tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-50342854742103140972009-07-14T15:23:51.935-05:00DakotaWomenThe team blog of issues affecting women in South Dakota.junecleaversdoppelgangerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17334067624809615738noreply@blogger.comBlogger718125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-24591610451016396162009-07-14T12:53:00.015-05:002009-07-14T15:23:51.945-05:00Kool Aid Man to Dakota Woman: They Don't Call Him CASH for Nothin'!<a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_oUNxDoYOg2E/SlzNyWpJxYI/AAAAAAAAAPM/A5ScomdWqPE/s1600-h/KoolAid+Man.bmp"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 180px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_oUNxDoYOg2E/SlzNyWpJxYI/AAAAAAAAAPM/A5ScomdWqPE/s200/KoolAid+Man.bmp" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5358383921619387778" /></a><br />I'm starting a new installment here at Dakota Women. I hear a lot of political gossip, though generally don't take the bait on anything that can't be substantiated. On the other hand, there are often nuggets passed along to one of us Dakota ladies that are just too good to pass up...hence, the Kool Aid Man.<br /><br />I'm just going to say it: the name "Cash" is ridiculous for a whole host of reasons, let alone the added irony it carries being the given name of an Unruh. Wait a minute! I guess it's not ironic at all, considering that's when something is the <em>opposite</em> of what you'd expect whereas in this case, it's EXACTLY what we'd expect. Either way, it's no surprise what Les' and Al' had on their minds thirty-something years ago. And isn't that right about the time that Leslee was charged with four felony accounts (and several misdemeanors) of <a href="http://www.talk2action.org/story/2006/10/24/23830/327">baby selling</a>?! I believe it was. Ah, the non-irony!<br /><br /><br /><a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_oUNxDoYOg2E/SlzOFVpPxwI/AAAAAAAAAPU/YafvKfUek4c/s1600-h/Cash+Unruh.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 200px; height: 266px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_oUNxDoYOg2E/SlzOFVpPxwI/AAAAAAAAAPU/YafvKfUek4c/s400/Cash+Unruh.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5358384247768860418" /></a>So, Kool Aid Man purports that Cash, a member of the FUN-employed club (and of course, why wouldn't he be?!), currently spends his time tooling around town (pun very intended) in a flash-tastic <a href="http://www.lapcr.com/2006%20Range%20Rover%20Sport.jpg">Range Rover</a> with the estimated value of 90k. Per his current Facebook photo, it also appears Cash has access to a pretty nice boat. <br /><br /><br /><br />Hmmm. You know what that reminds me of...<br /><object width="560" height="340"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/R7yfISlGLNU&hl=en&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/R7yfISlGLNU&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="560" height="340"></embed></object><br /><br />Now, now. I know that everyone has had their parents do and say things that have embarrassed them from time to time. And on a lot of levels, I feel pretty bad for Cash. I mean, we all know you can't pick your family. Nonetheless though, it seems that Cash has little problem basking in the benefits of his parents' tax payer theft...and pretty publicly. Remember: if you're not part of the solution, you're part of the problem, right?<br /><br /><strong>Edit: Woa! This just in (and thank you Angie for the priceless find!)</strong>: Per <a href="http://www.cashunruh.blogspot.com/">Cash Unruh's personal blog</a>, he gives this description of himself which is almost too perfect for words, given my above post.<br /><br />The blog description reads:<br /><br /><blockquote>...This description is about me, myself, and I. I am a man who is seeking to live the ultimate life. <strong>I am not interested in making a living but instead to have a lifestyle. There's a difference!</strong> Have fun reviewing my lifestye and have a good and Godly day. For what is a good day if it is not Godly...</blockquote><br />I guess I didn't know "Godly" meant having a certain kind of lifestyle. Read: money. Pretty disgusting if you ask me. Cash also lists himself as selfishly, I mean, "Self-Employed" in <a href="http://www.blogger.com/profile/01223781129675041590">his blogger profile</a>. Well isn't that rich?!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-2459161045101639616?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>That Girlnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-70038167539644668742009-07-13T08:42:00.007-05:002009-07-13T12:47:05.124-05:00Sotomayor hearings today!The confirmation hearings for Judge Sotomayor start today in the Senate. I'm sure Thune will continue to lead the Republican campaign to convince everyone that she's not up to the job, but we all know that's basically in vain. She's going to get confirmed, and then we get to go back to talking about <a href="http://www.barackobama.com/issues/healthcare/index.php">health care</a>, <a href="http://aflcio.org/joinaunion/voiceatwork/efca/">the Employee Free Choice Act</a>, <a href="http://www.eqsd.org/news/1-national/299-federal-enda-introduced.html">Employement Non-Discrimination Act</a>, <a href="http://thetaskforce.org/issues/hate_crimes_main_page">hate crimes legislation</a>, <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/06/26/climate-change-bill-may-h_n_221564.html">climate change</a>, and other legislative priorities.<br /><br />In the meantime, I'll try to post highlights from the hearings as they progress. <a href="http://prochoiceamerica.org">NARAL Pro-Choice America</a> said earlier on Twitter that Operation Rescue co-founder Randall Terry is on the scene. If that isn't a recipe for crazy, I don't know what is.<br /><br /><b>Update</b>: Apparently Senator Lindsay Graham (R-SC) <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/31887698/ns/politics-white_house/">agrees with me</a> that this confirmation is basically inevitable. Earlier today, he told Sotomayor that "Unless you have a complete meltdown, you're going to get confirmed."<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-7003816753964466874?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Angienoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-1035525557265087092009-07-10T10:25:00.002-05:002009-07-10T10:30:59.465-05:00Ramblings, Lispings, Cliches, and Bad JokesBrought to you by Allen Unruh. And this is only half of it! <br /><br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/7a7uufw28TU&hl=en&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/7a7uufw28TU&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-103552555726508709?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>That Girlnoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-37622203235278739492009-07-08T13:12:00.007-05:002009-07-08T14:09:24.021-05:00Unruh Whoredom Abounds, SD MSM's Speed Dial Exposed<a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_oUNxDoYOg2E/SlTuu6b1VaI/AAAAAAAAAPE/04-0n6CtLP0/s1600-h/DrunkLeslee.JPG"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 150px; height: 159px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_oUNxDoYOg2E/SlTuu6b1VaI/AAAAAAAAAPE/04-0n6CtLP0/s320/DrunkLeslee.JPG" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5356168346577753506" /></a><br />Move over Paris Hilton! Move over Octo-mom! You've got yourself some serious SD competition!<br /><br />Yes, media whoredom is something I have long taken issue with, having written about it <a href="http://dakotawomen.blogspot.com/2008/06/where-theres-news-media-theres-unruh.html">here</a>, <a href="http://dakotawomen.blogspot.com/2009/04/unruh-media-whore-dom-reaches-new-high.html">here</a>, and <a href="http://dakotawomen.blogspot.com/2009/05/palin-media-whoredom-and-insanity.html">here</a>. Yet...Unruh Whoredom abounds. And it's becoming pretty clear how much the SD MSM aids and abets it.<br /><br />Whether it's <a href="http://www.keloland.com/NewsDetail6162.cfm?Id=25,70735">organic foods</a>, <a href="http://www.keloland.com/News/NewsDetail6376.cfm?Id=83291">Tea Bagging</a>, <a href="http://keloland.com/NewsDetail6162.cfm?Id=86786">Healthcare Rallies</a>, or now, <a href="http://www.argusleader.com/article/20090708/COLUMNISTS0102/907080318/1057/COLUMNISTS">Sarah "Ramble" Palin</a>, the MSM seemingly just can't get enough of these two loony tunes. It's surpassed ridiculous. When did using speed dial to contact the same two people become a means of legitimate reporting? Though we all know that the Unruhs welcome any and all forms of face time, the MSM has got to stop providing them with a venue to present themselves as experts in anything, because -- recall -- they're not. Being a professional zealot does not qualify you as an expert in any of the above. <br /><br />So, MSM, get off your lazy arses and do some actual reporting for once. There are plenty of people who would present actually legitimate and far more interesting opinions on any current event, be it one tied to politics or not. The Unruhs have been defeated, so for the love of god, let's help them fade away quietly.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-3762220323527873949?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>That Girlnoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-17370587417415882372009-07-08T10:56:00.003-05:002009-07-08T11:00:41.579-05:00Crisis Pregnancy Centers Fake Clinics ExposedJust saw this great new video from <a href="http://rhrealitycheck.org">RH Reality Check</a> about fake pregnancy clinics, like our very own Alpha Center.<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/FJXRVA16Kig&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&hl=en&feature=player_embedded&fs=1"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowScriptAccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/FJXRVA16Kig&color1=0xe1600f&color2=0xfebd01&hl=en&feature=player_embedded&fs=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowfullscreen="true" allowScriptAccess="always" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br /><br />The experiences of women and girls described in the above video sound like they mirror what happens to people who visit the Alpha Center. I'll be curious to see what happens to the bill in Congress that helps create more "truth in advertising."<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-1737058741741588237?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Angienoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-24193111700362925042009-07-04T19:35:00.000-05:002009-07-04T19:35:55.487-05:00Even Without a Ban to Worry About, SD Women Still Need HelpSouth Dakota has gotten plenty of national attention (and assistance) for the various campaigns to make abortion illegal. And while we've managed to beat those attempts, the average South Dakota woman's ability to access abortion may not be any more guaranteed than it was before. <br /><br />The <a href="http://www.sdwhf.com/">South Dakota Women's Health Fund</a>, a fund established to help women with the costs associated with accessing abortion, is pretty much broke after a record several months of requests for help. For many women driving a full day to our state's only clinic or to a clinic in a neighboring state, where they may have to stay over night, pay for childcare, or certainly take a day off work, this fund may be their only hope. For those of you outside of South Dakota, Google Map Sioux Falls and see how far it is from pretty much everywhere else. <br /><br />What good are multi-million dollar campaigns to protect 'choice' if someone doesn't have the means to exercise it? Without some immediate donations, the South Dakota Women's Health Fund will have to suspend their services. Please dig deep and <a href="http://www.sdwhf.com/support_sdwhf.htm">support SDWHF</a> so they can support South Dakota women.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-2419311170036292504?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Kelseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09833213923742764650noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-57111279959154941742009-07-03T23:16:00.002-05:002009-07-03T23:25:51.377-05:00Indian High Court rejects fundamentalism<a href="http://www.time.com/time/world/article/0,8599,1908406,00.html">India's High Court recently struck down an anti-sodomy law from the colonial era</a>, which was used to punish HIV/AIDS outreach workers. In doing so, they issued a pretty firm smackdown to Indians who use religion (in their case, generally, Hinduism and Islam) as a shield for their bigotry: <br /><br /><blockquote>"Moral indignation, howsoever strong, is not a valid basis for overriding individuals' fundamental rights of dignity and privacy. In our scheme of things Constitutional morality must outweigh the argument of public morality, even if it be the majoritarian view," the court said in its ruling. Going even further, the court found that Section 377 went against the Indian tradition and guiding political principle of inclusiveness.</blockquote><br /><br />The Bob Ellises and Steve DooHickeys of the world should take heed. The rest of us are moving on without you.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-5711127995915494174?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701924315897238428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-64958646704893114362009-07-03T14:53:00.007-05:002009-07-03T16:03:37.854-05:00BREAKING: PALIN STEPPING DOWNSarah Palin just <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/31726640/ns/politics-more_politics/">announced</a> that she's stepping down as gov as of July 26, and won't be running for re-election.<br /><br />MSNBC has the video here:<br /><br /><div><iframe height="339" width="425" src="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/22425001/vp/31726841#31726841" frameborder="0" scrolling="no"></iframe><p style="font-size:11px; font-family:Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif; color: #999; margin-top: 5px; background: transparent; text-align: center; width: 425px;">Visit msnbc.com for <a style="text-decoration:none !important; border-bottom: 1px dotted #999 !important; font-weight:normal !important; height: 13px; color:#5799DB !important;" href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com">Breaking News</a>, <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3032507" style="text-decoration:none !important; border-bottom: 1px dotted #999 !important; font-weight:normal !important; height: 13px; color:#5799DB !important;">World News</a>, and <a href="http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/3032072" style="text-decoration:none !important; border-bottom: 1px dotted #999 !important; font-weight:normal !important; height: 13px; color:#5799DB !important;">News about the Economy</a></p></div><br /><br /><br />I'm not completely shocked she's not running for re-election (it's the same move Minnesota gov. Tim Pawlenty made, as he's also looking to run for president in 2012), but <i>resigning</i>??<br /><br />I think stepping down is just bizarre. Quitting early isn't a factor I think most people look for in a president. I think she's actually *not* looking at the national stage.<br /><br /><br />Can't wait to watch this develop. Isn't the circus fun?!<br /><br /><br /><b>Update:</b> The full statement is <a href="http://www.gov.state.ak.us/exec-column.php">on the soon-to-be-former governor's website</a>. Enjoy.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-6495864670489311436?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Angienoreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-55981553698472428992009-07-03T09:07:00.005-05:002009-07-03T09:19:06.155-05:00Another swing and a miss for the Unruhs...I balked a bit when I saw this headline yesterday over at the War College: <a href="http://dakotawarcollege.com/archives/9017">"Over 10,000 people anticipated at today's rally against socialized medicine</a> (which was being orchestrated by DW's BFF, Allen Unruh).<br /><br /><br />Just for the record, assuming the 2008 Census estimates are correct, that's 6% of the whole population of Sioux Falls proper. <br /><br /><br />So how many people actually did show up? <a href="http://argusleader.com/article/20090703/NEWS/907030307/Rally-scorns-socialized-medicine&referrer=FRONTPAGECAROUSEL">According to the Argus, <b>325</b></a>. <br /><br /><br />Uh, wow. Allen, where did your 10,000 people go? Where's your groundswell of support against health care reform? Maybe they all had doctor's appointments?<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-5598155369847242899?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Angienoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-52584184946412091162009-06-29T21:29:00.003-05:002009-06-29T22:10:02.520-05:00Another take on health care...There seems to be a lot going on in the larger feminist blogosphere these days, and I've been following one issue in particular. <a href="http://www.feministe.us/blog/archives/2009/06/27/women-and-trans-health-care-really-ought-to-mean-it/#more-14125">Feministe explains it here</a>, but in short, a transsexual woman blogger moved to New Orleans and attempted to locate a trans-friendly health care provider. She found the New Orleans Women's Health Clinic, which explicitly stated that it did not provide medical services for women who were assigned male at birth, and the blogger contacted them about some dodgy statements on their website. <a href="http://questioningtransphobia.wordpress.com/2009/06/29/the-response-from-nowhc/#comments">The clinic responded here.</a> <br /><br />I've been thinking about this in relation to our own community in South Dakota. <a href="http://www.talk2action.org/story/2006/10/24/23830/327">This post, oft-linked on Dakota Women when discussing Leslee's shenanigans</a>, includes a truly disturbing story of a lawsuit filed against Sanford Hospital (then Sioux Valley) by a trans woman who claimed she was denied treatment there for complications after having genital surgery. Anecdotally, a friend told me about a drag queen at Touchez (RIP) who fell and broke her hip while performing, who literally crawled off-stage and removed all makeup and female attire, and changed into "male" clothes before the ambulance arrived. The person who told me about this thought it was a funny story, but I thought - geez, there's some real distrust of the medical system among trans and gender variant folks in Sioux Falls. And rightfully so. My sense is that this is the tip of the iceberg with regard to trans people and health care in SD. <br /><br />So, I guess this is a general call to our readers - has the situation improved in South Dakota? I once vaguely heard that Planned Parenthood staff received training on trans health care needs - is this the case? Was this ever communicated to trans communities? <br /><br />Perhaps identifying trans-friendly health care providers is a project for one of our awesome but overextended <a href="http://www.eqsd.org/">LG</a><a href="http://www.centersforequality.org/">BT</a> or <a href="http://sdanw.org/jsite/index.php">women's</a> organizations to take on. It would meet a long overdue need, certainly.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-5258418494641209116?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701924315897238428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-72478232029670260692009-06-25T21:31:00.002-05:002009-06-25T21:33:57.933-05:00Welcome the new ACLU blog to the neighborhood!Make sure to check out ACLU South Dakota's new blog <a href="http://aclusd.wordpress.com/">A Little Liberty on the Prairie</a>. I look forward to some great civil liberties themed blogging in days to come!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-7247823202967026069?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Kelseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09833213923742764650noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-79091229910555824382009-06-25T17:00:00.003-05:002009-07-03T09:20:30.577-05:00Generic EC to hit shelves in AugustThis is good news for the ladies: <a href="http://www.nationalpartnership.org/site/News2?abbr=daily2_&page=NewsArticle&id=18151">Emergency Contraception</a> will be available as a generic (as opposed to Plan B) starting August 24, sold as Next Choice. <br /><br />This is great news, since getting access to EC in the past has often partly been a financial issue. Depending on where someone purchases it, Plan B costs around $50-$60. It would be great to get some competition out there to reduce costs (and therefore increase access). <br /><br />Capitalism at its finest, folks.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-7909122991055582438?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Angienoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-8341771160862076212009-06-25T11:33:00.004-05:002009-06-25T12:47:35.872-05:00Campbell and Buehner Being Awarded for CourageI was happy to see today that the <a href="http://ballot.org">Ballot Initiative Strategy Center</a>, which does work on progressive ballot measures (and helps defeat regressive ones like Measure 11), is giving one of its <a href="http://www.ballot.org/pages/2009ballies">2009 Ballies Awards</a> to our very own Tiffany Campbell and Dr. Marv Buehner, "for never backing down from their brave and vocal opposition to a South Dakota abortion ban." <br /><br /><br />It's nice to see some recognition for two very deserving folks in the movement in South Dakota. Congrats to both!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-834177116086207621?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Angienoreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-53101216302995383692009-06-24T23:35:00.002-05:002009-06-24T23:48:30.868-05:00The Measure of a Man<a href="http://madvilletimes.blogspot.com/2009/06/bob-ellis-spreads-misogyny-and-racism.html">Hat tip to Cory</a>, who has the intestinal fortitude to read blogs that I'm pretty sure none of us at Dakota Women bother with. <br /><br />Bob Ellis (no linking to hate sites on DW) has added a couple of items to Todd Epp's exhaustive list of what makes a real man - which Kelsey outlined below. We learn from Bob that: <br /><br />1. Real men DO NOT volunteer at homeless shelters <br /><br />and<br /><br />2. Real men DEFINITELY, DEFINITELY, DEFINITELY do NOT have anything to do with curtains. Real men most likely have to avoid windows and the things people hang over windows altogether (washing windows - how girly! hanging curtains - real men would never!). In fact, real men probably live in caves with their chainsaws as their only companions, fighting bears and wolves for their very survival, rendering windows and curtains irrelevant. <br /><br />(Since Ellis is way too dense to get this - guess what! The manly photos of Reagan and Bush II that set your heart a-flutter were just as staged as the photo of Obama hanging curtains at a homeless shelter. I can guarantee that Reagan and Bush spent less time doing "real work" on their ranches than Obama does in homeless shelters. Duh.)<br /><br />It is probably too much to ask someone who believes that Earth is five thousand years old to engage in any kind of critical thinking process, but I just thought I'd throw that out there.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-5310121630299538369?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701924315897238428noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-53261296161780649642009-06-16T09:20:00.002-05:002009-06-16T09:28:03.427-05:00More from the He Man Woman Haters Club<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://vaiden.net/rascals_files/image009.jpg"><img style="float:right; margin:0 0 10px 10px;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 277px; height: 276px;" src="http://vaiden.net/rascals_files/image009.jpg" border="0" alt="" /></a> Jesus H. Christ. As much as Todd Epp claims to be so distressed by the 'vicious' attacks against him, you'd think he'd quit writing ridiculous stuff that simply begs more viciousness. His latest post is one of the greatest combos of offensive and delusional I've seen outside of SibbyOnline. Check <a href="http://southdakotawatch.blogspot.com/2009/06/todays-babe-poll-results-say-most-of.html">this tripe</a> out:<br /><blockquote><br />Soft males are too much in touch with their female side. Sometimes you have to be a warrior. Sometimes you have to be a protector. Sometimes you have to accept adversity and privation and not bitch about it. Everything is not a Kumbya sing-a-long where we hold hands and say how special we all are. Sometimes it takes a Max Hawk to grab you by the facemask, kick you in the butt, and tell you to out there and get the damn job done.<br /><br />I've noticed some men my age and younger don't like to hear that. They whine and complain. They'd rather not get their hands dirty or yelled out. They have "feelings." I see that with my 14 year old son's male peers. No one challenges them and has expections for them as that is too "mean" and not the way feminized men behave in the 21st Century.</blockquote><br /><br />Seriously? Soft males? Feminized men?? I feel like this had to have either been copied out of a Focus on the Family newsletter or a high school health textbook from the 1950s. I won't even get into the hypocrisy of someone who claims to believe in equality for women and the LGBT community wallowing in such shallow and outdated stereotypes -- let's just focus on the hypocrisy of Todd trying to cast himself as the tough "red blooded" hard (I presume) male. Not whining and bitching? Taking responsibility for your actions? Please. I cannot even believe that after the comment deleting, moping and complaining, total SHIT FIT he had, Todd could possibly have the balls to insinuate that some guys talk to much about their feelings. Dear readers, you don't even know the half of the hysterical rampage that took place outside of the blogosphere simply because Todd couldn't take a little criticism about his content. I suppose it's only fitting that someone with such delicate sensibilities would try to make himself feel better by questioning the masculinity of others, but I'm still honestly astounded.<br /><br />You know, I really feel bad about holding back against Todd and asking other bloggers to do the same because I was honestly worried about him. Go ahead everyone -- we don't want him to assume we think he's soft!!<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-5326129616178064964?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Kelseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09833213923742764650noreply@blogger.com9tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-20019138994761118862009-06-14T16:25:00.000-05:002009-06-14T16:26:05.804-05:00More on appearance vs. ability...On NPR's website, former Sleater-Kinney guitarist/singer Carrie Brownstein discusses press coverage of The Gossip and their lead singer Beth Ditto, <a href="http://www.npr.org/blogs/monitormix/2009/06/beth_ditto_eaten_alive.html?ft=1&f=15710080">which focuses almost entirely on Beth Ditto's weight, rather than her undeniable talent</a>. She looks at a review by Elizabeth Day of <i>The Guardian</i>, which mentions Ditto's weight and body size throughout, and even uses food metaphors to describe the band (Beth is compared to cheese, while the band is compared to a club sandwich). <br /> <br />(For those of you not in the know, The Gossip is an American band that has achieved notoriety in certain circles in the U.S., but who are now out-and-out celebrities in the U.K. and much of the rest of Europe. You can go to the link posted above to see photos and videos of Beth and The Gossip in action.) <br /> <br />I can vouch for The Gossip's talent. I saw them at the Red and Black Cafe in Portland, OR, in about 2000 - probably the best live show I've ever seen. It's hard to describe their energy, but by the end of their set, literally everyone in the audience was dancing (and, for that matter, drenched in sweat from being packed into a tiny venue, but that's another story). <br /> <br />Brownstein's argument is here: <br /> <br /><blockquote>Maybe Day is jealous that Beth Ditto can be herself and be famous. And the reason Ditto is famous is that she's incredibly talented, not to mention unique. Perhaps Day, like many of the other people obsessing over and writing incessantly about Ditto's weight, are experiencing the sad realization that most of us have bought in to a certain idealized version of beauty, so much so that we're willing to starve ourselves, skip meals, politely decline dessert and feel intense shame and scrutiny about our bodies. Moreover, and certainly there is truth to this, we feel like in order to be successful we need to look a certain way. And then here comes Beth Ditto, proving that the combination of talent, confidence and just not giving a s--- trumps all. So what does Day do? She looks at Beth Ditto and thinks of a club sandwich. Why? Because she probably wishes she could eat 10 of them a day and still keep her job.</blockquote> <br /> <br />Unrealistic beauty standards do terrible harm to men and women, boys and girls. I thought we were getting close to having a discussion about that on the SD blogosphere, but we've kind of shied away from it again. It's a complicated issue, but worth discussing, I think.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-2001913899476111886?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701924315897238428noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-33906350873680614322009-06-10T17:38:00.003-05:002009-06-10T18:11:38.590-05:00Women and moralityI hope not to alienate one of our few allies in the world of SD political blogs, but <a href="http://madvilletimes.blogspot.com/2009/06/pastor-hickey-claims-feminist.html">this post on Madville Times</a> and the subsequent comments are interesting enough to me to merit a response. Cory suggests that Pastor(?) Hickey earns some "feminist credentials" for being the first to notice the sexism inherent in Todd Epp's 'babe' postings. While Hickey denies being a feminist, he expounds on his view of women in a fashion that is, to my mind, distinctly anti-feminist. <br /><br />Hickey shares some of what he teaches the women who attend his church - that they are "'more refined' as in fine china," and "fashioned" by God with "more creativity and attention to detail" than men, since, according to the creation story, Adam was created from dust. <br /><br />Literally ever since American feminists met and organized for the first time to articulate a platform of political and social equality, they've fought notions like Hickey's. 'Fine china' has no place in the real world - it should be protected behind glass, put on a pedestal to be displayed and admired (remember what started the latest 'blog war' in the first place?), and brought out only on special occasions. It's the same old saw that the earliest feminists heard - women (particularly white, native-born women) were too delicate to participate in the electoral process, attend college, work in the professions, exercise vigorously, ad nauseum. <br /><br />And it's what pro-choice women and men hear today from Hickey and his followers - that women are too fragile to make good decisions about themselves and their reproductive lives, and need to be saved from making a decision they'll regret later. That womens' bodies, lives, and futures aren't really our own, and that others (religious officials, politicians, husbands, fathers, men generally) are the people who are qualified to make choices for us. To be clear, though - this isn't just about abortion - in one of the best blog posts on the 2008 election <a href="http://flyingtomato.wordpress.com/2008/10/27/trying-to-find-words/">Rebecca at Flying Tomato Farms</a> expressed the connection between anti-abortion laws and women's public lives better than I ever could. <br /><br />So, you know - kudos to Hickey for calling out Todd's posts (I didn't pay attention to Epp's blog then and don't now), but let's try to scale back the hyperbole as we (re-)hash recent events. Hickey's teachings serve no purpose but to limit women's opportunities and deny us equality - in public life, within the family, and with deeply personal issues like contraception and abortion.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-3390635087368061432?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701924315897238428noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-58289984447427473992009-06-10T16:02:00.004-05:002009-06-10T17:11:02.038-05:00Some things that suck about the blogosphere...<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://i.ehow.com/images/GlobalPhoto/Articles/4665416/toilet20flush_Full.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 335px; height: 333px;" src="http://i.ehow.com/images/GlobalPhoto/Articles/4665416/toilet20flush_Full.jpg" alt="" border="0" /></a>I was having lunch with a friend today and trying to explain why I both like the internet and the blogosphere and all that it has wrought, and at the same time think the critics might be right about its part in the decline of civility and human interaction. I still have hopes for the former, but the the last few days have been a real example of the latter.<br /><br />Honestly, the objectification of women through the media or porn or bloggers or whatever is not really high up on my list of threats to the future of women or humanity. If some dude wants to put some scantily clad girl on his blog and drool over her, frankly, I could give a shit. The myopic focus on this crap on many feminist blogs and magazines both bores and frustrates me -- there are real problems in the world! But is it sexist? Of course. Why deny it? Why try to make it into something it's clearly not? I love progressive men, but they are some of the worst offenders when it comes to being unable to own up to their own issues or admit when they're wrong. In the absence of a better, gender neutral alternative, <span style="font-weight: bold;">man up already</span>. I really don't get the point of getting your panties in a wad just because people expect more from you than being the online equivalent of a lad mag. High expectations -- how dare they?!<br /><br />Other things that annoy me about the blogosphere:<br /><ul><li>People who like to present themselves as snarky and sarcastic, but have no ability to detect snark or sarcasm from others.</li><li>The fact that even though this blog has four regular posters, very few other bloggers or commenters bother to differentiate us or recognize that we are not a monolithic <span style="font-weight: bold;">DAKOTAWOMAN</span>. </li><li>How mean it makes me want to be.</li><li>The tendency for other bloggers to attribute views to us that we have never expressed and often do not hold.</li><li>Almost all political blogging is critical -- looking at some news or public figure or something and commenting on it, often negatively. But when someone on DakotaWomen does it, it's almost always characterized as 'whining'. Now, this post <u style="font-weight: bold;">is</u><span style="font-weight: bold;"> </span>whining. I'm feeling whiny. Can you see the difference?<br /></li><li>Meta-blogging. So I'll stop now. </li></ul><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-5828998444742747399?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Kelseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09833213923742764650noreply@blogger.com13tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-47517673806207970342009-06-10T15:39:00.003-05:002009-06-10T16:06:40.161-05:00Operation Rescue Considers Buying Tiller's ClinicJust when we thought Troy Newman couldn't get any more ridiculous...<a href="http://www.nytimes.com/2009/06/11/us/11abortion.html?_r=1&src=twt&twt=nytimes">Troy Newman gets more ridiculous</a>.<br /><br />The link above is to a New York Times article wherein Newman announces intentions to buy Dr. Tiller's now-closed clinic from the Tiller family. <br /><br />A spokesman for the family (rightly) called the idea a stunt, which gives me hope that even if Operation Rescue comes up with the cash, the family won't sell to them. <br /><br />But on the day of the <a href="http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2009/06/10/AR2009061001768.html">second right-wing domestic terrorist attack</a> in a very short amount of time, this stunt makes it clearer than ever that Operation Rescue and like-minded folks are less than upset about Dr. Tiller's murder. <br /><br />Gee, if I wanted to actually <a href="http://www.foxnews.com/politics/2009/06/01/abortion-opponents-discouraged-doctors-murder/">discourage further acts of violence</a> against abortion providers, I probably wouldn't try so hard to capitalize on them. But that's just me.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-4751767380620797034?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Angienoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-28891642021689440092009-06-10T11:25:00.002-05:002009-06-10T12:02:44.728-05:00Midweek Round UpI have a growing number of tabs open on Firefox that are there to remind me of what I want to post to DakotaWomen, and then a week goes by and I never get to it. Here is the list of links that inevitably results from this procrastination:<br /><ul><li><a href="http://www.spokesman.com/stories/2009/jun/07/dissent-needs-a-safe-haven/">This column</a> about Dr. Ben Munson and First Presbyterian Church in Rapid City has an interesting perspective about how we talk about abortion today.</li><li>Tom Tomorrow's <a href="http://images.salon.com/comics/tomo/2009/06/09/tomo/story.jpg">This Modern World</a> doesn't pull any punches about the "rightwingoverse" view of Dr. Tiller's murder.</li><li>I'm no anarchist, but <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qCJfsYzzHh0">this video</a> has some points about sexism that could apply to almost any progressive movement.</li><li>Finally, I've started a little side project called <a href="http://iheartvermillion.blogspot.com/">I Heart Vermillion</a> where I'm going to list the many fabulous things I find in Vermillion, a topic well worth exploring but which might be boring to those who come to DakotaWomen looking for man-hating she-wolvery. </li></ul><div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-2889164202168944009?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Kelseyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09833213923742764650noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-66326562901438959102009-06-09T15:39:00.002-05:002009-06-09T15:48:08.103-05:00Sexism in the SD dude-o-sphere...Just some history, while we wait for this to die down: <br /><br />If you'll recall, the last attempt at a discussion in the SD blogosphere about sexism occurred right around this time last year, when about half of us at Dakota Women were actively supporting Hillary Clinton. The same folks were involved, and we saw the same attempts to deflect criticism and play the victim. <br /><br />It's simply impossible to have a serious discussion about these issues when that's how folks react. Gee - it's almost like some people don't *want* to engage our thoughts substantively, or talk about the ways that sexism manifests itself in our little blogging world. Imagine that. <br /><br />It's like the changing of the seasons, except perhaps more predictable...<br /><br />(Was this shrill?)<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-6632656290143895910?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701924315897238428noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-90332438593253590032009-06-09T12:40:00.002-05:002009-06-09T13:40:29.795-05:00Final Thoughts on WhinerGateIn true Todd fashion, so-called “Babe-gate” has gotten sensationalized and way out of control. And I’m just going to say it: if Todd would have actually taken a second to assess why it was that his fellow “lefties” had taken issue with him and his latest string of posts in the first place, rather than dramatize it all by continuing to throw absurd fuel on the ‘fire,’ it’s likely that this whole debacle could have been minimized or avoided all together. <br /><br />Having a “Babe of the Day” in and of itself is just plain sexism. There’s no other way to cut it. And when that “Babe of the Day” becomes a credit to varied women for reasons that are false, ridiculous, or don’t exist at all (On Brook White, Epp stated “I don't know a thing about Brooke White other than she has a clean, simple, wholesome, girl next door look”) demands being called out for more than just simple, spottable sexism and that’s to be expected. If DakotaWomen suddenly started a “Stud of the Day” and featured the likes of Vin Diesel, Scott Heidepriem, or even Todd Epp himself :), we would without a doubt be questioned, called out, and likely called something worse than what we’ve been called in the past…and rightfully so. After all, this is the political blogosphere, right? And it’s disgusting that anyone, let alone one of the self-professed blogo-LIBERALS would even go there, let alone try to legitimate it at all by talks about traffic or worse, playing the victim card.<br /><br />Todd did this to himself. He’s no victim.<br /><br />This isn’t the first time that Todd has landed himself in a contradiction where he professes being progressive, a women’s rights supporter, a feminist, or similar title, while writing something via his blog that supports the opposite side of the claim. Many of us here have gone head to head with him and tried to explain the perhaps ungraspable reality of how it’s legit to expect more from people like Todd Epp than, say, Steve Hickey. This would be the same if Madville Times suddenly went “Girls Gone Wild” on us, but we know that would never happen. It sure seems that these days Todd is more interested in sparring with his allies and befriending the un-befriendable than having any real discussion that would lend itself to any amount of progress.<br /><br />And just to clarify: I used Shannon Stevens as a good, bad example to illustrate how confused and off base Todd often is and I stand by it. But that’s not the only example of Todd’s randomly selective accolades to SD Women, which as Anna pointed out, seem too often to center not on what a woman does, but how she looks doing it. That, my friends, is just despicable and coming from someone of Todd’s position and experience, even more so. We should all demand accountability when a progressive blogger, politician, or non-profit’s staff person doesn’t put their money where there mouth is at the expense of the entire progressive movement or worse, women’s access to healthcare through the reality of what is public policy formation in the US.<br /><br />I invite Todd to stop starting fires and start being real with himself and others. If he’s a pig, he should unapologetically be a pig. Need lessons? I’m sure SouthDacola can provide them. And if he truly values women in a non-objectification way, then let’s see it.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-9033243859325359003?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>That Girlnoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-89366578368434475462009-06-09T10:58:00.007-05:002009-06-09T13:22:24.769-05:00BREAKING: Tiller Family Closes ClinicJust saw <a href="http://hosted.ap.org/dynamic/stories/U/US_ABORTION_SHOOTING?SITE=MAFAL&SECTION=HOME&TEMPLATE=DEFAULT">this</a> from the AP: <br /><br /><blockquote>WICHITA, Kan. (AP) _ The family of slain abortion provider George<br />Tiller said Tuesday that his Wichita clinic will be "permanently<br />closed," effective immediately.<br /><br />In a statement released by Tiller's attorneys, his family said it<br />is ceasing operation of Women's Health Care Services Inc. and any<br />involvement by family members in any other similar clinic.<br /><br />"We are proud of the service and courage shown by our husband and<br />father and know that women's health care needs have been met because<br />of his dedication and service," the family said.<br /><br />Tiller was shot to death May 31 while serving as an usher at the<br />Lutheran church in Wichita that he regularly attended. Scott Roeder is<br />being held on charges of first-degree murder and aggravated assault in<br />Tiller's death.<br /><br />Tiller's family said it will honor his memory through private<br />charitable activities.<br /><br />Family members said they wanted to assure Tiller's previous<br />patients that the privacy of their medical histories and patient<br />records will remain "as fiercely protected now and in the future" as<br />they were during Tiller's lifetime.</blockquote><br /><br /><br />While I understand the Tiller family's concern, this sends a dangerous message to would-be attackers out there that they can be successful in closing clinics through violence. Given that Tiller's accused shooter <a href="http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2009/06/07/scott-roeder-abortion-doc_n_212346.html">has warned of more violence to come</a>, this is a pretty scary time to be a provider.<br /><br /><br />This also has pretty terrible implications for women seeking abortions. Not only does it raise serious access questions, but it sends a pretty basic message to them as well. <br /><br /><br />I guess sometimes, the terrorists win.<br /><br /><br /><b>Update</b>: The fabulous Jen Nedeau at <a href="http://womensrights.change.org">Change.org</a> has a great analysis of how this fits in with the larger Kansas political landscape, including some great background on the anti-Tiller attacks. Check it out <a href="http://womensrights.change.org/blog/view/never_again_its_time_to_trust_women">here</a>.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-8936657836843447546?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Angienoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-84207006125468827152009-06-08T22:52:00.005-05:002009-06-08T23:47:51.181-05:00Todd Epp Embraces the Douche-a-tronYes, Todd Epp's latest stint is ridiculous and thanks to <a href="http://flyingtomato.wordpress.com/2009/06/08/are-you-man-enough-for-the-middle-border/">Rebecca</a> and <a href="http://madvilletimes.blogspot.com/2009/06/smokin-hot-babes-and-feminist-critique.html">Cory</a>, Angie, and Anna ( both below) for taking him to task. Through Todd's latest escapade, I was reminded of the ridiculously sexist Carls Jr. ad campaign, courtesy of Target Women of Infomania.<br /><br /><object width="425" height="344"><param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/x4HzlRQDIes&hl=en&fs=1&"></param><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"></param><param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"></param><embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/x4HzlRQDIes&hl=en&fs=1&" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="425" height="344"></embed></object><br /><br />Also, where is he coming up with these so-called 'progressive babes?' Last time I checked, Shannon Stevens was pretty public after the 2008 election about the fact that she voted for the McCain/Palin ticket. Having taken a paycheck from the very organization of which she voted against, this seems counter-productive to the advance of the pro-choice agenda. I would question the 'progressiveness' of that 'babe.'<br /><br />Anywho, Todd is free to continue to be the shotty "Esquire" of the blogosphere, but I hope he doesn't expect that anyone's going to take him as anything but that. I mean, what next? A deep analysis of "Manswers" and because his wife thinks it's funny, it's totally progressive? Give me a break...and meanwhile, get some substantive information...or at least do your homework. This is a gross disgrace of a progressive. And unfortunately, it isn't the first time.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-8420700612546882715?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>That Girlnoreply@blogger.com6tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5034285474210314097.post-18255799551667965402009-06-08T22:49:00.003-05:002009-06-08T23:17:53.640-05:00Some thoughts on the "babe" kerfluffle...Angie posted a lot of good links below about the controversy over Todd Epp's 'babes' and the controversy they've caused in the local blogosphere. <br /><br />The discussion gives those of us who care about the objectification of women a lot to think about - as for me, I'm considering the place that DakotaWomen occupies in the local blogosphere. (As a way of getting at what I'm trying to say, here, I'm having a difficult time putting these thoughts together because I don't want to be accused by the guys in the blogosphere of being a whiner, or - god forbid - "shrill.") To be quite honest, I think it's rare that we get the respect we deserve - and I think more than a little of that has to do with the fact that this is a group blog whose contributors are all women under the age of 30. <br /><br />I'll be the first to admit that the four of us tend to approach blogging from a more lighthearted perspective than many - though we're all fairly young, we've logged a lot of years of activist work on women's/LGBT issues in South Dakota and elsewhere. I think I'm the only one who has never been paid for my work, but, being the oldest, I suspect I top the other contributors in years of service. :) When you do the type of work that we do, you have to be able to laugh or you'll go insane. Our snarkier, more sarcastic posts, though, are labeled as "shrill," our lovely commenters refer to us as "rabid...man hating she-wolves," we're reprimanded for our tone and snidely told to be nicer, our responses to other bloggers are labeled "scoldings"...I'm sorry, but this simply doesn't happen elsewhere on the blogosphere. The experience we've gained through our activist work and through our educations (seriously, folks...more degrees than a thermometer among the DW crew) seems not to be taken too seriously. If, when I began blogging, you'd have told me that Ken Blanchard at South Dakota Politics would be the only person willing to engage what I had to say in any substantive fashion, I'd have told you that you were crazy. But there you have it. <br /><br />Now that I've had the chance to look at Todd's posts, I finally understand why this happens. It's not enough that I'm headed toward a Ph.D. in my chosen field, or that another contributor just received a law degree. It's not important that we're lobbyists, strategists, educators, canvassers, envelope stuffers, ticket sellers, or board members. What's really important to liberal guys is that we look like <i>Esquire</i> models while we're doing it. <br /><br />If only I was a Sports Illustrated swimsuit model working on a Ph.D. - THEN I'd be taken seriously. <br /><br />Thanks for the heads up, Todd.<div class="blogger-post-footer"><img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/5034285474210314097-1825579955166796540?l=dakotawomen.blogspot.com'/></div>Annahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07701924315897238428noreply@blogger.com4