DIY Divorce in Florida

DIY Divorce Moves

2008-07-10T18:23:00.005-04:00

DIY Divorce in Florida blog has moved!

It's official. DIY Divorce has moved the blog over to Typepad. While we have not figured out a way to make the format look as nice as it does here, it is now part of www.DIYDivorceFL.com and can be accessed directly from the site's homepage.

There is still an RSS feed, but you have to look closely for it in the right column.

Most of the posts have been moved over the course of the last few months. We have been double-posting for the last month or so. That now ends. All new posts will only be posted on the new blog. Visit the new blog for all the information you need to represent yourself in a Florida divorce.

Florida Divorce Laws Change July 1

2008-06-30T17:28:00.004-04:00

Custody and primary residential parent are no longer part of Florida divorce law. Be aware that on October 1, 2008, Florida law dramatically changes with respect to children and divorce. There is no "primary residential parent" anymore. Every family must now write a parenting plan that contains all the child-related terms. If you do not write your own, the judge will do it for you. DIY has written about parenting plans

in the past. Now parenting plans will be mandatory in Florida.Other changes take effect on July 1st. It is now possible to have the court order a partial equitable distribution when the situation warrants it. There is no more "special equity" in Florida. And, like real property, there is now a gift presumption for personal property.

Probably one of the most important changes is that court fees are increasing. The filing fee for the petition increased about $50. There will now be a filing fee for counter-petitions and you will pay $10 to have a summons issued.

Florida Divorce: Practicing Law & Online Services

2008-06-18T08:19:00.003-04:00

We the People is a franchise that provides forms and help in legal matters including wills, divorces, bankruptcy and other areas of law.

The Ohio State Bar found that We The People was practicing law without a license because they advised people about how to complete forms for filing a personal bankruptcy, probate applications, and gave advice about how to complete the forms and what answers to put down. They were ordered to stop the unauthorized practice of law and fined $10,00 per violation.

We have written before about online form services and paralegal practices. Do not fall victim to these services. DIY Divorce teaches you what the law is. Once you know the legal principles, you can apply them to your facts. Do it yourself and do it right. DIY Divorce teaches YOU Florida divorce law.

File An Answer in Your Florida Divorce!

2008-06-12T08:50:00.002-04:00

When the divorce petition arrives do not ignore it. Sometimes people just do not want to deal with the situation and put the petition aside.

You have 20 days after you are served to file an Answer (and Counter-Petition, if you want). If you do not file an answer on time, the court can enter a "default judgment."

Once a default is entered, you may be prohibited from presenting your side of the case unless you file a motion to set aside the default. If that happens, the relief requested in the Petition is likely to be granted. Pay attention to the deadline and file an Answer in your Florida divorce.

Florida divorce: Petition, Answer, and then....

2008-06-05T08:05:00.002-04:00

You filed you divorce petition and the other side filed an answer. Now what happens?

The middle phase of a divorce case is called "discovery." This is the time when you can "discover" information from the other side by asking questions (interrogatories), requesting documents or inspections or examinations, taking depositions or requesting the other side admit or deny certain facts. These discovery methods help you prove your case if there is disagreement between you and your soon-to-be-ex.

This middle phase helps you get ready for mediation, and then trial. It is your opportunity to get the information you need to prove your Florida divorce case.

Florida Divorce: Alimony

2008-05-21T09:16:00.002-04:00

Divorce cases generate many questions about alimony. Today we talk about the types of alimony available in Florida. Alimony is based primarily on the receiving spouse’s need and the paying spouse’s ability to pay.

Temporary Alimony is payable while the divorce case pending. This type of alimony cannot be waived, even in a prenuptial agreement because it is based on the legal duty to support your spouse. It ends at final judgment.1

At final judgment, there are three possible types of alimony in the law.

Permanent Alimony is what we traditionally think of when we hear the word “alimony.” It is paid as long the receiving former spouse is alive and remains unmarried. If the receiving spouse moves into a “supportive relationship,” Florida law now permits permanent alimony to be modified or changed. If the paying spouse dies first, his or her estate has to continue to pay.

Rehabilitative Alimony is paid while the receiving spouse gets education or training that will allow him/her to be self-supporting. To be eligible for rehabilitative alimony, there must be a specific plan for the education.

Lump Sum Alimony is awarded, but not often. This is payment of a specific amount, in either one payment or payments over time. Once ordered, the whole amount becomes the property of the receiving spouse. This alimony cannot be modified.

In some areas of the state, judges have created a fourth type of alimony called “bridge the gap,” meant to ease the transition to single life when there is no rehabilitative plan. This is another type that cannot be changed once ordered.

DIY Courses Begin

2008-05-18T21:03:00.003-04:00

The DIY Divorce Tele Classes begin Monday with the free Tele Test Drive Class on Basic Florida Divorce Law. The Tele Test Drive lets you check out how our virtual classroom works and the kind of information and material you can expect in the DIY Divorce courses.

If you are interested in the June class, sign up now. space is limited. You can learn more about the courses and virtual classroom on our website.

Florida Divorce: Frequently Asked Questions

2008-05-08T07:59:00.000-04:00

Can I stop a no-fault divorce?

If one of the spouses believes that the marriage is “irretrievably broken,” the divorce will very likely be granted. The “no fault” law makes it extremely difficult to stop a divorce.

Can I date while separated?

Until the Final Judgment is signed by the judge, you are still married. Regardless of what this means to you, it is important not to introduce your dating partners to your children until you have established a relationship you believe is serious.

How long does it take to get a divorce?

Once all the required documents have been filed by both of you, your case is ready for final hearing. The scheduling of that hearing depends on your area. Expect the whole process to take a minimum of two months.

Can we use the same lawyer to save money?

The Rules Regulating the Florida Bar prohibit an attorney from representing more than one party in a case. Even if you both agree, the attorney can only represent one of you in a divorce case.

Florida Divorce - Meeting Your Responsibilities

2008-05-06T08:07:00.000-04:00

Representing yourself in a divorce means that you need to study the law, rules of procedure and your local court's administrative orders. These resources are all available online in Florida.

The laws you will need to become familiar with include Chapters 44, 48 and 61 of the Florida Statutes. Chapter 44 covers mediation rules. Chapter 48 covers service of process and the court's jurisdiction. Chapter 61 is the actual divorce law and includes custody and child support.

You will also need to know the rules of procedure. The Florida Family Rules and Procedure (Fla. Fam. L.R.P.) outline the divorce procedure requirements. Some of the family rules refer back to the Florida Civil Rules of Procedure, so you will need access to the civil rules as well. Both the statutes and the procedural rules are contained in our link section.

Finally, you should review the local administrative rules. Each court seems to have some local procedural requirements outlined in the administrative rules. For example, in the 6th Circuit there are special local forms you need to file your case. Many times, the model visitation schedule for your area is contained in an administrative order. So be sure to search your court's website so that you can represent yourself in your Florida divorce.

Representing Yourself in Divorce - Your Responsibilities

2008-05-04T20:40:00.002-04:00

Representing yourself in your divorce case is called “pro se.” Legal dictionaries define "pro se" as someone who represents them self in a legal procedure without an attorney.

You have the right to represent yourself in court, however, you must understand that choosing to represent yourself means the court will expect you to follow the same rules and procedures that an attorney must follow. You will need to study Florida law and procedures.

The judge in your case must remain impartial and cannot do anything to give any appearance of being partial to either side. This includes giving legal advice and having contact with either party without the other being present. When you go into court, the judge may give you information about what may be wrong with the papers you filed. Listen carefully.

Court staff can only assist you with procedures. Procedural information includes such matters as where to obtain forms for some procedures, how to file a petition, answer requirements, service requirements on common procedures, how to get a default, how to file a motion, how to get a hearing, etc.

Very often there is a fine line between procedural information and legal advice. Staff cannot give legal advice. Basically, questions are taken on an individual basis and a judgment is made about whether or not the question involves giving legal advice. If you are told that your question is legal advice, just accept that it is and don't continue to question court employees to help you when they cannot.

Filling out forms is definitely considered legal advice. You will need to seek an attorney’s assistance or learn some Florida law if you have any questions regarding "what to put in the blanks." The DIY Divorce courses are designed to help you learn Florida divorce law. Use the box on the left to sign up now for a free Tele-Test Drive.

Avoid These 4 Mistakes in Your Florida Divorce

2008-05-01T21:53:00.002-04:00

Florida divorce procedures can be like navigating a maze at a time when you're already feeling confused. If you are representing yourself in a Florida divorce, avoid these four common mistakes.

Asking your friends for legal advice. Unless you are friends with a Florida divorce attorney, avoid asking them for legal advice. You will get different advice and end up taking a poll. It will make you crazy. If you are representing yourself, get expert advice when you need it, but to do this right, you need to learn about Florida divorce law.

Incomplete Financial Affidavit. This is the most important document of your case if you have any property, debt or children. Take the time to get accurate information. Use at the past 12 months of household bills. Call the companies if you don’t have the information. Get current values for all accounts at the date of filing the petition for dissolution of marriage.

Not customizing the Florida divorce forms. Your case is unique. The official online forms do not always permit you to add sufficient information to get what you want. If you want to ask that property be sold over your spouse’s objection, you need to include all the requirements for a partition action. The form permits only 5 additional lines of information for “other relief.” This is not enough space to meet the requirements for the relief you want in your Florida divorce.

Not Seeking Expert Help. There are times when it just makes sense to get some expert help with your case. If you have complicated or unique finances, you may need an accountant. If you have complicated property issues or non-marital assets, you may want to talk to an attorney about legal treatment of the property or to an accountant about valuation issues. There are just times when it makes sense to seek expert advice in your Florida divorce.

Florida Divorce: Answers & Counter-Petitions

2008-04-29T08:19:00.000-04:00

Answering the divorce petition is an important step in your DIY divorce. The purpose of the Answer document is to admit or deny what has been said in the petition. For each paragraph, your answer needs to indicate whether you "admit" or "deny" what is contained in that paragraph.

If you want to file a counter-petition, you must do it at the same time you file the Answer. A counter-petition is the Respondent's request that the divorce be granted and that the court order certain relief.

Why file a counter-petition? If you want the court to order specific things not requested in your spouse's petition, you may want to file a counter-petition. In a previous post we talked about the situations in which you need to make specific allegations in a divorce petition. If any of those situations apply to your case, you may want to file a counter-petition. If you definitely want the divorce and are worried that the petitioning spouse may not complete the divorce, you should file a counter-petition so that you can complete your divorce petition.

Kids & the Importance of Calendars

2008-04-27T18:11:00.003-04:00

When involved in a contested custody case, you should keep a calendar of all significant events. Take the time to make a note of things like how often the other parent has the kids, when support payments are made, when important discussions are had with your soon-to-be-ex.

Sometimes these calendar notes can help determine the proper amount of child support. Most of the model schedules in use in Florida provide for almost 40% of time with the non-custodial parent. Since the law allows an adjustment for significant timesharing, child support is often reduced. If the non-custodial parent does not actually exercise the time allotted in the schedule, child support may need to be adjusted. Before you can adjust child support, you will need to know the exact number of days actually used by the non-custodial parent. A calendar makes this calculation far easier than trying to reconstruct missed visits many months down the road.

Similarly, a calendar can help document late pick ups and drop offs, refusals to cooperate, chronic late payments and other inappropriate actions of the other parent. If you are having any dispute with your soon-to-be-ex, try using a calendar to keep track of events. You should also be aware that your calendar can be subpoenaed by the other side, so you may want to use a separate calendar for your divorce disputes.

Guardians Ad Litem

2008-04-23T15:40:00.003-04:00

Guardians ad litem are sometimes appointed in contested custody cases. With all the news coverage of the Texas polygamists, guardians ad litem have been in the news alot of the past few weeks. Just what is a guardian ad litem?

GALs are appointed by the court to represent the best interest of the child. GALs are required in child abuse cases in Florida. Each judicial circuit has a GAL program that trains volunteers to serve in the program.

In divorces, a GAL is appointed when one of the parties requests it by filing a motion and the court enters an order of appointment. GALs in divorce cases are usually attorneys in Florida.

Judges typically give the GAL recommendations great weight. You need to think about whether a GAL appointment would be helpful in your case. You should also speak with the proposed GALs prior to appointment because you and your child will be working with the GAL throughout the case.

Florda Divorce: The Statistics

2008-04-19T09:44:00.002-04:00

Florida divorce statistics continue to show about 90,000 divorce cases filed per year. For the first six months of 2007 (latest available numbers) there were just over 48,000 dissolution cases filed in Florida. This number is slightly lower than the same period in 2006.

The National Center for Health Statistics also follows marriage and divorce statistics. Their latest national numbers (2005) show that there were over 2.2 million marriages and a national divorce rate of 3.6 per 1,000 people - the lowest rate since 1970. Nevada had the highest divorce rate at 6.4.

The overall Florida divorce rate continues to fall from its high of 6.9 in 1990. Strangely, the highest divorce rates in Florida seem centered in Broward County. Pompano, Lauderhill, Hallandale, Hollywood, Davie, Ft. Lauderdale and Deerfield Beach all have divorce rates over 12%.

Florida Divorce Issues - What's First?

2008-04-16T19:24:00.005-04:00

In a Florida divorce, judges consider the issues in a specific order. There are five possible major issues or areas in a divorce case. This is the order in which judges consider the issues:

Parenting Plan/Primary Residence, Parental Responsibility

Equitable Distribution/Property Division

Alimony/Spousal Support

Child Support

Everything Else/Name Change, Life Insurance, Court costs

If you are representing yourself in a Florida divorce, you should use the same PEACE order to analyze your case and later, to prepare the settlement agreement.

No Co-mingling Here

2008-04-13T13:31:00.002-04:00

Non-marital assets and co-mingling can be a big headache when equitably distributing assets in divorce. Co-mingling is the term used when marital money or efforts are used on non-marital assets that belong only to one spouse.

Last week, the Fifth District Court of Appeal decided a case from Ocala that involved possible co-mingling. The wife had looked at 5 acres prior to the wedding, but the sale closed after the wedding.

During the divorce, the husband claimed that the land was marital because it was purchased during the marriage. The evidence showed that the down payment was made with money from the wife's mother. The payments were made with non-marital accounts of the wife and her mother and son. Later, the wife's mother sold her house and that money also went toward the 5 acres.

Even though the wife's pleadings failed to identify the land as non-marital, the judge found that the 5 acres were, in fact, non-marital. The lack of pleading did not matter to the court since the spouses argued the issue during the trial.

Take away two lessons from this case. First, if you have a non-marital asset be sure you do NOT use marital money to pay for it. Second, keep your pleadings accurate so you don't buy yourself an appeal in your Florida divorce case.

Basic Florida Divorce Law

2008-04-09T19:56:00.005-04:00

You may have noticed that we've been posting here less in the past couple weeks. That's because we have been working on a new webpage for our tele-class launch.

The Basic Florida Divorce Law class will be available on a telephone bridge line. The class itself will be free, but you will have to pay for any toll charges (unless we find a fabulous provider that offers a toll free number at no cost on this end). With so many unlimited phone plans now, we don't think a toll call is a big price to pay for a 60 to 90 minute class.

So stay tuned right here at the DIY Divorce in Florida blog. We'll be announcing the date of the first class here in the next few weeks. Remember, we educate you so you can represent yourself in your Florida divorce.

Dismissal: What a Mess!

2008-04-06T19:38:00.000-04:00

Notice of Dismissal is effective immediately. The First District Court of Appeal recently had to unravel the past several years of court actions and orders. Here's what happened:

The couple lived together, had a child and got married. The wife filed for divorce almost immediately. A year later, a Magistrate held a hearing and recommended a final judgment of divorce, custody, child support and equitable distribution. The wife filed a Notice of Voluntary Dismissal ten days after the Magistrate's recommendation. Apparently unaware of the dismissal, 20 days later the judge signed an order adopting the Magistrate's recommendations and both parties presumably got copies of a "final judgment."

Another year later, the husband filed to modify custody and visitation. There was a trial and the court denied the modification. The husband appealed. At that point, someone looked at the whole court file and realized that the judge did not have authority to enter any orders after the wife dismissed the case.

Granted, this case was unusual because the final hearing was held in front of a Magistrate. The case actually involves the issue of when a case is "submitted to the court for decision," as it relates to the ability to dismiss a case without a court order. Esoteric issue maybe, but I hope that none of you will allow a year to pass without a hearing in your Florida divorce case.

Florida Divorce: Serving the Petition

2008-03-28T08:24:00.003-04:00

Florida has three different ways to serve your divorce petition on your spouse. The judge’s authority over your spouse depends on how the petition is served. The three ways to serve a Petition are:

Personal service
Substitute service
Constructive service

Personal service means that a summons and copy of the Petition are handed to your spouse by law enforcement or a certified process server. This is the primary way to serve a person in Florida. A list of certified process servers is usually available from the Court Administrator’s office or court website.

Substitute service means that the papers were given to someone over age 15 who lives in the same place as your spouse regularly lives. You cannot accept service if you still live together. So if your spouse is living with her parents, the papers can be handed to her father by law enforcement or a certified process server. This type of service is just as good as personal service on your spouse.

If you don’t know where your spouse lives, you will have to use Constructive Service or Service by Publication. The first step is to “diligently search” for your spouse to try to serve them personally. You can only publish if personal service is not possible. This means using all the information you have about your spouse and asking certain agencies if they have more information, and then following up on that information. It is a specific process and you may want to hire someone knowledgeable to do it for you. Next you’ll file an affidavit with the court outlining your search. After that, you’ll have to publish a notice in the newspaper. Once the publishing is complete and proof of publishing is filed with the clerk, your spouse has notification of the petition and the case can go to final judgment.

Preparing Florida Court Documents: How Much Detail?

2008-03-20T17:01:00.005-04:00

Preparing divorce documents for court filing is tricky business in Florida. We have already talked about financial information and identity theft. The necessity of adding more detail to the divorce forms has been the subject of previous posts. Today, we discuss the rules for determining how much is too much information in your court document.

In Petitions, you should add detail if you are requesting the court take action on any of the following issues:

Non-marital assets or debts that you believe were commingled or converted into marital assets
Sole parental responsibility
Contested primary residential parent
EUP
Waste, depletion
Name change
Partition

In Answers, you are only responding to the statements in the petition. No details are necessary. This is also true for Responses to Motions. The Answer or Response contains only statements such as, “Respondent denies the allegations in paragraph 3,5,6,7 and 10.” If you include the details of why you dispute the petition, you may get a Motion to Strike your document.

If you are the Respondent and want to make allegations of your own, you should file a Counter-Petition with your Answer. You MUST file a Counter-Petition with your Answer or it will be too late. A Counter-Petition also will allow you to continue the case without any additional filing fees if the Petitioner decides to drop the case.

So the general rule on detail is YES for the Petition and Counter-Petition and NO for Answers and Responses.

Remember that Florida court files are public records. Anyone can look at your divorce court file, so you want to be careful about the allegations and responses you put in any Florida divorce court document.

Florida Parenting Plans: 5 More Areas to Consider

2008-03-18T08:21:00.006-04:00

Some additional areas to consider in your parenting plan include:

Insurance coverage – Which parent will provide it? What are the criteria for reevaluating coverage? How will co-pays and deductibles be divided? What happens if you disagree on a procedure? What about life insurance coverage to secure child support and/or alimony payments? For older children, will there be a cost split for the additional auto insurance premium that the custodial parent will face?

Transportation – Where is the exchange point? What are the details of transportation between the two homes? Who is driving? What time? If you use the school as the exchange point, what happens when school is not in session?

Relocation – Under what circumstances will the custodial parent be able to move away with the child? (If you don’t decide this now, you will have to follow the procedures of Fla. Statute 61.13001.)

Education – Who will attend school conferences and how will parents receive notice? How will the non-custodial parent receive school information? How will extra school or tutoring fees be divided? How will private school tuition be paid and for how long? Although not required, do you both agree to cover college costs for your child? If so, what is included in “college costs?”

Religious Affiliation and Training – Is there agreement to raise the children in a specific faith? How will the costs associated with religious affiliation and education be paid? What is the transportation plan? Are you both agreeing that the child will attend certain religious events or education, regardless of whose parenting time is used? Will these decisions be delegated to the parent who feels this area is more important? If so, will that affect the cost sharing in any way?

Your parenting plan should reflect your family's unique circumstances. There's no magic list of areas or visitation schedules to include in your parenting plan. Think about your family's situation, values and lifestyle to determine the areas to include in your Florida parenting plan.

6 Critical Areas for Your Florida Parenting Plan

2008-03-15T08:40:00.000-04:00

When deciding how to divide the children’s time after the divorce, parents often write parenting plans. Parenting plans spell out the terms of the children’s timesharing with each parent and each parent’s responsibility for decision making and support after divorce. Temporary parenting plans can also be used before the final judgment. Parenting plans are the most important part of your documents in a divorce with children.

Parenting plans can be as detailed or as vague as the parents want. Florida courts have “model schedules” for visitation in each circuit (and sometimes in each county). You will want to read the model schedule for your area for two reasons. First, you will see what a partial parenting plan looks and sounds like. Second, you may decide that the model schedule in your area is appropriate for your family. If so, the bulk of your parenting plan work is done.

If the model schedule for your area is not appropriate for your family, you may decide that the model plan can be re-worked for your family. You may also want to do an online search and look at some other parenting plan language.

When writing a parenting plan, at a minimum, you should include the following 6 items in your parenting plan:

Information about the children – names and dates of birth
Standards of Parental Conduct – how parents act toward each other & children
Parental Responsibility - Decision making
Primary Residence – Timesharing
Child support – Guideline calculation/deviation, college
How the Plan Can be Changed – Written and signed by both, triggers

Developing the parenting plan can help you become clearer about what your expectations for your former spouse are. It can also help you focus on the long-range plan for your children. Parents with young children have to look far into the future and consider how those future decisions will be made and the future responsibilities allocated.

Through the years, I’ve noticed that parents who work hard to develop a detailed parenting plan tend to return to court less. I think the success for the plan is equal to the time you put into developing it. The parenting plan is a roadmap for your children’s future.

You will probably want to include many more items in your plan. The six items listed here are the bare minimum requirements for a parenting plan.

What is Shared Parental Responsibility Anyway?

2008-03-13T06:40:00.000-04:00

Florida law requires that divorced parents share parental responsibility for their child after divorce, unless shared responsibility is detrimental to the child. The goal is to keep both parents involved in the child’s life. However, the child will most likely live primarily with one parent and that parent will make the day-to-day decisions. Then what does shared parental responsibility mean anyway?

Shared parental responsibility means that both parents discuss and decide major decisions affecting the child. These are the decisions that have long-term consequences in your child's life. Some examples involve the choice of:

schools
child care facility
camps
doctors
religious affiliation and training
psychotherapy
surgery
other long-term medical treatment
sports and other out-of-school activities
trips

For an older child it means making decisions about issues like part-time employment, driving, buying a car, dropping out of school, college education and trips. As your child gets older, consider having a joint discussion on these issues with your child. The area that is absolutely off-limits for discussion with your child is asking where he or she wants to live. Of course, the child should never be responsible for any final decision.

There are no set rules for shared decision making. Parents may want to divide up the areas, each taking responsibility for certain ones. Some parents prefer to meet and discuss these issues together and reach a joint decision. Others may allow one parent to make the decisions and inform the other parent. And, as noted above, older children will want to have input into decisions that affect them.

The post-divorce decision making process is often the same type of process the parents had during the marriage. When developing a parenting plan, consider how the decisions have been made in the past and what changes may be needed to that process now that the parents will live apart. Making joint decisions on issues that have long-term consequences for your child is what shared parental responsibility means in Florida.

Why Do I Have To Go To Parent Class?

2008-03-11T07:56:00.002-04:00

Here's a sampling of questions asked last week about the parent education class:

Q: We started a divorce last year and took the class, but then we reconciled. Now we're going to get divorced. Do we have to take the class again?

A: It is up to the judge. You will need to file a motion to waive the class requirement and explain the situation. Aside from their own beliefs, judges will likely consider how long it has been since you graduated and whether you attended online or in person. Be sure to attach a copy of your class certificate to the motion.

Q: My wife is pregnant but it's not my baby. Do have to take the class? I won't be having any contact with the child after the divorce.

A: Florida law presumes that during a marriage, any pregnancy is the result of the married couple. To avoid that presumption, the biological father has to sign an Acknowledgment of Paternity or there must be a Judgment of Paternity that declares the other man the child's father. Neither of these can really be done before the child is born. Again, you will need to file a motion and request that the class requirement be waived based on your situation.

Q: My husband and I divorced 2 years ago but remarried shortly after the divorce. Now we are divorcing again. Do we have to take another class?
A: Once again, it will be up to judge. If you don't want to take the class again, you'll have to file a motion to waive the class requirement.

As you noticed, the answer is the same for all questions. Why? Because the law says the parents in every case shall take the class. If there are circumstances that make it unfair to impose the class requirement and both parties agree to the waiver, the judge has the authority to enter an order waiving the requirement, but you'll have to file a motion if you want to avoid Florida's parent education class.