tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-65135829702032657262008-07-17T01:53:47.161+01:00person centred blogPatricia Matahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10663639796913196731noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6513582970203265726.post-40475493103942401362008-04-15T17:38:00.003+01:002008-04-28T09:43:49.356+01:00Conference against Honour Killings and Launch of new HelplineDua Aswad was 17 years old and died for no reason other than so called 'honour', at the hands of men, including her male family members. She was killed because she dared to fall in love, and because she COULD be killed, in a village that denied her any human right. Even in death she was faced with degradation and the chorus of baying men after blood and continued power to oppress and kill, strike out and destroy, anything that resembled defiance and a stand against the denial of human rights.<br /><br />'Those that defy can die' is the inherent chant, aligned with, 'those that question our (male) rule will be held accountable with every drop of their blood.<br /><br /><br /><br />The conference run by IKWRO Iranian Kurdistan Women's Rights Organisation in London on 14th May will bring together people to face the atrocity that is honour killing and honour crimes, launch a helpline and hopes to help prevent this continued degradation of girls, women, communities and humanity and their rights<br /><br />please attend or send your support.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" ?>
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The news of a murder of a young woman at a conference led by IKWRO ( Iranian and Kurdish Women's Rights Organisation) held at Amnesty International offices last week is the most abhorrent and <span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">public statement of violence, power and control</span> of one gender over another: men over women and campaigning to stop so called 'honour killings' and 'honour crimes' has to be supported, mobilised, and highlighted across the globe.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://bp1.blogger.com/_brTrjGY2VLg/RlbQe2KqYkI/AAAAAAAAABM/uluCTluISik/s1600-h/stophonourkillings_1_1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5068467659006960194" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; WIDTH: 271px; CURSOR: pointer; HEIGHT: 203px" alt="" src="http://bp1.blogger.com/_brTrjGY2VLg/RlbQe2KqYkI/AAAAAAAAABM/uluCTluISik/s320/stophonourkillings_1_1.jpg" border="0" /></a><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://bp0.blogger.com/_brTrjGY2VLg/RlbQtmKqYlI/AAAAAAAAABU/4b-KfZ1d7sI/s1600-h/stophonourkillings2_1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5068467912410030674" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; WIDTH: 260px; CURSOR: pointer; HEIGHT: 204px" alt="" src="http://bp0.blogger.com/_brTrjGY2VLg/RlbQtmKqYlI/AAAAAAAAABU/4b-KfZ1d7sI/s320/stophonourkillings2_1.jpg" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br />( pics campiagn speakers)<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://bp3.blogger.com/_brTrjGY2VLg/RlbQ6WKqYmI/AAAAAAAAABc/P1O1Ch13Rdo/s1600-h/stophonourkillings4_1.jpg"><img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5068468131453362786" style="FLOAT: left; MARGIN: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; WIDTH: 252px; CURSOR: pointer; HEIGHT: 189px" alt="" src="http://bp3.blogger.com/_brTrjGY2VLg/RlbQ6WKqYmI/AAAAAAAAABc/P1O1Ch13Rdo/s320/stophonourkillings4_1.jpg" border="0" /></a>The young woman Du'a Khalil Aswad aged 17, had been murdered on 17th April 2007 in northern Iraq, through what is known as an 'honour killing'. This term is not accurate, but is common. It belies the fact that what has occured is the <strong>murder of a young woman</strong> led by 8 men and a marrau<a onclick="return false;" tabindex="7" href="javascript:void(0)"><span style="font-size:+0;"></span></a>ding 'tribe' of over <span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">1000 men </span>whom seemingly felt what they saw either not WORTH intervening for, in any attempt to stop it, or that <strong>by standing and watching, were colluding</strong> and agreeing in the attack.<br /><br /><br /><br />This YOUNG <span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">FEMALE CHILD </span>of 17 years of age, had apparently brought what was felt as some form of 'shame' upon her community. Members of her family were also involved in the murder.<br /><br />They videoed their group attack on mobile phones and then published the video onto the internet.<br /><br />What this '<strong>public statement'</strong> also says is " we will exert power and control over you (Du'a and all women killed in the name of so called honour ) because we can. We are not stopped no-one will intervene and stop us from doing this, and no-one will want to anyway. We do this because we also feel you are not WORTH anything. You are less than human and as such we feel nothing towards you and your right to live free from harm and abuse, or to live at ALL. You are expendable and a tool to use for our aggression.<br /><br />We <strong>enjoy the power and control we have over you</strong> and thereby, what we have done to you."<br /><br />I have worked with girls/ young women and adult women for over 20 years in the UK and never have I been so outraged. I am concerned about a number of things which I have to list below:<br /><br /><ul><li>Murder of girls / young women and women through so called 'honour killing'</li><li>The number of girls/ young women and older women murdered since 1991 - 33,000<br /></li></ul><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: center"><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold">33,000! murdered in the name of so called honour killing.<br /><br /></span><div style="TEXT-ALIGN: left"><ul><li>The lack of combined public outrage across the world at this<br /></li><li>The position of women in society globally because of this<br /></li><li>The murder of women is what can be known as 'femininicide' a phrase highlighting homicide based on gender</li><li>The numbers of women fleeing feared and expected violence and murder.</li><li>The numbers of women whom have been forced to flee their own countries because of this</li><li>The apathy or 'collusive agreement' of Security Forces, witnessing the attack and murder,whom were fully armed and could have at least shot warning shots in the air, failing to act</li><li>'Torture Porn' and 'femininicide' combined</li></ul>I feel unable to share more today on this, but have provided the following links to find out information on this abhorrence that seemingly is allowed to continue in order for people MEN AND WOMEN & YOUNG MEN AND YOUNG WOMEN to campaign.<br /><br />My feelings at the conference were one of shock and a connection to something which I thought was a historical account of Hitler's naziism and ethnic cleansing and also of the medieval Witch Trials across Europe, brought slap bang into the present day. share your views below and post the links to your own blogs.<br /><br /><a href="http://www.ikwro.org.uk/index.php">IKWRO website</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.stophonourkillings.com/">http://www.stophonourkillings.com/</a><br /><br /><a href="http://www.amnesty.org.uk/news_details.asp?NewsID=17351">Amnesty International </a>- web page on the murder of 17 year old Dua, Khalil Aswad<br /><br /><a href="http://www.madre.org/">Madre - an International Women's Human Rights Organisation</a><br /><br />For further support if you are fleeing violence connected to what may be a suspected or actual forced marriage, contact <strong>The Forced Marriage Unit - 0207 008 8759</strong> <a href="http://www.fco.gov.uk/">http://www.fco.gov.uk/</a><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /><br /></div><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"></span></div><span style="FONT-WEIGHT: bold"><br /><br /></span><div class="blogger-post-footer"><?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" ?>
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</rss></div>Patricia Matahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10663639796913196731noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6513582970203265726.post-64850106058589150412006-10-18T22:19:00.000+01:002006-11-03T23:15:52.348ZBuckinghamshire Business women - start up!I have started my own Business in Buckinghamshire and want to ask women what their aspirations are in developing their own business? What had made them interested in sticking at it? What motivated women to do this?<br /><br />I'd also like to know if you <em>haven't</em> started your own business and your reasons why?<br />I'd like to know; What’s stopping you? What will you lose? What ARE you losing?<br /><br />I'm a person centred counsellor living in Buckinghamshire and this is a short snippet of my journey to where I am now as a new Business Start Up in Person Centred Consultancies.<br /><br />My working life has been offered for the good of others in the voluntary, statutory and charity sectors for over twenty years. I decided that the time has come to put my own ideas into practice. I have given my skills and services to others for the use of the community for this time and hoped that where funding allowed, my creativity would be utilised for the greater benefit of all.<br /><br />The NYA( <a href="http://www.nya.org.uk/">National Youth Agency</a> )supports youth work across the country for anyone wanting to get involved in youth and community work and is the best place to start learning about how to begin a career in this sector.<br /><br />As an employee, when opportunities to develop projects and programmes arose, but funding was not available to support them, I would feel at times despondent and almost like " ah well, it was probably too expensive to run anyway". However this kept gnawing away at me. I used the experience to ensure that by 'working on a shoe string budget' the community would still get as much help and support as was available, given the resources. and in the bargain, I'd get the opportunity to share my ideas and creativity.<br /><br />STILL, this was not enough. I would not take no for an answer. What was the question? and who was asking? The query came from a small voice inside of me asking, "why ever not"? I decided to answer, a little at a time. I will tell you more about this voice tomorrow. To face the challenge and begin my own support resource for the community meant planning, deliberation, feeling scared and excited all at once.<br /><br />I have been proud of my work as a youth and community worker and sometimes, just sometimes, a little bit of this would rub off onto others when I had the chance to do freelance training and workshops.<br /><br />I have now taken this so much further! I now feel so much more satisfied within myself for listening to what's inside. This, I believe is the effect of the Person Centred Approach in my own life.<br /><br />See tomorrow’s account of what creativity has done for me and why it's been worth every moment.<br /><br />ciao till then Tish<br /><br />Patricia Mata <br />copyright 2006<div class="blogger-post-footer"><?xml version="1.0" encoding="utf-8" ?>
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