jewish girl in wasp's clothing

"I've dreamt of you my whole life. And now I have to wake up."

2009-11-23T22:14:00.003-05:00

It was a long weekend. I hosted a guest and stayed out till the wee ole hours of the morning! Tonight I saw "After Miss Julie" on Broadway with Sienna Miller and it was just fantastic. I walked right up to her afterward and told her she was wonderful. Only in New York. :)

Did you love the Curb Your Enthusiasm finale as much as I did? I adore Cheryl. She is so beautiful, elegant and fun. I want to marry a Larry of my very own.

Back to your regularly scheduled programming tomorrow.

No Makeup Friday

2009-11-20T09:22:00.002-05:00

All my life, I've been VERY meticulous about my skin. I could stumble in my apartment at 4 in the morning, still have a glass in my hand, but you better believe I'm washing my face before I go to sleep.

Today I am not wearing a single stitch of makeup. I know that I have a party tonight and I'll want to have smoky eyes, rosy cheeks and pink lips, so I am giving my face the day off. Does anyone else do this?

I love makeup, but I have to say that I'm very comfortable without it. I absolutely adore getting my makeup done, sitting in the chair as someone else blushes, buffs and puffs. But I don't like the way it looks when I do it. I'm just not good at it - never have been.

Sometimes I feel sexiest with just a tan and lip balm.

Perhaps tomorrow will be No Makeup Saturday.

A Whale of a Sale

2009-11-18T21:52:00.013-05:00

This past weekend, I was lucky enough to be invited to the Vineyard Vines sample sale. I LOVE VV! It was the first they've ever had and I walked away with some fantastic things.

I got four dresses and two skirts. How much are you loving that anchor print?

Three button downs. Party shirt on the right!

Two halters...

The top on the right has buttons on the sleeve and little rope loops to bunch them up. The top on the right is a lightweight sweater with anchor buttons on the shoulder.

A daisy trench!

WAH!

Okay. Both of these are mens. The tee on the left is for me; I love lounging in boys' sweatshirts and t-shirts. The sweater on the right... I couldn't resist. It has anchors and it's in my sorority colors. I'm hanging onto this one for a future boyfriend. If I'm not single for the rest of my life, that is.

Waspdate.com

2009-11-17T09:41:00.006-05:00

Wouldn't it be SO fun if Wasps had their own version of Jdate?

I have an inactive profile on Jdate. I signed up for a free profile about a year and a half ago. I was really bored and decided to give it a go. After 2 weeks and a few weird encounters, I realized that I hate dating.

I love meeting new people, but I hate the game. I'm a relationship girl. I love being a girlfriend. I love falling for someone. I love spoiling and taking care of my significant other. I'm not a flirt, I don't get hit on, I don't talk to guys in bars. Not a dater.

BUT, if there were a Waspdate.com, and I had a profile (I may hate dating but could never resist such a brilliant platform), I'd combine it with the one I had on Jdate and here's what it would say:

I'm a Jewish girl in Wasp's clothing. Southern belle in Northern hell. Walking dichotomy. Constantly straddling some line. Think Cheryl David in Curb Your Enthusiasm. Total sorority girl who would choose a sundress over a Juicy sweatsuit every time. I wear pearls, hand-write thank you notes and read Town and Country. I'm pretty much the opposite of every Jewish female I know, and I still haven't figured out if that's working in my favor. Basically, if you'd rather be classic than hip, you aren't afraid of madras pants (bonus points if you own a pair) and you summer in the Hamptons... we need to talk.

What do you think?

Photo of the week

2009-11-15T22:58:00.002-05:00

Last night I met one of my favorite singers, Steve Tyrell, at the Carlyle hotel bar. Steve Tyrell sang the songs for both of the Father of the Bride movies (my FAVORITE). He performs at the Carlyle during the holiday season, and just happened to walk into the bar and did a single with the piano player. I was at the bar, sucking back vodka gimlets, not really understanding what was going on until he walked up to the gaggle of gals next to us and was chatting them up. I tapped him on the shoulder and told him that I was sorry to interrupt, but I'm a HUGE fan. He put his arm around me and I said, "On the Sunny Side of the Street?" and he started singing, so I sang with him.

"Grab your coat, and get your hat
Leave your worries on the doorstep
And just direct your feet
To the sunny side of the street"

DREAM. COME. TRUE.

Do you back up?

2009-11-12T20:41:00.005-05:00

Remember that episode of Sex and the City? My poor baby sister just lost EVERYTHING. Apple gave her practically a new computer for free, but she lost her entire hard drive. Photos, iTunes, the whole shabang. So I'm here reminding you to BACK UP! You never know what may happen.

What a lovely Thursday night I'm enjoying. I had a great dinner with one of my good girlfriends. I'm watching my boy D. Wade take down the Cavaliers, I have laundry in the dryer, and I just ordered my holiday cards online. Have you gotten yours yet? I agonized for weeks over what to get, and I just now made a snap decision. That's how I'm wired. I think about it for a long time, and then I get it done quickly.

Hanukkah is in ONE MONTH from today, and you know what? I haven't even begun my shopping! To get into the spirit of the season, I'm going to do a JGIWC gift guide. If you have a product that you'd like me to include, feel free to email me!

This Hanukkah, I'm wishing for a Barnes & Noble Nook with a Kate Spade cover. Anything else would be gravy.

What are you hoping for?

GLAMOUROUS (and a Perricone giveaway and discount!)

2009-11-11T20:58:00.011-05:00

Tonight at dinner, I laughed when a dear friend referred to me as 'glamorous'. I told her that I am anything but. She smiled and flicked her wrist as if to say, Oh Please.

The truth is that I know who I am. I don't think I'm beautiful or special. I don't have a killer body and I'm not cool. I'm also (if you couldn't tell) my own worst enemy and harshest critic.

I got to thinking that often times I am too hard on myself.

This is my favorite "glamour shot" of myself. I know what you're thinking. This photo is a DISASTER! My bra is showing, my hair is out of place, and I'm too busy doing "Thriller" to look at the camera. But, I like what I see here. It's one of my favorite photos of all time. Why? Because it's SO ME. A nice mess.

I look happy. And happiness is glamorous.

Sure, glamorous to some may be slathering their face with hundred dollar creams and falling asleep in their Pratesi sheets. (I use Clarins that I got from a blogging event and slumber in Nautica bedding.) But to me, this is it.

So, how about we meet halfway?

If you leave me a comment telling me why you think YOU'RE glamorous, I'll enter you in a JGIWC-exclusive giveaway to win the GLAMOROUS Dr. Perricone Cold Plasma Creme.

This creme retails for $150 and stops the ten signs of aging. Read more about it here. If you're interested in discounts, you can visit their blog.

We could all use a little ego boost every now and again.

Windy Wedding

2009-11-10T21:11:00.004-05:00

This past weekend, I went to a family wedding in Chicago.

Being recently single and attending a wedding is no easy feat, my friends. Especially when there were comments made about me. That I'm not likely to get married any time soon. Yikes!

Anyway, on to the good stuff...

I wore a gorgeous black Vera Wang dress that does NOT photograph well. It is beaded along the bust and ties into a bow across the back. Quite honestly, none of the pictures are great. I wore my hair half-up which was very unflattering. Remind me not to do that again!

And, photo of the week. My sister and I. She had a great 17th birthday and appreciates all of the wishes that were left here! More tomorrow - I have a headache that just won't quit.

AND THE WINNER IS...

2009-11-09T10:37:00.002-05:00

(Courtesy of Random.org)
Min: 1
Max: 96
Result: 42

KLC said...
I love my large tote- the pattern is acorns.. it's an Elon University special edition and that's where my little sister goes!

CONGRATS KLC! Please email me with your info.

Thanks for playing - stay tuned for more fabulous giveaways...

Flying Friday

2009-11-06T06:44:00.000-05:00

Hello, dear readers! I'm off to the windy city. Don't forget to enter my giveaway if you haven't already.

Wishes for a wonderful weekend!

Happy birthday to the love of my life, the Woodstock to my Snoopy, the Piglet to my Pooh

2009-11-05T09:35:00.003-05:00

Some of you long-timers may remember the letter I wrote to my sister via JGIWC, one year ago on her sixteenth birthday.

I just re-read the letter, and everything I said still rings true. You're STILL the most precious thing in my life, the best gift I've ever gotten, and my best friend.

Thank you for being YOU. Happy birthday baby!

Five things I'd like to accomplish before the year ends

2009-11-04T11:31:00.004-05:00

Lose five pounds.

Read Street Gang. Especially since it's been on my list since JANUARY. (But currently, I'm indulging in Straight Up and Dirty.)

Make headway on a big writing project.

Finish ALL of my laundry.

Accept the fact that I'm turning 25, that I'm not exactly where I thought I'd be at this age, and that hiding under the covers all day won't change anything (and isn't really a reasonable option).

So you'd better start swimming or you'll sink like a stone, for the times they are a-changin'

2009-11-03T09:57:00.004-05:00

Yesterday, someone asked me how I've changed since I first moved to New York.

I've made mistakes, but I've learned from them.

My friendships are different. I've gained a lot and lost a few. Some have gotten better and some have gotten worse.

I clean more.

I no longer hope that boys will talk to me in bars. No good has ever come from it.

I'm equally as dependent on my family.

I have a thicker skin.

I'm more agressive and outspoken.

My immune system has weakened.

I shop less - quality over quantity.

The novelty of having food other than pizza delivered has worn off. I eat out more or I whip something up.

I've let people go - whether they know it or not.

I do my own nails now.

I know exactly what I want.

And... I'm still single. But I'm hopeful, which is certainly the biggest and best change of all.

A WHALE OF A GIVEAWAY!

2009-11-02T13:10:00.003-05:00

Let's kick off November the right way!

It's the giveaway you've been waiting for!

I have, up for grabs, one Vineyard Vines navy with silver trim canvas tote!

To enter, please leave a comment telling us your favorite Vineyard Vines item, past or present. I'll start. It's hard to pick just one, but right now I'm living in and loving my cobalt blue Nancy Coat.

I will draw a winner on Sunday, November 8.

GOOD LUCK!

Photo of the week - Happy Halloween!

2009-11-01T19:42:00.004-05:00

My girlfriends and I dressed up as the Peanuts gang for Halloween. Many of you know that I LIVE for Snoopy and so this costume was very fitting.

I hope you all had a safe and super Halloween!

Think Pink one last time

2009-10-29T22:17:00.003-04:00

For my last "Think Pink" post, I wanted to feature KEP Designs. KEP Designs is a jewelry company based here in New York. They make a variety of beautiful pieces: some semi-precious, some precious, ALL beautiful. KEP Designs jewelry incorporates classic silhouettes with just a dash of prep.

KEP Designs has a collection devoted exclusively to Breast Cancer Awareness Month. 15% of all proceeds from the eight pieces in this collection will go to the Breast Cancer Research Foundation.

How gorgeous is this pearl and rose quartz bracelet?

Breast Cancer Awareness Month ends on Saturday, but it's something we should keep in mind all year.

Candy & Cocktails!

2009-10-28T21:49:00.007-04:00

Tonight I hosted a Candy & Cocktails party for some girlfriends.

Each guest got a baby pumpkin filled with a candy corn and a pumpkin thermos with her initials on the back.

My decorated window! Can you spot the Snoopy gems? They were a gift from one of my favorite bloggers.

These were a hostess gift from another one of my favorite bloggers! Boy, do these girls know me or what?

We ate, drank, and watched "It's the Great Pumpkin, Charlie Brown". It was a great way to welcome Halloween!

philoSophie's

2009-10-27T10:53:00.004-04:00

When I was in upstate New York this weekend, I discovered a brand called philoSophie's that I just HAVE to share with you.

philoSophie's applies fun, lighthearted quotes to products with an everyday use, like notepads, greeting cards, and makeup cases.

Each design is hand embellished with a bit of blush and glitter. No detail goes unnoticed.

I bought this greeting card and kept it for myself. It reads, "Keep your nails painted and your hand raised." I think this describes me to a tee.

I hope you all enjoy these wonderful sayings and items as much as I do.

And the winner is...

2009-10-25T16:30:00.002-04:00

(Courtesy of RANDOM.ORG)

Min: 1
Max: 31
Result: 23

CONGRATS TO AKM!

Thanks to everyone who played! There are more FABULOUS JGIWC giveaways in the near future!

Fashion Friday

2009-10-23T13:27:00.005-04:00

Today, I am wearing a Vineyard Vines tunic from their new Fall collection.

I have to admit that I sort of gave up on all of my Lilly tunics this past summer. I felt as though they were unflattering on me. I tried this on and - voila! My picture is blurry and I apologize for that, but I can't tell you how much I love this top. The cut is fantastic. It's sexy but forgiving. It's comfortable and cute. It's my sorority colors, which is perfect, as I'm traveling to see sisters today. Best of all - this piece is full fledged Fall, but reminds me of being on the water in Connecticut this past Summer. The best of both worlds!

Oh, and guess what else I'm wearing today?

Hehehe.

Wishing you a wonderful weekend!

JGIWC's Shecky's Gift Bag Swag Giveaway

2009-10-22T18:38:00.004-04:00

You all know that I take care of you.

I love getting gift bags - partially because I love presents and partially because it means that I can plan a giveaway! I received a gift bag at the Shecky's event I attended on Tuesday and chose the pictured items as the giveaway. Now, the contents aren't as glamourous as past giveaways, but I sure hope you'll enter anyway. If you're constantly behind on your drugstore runs (like me), this package is sure to save you a trip!

Contents, from left to right:

Aquafresh White Trays
Aveeno Daily Moisturizing Lotion (travel-sized!)
Einstein Lip Therapy (I have one. This is awesome stuff.)
Goody Colour Collection hairbands (great for the gym)
Organics Rosemary Mint Lip Balm
Clean & Clear Shine Control Moisturizer
Noah's Naturals Grapefruit Shower Gel (smells sweet)
TRESemme 24 Hour Body Foaming Mousse
Maven Nourish Mist Leave-In Conditioner
BioCare Healing Hand Cream (perfect for your handbag)

To enter, simply leave a comment about what you'd like to se in upcoming JGIWC giveaways.

I will draw a winner on Sunday evening.

Good luck!

Once a sorority girl...

2009-10-21T21:54:00.001-04:00

...always a sorority girl.

Enjoy!

Think Pink Tuesday and Girls Night Out!

2009-10-20T21:50:00.005-04:00

I recently won two tickets to Shecky's Girls Night Out on Miss Dollface's blog! I asked my partner in crime to join me. After all, shopping and open bars are the stuff our friendship is built on.

Here we are trying the new Bud Light Golden Wheat. Tastes sort of like regular Bud Light, so of course I loved it. Some of you may remember that I attended this event back in June as well. It's always a doozie. Thanks to Dollface for such a great giveaway!

I am loving this DKNY cardigan, which can be purchased at, you guessed it, Bloomingdales!

Feminine and flirty. A portion of the proceeds will benefit The Breast Cancer Research Foundation.

Two great things I discovered this weekend

2009-10-19T20:20:00.008-04:00

1) Trish McEvoy - the woman, not the makeup!

I've been wearing Trish McEvoy since I was in high school. This is a brand that has taken me from day to night, from the pool to a party, from finals to formals. As much as I love glittery brands like Nars and Urban Decay, if I had to pick one line to use for the rest of my life, it would without a doubt be Trish.

(That's Trish, on the left, and her VP of marketing on the right.)

I recently attended an event at Bloomingdales in which Trish chatted with a small group for about 30 minutes while she did a makeup application, and afterwards each woman in the group got their makeup done. I loved watching and listening to her. I found her to be candid and charming. It's always nice to meet the person behind the product and realize that they're just as wonderful as what they're making!

Unfortunately, the second half of my session was not as enjoyable. I was matched with an incredibly rude employee, who, instead of applying my makeup (as was promised) asked me which one product I was interested in, applied it to my skin, and then said, "So what do you want to buy today?" I've worked with lots of lovely ladies at Trish counters in the past, but this woman was abrasive and unprofessional. Oh, well! You win some, you lose some.

2) Harney & Sons Hot Cinnamon Spice decaffeinated tea.

I'm fairly certain that I've mentioned at one point or another that I have Mitrol Valve Prolapse. No biggie, I just can't have caffeine. It's too tough on my heart. I'm always on the lookout for great decaf drinks. (If you have any suggestions, do share! I'm all ears.) This past weekend, I dined at Delicatessen and was offered cinnamon tea. I love just about anything with cinnamon. After sipping this delicious drink, I knew I had to have more. I searched on the Harney & Sons website, and lucky for me, they JUST started offering this flavor decaffeinated. I ordered it in bulk. :)

What did you discover this weekend?

Photo of the week

2009-10-18T21:54:00.003-04:00

Here I am at our Founders Day brunch in my new fleur de lis from J. Crew. Can't find this baby online!