br />don't have your own yet. You'll only have to say it 2<br />or 3 times to begin making changes in it so that it<br />feels more like yours.<br /><br />And remember...we need it more than we need the shower<br />and the toothbrush...MORE THAN OXYGEN! So, check your<br />self today!<br /><br />Ask yourself: "How much fresh air (MY self-talk) have<br />I inhaled today?" Make sure it's ENOUGH because if I<br />have not, my dreams won't be coming true, and...<br /><br />IT'S NOBODY'S FAULT BUT MY OWN.<br /><br />Friends For Life,<br />Patti Blevins<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-661345053424745967?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-73121545960326009362008-04-23T12:58:00.001-06:002008-04-23T13:00:22.119-06:00DESIRE!Thank you for your thought John!<br /><br />Desire The starting point of all achievement, The<br />first step towards riches<br /><br />Wishing or hoping for something will not bring it about,<br />only a focused burning desire will bring it about. Like<br />a laser the more focused and concentrated the desire the<br />faster the desired results will appear.<br /><br />The more heated the desire the stronger the energy,<br />the stronger the energy the stronger the attraction<br />for like energy.<br /><br />Part of this desire is visualizing the desired results,<br />not just the material objects of your dreams.Visualize<br />yourself in your dreams, feel the dream, make it as<br />realistic as you can.<br /><br />Envision yourself driving the car of your dreams,<br />walking through the house of your dreams. Feel<br />yourself in the dream living the dream.<br /><br />Draw up your plan for attaining your desire, then<br />remove all doubts from your mind that you will<br />achieve your desire and put your plan in action.<br /><br />After reading this chapter, I question just how<br />much I've really desired the things I want. I<br />know I have not been committed strongly enough<br />in the past, I've let go of my dreams too easily,<br />listening to the skeptics and leaving my dreams<br />behind.<br /><br />I've listened to the critics. That will be one<br />of my greatest challenges. I have great respect<br />for my father, his approval of me and my accom-<br />plishments have always been important to me.<br /><br />But I also have come to realize that many of his<br />ideas are out dated and if I really sit back and<br />evaluate things objectively he has become very o<br />pinionated.<br /><br />To him the only way to earn a living is hard manual<br />labor, those days are gone, times have changed. Now<br />I need to develop the filters, to screen out his<br />outdated thinking.<br /><br />Hold on the basic values he has taught me like<br />honesty and integrity, but ignore the outdated<br />viewpoints that he seems to state more strongly<br />as he ages.<br /><br />I can not ignore him, the time I have left with him<br />is growing short, so I need to develop those filters.<br /><br />This is something very hard for me to put into words<br />on paper, I hope I have been able to put it down in a<br />way that will make some sence to you and you can see<br />where I am coming from.<br /><br />I am not trying to place blame, just trying to de-<br />termine what has been making me give up my dreams<br />so easily and figure out how to deal with it.<br /><br />John Holloway<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-7312154596032600936?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-27217944947630435132008-04-16T21:41:00.001-06:002008-04-16T21:43:12.536-06:00Thoughts are ThingsGreat way to think about life, as a joy rather than a down, not matter what it might throw at you! Thank you Debi for this lesson!<br /><br />Thoughts are Things -<br /><br />Hills states that when opportunity comes it has a<br />sly habit of slipping in by the back door and it<br />is often disguised in the form of misfortune or<br />temporary defeat.<br /><br />This past Friday morning I was giving the opportunity<br />to put into action what I have been learning. I must<br />confession, I did not start out using my thoughts in<br />a positive direction.<br /><br />I am a Flight Attendant and was on call this weekend<br />(Fri. Sat. Sun). My "on call" duty time starts at mid<br />night Friday morning. I live in Kentucky and work in<br />New York City. So, I have to commute to work.<br /><br />I had just arrived at my apartment in New York on<br />Thursday night around 10:30 PM. I was just getting<br />settled to sleep the night and the phone rang. It<br />was Scheduling calling me to tell me that I had a<br />trip.<br /><br />I had to be at Kennedy airport by 2:00 AM to work a<br />flight to Paris, France. At that moment it time I was<br />looking at this as a misfortune.<br /><br />I had not had any sleep, I had just gotten there, taken<br />off all my make-up, and was ready for bed and I was not<br />on duty yet. WHY ME! I did some mental ranting and<br />raving, obviously not practicing the mental cleanse.<br />Then proceeded to get ready to go back to the airport.<br /><br />When I arrived in the area where we brief before the<br />flight, all of use where on the same page. Ranting and<br />raving about being the ones "picked" to work this when<br />we where not on duty.<br /><br />When had not sleep, we had been up since early morning,<br />etc, etc,....Then one of the flight attendants stopped<br />us all in our tracks. She said we needed to be looking<br />at this from a different point of view.<br /><br />What if you had received a call in the middle of the<br />night, been told you had won a trip to Paris, France.<br /><br />Your hotel was paid for, you where going to get feed<br />all the way over and all the way back. You had 2 hours<br />to be at the airport and you would be in Paris for 15 -<br />17 hours.<br /><br />Your hotel was walking distance to the Eiffel Tower<br />and you had time to go there and have night out in<br />Paris.<br /><br />How would you be feeling then? Happy, thrilled beyond<br />belief. You could not get to the airport fast enough.<br /><br />Right then it hit me, I had a wonderful opportunity.<br />I changed my attitude instantly. I also learned that<br />I have a great deal of work to do on my thoughts.<br /><br />The trip gave me the opportunity to share a product<br />that helped keep every crew member going for the long<br />haul.<br /><br />We did not leave New York until 3:30 in the morning and<br />landed in Paris at 4:30 PM their time. We had all been<br />up for over 24 hours. I also had the opportunity to<br />make some marketing videos in front of the Eiffel Tower,<br />create new friends and potential customers.<br /><br />Thanks Michael and Linda for giving me the opportunity<br />to learn and grow.<br /><br />Your friend,<br />Debi Talbert<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-2721794494763043513?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-18109496370221856942008-04-11T22:50:00.002-06:002008-04-11T22:52:54.404-06:00Another Great Ah-ha of the week!Thank you Wendy for this lesson! It touched my heart as, I am sure, it touched many others as well!<br />My ghost....Fear of Poverty<br /><br />I am now realizing that the place I am at financially<br />was created by no other than me. My past thoughts and<br />vibrations and fears brought me to where I am. I am<br />now realizing that finances have nothing to do with<br />hard work or luck. It is really my beliefs.<br /><br />So why is it that I have a fear of poverty?<br /><br />I started asking myself this question actually about 4<br />months ago when I realized that I had been programmed<br />to believe that it was "normal" to always struggle and<br />also that "people who were rich often were not very nice<br /><br />This was nothing told to me, but the vibrations I picked<br />up as a child of a minister. When I figured this out I<br />picked up the phone and called my Dad and asked him a<br />simple question.<br /><br />The question was "Dad, how would you feel if I made<br />more money then you or was even rich?" He told me<br />he would be very proud of me.<br /><br />Man oh Man.... It was my own programming!!! Duh.<br />Somehow I got the idea that I wouldn't be a good<br />person if I was Rich and I would be a disappointment<br />to my Dad.<br /><br />So now 4 months later I see growth but am realizing<br />that I still have a far far way to go. I know now that<br />my own thoughts create my reality.<br /><br />I am seeing now that even though I know it possible<br />that I can have financial wealth I am letting this fear<br />hold me back. I don't live like someone who believes<br />in Financial Riches.<br /><br />I find myself speaking the language of the poor.<br />"We can't afford it", "It's too expensive".<br /><br />I know that my thoughts and words spoken create<br />my now. So I must begin to change my thoughts<br />and be aware of my thoughts. It is easier said than<br />done.<br />I also know that I must not beat myself up if my<br />growth doesn't happen overnight. I know that it<br />took me 44 years to get to where I am.<br /><br />I am now committed to reprogramming my thoughts<br />with what I choose. I choose my reality. I am now<br />changing my thinking through self talk, visualization,<br />keeping a gratitude journal, and speaking as if I have<br />already received.<br /><br />I know I need the support of Mentoring for Free. It<br />is really cool knowing that Michael, Linda and<br />others who believe in me.<br /><br />This fear of poverty is a huge mountain. But it is<br />simply an obstacle in my path. But I am bigger than<br />it is and I have the tools to chip away at it and I<br />will remove it.<br /><br />Thank you for this group!<br />Your friend for life!<br />Wendy Krick<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-1810949637022185694?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-79690282546848525752008-04-03T07:50:00.002-06:002008-04-03T07:54:07.346-06:00Ah-Ha Moment of the WeekThis was written by a very good friend and special woman.<br />Sarah Thompson thanks for all the inspiration you give to everyone you come into contact with!<br />Thanks for being there for us!<br /><br />Whoa Another set of Aha moments, more like Aha<br />hours LISTEN to this<br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br />"The 'thirteenth' principle is known as the SIXTH<br />SENSE, through which Infinite Intelligence may,<br />and will communicate voluntarily, without any<br />effort from, or demands by, the individual. This<br />principle is the apex of the philosophy."<br />~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~<br /><br />This little paragraph now holds such significance<br />for me - I can VOLUNTARILY without effort communicate<br />with what Mr Hill describes infinite intelligence -<br />How could I master this I asked myself each time I<br />read this chapter - Well first I had to learn to<br />dream again, to see in my mind my achieving the life<br />I have always wanted - Why have I never quite got<br />here before ? What stopped me three feet from the<br />Gold ------ I DID---------<br /><br />I listened to OPP "other peoples programming" I let<br />their thoughts become my thoughts,....their beliefs<br />become my beliefs, I stopped dreaming ------ Once I<br />STOPPED the chatter and reintroduced me to me, the<br />dreams started ------- once the dreams started my<br />imagination woke up just like Rip Van Winkle awaking<br />from a 20 year nap....<br /><br />My imagination fires my visualizations I now see my<br />self living the reality I have always desired , but<br />until now has been a fleeting image in my mind _I was<br />unable to grasp it firmly, unable to believe it could<br />ever come true - Today when my "little voice" speaks<br />it sounds as if she is using a megaphone, she will not<br />ever again be denied existence, never again be shut<br />out - I listen and the opportunities are brought to<br />me - my desires are MY reality...<br /><br />The starting point of ALL achievement is Desire. How<br />can there be any doubt in my mind that I need to have<br />clarity of thought as to what it is that I desire. Mr.<br />Hill, again and again has made the point that the key<br />to achieving ones goals is to have the burning desire<br />to ignite the the passion within us to move us from a<br />state of merely wishing to one in which our actions<br />bring about the desired goal.<br /><br />Were I not able to imagine this, I would not be able<br />to Visualize it, Were i not able to visualize my<br />desires I would not be able to achieve them - Wow I<br />am soo happy I let my imagination run wild - how can<br />I have passion without imagination - Simple I can't<br /><br />How can I have clarity of thought If I am stifling<br />my imagination, I can't, how can I resolve issues,<br />dissolve doubts If I refuse to listen to my inner<br />voice my sixth sense simple I can't How can I<br />achieve that which I DO NOT allow myself to Dream<br />of, simple I can't...<br /><br />My dreams and imagination are the fuel that stokes<br />my emotions, raises the passion that I posses to<br />achieve my burning desire How ?<br /><br />Simple I can see it -If I can see a point off in the<br />distance walking there is easy I just do it And to<br />imagine This began because one man said .."Sarah,I<br />will believe in You until You believe in Your self.<br /><br />He told me "I will never give up on you "My children<br />are the only ones who ever (prior to Michael and<br />Linda) had unconditional love and belief in me.<br /><br />Their (Michael and Linda's ) belief was not based on<br />what I had done, Simply based on what they Knew I was<br />capable of achieving once I learned to believe in me.<br /><br />All I had to do, is take the simple step to to make<br />the choice to believe in me Easy to do, and ya know<br />what also very Easy not to do,, this is a step now<br />take every morning<br /><br />Thank you both for the precious gift of time and<br />belief<br />Your Friend for Life<br />Sarah Thompson<div class="blogger-post-footer"><script type="text/javascript"><!-- blogrush_feed = "57484460"; //--></script> <script type="text/javascript" src="http://widget.blogrush.com/show.js"> </script><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/6877030825741471061-7969028254684852575?l=1crazydream.blogspot.com'/></div>Rhonda Wudarczykhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/166807509858214044471crazydream@gmail.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6877030825741471061.post-37219311980141532502008-03-24T22:30:00.004-06:002008-12-08T20:26:10.728-07:00We are here for you anytime!<div style="text-align: left;"><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_1KebuYO3SO0/R_TdJeVmXmI/AAAAAAAAAA4/pewf8AY7Mr4/s1600-h/danrhonheadsvitamark.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_1KebuYO3SO0/R_TdJeVmXmI/AAAAAAAAAA4/pewf8AY7Mr4/s320/danrhonheadsvitamark.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5185012225842503266" border="0" /></a><br /><div style="text-align: center;">Dan and Rhonda Mentors for YOU Mentors for Life <a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_1KebuYO3SO0/R_TcnOVmXkI/AAAAAAAAAAo/PNwtYNfafdo/s1600-h/MFF+Logo.JPG"><img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 78px; height: 65px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_1KebuYO3SO0/R_TcnOVmXkI/AAAAAAAAAAo/PNwtYNfafdo/s320/MFF+Logo.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5185011637431983682" border="0" /></a></div></div><br />Before we begin explaining what we do. 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