THE FREY'S

Are these yours?

2009-10-21T10:28:00.000-07:00

I found these shoes under our guest bed. We always have friends and family staying with us...so I had a list of about 20 different people they could belong too. My very good friend Kari Hoyt, claimed the super cute black wedge (if only she had left the other one, then I could have worn them a time or two before returning them to her! I'm a sucker for some sexy heels.) But the New Balance tennis shoes still have not been claimed! We have no clue who they belong too. And who knows how long they have been under there. (By the way, they are a size 12, Jeremy's perfect fit.) I guess its a sign that I need to check under that bed after our guests leave....we could score ourselves some really cool stuff!! Anyways, if these belong to you....let me know......otherwise Finders Keepers!!!

Maddie Mo

2009-10-20T09:08:00.001-07:00

Madison is sure growing up! And way too fast! 14 years old and a freshman at Yorba Linda High School. Karen sent us this picture of her....she gets more and more beautiful every day. I can't believe she was just 4 years old when I first met her. It is crazy how time flies! We love you little sis!!!

I'm in love!!!!

2009-10-18T21:07:00.000-07:00

NO.....we did not get another puppy.....but my sister did!!!!! This is little Wagner. Is he not the cutest thing ever????

Pics of J.J.!!!!

2009-10-16T10:47:00.001-07:00

(Thanks Auntie Kristen for posting these so we could all enjoy!)

John Jeremiah Shaeffer

2009-10-15T21:31:00.000-07:00

Little "J.J." was born this morning weighing in at just under 7 lbs. and 20 inches long. Congratulations to our wonderful friends Adam and Renee on their beautiful and healthy little boy! We are so happy for you both and can't wait to meet him!
(As soon as I get a pic of his sweet face I will post it!)

Updates in the Frey Household

2009-10-12T21:07:00.001-07:00

Jeremy is about to start his Home Makeover Project for 2009. It was such a success last year for the City of Indio and the JW Marriott, that they have chosen another family in need to help make their dreams come true. You can read about it here and here.
Jer is also taking night classes on top of his heavy work load! I'm so proud of him! He inspires me everyday!

I am busy studying for the California Department of Insurance Licensing Exam. I hope to take the test in the next month and finally have it done! It seems all so overwhelming, but I know once I go and take it, I will be happy to have it complete. Wish me luck! I've also been trying out some new recipes.....we had my famous Chicken in Wine Sauce and this tonight and it was delish!!
As for the dogs....Boomer and Brady are hilarious as usual. They are loving that the weather out here in the desert is cooling down and can play all day in the back yard. The cooler weather also means we get to go on long walks again which is great for all four of us. The boys are such sweet dogs but, still don't quite get the concept that they are not allowed on our new couch. We leave the family room for one second and this is what we come back to find:
Jeremy is still hoping for a decent season for his Raiders, (no trash talking here).

And I'm kissing these blonde locks good bye and going for this:

That's all folks!

CABO: Travis & Angela Rich

2009-10-12T20:38:00.000-07:00

We just returned about a week ago from my best friend's wedding in Cabo San Lucas. It was such a beautiful and emotional moment for everyone there. I don't think there was a dry eye in the house. A storm chose to hit the one and only day we prayed it wouldn't......but that could not stop this wedding from taking place. A change in location was put together by the wedding coordinater and we were on our way to send Angela down that aisle to say her "I Do's" to Travis. Congratulations to the newlyweds! We love you both soooo much!!! We are so honored to have been a part of your special day in paradise!

Happy Birthday to my hubby!

2009-07-16T21:31:00.000-07:00

Jeremy John......29 years old today. You are an incredible husband and I thank God every day for bringing us together. Thank you for always being so supportive, patient, making me laugh every day, being a fantastic daddy to our pups and most of all for being my best friend and soulmate. I love you more then words can say!

I'm searching...

2009-06-04T11:05:00.000-07:00

for a new camera. Does anyone have any suggestions? I want one that will take awesome pictures of the mountains, skies and sunsets behind my house......as well as crisp and clear photos of faces up close. Does something like that even exist? I'll take any advice................

Cabo.....here we come!!!

2009-06-03T10:52:00.000-07:00

(This again is another late post.) This past October, my best friend Angela Thoreson got engaged to the love of her life, Travis Rich. We are so happy for the both of them! Angela and I have been friends since we were toddlers. Our houses were across the street from each other in our neighborhood in Yorba Linda. We were convinced that we were somehow related because her brother and my Dad had the same birthday. Her parents anniversary and my birthday was the same as well. In our 8 year old minds that meant we were genetically connected. We spent every waking hour together playing barbies, having sleepovers, and making up a "fantasy club" in the gully behind her house (where we weren't supposed to be hanging out). Right before 6th grade, Angela's parents moved their family to Rockwall, TX. And although we were only 11 years old....I remember being so devastated that my best friend was moving away and not knowing if I would ever see her again (back then we didn't have Internet or email.....this really makes me feel old). Angela and I kept in touch as pen pals, sending letters and school photos to each other over the years. She would come back to California during the summers to visit her grandparents and I would always get a few days in to visit as well. The first time I went to Texas was right after our high school graduation. We thought that we were rebels and decided to go get our belly buttons pierced. Angela almost fainted and I thought I was going to as well. Being the goody-two-shoes that we were.....we confessed to her mom that night what we had done and I called my Dad from the airport to let him know as well. Angela came to California when I was first going through cosmetology school and let me dye her hair blonde.....it took me almost 3 hours and she was so patient! I traveled to Austin, TX for her college graduation and she stood by my side as I said my vows to Jeremy three years ago.
I am so blessed and honored to stand by her side as she says "I Do" to Travis on October 3rd in Cabo San Lucas.
Congratulations again you two!!! We love you guys and can't wait for the wedding!!!

FRUYU

2009-06-03T10:34:00.000-07:00

Jer and I took a drive to a new frozen yogurt store in La Quinta called Fruyu. And boy howdy was it delicious!!! It's a "serve yourself" kind of place with about 10 flavors to choose from and toppings galore. Jeremy opted out of splurging on this sweet treat....but after I told him they have chocolate & peanut butter, I think he wish he would have. I had the Original Tart & Raspberry Tart with granola and mixed berries. My Dad, Sister and I have an addiction to ice cream and frozen yogurt. We can't help it...its just in our genes. But this has to be one of the best I have ever had....no joke. So Dad and Lindsay...if you are reading this...get your butts out here to the desert so I can take you!!!

Sarah's 21st Birthday in Las Vegas

2009-06-01T14:49:00.000-07:00

The whole Hayes family headed to Las Vegas for cousin Sarah's 21st! Not much to write, other then it was a great time and I think we are still catching up on sleep. I forgot my camera the entire time...so these are some shots from inside Sarah's Presidential Suite at the Flamingo.....we still have no idea how she got upgraded!!!

Stagecoach......a little late

2009-05-31T09:24:00.001-07:00

This is way overdue.....but we attended the StageCoach Festival the last weekend in April. Talk about an All-Star, Jam Packed Country Line Up! The days were hot and we were sweating........and some how the nights were horribly cold! But it was well worth being able to see some of our favorite country music artists. My favorite: Its a tie between Darius Rucker and Brad Paisley.......Jeremy's favorite: Kid Rock and Kenny Chesney. We can't wait for next year!

Stephenie Meyer is a genius!

2009-05-29T14:39:00.000-07:00

I promised myself I wouldn't jump on the band wagon or get sucked into the series......but I am officially obsessed! (Thanks Linds for letting me borrow your books!) I can't put them down. I finished the third one, "Eclipse" in two days. This weekend Jeremy is going to the river with my Dad and Uncle.....which means I have the whole weekend to finish Breaking Dawn as well as read the unfinished draft of Midnight Sun which you can find on Stephenie Meyer's website here. And although, I was a little disappointed with the Twilight Movie.....Jeremy loved it!!! I thought he would have no interest in a vampire love story, but he thought it was "cool" and hopes there are more "vampire fighting scenes" in New Moon. I even suggested that we name our first child either Edward or Bella.......hey, I figured there might be a chance.

Wagner Wedding

2009-04-24T10:39:00.001-07:00

Back on March 28th, two friends from highschool, Grant Wagner & Brooke Payne, TIED THE KNOT! What an incredible wedding! It was held at the South Coast Winery in Temecula, CA. Jeremy and I took the opportunity to celebrate our anniversary a few weekends early and stay in one of the villas on the property. Which was A-M-A-Z-I-N-G! All of the villas have fireplaces, super soft beds, jacuzzi tubs and patios which over look the vineyards. Jeremy and I sat on the patio, had a couple of glasses of wine, listened to Jack Johnson and enjoyed the view. It was heaven!!!
I was also in charge of doing all the lovely hair do's for Brooke, her bridesmaids and the mom's. I was pretty busy all day Saturday, while Jeremy hung out with Grant and the other groomsmen at the pool. (If you want to see some pics of the pretty hair do's, please scroll to the bottom of this post). Anywho - the wedding was so beautiful and so fun! Jer and I haven't danced that much since probably our own wedding. The wedding also gave us the opportunity to catch up with so many friends from high school that I haven't seen in almost 10 years.
Congrats Grant & Brooke!! We love you guys and wish you a lifetime of happiness !!!

Also....just one more thing.......another friend from highschool, Kelly Cicero (previously Hannenberg), is an incredible make-up artist and photographer. Here are a few shots of the girls that she took but please check out her entire website here. She truly has a gift!!!

Gabby

2009-04-24T10:02:00.000-07:00

We have a new addition to our extended family. Grandpa Freddy has adopted a 10 year old golden retriever named Gabby. Her previous owner has had her since birth, but had to find a new home for her due to a moving situation. I just can't imagine having to give up a pet that you have had almost their whole life! Luckily Grandpa Freddy wanted an older dog and it was a perfect match! She follows him everywhere and they bonded so quickly. I can't wait for her to meet Boomer and Brady! I am in love with the her white face that always occurs with older goldens.

I am so passionate and really believe in adoption for pets of all ages. Especially in today's economy, there are so many animals that are left behind because their families can no longer afford to take care of them. Adopting Brady, was probably one of the most rewarding moments that Jer and I have had together. I know he had a terrible life before he came to us, but being able to give him that second chance is so fufilling. I am so happy Grandpa Freddy is also able to feel this joy and unconditional love. Check out this website of an awesome Golden Retriever rescue here in southern CA.

Happy 21st Sarah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2009-04-16T13:29:00.000-07:00

Sorry this is a little late......but I wanted to wish my cousin Sarah a very happy birthday!!! We are going to Las Vegas this weekend with the whole family to celebrate her turning the big 2-1! I remember when Sarah was born....I was 7 years old and I totally remember getting to hold her for the first time. Sarah, you have grown into such a beautiful, determined and strong young woman. We always have the best laughs together and I am so proud to have you not only as my cousin but as my best friend! We can't wait for this weekend!!!

So It's Been Awhile........

2009-04-16T13:17:00.000-07:00

I am so behind and I have so much to post about....but for now here is an update from this past weekend. Jeremy's brother Trevor, his girlfriend Taryn and cousin Chris came out to the desert this weekend to celebrate Trevor's birthday. It was a weekend filled with golf, "skinny" margaritas, good food and lots of laughs. Although we didn't capture any moments of all of us together, we were able to catch a few shots of all the "kids". Trevor & Taryn have a 10 month old French Bulldog named Butters. She is the sweetest little thing and has the most hilarious personality. She loved to beat up Boomer and Brady....and the boys were exhausted!! The three of them loved chasing each other in our newly finished backyard. Jeremy named them "The Killer B's".......... (Boomer, Brady & Butters). It was an entertaining weekend to say the least.

My New Years Resolution

2009-01-05T23:48:00.001-08:00

To live everyday by this quote:

"There is nothing that wastes the body like worry, and one who has any faith in God should be ashamed to worry about anything whatsoever."

- Mahatma Gandhi

Viva Las Vegas

2008-12-18T22:37:00.000-08:00

Tomorrow is the big day that we have been planning for almost a year! We are surprising my mom for her 50th birthday and we are all going to LAS VEGAS!!! Goodbye California and Hello to the City of Lights! I'll be sure to post tons of pics and video of her reactions as everyone shows up to the hotel! I'm so freakin' excited that I am not going to be able to sleep tonight!!!

Snow.......in the Desert?

2008-12-18T14:21:00.000-08:00

Okay, so maybe it didn't fall on the actual floor of the Coachella Valley.....but it sure did lay a nice blanket of white on our mountains. Thank you Mother Nature for such a nice touch of winter to go with our sand and cactus. We love the snow, love the rain and love, love, love the weather at 42 degrees.

Heart Warming

2008-12-11T11:18:00.000-08:00

I saw this story on the news this morning. (I blubbered like a baby while cuddling Brady at the foot of our bed.) What a wonderful human being this woman is. She is so forgiving and seeing the best in people even when something bad has happened to her. A true example of courage and optimism. It's a reminder to us all that we need to be more like her in this world of negativity and hatred. Thank you ABC for sharing such a heart warming story for us all to enjoy this holiday season. Go here.

Decorations complete.

2008-12-05T08:46:00.000-08:00

It Takes 45 Minutes......

2008-12-03T22:12:00.000-08:00

to get those silly dogs to sit together for the picture above. I'm exhausted..... Jeremy has a sore finger tip from taking so many pictures......and the boys are fat and happy after all the treats we used to bribe them.

Celine Dion Concert

2008-12-03T20:30:00.000-08:00

What a night! Thanks to a good friend of Eric's.......we had incredible seats! Here's a slideshow from the concert. There were too many good shots to post them all.

I was blown away........and reminded why I have been such a huge fan of hers for all these years.