Dahunter's Blog

Sexual Hoops

2009-10-16T15:49:00.000-07:00

Sexual Hoops: I wrote this article about a year ago I believe and I never posted it because it was going to be taught exclusively at an advanced bootcamp we had planned with Braddock (along with more gold), but this right here is one of my hall of famer theories that you can take straight to the bedroom. Enjoy.

(Mods: please put this in my classic writing section as this is the very foundation for one night stand game right here)

I noticed on how I was getting girls to go sexual so fast and I realized the structure of what I was doing. This is what I call sexual hoops and this is really important when it comes to trying to do one night stands.

So the structure is the following, there are three levels of hoops:

1. Exagerated/Unrealistic sexual hoops

2. Semi Realistic sexual hoops

3. Fantasy sexual hoops

Open the girl based on the ‘why are you doing that?’ shock and awe frame (i.e. it’s your fault).

Then transition into ‘Hi, I’m Jim. And you are?’
Isnt this an awesome place? OR So whats your story?
Who are your friends? You have some right?
Transition quickly into push pull and qualification simultaneously.

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1. The first one is based on completely unrealistic facts. Everything you're talking about is non reality based and she has to doubt that you would even do the things you're sayinng. It's like a cartoonish illustration of you having sex with her, it's supposed to be funny, a little bit out there, but not enough so she could say anything about it, it's a joke, that happens to convey the intention of the interaction.

Ex:
PUA: I haven't told you this but I'm a master at the hidden arts of kama sutra
HER: hahaha what?
PUA: Yeah, did you see the girls that were following me earlier? They're the girls that I've slept with, they follow me everywhere, they just can't get enough. It's kinda annoying but I don't blame them, once you go [yourname] you never go back.

PUA: See those girls? They’re my wives. That one there in particular is crazy in bed. She doesn’t look all that but under the sheets she’s freaky.

PUA: You know, you should know that I’m not like other guys
HER: What do you mean?
PUA: Well, my intentions are completely dishonorable.
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2. The second one are semi reality based. The topic has been brought up playfully and now she kinda does know what your intentions are. This step you are making it more solid. You are basically setting up a plan for the interaction in the night. You are still inserting the idea but it's becoming really obvious that you want to have sex with her that night. You immediately follow all of these comments by a disqualifer of how she should not hang out with you or how she should run away.
In this stage you also give her the warnings that she should run away and state your intentions. "Just so you know I'm gonna try to hook up with you, you shouldn't talk to me". The push is really important because if you don't use it then her natural reaction is going to be to push you away.

Ex:
Bad (without push)
PUA: Just so you know I'm gonna try to hook up with you
HER: Well you can try, I don't know how far you'll get

PUA Tim: I choose you. Its you and me tonight. You know that right?

Good (with push pull)
PUA: Just so you know, I'm gonna try to hook up with you, you should run away, you're too nice, I would just do bad things to you
HER: I'm not too nice!

PUA: You know, I think we’re either gonna fight or fuck. [Not field tested]

PUA: You know, you’re kinda cool. Like how you [insert] and even if I wasn’t trying to get into your pants, I still think it’d be cool to hang out with you.

PUA: You know, I'm gonna try to hook up with you, you should go that way

PUA: You know, you should really get away from me. I’m bad news.
HER: Why?
PUA: Because if you stay any longer, I’m going to try hook up with you.

PUA: You’re hot… do you have a sister that I can hit on?

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3. The third hoops are the fantasy hoops, where you basically hit her deepest fantasies of being dominated fucked without mercy. At this point you should have seeded the past two hoops and the conversation is already sexual and the vibe is "on". You make comments like "I would fuck you so hard", "I would take you home and fuck you so hard you could barely walk for the next couple of days".

At this point your disqualifiers are still going to be there, but they're going to be softer disqualifiers, followed by the occasional hard disqualifier that throws her off.

PUA: I’m going to ruin you for all men.
HER: Why?
PUA: Because I can’t stop thinking about doing bad things to you.

PUA: OMG, I would so take you home and fuck you so hard, you wouldn't be able to walk straight for the next couple days...
HER: (Visualizing what you just said)
PUA: OMG what are you doing to me, I'm a nice person, I can't do this, I want to be a virgin until I get married

PUA: You know what I would do to you, I would put your legs over here (signaling on her shoulders), I would get on top of you and completely dominate you while I was fucking you really hard.
HER: (Absorbing your comment)
PUA: OMG, no no wait, I'm not that easy. I gotta go, I don't know what you're doing to me but I better go get a drink or something.
PUA: (Starts to walk away... interrupts himself and comes back)
PUA: Ok, come with me, let's get a drink, but let's be good, I don't know why but I'm just drawn to you for some reason... stop trying to seduce me, I wanna be a priest one day, I can't have sex.

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If you do these correctly, you will have a girl that is very turned on, she's very attracted to you and has no doubt in her mind that you are trying to fuck her. You took her through the first hoop, which is playful sexual introduction, she accepted it. You took her through the second hoop, which is grounding your sexual intentions to reality, and she accepted it. Then you took her through the last hoop, and you played on her fantasies and got her really turned on, and pushed and pulled, and she has accepted that frame, what's next?

Basically you need to take her home. But there's a small thing you need to do mid set that either makes you or breaks you, and it's called seeding the pull. You are planting the idea that after you are in the club/bar/whatever you two should go somewhere to continue the interaction. At all costs you want to avoid being the guy that,when the places closes and everyone is outsitde says something like "so... you wanna go somewhere else?". That is the wrong approach to it because she has to make the decision right there and then, the state has just been broken, she might have to deal with her friends trying to take her home, and many other variables that you can't control.

What you want to do is, in a high note, mid-set, you suggest that you do something afterwards. Think of something that's cool about your place, like if you have some cool pictures of your most recent trip, or if you have a set of turntables, or whatever, you suggest that you go to your place because she has to check that out. It can also be going to a restaurant near your place because you are hungry. What you are doing is just given her a valid excuse to take her home without triggering the "we are going to fuck" switch, because then she has too much pressure on the fact that she HAS to do something. If you use a seeding excuse, then she can validly back down from sex because that wasn't part of the agreement, so it takes the pressure off the situation.

Beliefs - Gold

2009-10-16T13:03:00.001-07:00

First let me give you a fair warning.. this is pretty advanced stuff. If you have no game and have no social skills right now, then you can definitely get them and I honestly believe anyone can but this post is not the place to start.

I've been thinking a lot about universal ways to improve my game, and one of the things that I'm always about is finding the permanent solution to a problem. I really am not the biggest fan of techniques and thinking of game as in "lines" because what will happen is that two weeks from now I won't remember that line or i just won't feel like saying it anymore because it gets too repetitive and old.

Don't get me wrong, if i do hear a good line or routine ill use it but realistically i will use it about once or twice and then ill move on to something else.

So in my quest to improve my game (and everybody else's) I've found that there are specific principles you can apply to your game that once you implement them, you will create an "organic" improvement, meaning you won't have to think about it, meaning it's natural to you (this is why I think I get called a natural a lot because it's really hard for most people to see what "principles" you operate under as opposed to techniques).

So to create a rock solid foundation of change that lasts forever (and you don't "lose it" even when youve dated a girl for a while or haven't gone out for a long time) we need to implement these principles or Beliefs.

If you don't know what a belief is, let me give you a short introduction.

A belief is a construct of your mind in order to understand the world around you. Since you can't focus on a million things at the same time, your brain will assume that it already knows the truth on a lot of things around you so you don't have to think about it. This helps you operate so you run smoothly so you just focus on whats new/urgent/interesting.

The problem is a lot of times your beliefs are fucking you and depriving you of amazing things you could be getting whether it's girls, money, and all sorts of opportunities.

For example, and this is a really important belief, in the "community" it is a very common belief that in order to get a girl to "like you" you need to go through X,Y,Z. If you don't go through that process, then most guys will not feel like they have gotten the girl the girl to the point where she likes you.

I used to subscribe to this thought thinking that if i haven't gone through "gaming a girl" then she is simply not really into me. I used to believe that if I haven't gone through the motions and slept with her, then she can't really want me.

This is a bad belief and it fucks you because:
A. It leads to leaking emotionally. If you don't think she wants you then you are trying to get validation from her.
B. You can't really be a cool person when you think someone is not into you.

PRINCIPLE: WHATEVER YOU BELIEVE WILL EVENTUALLY BECOME YOUR REALITY

Whatever you think it's true you will act accordingly and people will respond to that. If you think you can't get rich you will never act upon anything because "you can't get rich what's the point". If you think that you are destined to be rich you will not stop until you find something that makes you rich because "that's your destiny".

Let me just give you in advance to the objections that people have to this.
- I don't know what to say.. my answer is say anything. If you have these 2 beliefs I'm going to give you and you're coming from this place there's pretty much nothing you can say that will not work. If you want one night stands then read my sexual hoops post and say that.

- I don't want to open anymore because I'm so validated. Don't take this to the extreme where you become a delusional bastard. Stay in reality and well grounded but come from this place, keep focusing on these beliefs and eventually you will master them so they become your reality. Keep doing the right action which is open, be super social talk to everybody and become a social connector (read my social circle post for more of that).

So... let's get on to a more practical part of this. I'm gonna give you two beliefs that are EXTREMELY POWERFUL and will completely transform your game if you simply come from this place.

1. Everybody loves you and every girl wants you, if not they are being a fucking dickhead.

This belief came from me analyzing all of the most amazing guys with girls that I know. I was trying to put it into words what was it that they all had in common that made them have that "it" factor. Like you meet these guys and you instantly like them and of course girls love them too.

I was trying to break them down until I started to look into their beliefs and it hit me when I was breaking Daxx down (who's an awesome instructor with awesome game and beliefs). Daxx just became my roommate so as I always do with everybody that has awesome game I was breaking him down.

What we'll do (I live with Braddock and Daxx) is that we will all consult each other's text messages to come up with the best alternative to send a girl. So what I was noticing is that he comes from the strong belief that girls really want him, as opposed to "trying to get the girl to see him". And I was blown away by how strong that belief is in him so we started talking about it and I was telling him about the naturals I know and we finally broke it down into a specific belief that every single natural has:

Everybody loves me and every girl wants me, if not they are being a fucking dickhead.

They all assume girls looove them like crazy. Like if they are in a club and a girl just looks at them, they will be like "yep, she likes me". They are looking for any little detail to confirm that belief so it's very strong rooted because they are always confirming it.

Guess what this does? It makes you not look for any validation, you don't need their approval, and above all, you don't need to "make them feel attracted to you", they just like you already so your mind is like quiet in the storm. The world is a great place for these guys because theyre walking around with the image of everyone around them wanting them... and guess what, it works.

One of the best naturals I know even said it to me once, "you know when you're really delusional about something to the point where there's nothing that will convince you otherwise, that's how I got good.

The other side of this one belief is that "if she doesn't like me she's being a fucking dickhead" this part is just as important! Because when you convince yourself of something so strongly nothing is going to convince you otherwise so if a girl is acting weird by not being into you, then she is a weirdo that need to be discarded because you simply do not deal with psychos.

And that my friends is the amazing belief structure that will snowball and give you unstoppable confidence and power with girls.

The one other belief I want to show you is just as powerful and it will help you pull a lot more than most people in the community.

The problem is that most people in the community have still inherited bad beliefs that are just assumed from everybody learning game that it's not until a genius like me (haha!) comes and sees how wrong it is and everybody is assuming the wrong thing.

So this other belief is when you are pulling.

I got this because the other day I had this stripper alll over me, she loved me, and we were going to meet up after the strip club, and my belief was that I should bring her with me because I need to "make her" do it right? So guess what happened? This girl is all over me and I'm hesitating if she's gonna come. She senses this and of course she goes "well if this guy doesn't believe that I wanna come that means that he doesn't get this that often (even if I do btw) because other girls have probably done this before so I just shouldn't do it". Boom no show.

And this is the kind of belief that will lead you to get attraction in the club and not pull...

On the other hand let's analyze if you were in this same situation and you believed that this girl really wanted to come home with you. You would have been completely relaxed about it. After all you get this deep rooted feeling that she REALLY WANTS to come home with you. So what do you do, you may tease her a little bit by just leaving when your friends are leaving (instead of trying to stay there trying to "get her") and instead you know what happens... she wants what she can't have so she's not validated yet. So she's looking for that sense of completion that she "has you" so she comes and meets you and boom, everybody wins.

SHE REALLY WANTS TO COME HOME WITH YOU.

And again, any girl that doesn't is a fucking dickhead and weird and you don't deal with psychopaths anyways. You win no matter what, feel no social anxiety and you are the fucking champ.

"you know when you're really delusional about something to the point where there's nothing that will convince you otherwise, that's how I got good" do that for a while and eventually it will become true for you.

Hope this helps.

Here's an exercise to work on inserting new beliefs:
You review your night out, and you think of every interaction you had. You analyze it by thinking what beliefs were running through your head. You then implement good beliefs by re running the movie in your head but this time doing it through the beliefs i just gave you. your brain will absorb this and eventually you will be doing these things naturally.

Dahunter
ps. Daxx and I have estimated that 5-7 of these beliefs will make you one of the best of the world. If you think you have a belief like that feel free to email it to me a dahunter@lovesystems.com and I'll run it through my pickup simulator!

Moving to LA - Need a roommate in Chicago

2008-09-09T15:06:00.000-07:00

So it's all done now. I'm moving to LA. I'm pretty fucking excited. I'm also excited to live where the superconference is taking place and to chill with all of the instructors again... last SC in Vegas was insane!

The place in LA is sick, were right were all the celebs live, with pool hot tub and all that shit, it's the way to live in Cali.

However... all along I've been planning on still keeping an apartment here in Chicago, and due to an unexpected series of events my would-be chicago roommates won't be able to get an apartment here with me. I'm writing this post to see if there are any Chicago guys that have a decent apt and want to rent me a room. I only plan on being there occasionally and chances are I could increase your game dramatically :).

If you have something like this let me know.. send me an email with pics to dahunter@lovesystems.com asap, as I'm out of here in less than a week.

Cheers,
Dahunter

Miami

2008-05-30T17:03:00.000-07:00

Woo! I'm excited, I'm going to Miami this weekend, I've never really gotten to party there much, and I'm going for a quick personal trip so I'm looking for good places to go out to and some fun people to hang out with.

If you're in Miami or you know someone there that's cool to hang out with email me at dahunter [@] lovesystems.com

Thanks!
Dahunter

I'm Back... with some goodies

2008-03-23T20:31:00.001-07:00

Sorry guys I haven't posted in a while, I've been busy trying to become the richest man on the planet and my greedy ass hasn't been putting that much time into adding value to my blog, but I'm back, and I have some good shitz for you guys.

This is the transcript that I found for a hb10 that I closed almost a year ago, she's one of the hottest girls I've dated and I ran a pretty intense push pull on her, which happened to be all through facebook. I found the logs so I give them here straight up with just the names modified. My game has gotten much more solid since then but there's tons of good stuff in here that can be learned from.

This is from the time I saw her (I met her through her friend and we went out and I didn't game her) to the time we went out on a day2 and I closed her. My text is in bold and hers is plain italic. Enjoy.

you dork, I actually was drunk enough to like you for one day and you end up hooking up with some dude.

You and your weirdly shaped pointy tongue are dorks.

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and who was it i hooked up with? if u consider hooking up kissing on the cheek then...well i am a hoe. please dont write me messages when u are so obviously drunk.

ps- dont diss my tounge till you tried it punk

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listen dorkface, please don't write me messages when you've so obviously been smoking excessive amounts of weed. it's not my problem you have liked to hang out with guys that are complete idiots in the past.

If you think hooking up with someone makes you a hoe you’ve obviously been mixing that weed with a lot of alcohol since everyone does it and it’s something that can be change your life if you do it with the right person.

Also, I will diss your weird pointy shaped tongue all I want. In fact, I would try it the first chance I had just so I could diss it some more. So please, stop being such a nerd.

[dahunter]
p.s. I know I will regret this, but since I know you just broke up with your boyfriend and that can be hard at times, I’ll let you hang out with me and show you a good time. On Sunday me and a few friends are all going snowboarding so if you’re not going to embarrass me with your supreme dorkiness you are welcome to come.

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dear fagbag,

i appreciate the offer of snowboarding. you may be surprized to know that i indeed have snowboarded before. Yup- I spent the whole afternoon sliding down a hill on my ass with my legs and arms flailing about. everyone was jealous of my mad skills. I don't wanna show you up so I think it would be best if i skipped it.
translation- i have to work :(

love,
pointy tounge

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dear dorkface,

Work on sunday? I think I just threw up a little bit in my mouth. You are indeed way more of a nerd that I had originally anticipaded.

If you want to hang out, let me know when you're free this week and if I am on crack at the time and feel like hanging out with a complete dork, I'll take you out and we'll have fun.

[dahunter]
p.s. you're like the worst kind of nerd there is: The one that doesn't even know how to spell, tongue is spelled TONGUE not TOUNGE. Retard.

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i am a bad speller, poor, and have deformities on my face... why do you want to hang out with me again?

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I don't know, it could be because I think you're beautiful and I like you even with your deformed face and your dorky misspellings. It could be because I liked you since the first moment I saw you and I want to get to know you better... but in reality it's more like I like doing charity work with retards so I consider this as paying my dues.

Love [dahunter]

p.s. I'm an asshole, I'm obnoxious and I usually think I'm the coolest shit since John Travolta on Greece... are u sure you're up for hanging out with me?

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well my dear...
in case you hadn't noticed, i had a boyfriend for quit some time. (2 1/2 ys) me and said boyfriend broke up about two weeks ago and my heart is crushed like sandy from Greese... you,being like john T., can surly relate. To make things worse, the ex handles being hurt by making other people (me) feel like an insecure and worthless pile of shit. thus, i would love to hang out with you but i am warning you i am NOT in the mood to just fuckaround with guys. I can not handle beings a little object to someone rightr now. what am i getting at here? u seem like a hilarious kid but when it comes to girls- definitly only in it for the nookie. if you can hang out with me, sans the nookie, well then yes, lets hang out. so... are you sure your up for hanging out with me?

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First of all let me start by saying you need to stop watching that much MTV… who uses the word “nookie” anyways? Second of all, behind the twitchiness and the awkwardness there might be a really cool girl waiting to come out… if that’s the case I can’t make any promises since I’ve never been the “let’s just be friends” kinda guy and I’m not about to start now if I enjoy hanging out with you.

Having said that, although I’ve never been dumped before I understand where you’re coming from and the last thing I want is to hurt someone that’s already in the middle of a bad breakup. I must add that although yes I enjoy having sex as much as the next person (or maybe a bit more, but don’t blame me for being better at it than most people) no I’m not just about that and I actually do look for someone I can hang out that is both my friend and my girl, so please… stop being such a dork.

All I offer you is good conversation and a good time. Hopefully you have a good old valid fake Id so we can go have a drink at a bar/restaurant, hang out and forget about all the bullshit and just have fun. Let me know how that sounds to you and when you would be free if you like the plan.

[dahunter]
p.s. “Greece” – not “Greese”. Come on you gotta be kidding me.

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1.) in case you haven't noticed, i rebel against spell check. stop making fun of my mis-spellings because.. well the jokes would just never end.
2.) i just drunkenly left mypurse in a cab with my good ID so all i have left is my ok ID..makes me look chinese but it usually works
3.) don't make fun of me for leaving my purse in a cab. just stop. I'm kicking myself for it.
4.) even though you won't make any promises I'll make you one- i promise you have to be "just my friend" for a lil bit. sorry :(
5.) i don't watch MTV... stupid dribble
6.) busy week for me till weekend
7.)...... i like eatting :)

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aw- am i one of the "stupid girls" you mentioned in your obnoxious rambling note? :(

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First of all, who leaves their purse in a cab? Seriously, are you hitting the pipe?

Second of all, I’ve heard it’s pretty hard to find a good fake ID, and you just leave it on the cab? I wasn’t consciously referring to you when I wrote my awesome note (that everyone loves BTW) but after the misspellings, the purse and the fact that you used the word “nookie” in a sentence… I think you heading straight into the list.

Third of all, I said IF behind the twitchiness and the nerd façade I would see a cool girl then I wouldn’t make any promises. So far those things are blindingly loud, so please… don’t assume all I want to do is sleep with you. I can’t do that without knowing what kind of a pointy tongued dork I’m getting involved with first.

Ps. My weekend is full. I’d invite you Snowboarding on Sunday again but I’m assuming you are lame and have work. Hopefully I’ll see your dorky ass next week like monday or something.

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let me first point out that i just happened to log onto facebook right after you sent me a gay message. coincidence hunny- don't let this feed your already insanly large ego.
and yes, i do assume every guy who isn't yet in assisted care wants to sleep with me. not becuase of how i look, but becuase God made every man a horndog who wants to sleep with every girl. you were blessed with being crowned king of the horndogs.
and unfortunitly, i do have to work on sunday. some people have these silly things called jobs to pay for these stupid little nucinces called "rent" and "food" and, my personal favorite, "clothing". FYI- i work a lot. more than any normal person should want to.
so in conclusion, since your weekend is jam packed with whatever it is you do, i guess I'll have to wait to see you and figure out what it is that is actually making me want talk to you in the first place.

PS- stop being a facebook fag and use a phone. technology is your friend [dahunter]. [gives out her phone number]

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PSS- its GREASE. dumbass.

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First of all, I keep getting surprised of how much of a dork you really are. Yeah, my ego is that bigger because you replied to my message right after I sent it… dumbass.

Second of all, you’ve been obviously hanging out with retards with no options way too much. So please, if I’m giving you a chance to hang out with me… at least TRY to cover up the obvious nerdiness that so clearly defines you. I’m willing to help you get out of nerd ville but I have to see at least see some sort of potencial (which I am yet to see).

Third of all, I wish you a happy valentine’s day, for a second I wished I had let you be my valentine girl so you could finally stop being such a dork, but unfortunately this is the busiest night of the year for me so I honestly feel sorry that you won’t have that opportunity today.

I’ll give you a call soon dumbass. See if you actually impress me through there.

[dahunter].
Ps. It’s “because” not becuase. It’s “unfortunately” not unfortunitly. There’s no stop in you isn’t it?

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deer [dahunter],

i am shooked that yuo think i am a baad spellr. i hav allwys spellt wundurfully! plaese stop makeing up thees obnoxcios lies abut me. They are unkalled for and hurt my fealings.

thanc you,
[her name misspelled]

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Oh my God, you're like sesame street... on crack

I'll give you a call tomorrow before I head out snowboarding, I cant wait to see this.

After this I just called her, we setup a time to get together and the rest was history, we dated for a couple of months... great girl.

Cheers,
Dahunter

Interesting...

2008-01-13T22:44:00.000-08:00

So I stole this new years resolution from my boy Jules Crew because it's so money, and it's paying off. The resolution is that I must start a conversation with anyone that's within arms reach of me at any point.

So the latest story I have is that I'm on my plane heading back to Chicago, and I start chatting up this lady that's sitting next to me.. turns out she's going through a divorce, and we talk about how she lives in Chicago and LA, and she wants to keep both houses... she's prolly divorcing some rich guy.

I start telling her about myself and start DHVing myself for practice, and she starts telling me how her daughter is perfect for me, and she starts telling me how her daughter dated Tommy Lee, and she pulls out a picture of her daughter (who is really hot) and Tommy Lee. I'm like "that's cool"... but she thinks I'm the best thing since sliced bread, we land, and as soon as our plane lands she calls her daughter and tells her how she met this amazing guy that's perfect for her... I'm just sitting there listening kinda thinking "this is interesting" since everyone around us is noticing this... so she hands me the phone and suggests that I talk to her.

So I grab the phone and I start DHVing myself, everybody is standing up waiting for the line to move, and listening to my conversation being aware of what's going on at the same time... She asks for my number... I put her mom back on the phone, she's selling me hardcore. 5 minutes later I get a text from her. We've had a few texts back and forth now.

Besides that I've also managed to find out the lives of many cab drivers, the one that impacted me the most was this guy that took me to LAX... I wish I could have helped him... but offering the community to someone that doesn't ask for it by themselves is like trying to feed a person that's not hungry.. it doesn't work.

He told me that he was married, he hated his wife, and that he was only with her because of his son. Besides that he had had two affairs, and that after 6 years he was still in love with one of these girls, which dumped him for no reason (or no reason that he could see of course), which I suspect would be for lack of attraction... he was talking as if they had just broken up and how he wanted her back... 6 years later.

The other affair he had, the girl also dumped him, and he still wanted her as well even though she had a kid with someone else... like 4 years ago. He said he had a PHD in his country but he was stuck her being a cab driver because the money was better than over there and he was doing it for his kid.

What do you do for someone like this? Offering advice rarely works... I just asked him questions like... do you think there's nobody else better for you than this girl?.. trying to lead him to find the answer for himself... hopefully he breaks free of his limitations.

This was a huge eye opener of how we really change lives by giving guys more options... it frees you from the past if you know you can go out and meet new girls that could be better than any girl you've dated before. I try to connect to that feeling with the students in our bootcamps, but seeing it fully realized in a guy just made me see how big the changes we make in guys really are.

Once again I find myself being thankful for applying all the principles that I learn from the community, otherwise in another dimension, the chode dimension, I could have ended up being like that guy... lusting after a love from almost a decade ago.. I seriously hope he gets it one day... probably won't but hope I planted a seed for him to go out and look for it instead of make any excuses.

I guess my message for today is, be thankful that you're a part of this movement, most of us will never know what kind of awful faith we avoided just because we found this and decided to take control of our lives.

Cheers,
Dahunter

LA, The Ultimate Shit Test and Closing a Model

2008-01-12T13:12:00.000-08:00

So I’m in LA right now, and it’s been quite the eventful past two days. I came a day earlier to meetup with this girl, so I could release my inner beast on her. It was a great plan, it would have worked for both of us if it hadn’t been for one little detail: She shat herself while I was fucking her. Lol I can’t stop laughing even as I type this

That’s right gentlemen, I was fucking this girl soo hard she literally shat herself while I was fucking her. I’m not sure what’s the etiquette on this situation but my natural response was to take a shower and start cracking up.

For those of you that are wondering (hopefully not that many of you), the position was a variation of doggystyle, and it was normal vaginal intercourse, which makes it hard for me to wonder how exactly this happened.

So to summarize this, no I unfortunately didn’t pass this shit test, I don’t think I’ll be seeing this girl again as I’m not into that type of SHIT (no pun intended) and that was a dealbreaker for me.

What’s funny is that also, before that we were having sex and the sign to clean up the room was placed in the door and three maids walked in on us while we were on the missionary, revealing my precious ass.

So, moving along… fast forward to that same day (yesterday) but late at night. We’re at The Don’s bootcamp, we’re having a good time, we’re pushing the guys into sets, we’re doing demo’s for them to see, Tim from RSD is there who’s a cool guy… all is good.

It’s almost closing time, I’m talking to this girl that’s beautiful… she’s a model, she’s from Russia, as tall as I am, perfect body, perfect face, definetly fits into my category of “only open 9’s and 10’s”...

I opened her while she was talking to this guy, I suspect he’s a PUA because it’s the second set I’ve done that he has been in, I befriend him, and he befriends me back but I can tell he has some resentment against me for coming in his sets, which later he would prove I was right. Game is game and it’s all fair play, I don’t complain if a girl talks to another guy instead of me, I simply learn from it and move on.

So after opening sets of 10’s like a maniac for a long time, I really am beginning to get into that wavelength… it’s like 10’s are their own little subculture and you have to speak their language otherwise you’re not getting in… a lot of shit that I would before take as getting blown out I understand what they are saying and I understand the response they are looking for.

What I’m seeing is that as a guy, your job is to provide the framework for her to girl logic herself into sleeping with you… it’s not your job to want anything from her, she gets that too much and it’s a negative anchor on her, your job is to simply keep adding value and she will usually make the rest really easy for you.

Of course, like every legitimate hot girl, there are going to be orbiters. So you’re going to have to learn how to deal with them. It’s a pretty common theme, and their value radar goes on like a motherfucker when you get an interrupt, because if the other guy is higher value than you are you are out of that set like your were just shot out of a cannon. They are brutal on this, and in the same way, I’m becoming brutal on weeding out low value girls out of my life.

So the main thing I would say to handle an orbiter, is about vibe. I don’t think less of them, I don’t think more of them, I just honestly am friendly with them and engage them in a conversation. The key to it is to make it obvious that you don’t have an agenda, that you are there just to have fun, and if they try to ask about me and her (some guys will do this trying to tool you like: “are you guys dating?”), then I always go into complete bullshit mode. I’ll go into a roleplay something like this:

“Yeah me and this girl, we’re divorced… i’m not gonna lie, it was amazing for a while… but then she started drinking… a lot… she would get back home and hit me… there’s only so many times you can “fall of the stairs” you know… what was I supposed to tell my family?… and then the kids… she was always asking for “the check…. The check”… it got pretty bad… I mean if I only want to pay tuition for the first born of each marriage that should be legal right… I couldn’t handle her anymore so I just filed the divorce… and here we are now”

Something like that that just throws the vibe off in a funny way, you don’t have to go through the whole thing either you can just say… we’re divorced… and that’s enough of an answer as well.

That was a big thing for this girl since she got approached several times and I would just run something along those lines… the same guy that was talking to her when I opened her came back way later into the set, and did a stunt that hurt him really bad and upped my value a lot.

He came back to what I thought was inviting us to an afterparty… So I asked him where he was at, and he rudely said “the invitation is just for her… this is not for you” or something along those lines… and in 10 world being rude is a big sign of social miscalibration… he could have handled it way more diplomatically, like get us excited about it and maybe then saying something like “oh man sorry for the misunderstanding, the invite was only for her”… then it could have potentially worked.. but we were in a stage of really getting along and vibing really well and he came in like a sledge hammer, which me and the girl just looked at eachother and just basically eyecoded eachother like saying “what a weirdo”, which further enhanced our little world.

After this I bounced the girl inside the club to get a drink… I don’t know if you guys are relocating your sets but you guys have to move every set that you open… move it somewhere else and the vibe just gets better… seriously you have to move every single set that you open for you to get anywhere… don’t stay in the same location where you opened otherwise you are hurting yourself.

We did a couple shots of tequila, the place was closing, and The Don gave me the address of a taco place that’s amazing. We went there, she got opened a lot while we were there, and I was just being cool with all the guys, befriending them, which disarmed them at the same time.

I had a cab take us to her address, and this is where you have to play your cards right, I started talking about her roommates and would they say if I came in… I’m not really saying I’m coming in but I’m suggesting it already so she knows I’m thinking about it… we get there, I just get out of the cab and start disqualifying myself like “you’re roommates are prolly gonna be pissed if I come in”, but I’m out of the cab already so it doesn’t matter.. we sit on her stairway without getting in, and she suggests we go to my hotel instead… perfect… kinda… because I think the other instructor I’m rooming with is in there…

Of course I say nothing… I start to prepare to get a new room. And sure enough she asks me if I have a roommate, and I tell her it’s cool we’ll get a new room.. once we get here though, it turns out the hotel is sold out… so I just take her to our room, throughout this time she’s telling me how she can’t do this if there’s someone else there and bla bla, luckily our instructor (who I can’t remember his alias and I don’t want to put his name here) is not here, he must have pulled.

She mentions that I’m fat… and I’m like laughing because I don’t care but at the same time I know I need to get my ass in shape… I’m starting ju jitsu classes this next week and I’m also going back into my schedule of working out a lot, travelling a lot has thrown me off with non exercise and eating at crazy times unhealthy shit. I officially decided that I’m losing weight… but of course I laugh at her comment and mention how if I actually didn’t have a such a strong self esteem I would actually be offended.. she laughs, I’m sure that’s one of those comments that gets to her and improves the way she thinks about me anytime in the future.

Get to the room… take off all her clothes… this is what it’s all about… perfect breasts… perfect ass… her waist is soo thin it’s ridiculous… the sex was soo good, she was really flexible… this is what I got in the game for… good times.

Like my friend Mr M says “He who dares wins”.

Thanks for reading,

Dahunter

New York Aftermath

2008-01-08T17:51:00.000-08:00

So new york was intense... 10 days of going on every single night, sometimes staying up till 6-8 AM, drinking every day, meeting all kinds of people, and doing a bootcamp at the end to finalize it all... yet somehow we made it out alive.

One of the main things that I did the entire time was only talk to girls that I considered 9's or 10's. I never approached anything less than that unless it was to strategically end up with a 9 or a 10, as a result I only got laid once (with massive LMR) where I could have probably got laid more otherwise. Let me tell you guys, this is not an easy task.

First of all, the amount of 9's or 10's in any bar or club is limited, which makes it much harder to do because you can't fuck up. The number of errors you can make when you are talking to a 10 is very limited, they know they have a lot of options so they are much more willing to walk away at the slightest sign of discomfort.

Another thing is that if you want to do this, you probably have to do this at clubs, which are prolly harder than bars, because where a club will have 3 - 10 really hot girls (depending where you go), a bar will almost always have only a couple or none at all.

Another thing that makes it harder is that the hotter she is, the more likely that she is dating a guy already, and the hotter she is, the more likely the guy is happy with her and wants to marry her. It's not uncommon for 10's to have been engaged or married at a really young age.

This is not only harder in field, but also if you're doing day 2 meetups with them then be prepared to find even more resistance. I would send out a message with a hilarious role play that was thought of by Braddock and me, and where an 8 would laugh and go along with it a 9 or 10 will just reply with something like "lol that's funny", giving you nothing and adding nothing themselves. I used to get pissed before but I'm starting to get more used to this and internalizing that that's the way they relate to the world.

A good example was when I kept sending this girl what I considered to be really funny text messages, and I wouldn't get any response. I did that for a few weeks with no response at all. Then I went to the bar she bartends for, and she told me about the joke she was thinking about sending me but hadn't, and then got me free drinks for me and my friends all night, and invited me to her christmas dinner (which I didn't go to... never go to her territory or you will get slaughtered... specially a 10 since you will end up competing with all her orbiters).

I recommend doing the "only approach 10's", but here are a few suggestions so you are prepared in advanced:

- have something on the side, otherwise you may have to get prepared for a few nights without getting laid.
- be prepared for 10x the rejections... actually, I take that back. 10's won't reject you, they are usually really nice since they enjoy the attention, but be prepared for them to just drift of to something else if you don’t get your A game.
- Do lots of takeaways. The best way to deal with them is to switch the frame on them (that they are hitting on you), be interesting, and take it away. The same TMM model applies it just has to be applied with more accuracy to be successful.
- Use lots of roleplays and be playful. Using roleplays is a one-fits-all way to control the frame, not be reactive (or be reactive in a funny way), and pass any shit tests that girls may give you. It's girl talk to it's highest form. You can find a lot of money routines and roleplays at the routines manual. Look for Braddock's roleplays in there, they are absolute money.

Which leads me to hanging out with Braddock. Hanging out with Braddock is always awesome... he's one of the best PUA's I know and one of those people I'm proud to call a friend. Whenever I meet someone that is as intense as I am about improving their life, I automatically start to analyze all of their patterns and behaviours so I can model all the things that make them successful. Braddock is full of traits that make his game and his ability to relate to others pretty impressive.

There are several principles at work here that I got from our trip, so I'll try to put them in here if any of you guys have sticking points that relate or if you guys want to improve some things about your game that also relate to this.

Personality-wise Braddock is one of the most positive people I've met. We could be in the shittiest bar at 5 am were there were no good sets and he's still having a good time, whereas I would probably get pissed and want to leave or something. This is something that relates to the book "The Power of Now", being in the moment or "Being outside your head" as TD would say, and it's something I've become more aware of, so it's always good to see someone that applies that principle to a higher degree.

Signs that you're in the moment or outside your head:
- You can have a conversation with anyone at any time, and not think it's useless and that you are just wasting your time.
- You go out and you don't make excuses. Things like "I worked too much today", "I have a big day tomorrow", "I need to read more material before I talk to anyone"... they all seem dumb to you.
- You are interested in everybody and anything that is in the room you are at at the moment.

Another thing that I noticed Braddock is particularly good at is getting girls to chase after him.

"Look at my friend... what's wrong with her... she's just not herself right now... look at her she's all over your friend"
(Meanwhile we're both watching this girl chase after Braddock while he keeps playfully pushing her away... haha)

I'm always glad that I have learned how to add value into girls lives so that the script is flipped and they are the ones that chase after me... and watching Braddock do this masterfully makes me realize that learning how to game is so much more worth it than we think when we first start.

Basically what he does is he keeps his body language always looking forward, head and shoulders aligned, and he will look at them and say something funny, and then he will go back to his normal posture and they will come back looking for more of his attention. Withdrawing attention and breaking your own state are essential to get these results. That’s how he closed a solid 9 while we were in NY.

Another big revelation for New York is about failing. It's one thing to logically know that failing is part of the process of becoming successful, but it's another thing when you have it internalized to the point where anything negative that happens, you analyze it, extract the lesson and then you let it go.

Winners are the guys that fail the most often. NOT the guys that get them all right. Winners fail way more than anybody else, and that's what makes them good.

I already apply this principle a lot, but a lot of times when I have a big breakthrough is just applying the same principle but in a different area of my life or my game. In this case, I kinda had to go through the same process but on day 2 timebridging. Specially for gaming 10's only, it’s really important to accept that not every girl will respond exactly the way you want even if your game is right on the spot.

One of the things that I also realized this weekend, is that there’s a scale of how hard and how easy it is for some guys to get good. Occasionally I’ll run into a guy that just needs that tipping point to make his game an avalanche.

Take one of our students this weekend. The guy’s name might as well have been James Bond. He’s actually in the military, and he has the same rank as James Bond has in the movies. He was one of the best story tellers I’ve ever seen, really charming guy and he had a british accent. One of those guys who’s brain’s operate in such an awesome wavelength they’re awesome people to hang out with.

For guys like that, learning game is like me trying to figure out how my new tv works. Sure, it takes some time and you have to plug it in see how it works and you have to adjust the colors and maybe hook up the speakers, but with a bit of an effort you are set. For most of us though, it’s not that simple. It’s not that you are lesser it’s just that their skills are very strong in relating to others while your skills may be in doing different tasks such as something more complex and more logical. For most of us, we first have to build the TV and then learn how to use it.

When it comes to being good with girls, most of us will have to make deep rooted personality changes in order to even start becoming attractive to women, vs the guys that are already attractive but they just need to actually go and talk to the girls and kino escalate.

Most of guys are either not talkative enough, too serious, too insecure about themselves, too strange of a sense of humor, too nervous, among many many others… and I’ve been there, I’ve been the quiet guy that sits in the corner while the girl he brought gets gamed by an outgoing guy without being able to do anything about it.

There’s not a day that passes that I’m not glad I made the decision to improve myself, after a lot of work I’ve now been the guy on the other side of the window that steals the other person’s girl while he watches helpless. That’s why when I meet a student that’s just starting out, I know what he has to go through, and it’s soo much, there’s soo much trial and error involved, that I’m glad to point out principles they need to be aware of so they can take their game light years ahead that if he was by himself.

Looking back, I was in the community for almost three years, just me in Guatemala, the only person that knew about the “pickup scene” in my country back in the day. Trust me, I tried finding them and there was nobody. All I had was a forum to read everyday and advice that sounded like it would work from guys that sounded like they knew what they were doing.

I never stopped though, looking back at my game I probably sucked way more than I think, but I always had this feeling that somehow things were going to work out for me, that’s what kept me going.

I still have a long way to go, but it’s good to look around and see that you are at the level always wanted to be… where you have several girls that want you more than anybody else in the whole world, and that you have the choice if you wanted to stay with one of them or see them for a while.

What I’m saying I guess, is that if I’ve gotten to the point where sleeping with girls is not a problem, and you can actually be picky about the girls I want to see, then you can too, keep doing sets and you will see the results sooner than you think.

So that's it for me today... I leave you guys with some of my favorite quotes for the past few days…

“Bam bam bam, takada takada takada… Excuse me sir, did you just say that about my wife… I’m sorry sir, but I’m gonna have to break your leg” - Bas Rutten

“All you do is eat fruit and touch yourself… fuck you!” - Walk Hard (The Movie)

“Come oon, get on wid it
Do what?
Do what you came to do
Do what!?
IT!!!”

“He’s just good at life”
Braddock on his brother

“It’s cool, my dad owns this place”
Braddock, justifying how we jumped into the dj booth so we could game the two 10’s that were there. We were kicked out shortly from the booth unfortunately lol.

Good times.

Dahunter

New York

2007-12-21T17:19:00.000-08:00

Braddock and I are going to be in New York from the 29th of this month.

For those of you that don't know, Braddock and I designed a special type of training for students that already took a bootcamp and are at intermediate level. We basically figured out all the things that a medium level needs in order to explode his game to the next level.

Here's an email from our last student from our program:

Hey Dahunter,

What's up man. Things have been going great. I've number closed 3 times since then, and kissed closed.

Even better, I picked up a girl last friday, and had a day 2 last thursday and closed the deal. Your kiss/stop, kiss/stop rutine worked super well. Each time I went further, and first time, the girl was fighting to push me further.

The sticking point I have now is that I'm too aggressive. It's amazing how far you can push it, but for the first time I'm going too far. Especially with Social circle game. Still learning how to read girls, get right to their comfort, and then start to push them. I need more practice, but look forward to talking to you in the future for more calibration.

I wrote to Jeremy telling him you guys did an awesome job. It's definetly worth it. Thanks again man, things are going great.

-[name edited for privacy]

We basically take up to 3 guys for two days, you get 10 hours of theory and two nights out.

Dec 29 and Dec 30

If you're interested, email me at dahunter@themysterymethod.com

Here's a link to a review of our program on the forums

Cheers,
Dahunter

San Francisco, Getting Good and My Current Situation

2007-12-18T10:29:00.000-08:00

So San Francisco was quite a trip. It was prolly the most catastrophic one I've ever had.

We got there a day earlier than the bootcamp and disaster is an understatement. In the three nights I was there:

- I pulled a girl into the fire exit of a club, pulled her pants down and mine but she wouldn't let me fuck, I got annoyed and left.
- I pulled a big tittied asian into my hotel, she was super analytical and wouldn't fuck.
- Me and Helicase kicked the above asian out of our room. She later turned into a stalker who called me an texted me like 10 times the next day.
- A gay guy came up to me trying to have sex.
- I got mobbed by 3 homeless looking girls that were pissed off because... well I don't know what the fuck but they knocked my food down and it was pretty bad. I wasn't going to hit a girl so I just ended up pretty disturbed.

A few cool things were hanging out with Helicase, he's one of the smartest people I know and I consider him like my brother. Also hanging out with The Don is always a great time. He's one of the coolest guys I know and he's the person I go to for advice because he's been through all kinds of shit, and he always has money advice and perspectives.

The Bootcamp went great, we worked with the guys and Helicase and I were discussing how there were a couple of guys who had massive potential to be good really fast. I always believe anyone can get really good really fast, it's just a matter of doing the things that we teach. The key thing is to make a distinction between

1. Knowing the theory
2. Applying the theory

Knowing the theory is like 20% of the battle. Yeah you know the distinctions, you can see the patterns if you watch someone else, but knowing is still not nearly good enough.

What will really make a difference in your life is applying the theory. You have to condition your nervous system to implement the theory, and that is not an easy thing to do. I believe to get good at implementing you need two things:

1. Go out and do lots of sets.
2. Go back home and visualize yourself doing that same set again but doing things that are high value so you apply them in your next set.

If you follow that process, applying the theory, there is no way you wouldn't get good, no matter where you start from.

However, life is not always perfect, game just makes your life much better but like anything else it's filled with up's and down's. Some things you can't really avoid. Like this weekend was filled with all these crazy things and then I came home and even more random events happened.

Helicase's girl and my girl went to pick us up at the airport, we drove home. I had gotten my girl a camera in San Francisco since we had broke hers while we were having sex the other day (don't ask), and I gave it to her that night and everything was great.

The next day we wake up, everything is great, we have sex, she cooked breakfast for me all good. I get in the shower, come out, and she is GONE. I look over, and my phone isn't in it's charger anymore, I'm like FUCK!

Turns out she went through my phone, and I've been doing breakthrough comfort with the girl from the post "LR: Welcome to Pasadena" so that was the first message she found. It talked about things being more than just sex and stuff like that.

My girl just wrote a note saying:

"I knew I shouldn't have gone through your phone, but I did. I knew you were fucking other girls but not that you were acting as a boyfriend to one of them.

I still love you but I can't handle this. Keep the camera. Good luck with [LA Girl]."
[her name]

God it sucked. Now it's just me being single again, which I do look forward to. Me and my roommate went out yesterday and I'm implementing the official cockblock strategy girls use:

If my wing sees me talking to any girl that is less than a 9.5, he can let me make out with her, but he has to pull me away if I try to take things further. The reason for this is that when I get drunk I become easy as sunday morning, so to avoid ending up with an 8 I have to implement this strategy.

Any girl that I wouldn't see myself dating for 6 months without getting bored of her I just won't hook up with her. This is because of my tendency to do breakthrough comfort on every girl that I have sex with more than once, and to prevent me to get in relationships that where I am not 100% fulfilled.

That is all for today. Thanks for listening.

Dahunter

Crazy Bitch

2007-12-12T06:48:00.000-08:00

So I went out by myself the other day. Thing that I hadn't done in a long time. The thing I absolutely love about going out by myself is that the entire night just takes me to the most random places since I have no attachments to any single place or people, it's going with the flow on it's purest form.

So it was like 11, when I get the urge, I'm gonna do it, I'm gonna go out by myself. So I'm like fuck it, it's a tuesday, it's late, it's cold out there, I have no idea where to go on a tuesday, but I'm just gonna do it, see what happens.

I grab a cab and I head out to the first place I thought would be good, we get there it's closed haha. I tell the cab to go to the next one, it's fucking closed too. Luckily there's a good bar right on front of it that's open. It's empty as a motherfucker. I count the people there are 10 customers there plus the staff.

Luckilly my bartender was cute, I start chatting her up, tell her how my watch got stolen in LA and how that sucks, and how I had saved up for like 4 months to get it when I was 19 just to end up losing it in some random hotel in LA. We talk for a bit, then she goes to talk to her friends on the other side of the counter.

So I call her and tell her to keep me company cause otherwise I get bored.. she buys me a shot.. and her friend comes over as well. I befriend the friend as well and we start shooting the shit. At this point I'm fully coherent and sober.

She dissapears for a second, and she comes out of the bar with a jacket. I'm like, where are you going? She tells me that she's going to this other bar to "promote" and bring people over. I'm like... let's do it!

So we hop in a cab with her and her friend and we go to this bar. We hang out there for a while, they know the bartender there so we're getting 3 dollar drinks. It's a pretty chill place and I keep talking to everyone that I see, just building up my value in the room.

After a while of meeting people there I bounced again with the bartenders from the first place, and we went to this place that was really empty (this was a tuesday night).

So these girls have lots of orbiters and I just want them as friends since they're good people to know, so I wonder off and I see these two really hot girls talking to themselves. I approach them with the "are you having fun?" opener, and the set blows up.

We start talking, and it's a tuesday night, there are only a few good bars that night, so we start talking about this other place, and in about 20 minutes I suggest that we go check it out. So I go back to my "new" friends that I came there with, say goodbye and me and these two girls just bounce.

So we get to this other place and it's pretty on with my target. We start drinking, I start telling this girl how I'm gonna take her home and how I'm gonna do all this fucked up shit to her, she's loving it.

We keep ordering drinks, at this point we're getting all fucked up. She claims to have started drinking since 4 pm. I am getting really fucked up.

I ask her friend if it's cool that I take her home, because I don't want her to be left by herself, and it's a go.

So I decide to order more shots, which I would later find out would turn out to be a really bad call. I get three shots, but the obstacle is doing a shot with another guy, so I make my target drink two shots, plus the drink we had. This takes her into ultra fucked up mode. We were about to grab our coats to go home, and she starts throwing the worst drunken tantrum I've ever seen:

Her: "ugghghghg ghg hmhhhhhh"
DH: (Thinking oh shit I'm not getting laid tonight anymore)
HER: "(almost vomit sounds)"

And there you have it. I lost a really hot lay with super tits for getting her too fucked up. Lesson learned: If a big tittied blonde has been drinking since 4 pm and wants to go home and fuck at 3 am, just take her home and fuck her, don't feed her more alcohol.

Peace
Dahunter

LR: Welcome to Pasadena

2007-12-03T22:45:00.000-08:00

So once again California has done good. This past week was awesome. Braddock and I worked on our 2 day program for so long it was amazing to finally execute it and see how it can change someone’s life.

After our 2 day program, we had more teaching to do. We were helping out The Don and the student-instructor ratio was really good. I worked with students throughout the night, making observations about their sticking points, opening sets with them and winging so I would get rid of the ugly girls in their sets so the road was clear with the cute one.

After we were almost done, we were at this bar which The Magic Man suggested, and like an hour before closing time, I just found my set. She was totally my type, blonde, petite, had a side lip piercing.

I accused her of trying to sleep with me, I told her how I needed comfort and connection first and that I wasn’t just a piece of meat (which is one of the many lines I’ve gotten from Braddock) , I teased her with other role-plays, and before we knew it we were in qualification.

I screen girls really hard nowadays. A part of me is just like “I don’t really give a shit, I just want to fuck her”, but it always works in my advantage when I screen them. It just frames girls exactly how I want them to behave and subcomunicates that I’m a high status guy.

She was enjoying herself and so was I, and I decided to pull the big gun question game on her. I love how I have it mapped out so it just builds momentum in the set and creates really strong emotions just by using associations with other important things in her life. I think playing this game really hit it home and she was ready to bounce after this.

The problem, was that the logistics were pretty bad. We were both about 40 minutes from her place and my hotel, and neither of us had our own car. Her friend was driving her and taking a cab (or even finding one) in LA is outrageous. Her friend was legitimately having a lot of drama with two guys in the bar so that didn’t help.

So we made plans for the next day. We met up in the afternoon but I knew I had to rush it since I had students to help in The Don’s bootcamp, so I ran my version of Day 2, but on crack. We went to have a drink at one bar, ran super tight comfort game so I could see her next time I’m in LA, had a couple of drinks, then went to another bar and then strategically planned it out with Braddock so I could close her without it making it look suspicious that he left the room (since we were sharing a room).
I went to the room, Braddock very smoothly got me and her drinking a couple of shots, and then he went on his way. I normally would have taken about 6 hours to go through all of the day 2, but I was on a deadline so I did it in 3.

I finally pushed the escalation, I carried her and fucked her against the door. She was so petite and flexible, it was awesome. I did some tests that I was discussing with MR M and I don’t know if it was related but then she texted me that night that she was developing feelings for me.

I learned from The Don that I should have several girls in several cities so I have my own harem, thing which didn’t occur to me until then.

Good times.
Dahunter
(Pic on the lounge)

Los Angeles

2007-11-29T10:36:00.001-08:00

I'm in LA right now working with Braddock and later we'll be helping The Don in his Bootcamp this weekend.

I love LA. The girls are so hot, I'm like a kid on a candy store.

We went out to this really good place yesterday, they were filming a reality show, I didn't really know what show it was until I started gaming one of the girls there. She was super cute, and it was going pretty well.

Then they actually started filming our interaction. It's so funny doing a set under the spotlight.

Turns out it was The Real World.

The set was doing so well but as I found out later, she had a boyfriend, which she didn't mention until I actually met him there (He was part of the cast).

So they have some of my game on tape and I signed a paper to let them put me on tv.

Funny occurrance, I don't think the interaction they filmed was enough to put on tv since they started to film when I was already in comfort with her, but it would be pretty funny if they did.

That's LA I guess.

Dahunter

LR: Oh yeah, that's right I kick ass

2007-11-16T06:07:00.000-08:00

So I have to say, the Big apple not only has opened her arms to welcome me to her city, but she also threw a really cute girl so I could fuck her on the staircase of a club.

So let's back up.

A couple of weeks ago, I get the call. Kinda like when they turn the light on for Batman in Gotham city because somebody is in distress, I get the call because there's a guy out there needs his game to be fixed. This time the call is coming from New York.

I flew in yesterday. I didn't know what to expect from New York. My first time ever here. My life has been so intense lately that waking up at 4 AM to get to the airport and catch a flight seems like it's just a part of the train of activities that are characteristic of my life.

Get here, no break. Arrive, go eat, go meetup with my student. He's a cool guy, he's got a really good personality and natural charm, great guy to work with so I'm glad he looked me up and requested me for a 1 on 1.

We go over theory specifically tailored for his game, we create a solid game plan. We spend several hours go through all the details that are needed in order to have super tight game. We also fix some of his stories and rigged them with DHV's that match his identity instead of just random stories. We do that for a few hours, and we're ready to hit the town.

We go out to our first bar, I do my first set there, my student is not feeling this place, and neither am I, much older crowd and the ratio is not that good.

We bounce, go to another area of town and I do this set as a demo and it hits really well. She's from London, I ask her about my good friends Sherrif and Mr M, last girl I met from London did know them but this one didn't unfortunately because they're a DHV to know in London. She's in NYC for a quick trip just like I am, arrive thursday, leave saturday. I do all the steps I usually run to fuck her at hyper speed, and she's loving it.

But I tell her I have to go and I focus on pushing my student into sets. The first two sets were rough, the third set get much easier and he's getting lots of kino. We improve on his kino escalation and how to set the leadership frame stronger.

We are ready to bounce and the London set is attaching to us. We all bounce together in what would end up being the club/seduction location for me and one of the girls.

My student (I hate calling him "my student" btw I wish I could just put his name here) is getting pumped and is gaming the bartender and one of the two London girls we brought. He then starts to make out with his London target. I'm happy since he's gone from doing just a few sets in this year to doing a jealousy plotline between a Bartender and a cute girl from London and making out with one of them.

So while I'm watching this, I'm also telling my girl how I'm gonna fuck her, I put myself behind her and tell her to spread her legs, and tell her to imagine us in this position but being horizontaly and how this is exactly how I'm going to fuck her in the first chance I have.

I do this for a while, we're flirting and the sexual tension is on. I tell her to bend over that I'm just going to fuck her right here, although I wasn't serious, somehow the bathroom comes up. We go upstairs to find it, but it's a no go, we try one fire exit, but we were interrupted by a waiter coming through, bad place. We make it to the end of the hall, and we get to the fire exit. There are still people coming and going in the fire stairs, damn.

Finally the gods of promiscuity are on our side, and as we go to the very bottom floor, that door is locked and nobody is coming through. I unscrew the light bulb to make it a bit more dark and romantic, I put on a condom, tell her to bend over and start fucking her as she's holding on to the rails. Victory!

But the best part was when I was about to come, she starts to spaz out with a massive orgasm and I can feel her squirting on my thigh. Pretty intense shit.

We go back and I know, deep inside, that I've made it here, so I can make it anywhere. New York is cool.

After that we actually went at our fire escalator later and she gave me a blowjob and I made her squirt with the technique that Mr M shared with me (dude! I finally made it work!), and through this my student was in full escalation with his London girl.

I feel like we made a lot of progress and I was able to see a lot of his sticking points, because he would have pulled his girl if he had set the leadership frame a little bit stronger. Girls always like a guy that has a strong dominant frame and is certain about what he wants. But that's what we're covering today in our 1 on 1.

So there it is, total days in New York = 1. Lays in New York = 1.

Dahunter
ps. Pic uploaded in the lounge

Monday Night

2007-10-31T07:38:00.001-07:00

So I get home. I jump in the shower. I'm getting ready because I'm going out with my girlfriend. I'm still thinking of places to take her since this is kind of a last minute thing.

I get out of the shower and she's here. She knocks on the door. My roommate answers and lets her in. She comes into my room, I'm still in a towel. She's shaking.

She tells me somebody was following her and starts crying. She's falling apart. I ask her who was following her and in the back of my mind start to think of getting dressed and finding the fucker.

But she tells me it's the police that's been following her. She just came back from San Francisco and she tells me she did something wrong there. She starts to cry even more.

I grab her and tell her it's going to be ok. This is unexpected and it's happening so fast.

But then, she takes her coat off, and she's wearing only victoria secret lingerie, kinda dressed as a stripper cop. She starts to smile and she wispers "surprise!".

She happened to have a set of handcuffs with her. To which I handcuff her to the chair, and you know the rest.

Good stuff.

The 4th Attraction Switch

2007-10-23T19:07:00.000-07:00

This is MAJOR. It's so basic and in everyone's faces, but surprisingly enough most guys in the community don't get this or even work at this.

This distinction becomes more and more important the hotter the girl gets.

Mystery intuitively knows this but as a surprise he never really taught it as an attraction switch. He refers to it as "celeb game". It's also the same reason he really wanted to be famous. Because it was a huge attraction switch.

What I'm talking about is social status.

We have three "main attraction" switches that we teach.

- Pre selected by women
- Leader of men
- Protector of loved ones

And there's a fourth switch that's sometimes taught as a "secondary switch" and that's having the ability to emote women.

I've been noticing that there's a switch that overrides some of these switches in importance. For example, a guy that might have the ability to protect a woman, will not be as attractive to most women as a guy that offers her status just for being aligned with him.

Men base their success on accomplishments. Women base their successes on their relationships. The better the guy she's with, the more successful she is. How is that rated?

Social Status.

Without social status, 5 years from now you're that guy she slept with one night at a bar (or whatever). With social status you're one of those incredible moments she had in her life, that she can brag about.

Although being famous is the ultimate form of social status, I'm not talking about being famous.

Social status is also the ultimate form of frame control. Whether or not people accept it, there's always that thing on the back of people's mind when they're dealing with a person of higher status that tells them "this person is better than you". Whether they are or not, it's a frame that's already working in the advantage of the person with social status.

Super hot girls also are considerably more drawn to this than the rest. In my experience, since they have so many options, they mostly will actually pay attention to people with status. If you don't have status then you are seriously stacking the odds against you. This is why the barrier of going from 8's to 10's is one of the hardest to cross if you're trying to "do pickup" on 10's.

If on the other hand, you build status, getting 10's becomes like picking up 6's, it's easy as shit. That's why nobody's goal should really be "the world's best pua". In my book it's too inconsistent and a you'll wind up with less quality and more quantity.

Any well known guitarist can date hotter girls than the guy with the best "game".

Build status first, like a well known local dj for example, and then picking up high quality girls becomes a thing you have access to consistently, since that's something 10's really really feel attracted to. Hence Social Status: The New Major Attraction Switch.

Along with my new text message structure (which I will be writing very soon), in case you can't tell, this is freaking genius.

More groundbreaking things coming soon.

dahunter
"smarter than the rest, better than the best"

Important News

2007-10-03T13:35:00.000-07:00

So I've been doing some more reading on ways to build a powerful social circle and I've started reading the tipping point and other books (Thanks to Il Duce for the suggestion).

Among other things that have happened. Helicase (previously known as Pericles and Bandrew!) has started his own blog, he's really intelligent and can talk about any topic from stock investments to biology to the real way to superman a bitch (which is when a girl stayed over, but didn't put out, so in return you proceed to service yourself, rub your generations on her shoulders, and proceed to glue the sheets to her shoulders to form a cape, she's now been supermanned), his game is also getting insanely good, and we'll be helping The Don with the Chicago Bootcampt that's coming shortly and he's helping me out at a one on one this saturday. His new blog is here.

Also I haven't yet posted Braddock's blog on the blog list so I'll be adding that, but much more importantly we have a very important announcement to make.

Braddock is coming to Chicago next week from the 9th till the 14th. We have time to train people together on a 1 on 1 format, so to help guys that need to improve their game, we will be taking students for intense personalized training. If you are interested in making massive improvements in your game in just a few days, MAKE SURE YOU CONTACT US.

This is Braddock, the guy who get's insane reviews about how he changes students lives everytime he does a 1 on 1, you can read the latest review here: Braddock Latest Review. Of course you would also be getting me, which with the newest additions to my game I believe students can change their life around REALLY fast, all you have to do is follow exactly the process we teach you. My new model of teaching is reviewed here.

We also might have Helicase (previously known as Bandrew!) make a surprise appearance, who again, has ridiculously good game.

In other words, we're making this as sweet of a deal as possible for people to sign up. If you were considering taking a 1 on 1, I would suggest going for this one, you get two instructors, a much lower price than if you did a 1 on 1 separately, and you'll be in one of the cities with the best ONS logistics in the world.

If you are interested, just call Jeremy at 800.680.0821 or email him at jeremy@themysterymethod.com, remember, this is next week so you have to move fast if you wanna take advantage of this. If you have any specific questions and you want to talk to me, you can contact me anytime at dahunter@themsyterymethod.com.

Cheers,
Dahunter

The Definitive Guide To Social Circle Game

2007-09-29T19:50:00.000-07:00

I’m in LA right now, yet again, the time is 530 am and I can’t stop thinking right now, my mind is racing with so much information that is going through my head. This has been the most valuable information I’ve received since I took the Breakthrough comfort seminar with Sinn and Future back in Chicago.

This time however, the information was given to me by a dude that came completely under the radar after the first impression. So I walk into the seminar room, and I see Sheriff who I already knew and I see this short Asian dude who does not look like a TMM instructor at all (again, this is first impression), this dude is known as Mr. M.

I’ve been going through a lot of changes lately, I’ve been listening to Dale Carnegies “How To Win Friends And Influence Other People” because I’ve really felt the need to make more genuine connections with people in a non pickup scenario and how to really make more friends everywhere I go. This also comes from observing guys like Braddock and Bandrew (who’s new alias is now Pericles and will be helping out at the Chicago Bootcamp) who have an extraordinary ability to vibe with everyone from the old lady crossing the street to the neighbor’s dog.

My skills of pickup are amazing, but my skills when dealing with other people were being just “objective based”. What I mean by this is that I wasn’t really enjoying the process of vibing with people, I just saw these interactions as something I have to get out of the way but never as something that can be hugely beneficial to impact my life.

So I started changing the basic concepts of my everyday interactions. The first change was to actually be interested in other people (and by this I mean other people that aren’t the girls I’m trying to sleep with). I really want to understand other individuals so I can see them as they see themselves and I can learn from them by seeing what their strongest points are and modeling them, and also by being genuinely interested in someone you really can develop a solid friendship with them.

I did this because I want to be surrounded by cool people, and cool people tend to stay around you if you first offer some sort of value to their lives. Just as importantly cool people stay around you if you clearly see them as they see themselves and take the time to understand them instead of you trying to impose your ego on them trying to make everyone see how cool you are.

People are usually more invested in their own interests than whatever you are interested in, so if you focus on them, not only will people find it easier to relate to you, but you can also usually learn a thing or two from them.

This is what led me to being curious about Mr. M’s skills. Without these principles I would have just heard him talk about their promotion company in the UK and I would have dismissed it by trying to tell them how cool the nightlife in Chicago is and how awesome my game is, but instead I became curious about this and I decided to find out more. Turns out Mr. M and Sherriff are both using some very powerful principles on both their company and the way they run their social circle game.

First, let me try to explain what they are doing. They don’t run a simple club promotion company in the UK, what they basically do is they get paid to bring lots of girls to the clubs, and the girls in return get VIP treatment and free alcohol, so it involves a lot of work but it gives them huge status in these clubs as they usually roll in numbers of 40 girls and only a handful of guys, which have to be cool guys.

Because of this they automatically develop a reputation and they become like HB10’s in the clubs they go to, they have girls wanting them just because of who they are so they can skip attraction since they get it off the bat. I imagine it’s very similar to the effect I get whenever I throw a party at my apt, getting laid is so easy it’s just all about picking who your sleeping with since somebody’s gonna get fucked.

However, in order to build this company, a good social circle game was required, and after lots of conversations here with him, I’ve been able to get this information from Mr M so I know how he runs his social circle game.

- First of all, there’s a very important term he uses that I’ve never heard anyone else use. He calls certain people a “connector”. A connector as he describes it, is a person that always has lots of people with them, and has the ability to introduce you to many other people, that person is not a social “dead end” sort of speak. This is the person that you invite to a party, and you know he or she is going to show up to your party and also bring a bunch of their people so you can network with them as well.

- Any given person will have around 40 acquaintances and friends, and of those 40 people, depending on the free amount of time that person has, will have around 6-8 “main friends” that are his core social group. Out of these 6-8 main friends, since you are always going to have 6-8 of them if one of them comes into your “main friends” circle, you will naturally tend to replace them with an old friend in this circle.

- The key to build up your social circle is to make all of your 6-8 main friends connectors, he says that he is pretty brutal about this, if anyone is not a connector, then he simply does not have time to make him or her a critical part of his life.

- There’s lots of people there who aren’t positive people, one of the big points he looks for in people is that they have a positive outlook in life. Just as important is the direction you are going. You will naturally tend to gravitate to people that are going in the same direction as you, I look at this and look at my friends, and it seems that we want the same thing: To make lots of money and fuck hot girls. You will naturally feel in place if your friends want the same things as you do so it’s important to screen for direction so there’s a feel of “progression” that is more powerful if you and all of your friends are doing it.

- The key to whatever you are doing and adding social value is involving other people in your activities. If you come to a friends party, then you make sure you have several of your other cool friends with you. It’s very key that you are perceived as always having things to do so people are calling you all the time, a good strategy he mentions is grabbing a club promoter and becoming really good friends with him/her, and inviting people to their events. You’re adding value to the promoter by bringing people to his events and you also add value to your friends by showing them where the party is at.

- The way Mr M sees it, there is a big difference in types of clubs, there are “value clubs” and there are “meat markets”. High value clubs are usually where the 10’s hang out, and as I see it are the places pickup artists hate. The difference is that in the community there needs to be a switch of focus of “meat market” gratification, to social value building structures so we can all get laid with the hottest girls much easier. A place where a master PUA needs to be is at the top social circles in their cities.

- There’s a general attitude that you have to have which is that you can meet a connector at anytime, and you can be friends with anyone. Mr M just sarged a playboy model. Probably the most painful lesson I have ever learned as I was going to open that set and I pushed Mr M to do it instead, and it turns out to be a super intelligent and cool playboy model with the hookup for the playboy mansion. I am never the one to be jealous but in this case I was like FUCK.

I am glad he did it though as his “value display” game is really tight so when we were at her hotel room I picked up a few KEY details about how to deal with girls DHVing the shit out of themselves like how they hang out with Jay Z and shit. My point is though, a simple minded community guy would think about just fucking her, but the real art is turning her into a connector, so the attitude he has is like “I don’t just want to fuck her, I want to introduce you to her so whenever you’re here in LA you can get into the playboy mansion and hang out with her friends”. That pretty much sums up a very big shift in game, where instead of going for the quick fix, you go for the huge long term benefit of having high value people as your friends.

LA is awesome btw.

I’m giving this to Mr M to read in case he wants to add something to my article:

Hi guys

I’m sitting in a hotel room that I’m sharing with Dahunter while I’m leading a bootcamp in LA. I’m consummately impressed by Dahunters game – he is one of the best I’ve seen in terms of both theory and execution.

LA has been amazing and the bootcamp - phenomenal. Through a lot of work, the students are making incredible leaps and bounds. One student hadn’t kiss closed a girl in 2 years. He has now achieved 3 make outs in 2 days. We’ve changed his life completely. THAT is the shit that makes this worthwhile to me. THAT is why I’m passionate about it.

Dahunter wanted me to briefly talk about my social circle game.

In my view, the highest levels of game are improvements to ones life – or living a seductive lifestyle. The process is roughly: (1) You improve your ability with women, (2) you improve your life as a whole which enhances your ability with women. (1) and (2) should happen simultaneously. A big part of achieving (2) is having a solid social circle. Don’t get me wrong – I love cold approach (as Dahunter said, I picked up a big name playboy playmate yesterday through a cold street approach), but the real money – the way I’ve consistently had the highest quality girls as part of my life, and more importantly, made overall improvements to my life, is through improving my social circle.

I run a form of social circle game on steroids.

There are different types of people in your life, but in generally there are ‘leechers’ and ‘connectors’. A lecher is someone who adds no value to your life and generally brings you down – usually through things like negativity, inability to progress, disinterest in evolving as a person etc. A ‘connector’ is someone who brings value into your life. The connector brings DHVs into your life. One of my connectors is an actor who is well connected in certain acting social circles – I go to see his shows regularly with other friends (and other connectors). Another is an incredible (and soon to be famous) magician who is integrated in London’s ‘Magic Circle’. They both add value to my life. They are DHVs – but not ones I have to fake.

The second (and equivalently crucial) point about connectors is that these guys are fun, interesting and positive people that bring value and forward momentum to your life. They have their own interests, but are motivated together in the common goal to improve their lives or achieve a specific goal which aligns them well with you. Hanging around these people motivates me to excel – in pick up - but more importantly as a person. It has a similar effect to having a ‘mastermind’ group that Napoleon Hill talks about in his book Think and Grow Rich.

You have room in your life for probably 8 core friends in your life. The objective should be to make them all connectors.

You invest time into developing relationships with connectors. You get along with these people (‘vibe’ as Dahunter says). They bring value to your life and you also offer some sort of value to theirs. The objective should be for you to put your connectors together and be the center of a wider network of social circles. Being in the centre opens opportunities and connections that were previously not available to you. In particular, I put the magician in touch with the actor (they are now doing a joint DVD), the promoter in touch with the TV guy (their contacts have mutual benefits to one another).

The central point is this: BRING VALUE TO PEOPLES LIVES AND THEY WILL BRING VALUE TO YOURS. If your group of 8 core friends don’t, then maybe you should seriously assess if whatever is keeping you’re time resources in the relationship is worth the opportunity cost – i.e. should you get new friends if your old friends are bringing you down? This is a tough decision and a controversial one. But often necessary if you want to develop as a person.

There is a lot more to this. I cover it all on bootcamp and Dahunter has summarized it in his post above. But the central points are to (a) have people who bring value your life (b) bring value to their lives (c) be a connector yourself and (d) help each other in accomplishing goals through the journey of life.

OK, that’s enough from me for now. I hope this has been useful to readers.

I am now going to go on a day 2 with the playboy playmate I picked up yesterday. And tonight… I get another shot at improving the lives of the 6 students in my bootcamps.

Game is good. Life is better.

Mr M

New Place Part 2

2007-09-25T06:51:00.000-07:00

So it's been a crazy last few days. Most of my weekend was spent at the ikea whorehouse/casino. If I had to describe Ikea the best bet would be:

1. either a hardass pimp who "breaks" (that's a pimp term for takes all the money) all of his ho's the moment they walk into his presence or

2. a casino that pumps oxigen into everyone's lungs, doesn't have any clocks, has complex directions once inside so you run into one useless awesome offer after the other, and you don't even know if it's night or day outside.

Either way no matter who you are you walk out of there with 25% less of your bank account that the moment when you walked in. We know this because we went there two days in a row, and we experienced the same phenomenom both days. I now have a chair that hangs from the ceiling and you can swing from it. It comes with an inflatable bottom, among many other fantastic things.

The trip was made by my new roommate who goes by kmon, bandrew who is getting extremely good at gaming, and my girl and I. It went from getting lost by like 20 miles because of a navigational mistake, to being offered computers by some gang guys that pulled over next to us at a stop light, only to be defused by bandrew's quick trigger of a mouth and flipping the script on them so they were cracking up in return instead of trying to sell us some shady computers.

Another events of the weekend also include bandrew getting laid, me getting sick from eating cake at ikea and not being able to go out for the weekend(don't eat anything at ikea), kmon cooking some mean as meals at 1 am, driving all the way to ikea to end up getting the wrong couch, and assembling lots of shit.

Yesterday I also bought a 40 inch pc monitor/tv, but I'm seriously hesitating that purchase because it gave me a headache after using it for 20 minutes. The veredict is still not out on that, it looks cool as shit but I don't know how functional it's going to be.

I was having a rough last few days but yesterday turned out to be alright as I got a nice cashflow and got laid with a german girl that had clit and nipple piercings, which are awesome, and two tattoos. The gods listened to me because I was complaining not too long ago about not getting an alternative looking girl in a while.

I still have to assemble lots of stuff for my place but I'll try to post a pic once I get a chance.

New Place

2007-09-21T19:12:00.000-07:00

I'm at my new place right now, it's 9:13, I'm drinking with one of my two new roommates, sitting on the edge of the windows looking at the yachts over at the lake. I love the place, it's a bit further away from the nightlife than my old place, which was in the middle of all the bars, but the place is a lot nicer.

Plus my roommates are really cool, it should be a really good time.

It's 3:04 now, I was supposed to go out, took a shower, took a "quick nap" and totally slept through. I'm writing up some 3 am thoughts while this girl comes over (you didn't think I was gonna sleep by myself did you?):

- Chill the fuck out, guys that try to be alpha and outalpha anything end up surrounded by stupid people. If you don't let other people be themselves around you, then you're gonna scare cool people away and the ones that are going to stay are the ones that have no value and depend on you on some level. All the really cool naturals I've met always have the tendency to boost people's ego's and make them feel really good about themselves while being cool themselves.

- "Being a stripper is like a normal job nowadays, treat them like anyone else, like it's totally normal." - My miami cousin who fucks 10's like it's nothing.

- Miami people drive like shit.

- "Girls aren't some fragile emotional object, girls can deal with a lot of hardship so if one is making you uncomfortable make sure to let her know." - Savoy on relationships.

- Braddock and I are coming out with a new kind of training. He's flying over to chicago and we'll only train 4 people at a time. It's going to be aimed at advanced students, we've been preparing it for a while and you will hear more from us soon.

- If you don't know who Braddock is, check out his blog here.

- My gf does shit for me that makes her really hard to replace. She wakes up and cooks breakfast whenever she stays over, we role play that she's my personal assistant and she does shit for me like pick up a suit I bought and complain that they took too long so I get a free tie, she has a ridiculous high sex drive, swallows, does anal, and above all thinks I'm the shit, which is an absolute must to date me.

- Kino escalation is the most important step in pickup. Don't do it and you will not get laid.

Dahunter

Los Angeles

2007-09-09T17:29:00.000-07:00

So I'm heading back right now from La, making a stop in phoenix. It was quite a trip.

The bootcamp was great, I think everyone made great progress, and I really have started to notice how important it is to emphasize kino escalation with students since it never comes naturally to do when you do your first sets.

Bradock and I were rooming together and we both got laid yesterday. For the very first time I got laid with a girl who at no point do I remember knowing her name. I am not very trained in the art of plastic surgery and I thought they were real but I was pleasantly surprised when I found out she had delicious silicone enhanced breasts. She had a really good body and was a great lay. Bradock's girl was a petite asian that he showed me today in some pics.

Hanging out with Savoy is awesome. The guy has insane amounts of game and not only does he not care about opening the most AMOG filled hard sets but he's also hillarious when he comes into your sets, definetly an awesome bootcamp.

We also had a surprise appearance by BradP, who I have utmost respect now that I've met him and heard his perspectives on gaming. I'm also officially stealing his whatever song which seems like it would work wonders in set.

My flight is boarding so gotta go for now,

Peace

Quickie

2007-09-03T19:52:00.000-07:00

Quick update, my gf went out to the store to buy me cereal, milk and orange juice so I finally have some time to write up something.

A few things that are going on with me:

- I'm moving to a kick ass place with two roommates. It should be fun, we're at the 51rst floor with insane view right on the lake.

- I will be in LA helping out Savoy this week for his bootcamp, looking forward to it. I will be going to Miami shortly after that to see my dad and my sister who I haven't seen in over a year and a half so I'm looking forward to that as well.

- My old iphone came back to life today! I now have two iphones and I'm selling one of them so I can add that money to buy the coolest leather jacket I've ever seen in my life.

- I just bought a new suit yesterday to try out the style that the japanese guys in the documentary below use. Will report results soon.

- I haven't been able to get time for myself lately. I think I've slept by myself twice in the past week, and I need some time to get some work done.

- Life is so much more than just pickup. Get really good at it and then get a real life.

Cheers,
Dahunter

The Great Happiness Space: Tale of an Osaka Love Thief

2007-09-02T08:36:00.000-07:00

Great documentary about pickup and comfort game:

http://www.moviesfoundonline.com/great_happiness_space.htm

Enjoy,
dahunter

Repost This Wherever You Can

2007-08-25T09:26:00.000-07:00

Bandrew and I have finally solved the dillema of the always unexpected question:

"How do you guys know eachother?"

There is always somewhat of a problem when the both of you met through a community that teaches men how to pickup the very girls that are asking that question.

We have finally solved this issue with a standard response. The new standard answer is simple and highly effective:

"We both know Jack"

This is to be delivered in a normal, sort of dismissive way in order to continue the conversation on to another topic.

If the question "Who is Jack" should come up (which rarely ever does if you say the previous statement in an aloof manner) then Jack should always be:

"Our friend who's a promoter".

This solves the problem of not having talked about what you were going to say when you got that question.

It's more than just an answer to a question as well, this is so good it's the secret password to know if you or anyone else is in the community.

"Does he know Jack?"

You can ask that question about any fellow members of your group and the member of the community who does know Jack can inform you in a way that is completely acceptable as normal conversation.

Background: The real origin of this, is that Jack is the (now retired) founder of the Chicago board and it means that if you know him you're part of the "secret area" of the board that is only unlocked for members that have met him personally.

This has now grown beyond it's origins and I suspect will keep on growing as it's the definitive solution to the sometimes uncomfortable topic.

Peace,
Dahunter

Deconstructing Attraction

2007-08-24T09:59:00.000-07:00

I already had posted this article before but I added a lot of stuff to it, this was the same article that was recently published on the TMM OAP tittled Dahunter's Attraction Secrets, so I'm reposting it here as it has a lot of very useful things most guys need to do since this is a very critical part of the interaction you have to get down in order to get good at the others.
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This is a question I got from a bootcamp student and with his permission I'm reposting it here because it's a really good question and I'm sure it can help a lot of guys to get more solid attraction.

Dahunter,

It's XX from the recent LA bootcamp (you know, the guy who ppl kept opening because they thought I was my brother who's on tv). So I've been practicing like crazy ever since the bootcamp, and I'm really beginning to develop my own style. I remember from the bootcamp that you were especially skilled at immediately transitioning from an opener to banter/qualifying. Like within the first 5 seconds you were already qualifying with them, I was impressed.

I was hoping that you could give me your basic structure of the first few minutes of a pickup. Maybe give me an example of your favorite opener, then the girl's response, then some immediately bantering/qualifying lines that follow naturally, then the few routines you go quickly into, and the banter lines that easily follow. Like I remember you used strawberry fields, so maybe you could give me the easy banter lines to use that naturally follow from a girl's response to the routine.

Thanks a lot Dahunter, this will help me out a ton. Look forward to hearing from you,

XX

The best way to transition, in my experience, is a cold read. [Transitioning is explained in Chapter 6 of Magic Bullets – this is one of the free chapters available on the Magic Bullets Page and I definitely suggest you go there]. Others use different transitions [there are four different types], and I do occasionally, but as a standard I will do a cold read. Usually something lighthearted and funny and it’s basically just telling them my first impression of them or running the best friends test.

The thing that I do that I consciously worked on is that I talk down to her in a playful way in the beginning. The thing is these things that I say come out of nowhere. I don’t have a logical reason to bust out with something like: “are you giving me shit?” It absolutely makes no sense, yet I say it in a loud way, with 100% congruence and in a very assertive way so that there’s no ounce of doubt in my mind that it will work, and THAT IS THE KEY.

It’s not so much about practicing the lines as it is practicing the delivery. What I would suggest would be to grab one common theme for teasing like the “are you giving me shit?” and practice it until you have it polished.

Other lines I use in combination of “are you giving me shit?” are:

- I’ll kick your ass
- Are you kidding me? You’ll be on the ground in 30 seconds
- I eat girls like you for breakfast - Be silent little girl
- Go sit on the corner and I’ll bring you a bucket of crayons.
- Yeah you’re like the karate kid on crack

What you can do is commit to learning all of these. I know that they work. So you can practice your delivery using them knowing that the material is good, and then once you have the delivery down (and are getting good results) then you can swap out your own transitions. So this is how a lot of my interactions start:
- opener
-“hmmm you guys are funny” (with a conspicuous look on my face), “this is my first impression of you guys”:

“You seem like you’re the mother of the group, you’re probably the one that takes care of all of them”
“You seem like you’re the shit starter, you’re probably the champion at any drinking game between you guys”
“And you, you’re like the quiet one”

She will probably say something like: I’m not the quiet one! You can respond with more teasing, something like:

-Oh, now she talks, are you giving me shit? (you’re challenging like saying “are you a tough girl?)
- What? Are you trying to start a fight with me?
- I’ll take you down little girl
- Go sit at the corner I’ll bring you a bucket of crayons
- Listen don't start shit with me, I eat girls like you for breakfast
- Let me see your arm... OMG you're like the karate kid, but on crack

You should notice, by the way, that we’ve moved from Transitioning to Attraction.
At this point I would either assess the situation to see if I need more attraction or if she starts asking me questions. Usually you don’t need that much, or sometimes I’ll ask a question like “so who are you anyways?” because they'll usually ask "who are you!?"

What I want to do is bait her so she keeps asking me questions. To do this I use lots of canned open loops. It’s always around the same topics. Like for example, right now I’m in Atlanta so I will say “I love Atlanta, every time I’m here I have such a good time”, so the automatic question this provokes is “where are you from?”

So I will say “I wasn’t born there, but I live in Chicago”. This will then bait her to ask, so where were you born?

When she is asking me questions that I’ve set her up to ask (and have heard before), my response all include DHVs (demonstrations of higher value – things that will increase her attraction to me). This is why my attraction game is so tight.

Another thing that’s really important is body language. After analyzing the way most students run their sets I have a list of things you ABSOLUTELY MUST AVOID when talking to woman:

Never open with a “full frontal opener”. This means that when you first go talk to a group of girls never have your entire body language facing at them. The correct way to open a set is to not face them directly and just open them through your shoulder. You will want to face them when the time is right, and this time is when you are doing your transition and you “noticed” something about them.
Never orbit a group before you open. Many guys will stand really close while they work up the courage to open it (hesitating in the meantime) and it completely weirds out the people you are talking to before you ever start. Competent approaches must look spontaneous as if “it just happened”. Why would you be nervous if it’s just small talk right?
Don’t “jolt” into the group. Some guys will stand next to the girl looking aloof and then will “jump” into the set which shocks girls just as you open them. Relax, take your time, don’t push it to hard and move slowly but deliberately.
Don’t take your approaches too seriously and go in with a super serious face. Relax, God gave us plenty of women and will keep making more so don’t act like you absolutely must have to get this one set right. Sometimes I will send students into sets with the only mission to blow themselves out just so they learn that it’s not the end of the world. Smile.
Never do an approach without locking in! This is crucial to your success. You must lock in in order to have higher value and be more comfortable than she is. Move the set around if you have to but always lock in. [Locking in is explained in the chapter on non-verbal communication in Magic Bullets]

One of the most common sticking points I’ve seen in students is having the girls move when they’re trying to lock in. My solution for this is I’ll say “wow look at your fingers” and I’ll grab them and measure them against eachother, and she’ll be super curious about what it means, so I’ll tell her to “come over here, I’ll tell you” and start explaining as I walk back and lock in and finish the explanation once I’m locked in.

The explanation is that if her index finger is longer than her ring finger than she has a lot of estrogen so she is really girly and if it’s the other way around she has lots of testosterone and is really aggressive.
Never do a set without kino escalation! If you don’t kino escalate you are not going anywhere! This is so important. The whole point of pickup is to escalate to the maximum physical intimacy possible (sex) so it’s your mission to do this and to do it gradually from the start. The conversation may be going great but if you don’t escalate YOUR SETS WILL NOT GO ANYWHERE.
Don’t stay in the same place for too long. You open the set, get attraction and when you see that she is ready, move somewhere else. Walking as little as a couple of steps away from where you originally opened can make the world of difference, as little distance you went together, you are now “together” so this creates a more intimate vibe to your pickup.

So in summary, avoid these important mistakes people make. Also remember that the key to make your attraction game tight is just to have a general theme that you do your banters in, like it can be “we’re going to fight”, it can be “I’m the popular one you’re the nerd”, it can also be “you’re so into me it’s obvious” and then throw in all these funny lines back and forth with the girl until she’s invested so much that she becomes attracted to you. Again, borrow the lines I gave you above and polish those until you have the delivery right and then you can come up with new ones.

Once she’s attracted she will start asking you question that you will predictably get over and over, so prepare all your pre canned responses to all those questions with open loops and DHV’s about yourself, and then mix it up with some playful future projections. Do that and before you know it you have a girl that is completely into you in like 10 minutes.

If you really wanna get good with this really fast, I do very detailed 1 on 1's about this subject.

Latest review is posted in here: http://wwv.themysterymethod.com/forum/showthread.php?t=45439

Dahunter