Law of Attraction

The Law of Attraction, Train Wrecks and You.

2009-04-18T06:48:00.001-07:00

Whacky title I know. I want to address an issue of keeping up with the Jones'. What a crock. In the past twenty years as I have walked this path of continued personal growth one of the most interesting things is helping people with goal setting. Invariably once someone begins to set goals they go something like this; I want to make 10,000 a month from my part-time venuture by X date, I would like a nice vineyard and Villa in Italy and yea I gotta have the new BMW M6 or the Lamborghini Diablo is the car for me.

I think a very important point is being missed with those types of goals. Now before you get fired up, let me say that I don't have anything against second homes abroad or expensive sports cars, in fact I love that stuff. It is JUST stuff though. Here is where the train wreck comes. If we chase the stuff as opposed to chasing who we are to become we can get derailed.

We all are trying to learn and apply the law of attraction to gain success. The challenge is in each person's definition of success. How do you define it personally? I would encourage you to dig deeper than the accumulation of material possessions. Why do you want to possess that BMW? There is
always an underlying reason. You may say I want to able to drive a safer and more reliable vehicle. OK, fair enough but wouldn't a Volvo wagon or many other vehicles work as well? What I am trying to get at is an encouragement to define those emotional reasons you want to align yourself with success.

It would seem that generally when you finally distill all of the reasons of chasing material wealth it comes down to the desire for happiness and fulfillment. In this regard the Law of Attraction is much more responsive. You may have heard the mantra of BE-DO-HAVE? I love that because it is in the act of BEING that supports the rest.

The good news is that if you bypass all of the fluff and focus on the being part, you will have all of the material possessions you could possibly want. The state of happiness, contentment, love and gratitude for what IS, allows you to get what you truly want. So turbo charge the law of attraction by focusing on and acknowledging who you truly are inside. Get off the ROAD to happiness and success and BE successful NOW through happiness.

About the Author: Tim ONeill is a serial entrepreneur and self development coach who uses the attraction marketing model to offer the most effective online training to home business owners. His blog at http://www.lifebyavision.com offers support and encouragement for guests and his self development business opportunity at http:///www.abundancecreationsecrets.com

Action and the Law of Attraction

2009-03-26T16:27:00.001-07:00

Ok, first things first about this whole law of attraction thing that seems to be a stumbling block. One of the biggest misnomers I have seen regarding the change of one's current life situation is the lack of action. Action is a major component of making positive changes in one's life. As much as I liked some things about the movie "The Secret", there were some area's I would tend to refute in a big way. The first one would be the idea that the universe is at your beck and call to fulfill your every desire…. just by thinking about it. While there is another problematic statement in that sentence, what we are trying to focus on here is action. While thinking about something you desire and writing goals, affirmations, creating video and subliminal recordings can impact your outcome significantly, nothing will happen until you take action toward that goal. You can't just sit in a room "visualizing" success and truly believe that your bank account will magically fill to the brim, or your perfect "match" for life will show up at your doorstep delivering pizza, mail, or your latest purchase from CVC. It really won't work.

The law of attraction is real. I believe like many other things in life that it requires that sometimes missing component of common sense. What is curious is that the more difficult our circumstances become the more we tend to grasp at straws. We hold on to hope until our last tenet of strength finds us cavorting with prospects that are not real. Action works every time. Action works best when surrounded by all of the other things we talked about above, that is, setting goals and visiting them daily, affirming in present tense that you have that which you are working towards and making video and sound recording to support everything. The process is Be, Do, Have. There is a connection with all of these tenets and one without the other will negate or impair your vision for success and certainly impede your progress to your desired goal.

To take full advantage attracting success or whatever it is you are looking for, that which you desire must be top of mind and then you venture out to make things happen. During the process of doing you will begin to see opportunities specific to what you are looking for all around you. It is the craziest thing ever.

I remember a point in my life where I was really broke. There were many circumstances that led to where I was and most of them of my own doing. I purchased an old beat up Subaru and did some work to it to make it run nicely and get me to and fro. I had never seen a Subaru like that before. As soon as I started driving the thing I noticed them all over the place. My awareness increased, they may have always been there, I just didn't "see" them. Pursuing your goals is much the same way. There are many opportunities out there; we truly live in an abundant world. We generally don't see those opportunities until we begin to pursue a specific goal. Your awareness will increase the more action you take. The action with the increased awareness is what allows more opportunities to come your way.

Here is a old story that sums up nicely the whole situation with action. As a raging flood threatened a small community one man prayed to be spared. As he prayed the last fleeing townsman drove up in his oversized four wheel drive and shouted, "Hop in I can get you to safety". The praying man said no I am good I have prayed to be spared. As the flood water continued to rise the man went up to his 2^nd floor deck now just above the fast running water. A boat staying just ahead of a rising tide of current stopped briefly at the man's deck, the drenched and bedraggled group in the boat offered him a hand to get in. The answer from the man was the same, I have prayed to be saved everything is ok. A few minutes later the water is now to the roofline of the house. The man crawls on his roof and sees a helicopter hovering just above him, a basket quickly being dropped down for him. The man waved them of saying, I have prayed to be saved, and everything is ok. As the helicopter continued to lower the basket the man's house collapsed against the weight of the ever rising water and the man drowned. In heaven this man questioned God and asked him why he had not been spared. God's reply was, I sent you a 4 wheel drive truck, a boat and a helicopter, what more did you need?

The story has been around forever and no doubt you have heard it before. What I want to point out is that the missing component was action. Had the man combined action with his belief he would no doubt have been saved. Change your life take action.

Here is a really cool quote from one of my favorite Authors:

"If a person advances confidently in the direction of their dream, and endeavors to live the life they have imagined, they will meet success unexpected in common hours." -Thoreau

See ya next time.

Tim

Chasing Excellence with The Law of Attraction

2009-03-15T06:02:00.001-07:00

Hello everyone! I am happy to be writing my first post for The Law of Attraction blog at White Dove Books. The goal here is to research, read and share thoughts about the law of attraction. We will be able to peek at various opinions on what the law of attraction is, if it works, how it works, and see if it will work for everyone. We can attempt to be one of the go-to source's for information on the law of attraction but ultimately each person will need to make the decisions regarding their own beliefs about this "universal law".

When I was first introduced to the methodologies currently presented in the Secret, I was just a youngster right out of high school. I had a passion for art and a passion for living life on my own terms. Back then I suppose it was perceived mostly as rebellion. It wasn't rebellion in my mind though. I really did not want the emptiness of life that seemed to be the standard of many families I observed. There was no passion, no purpose that shined through with the average person or family. Where was the joy? There wasn't any, that is the point. I don't mean that people were always crabby or mean or anything like that. It is just that everyone seemed to be like limp fish with glazed over eyes all on auto pilot just rehashing the same drudgery day after day. I didn't really know exactly what I wanted but I did know what I didn't want.

As I mentioned I had a passion for art and photography. I had been working with a local business doing some lab work and some really fun stuff with photography and decided that is what I would do for a living. After research I narrowed my choices down to Brooks Institute and the military. Well, travel and free won over waiting tables and huge tuition so, the US Navy became my new school, home and job for the next 5 years. Oddly, this is where I began to get involved with what we now call the law of attraction. That was in 1979 and I have learned a bunch since then. Much of it not through wisdom but through failure.

As I began growing and maturing in my skills as an artist and photographer my curiosity was peaked specific to excellence and top performers. From an outside perspective the technical skills I observed from high producers were all the same. The top 10 percent left the other 90 in the dust. Simple. That was work ethic and learning to be effective. What was it that separated the top 1/2% or 1% from the rest though? That is where I wanted to be and that is what really drove me to begin the study of the law of attraction.

In the next post I will examine a few things I discovered that led me down the path of utilizing some of the principles that are relevant to the law of attraction.

About the Author: Tim ONeill is a serial entrepreneur and self development coach who uses the attraction marketing model to offer the most effective online training to home business owners. His blog at Life by a vision.com offers support and encouragement for guests and affiliates with his internet home business.

New Expert Author

2009-03-08T07:33:00.001-07:00

First of all, I would like to thank Robin - our outgoing author for his help in getting this Blog started. Her contributions have been greatly appreciated and we wish her good luck in her future endeavours online.

That said, the Law of Attraction Blog now has a new Expert Author. I am pleased to welcome Tim O'Neill to the chair. Posts made here, from today's date onward, are by Tim. I am really looking forward to reading his Blog over the coming weeks.

How to Attract Romance by Rebecca Hanson

2008-11-25T06:44:00.000-08:00

Often I receive emails asking me how to use the Law of Attraction to attract a certain person--usually for romatic purposes. One woman, in her 40's, wrote to me this week and has given me permission to share some of our correspondence with you. Perhaps you (or someone you know) will recognize the feelings expressed here:

"Please can you help me understand how to bring back the love of my life. We only dated for a short time but I know he is the one. He has been hurt badly and didn't want to end things with me but felt he had to because he was frightened he would be hurt again. It was a very emotional ending for both of us.

I love him so much that I let him go and I respect him so I have stayed away to give him time and space. We have been apart for three months. In my heart I know that we are meant to be together but even though I was so sad and in despair I still felt loving and kindness towards him and my thoughts were always hopeful. And in my longing and praying several 'co-incidences' have happened.

Not long after we split up I started searching the web for anything that could give me advice about winning back the man I love and discovered the Law of Attraction. . .Can you help me?"

Sometimes a man will write to me in a similar vein: "I'm in love with this wonderful (or beautiful) woman. I know she is the one for me. Our paths have crossed often. How can I get her to notice me (or go out with me)?"

In part one of this two-part series, we'll look at why you are NOT in a relationship with the "love of your dreams." In part two we'll look at what to do when a seemingly "perfect partnership" falls apart. I hope that while reading both you will also understand how the Law of attraction DOES bring the true Mr./Ms. Right your way – because it will work!

Part one: "Why am I NOT in a relationship with the love of my life? What's happening here? Is the Law of Attraction at work?" Of course it is!

The Law of Attraction is always reflecting back to you your vibration. Remember:You can know what you are vibrating by observing what IS showing up in your life.

When you think you are in love with someone—and are sure they are "the one," but cannot seem to convince him or her or attract him or her, then they are NOT "the one". If they were, you would already be in a relationship with them--a natural, mutual, harmonious relationship that both of you equally gravitated toward.

Two scenarios are really at play here:

You are in love with the idea of this person being in love with you. That someone with these physical attributes, or character traits, or successes in life could want to be with you is an exhilarating idea.

What often happens is that you meet someone who has five (or ten) characteristics that you are looking for in your ideal partner and you assume that he or she is your "ideal mate." You think, "This is it! I've found 'the one' for me for the rest of my life." However, the attraction just doesn’t seem mutual and you do not understand why. Didn’t the Law of Attraction bring them to you? Well, the real question is are they looking for someone like you? Are you a vibrational match for this person?

Remember that the person you are looking at may only appear to have the qualities you desire. Underneath the exterior clothing of beauty and success, there may be person with entirely different goals, beliefs and core values than yours. Even if you are very similar, what is he or she looking for? The role of their ideal mate may be very different from one you would truly like to play.

The second scenario goes like this:

You are in love with the idea of being “allowed” to love this person Seeing their potential and their needs, you may also see how “helpful” you could be for them as a mate. Searching for love with this motive is especially dangerous because, sadly, more often than not there is simply an insecure, life-draining person there, hoping to find someone to give their life meaning and purpose. (Not a healthy thought.) Victims attract someone who can make them a victim again. The poor attract someone who can enable them to continue in their poverty. The Law of Attraction is not fooled, nor can it be manipulated through words and expressions of desires that are not in alignment with the truth.

But you see so many people around you happy and in love, why does it not come your way?

Here is how the Law of Attraction does work, and how you can make it work for you:

In order to attract the "ideal partner"-- someone who is in vibrational harmony with who you are--you must be what you seek.

Are you looking for someone who is kind? You must be kind. Do you want someone with good looks? You must care about how you look. Do you want someone who will make a commitment to you? Ask yourself, "Do I keep commitments?" Do you want someone who is successful? Ask your self, "Am I vibrating success?"

Remember, the Law of Attraction is bringing to you exactly what you are vibrating. If you want something different in your life, you must change yourself--your vibration. It's an inside job and you can only change yourself-- you can't change someone else's vibration.

I referred to the second scenario as especially dangerous for this reason exactly – you can’t change someone else, and while trying to do so you stop concentrating on yourself, stalling any change and growth that may need to occur in you.

You CAN attract your ideal partner. You CAN find joy in a healthy relationship. Just start with yourself:

KNOW yourself
ACCEPT yourself
HONOR yourself
TRUST yourself
LOVE yourself

When you do, the most perfect relationships happen in a perfectly natural way.

Why? Because your healthy relationship with yourself is reflected in your healthy relationship with that significant other.

Rebecca Hanson is a Master Law of Attraction Coach. Thousands of people have enjoyed her talks or articles about real-life experiences and how she found the "nugget of truth" in every situation. Now she has such a deep grasp of how faith, beliefs and thinking work that she is able to lift others to a higher level, very quickly. You can contact Rebecca at Rebecca@YouCanHaveItAll.com or on her website at http://www.youcanhaveitall.com and sign up for her free “Museletter”.

Rebecca has also written a book called, “Law of Attraction for Business: How to create a business or attract a job you LOVE!” To find out more about this book and other information check out http://www.lawofattractionresources.com/

Luck And The Law of Attraction

2008-09-23T09:44:00.001-07:00

Do you ever notice those people who seem to have all the luck? They drive new cars, live in the best neighborhoods and have the best jobs. It certainly could seem quite mysterious and make you wonder whether you have "it" or not. Most people simply assume that being lucky is just that - luck. However, the Law of Attraction can show you that simply choosing to be lucky can be a reality.

If you look up luck you'll find that part of the given definition is something that happens by chance. The Law of Attraction let's you realize that chance has nothing to do with whether you're lucky or not. It's all about how you think, believe, act and feel that determines how any given situation turns out, not just an oddball hit-or-miss.

Your luck is determined by your own inner being and the things you do on a regular basis. Being conscious of how you use the Law of Attraction can make you one of those lucky people in a very short time. Understanding how to get this energy flowing into your life is key. You have to take on the personality and actions of a lucky person in order to attract luck. Changing your thoughts in this way can change your entire life. Living with the feelings of luck will alter how you attract more prosperity into your life and more opportunities for good luck.

So, what is the secret to developing this mindset? Well one way to figure this out is to watch the people who do have what seems like luck in their DNA. Here are some of the things I have noticed about lucky people and I'm sure you'll recognize some of these.

==> Those who appear very lucky don't spend their time dwelling on negative things. They don't think of the past, but live for the moment. They also don't tend to worry about the future. Their philosophy appears to be that the past is over, the future isn't here, the only time is this moment. They grab onto the passion and joy that life is right now. The future doesn't matter because what will be is simply what will be so there's no use spending any energy worrying over it. These people also think a little clearer than the rest of us when it comes to being aware of the opportunities that are available in the present.

==> You will almost never see a lucky person hesitate to take action when it comes to something they really want to do. They have no doubts and jump right in when the chance is offered for something they desire. Most lucky people aren't afraid to work hard but they also make it fun! They control their own lives and have no time to moan about the things that aren't right in their lives. You'll clearly see the lucky person going where they really want to go without fear.

==> The most important thing I've noticed about lucky people is their ability to maintain a positive outlook. They always expect the best outcome in whatever they are doing. If they miss a good opportunity, they simply go on and prepare for the next one so that they're always ready to receive whatever comes their way. A lucky person is determined to make a situation work for them rather than going with the flow. At the same time, they also don't get too attached to the outcome but remain open to whatever life has to offer. This very attitude is what will cause the Law of Attraction to send wonderful opportunities and gives them the ability to recognize the gifts when they're presented.

If you want to start receiving a flow of abundance (or luck), start to consciously take on these attitudes and actions for your own life. You will be amazed at the opportunities that will become available to increase your own luck and attract the best outcomes for your own situation.

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Prosperity & The Law of Attraction

2008-09-19T04:42:00.001-07:00

When you own your own business, the plan is to receive the prosperity that comes from that. The Law of Attraction and prosperity have everything to do with how you think, believe, feel, as well as your expectations and core beliefs as you go about your business each day.

The key question here is - are you willing to accept the prosperity that can come through the Law of Attraction? Now before you think you have the answer to that question, take a moment to really consider what it means. Of course you're ready and willing to accept prosperity. You'd be nuts not to open your bank account to a big old bag of cash.

However, there are some of us who resist success and prosperity unconsciously. Sure it's easy to say you want that success, but consider this: do you ever turn down chances to better your business because you think there are others who are needier? Do you pack your bags for a guilt trip every time you get a gift? Do you try to deflect attention elsewhere when others say nice things about you?

There are a lot more situations that would demonstrate this same attitude of not being receptive. The Universe receives this strong vibration from you that you do not deserve success and prosperity and to have nice things happen to you. If you're uncomfortable receiving prosperity, then that prosperity will flow to someone else.

The following are some suggestions on how to be more receptive to the prosperity that is already yours:

==> Repeat this statement as many times a day as you can, "I am successful and I receive the prosperity that is already here." When you say this, feel how exciting it is that all the marvelous things you desire are coming to you right now. When new opportunities arrive, or when you receive compliments or gifts, appreciate those things and feel that in your heart.

==> Give and keep on giving. When it becomes natural to you to be generous with your support and energy and even money, you'll become more receptive to prosperity for yourself.

==> Gratitude is the main key to the Law of Attraction. Express gratitude every day for everything, no matter how large or small. When you know that you need to be more open to receiving the gifts of the Universe, stay focused on the goodness around you. Do this for all things, whether gifts from others or from the things that are already in your life. Include the success and prosperity that is coming to you in the near future. Be grateful for it at all times.

==> Positive affirmations every day will reinforce your belief that you deserve all the good things life has to offer. Always be grateful for what you have and positively affirm that you are willing to accept more. Developing a real solid core belief in your own worthiness will make it much easier to accept prosperity in all its forms. This would include a successful business and the prosperity that comes with that success.

These tips will help you get into the habit of being able to receive prosperity rather than an attitude that turns it away. The more this becomes a part of you, the more the Universe will send your way! Just believe!

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Expectation & The Law of Attraction

2008-09-17T16:56:00.001-07:00

The Law of Attraction can be used in all aspects of life, including your business. How well your business does depends on your expectations. I'm not talking about hoping it will do well, but really expecting it to blossom. Your expectations are what the Universe will see and therefore what you'll get in return. Spending a good portion of your time worrying about whether or not your business will succeed means you expect it will not. Expectations and the Law of Attraction - you have to expect the best and believe it!

So, how do you go about expecting your business to become successful? It is really a matter of choice! Choose to believe that success is already here. Picture the success in your mind, affirm it to yourself over and over. Do what you need to do to truly believe and expect all good things are yours. Don't spend your time worrying about whether people will want to buy your product or that if you don't get enough business you will fail. Focusing on the negative possibilities will bring more negative energy right back into your life. Expect only good things to happen and know that the Law of Attraction is working on your behalf when you do.

What about the beliefs you hold at your core? What are those things you truly believe when no one else is looking? Have you ever believed that you have what it takes to succeed? Do you believe that you have the talent to make your business a success? Do you really believe in what you're doing? Do you really deserve to succeed? The answers to these questions will determine whether or not you have a successful business. If you don't allow it to happen, it simply won't.

In your subconscious resides the truth of what you truly believe. The only reality is your own perception. The truth as your subconscious believes is exactly how you create your existence. If you believe deep down that you won't be successful, then no matter how hard you try your own beliefs will not allow a different outcome. You will constantly put roadblocks in your own way. It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy and you get exactly what you believe.

A good method to keep on the right track is positive affirmations. However, you must believe what you're saying or it's waste of time. Here are some examples of affirmations that you can adapt to fit your own situation. Take note of how you feel when you say these things out loud:

"My business will be a success because I have what it takes to make it happen."
"A successful business is what I deserve."
"My product is something I believe in completely."

If you feel like you're resisting, then it's time to get to work. The easiest thing to do at that point is to keep repeating these positive affirmations until you stomp the negativity into oblivion! Being aware of the feelings and what you're trying to do will shorten the process, but it will happen. Believe it!

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Living The Law Of Attraction From A New Mindset

2008-09-12T06:26:00.001-07:00

When you stop to consider how your life has been sculpted by your beliefs, thoughts and emotions, it might be time to create a new way of living to improve your health. You can do that with the Law of Attraction.

What you have to do to start attracting good health and vitality into your life is to change your belief system. For most of your life you've probably been surrounded by sick people. When you were a child, your parents and other family members developed illnesses and accepted them as part of life. You listened to these messages and their acceptance of sickness as a normal condition of living and made it part of your belief system.

Before any change for the better can start in your life, YOUR beliefs have to change to allow the benefits of the Law of Attraction to start helping you. It's not as easy as deciding that you will believe something different tomorrow and your body will heal itself by noon. Not going to happen.

The first thing you have to do is recognize what YOU believe about your health and the state of your body. It doesn't matter what anyone else believes about you. Your beliefs are the ones controlling your health and well-being.

Start by noticing how you feel during different parts of the day. Do you feel like death warmed over in the morning? Does late afternoon have so many pains to ignore that you cannot easily function? Are you afraid that your kids are going to bring the latest virus home from school and share it with you?

When you focus on aches and pains and spend time dreading the possibility of catching something, you are making sure that your pains WILL escalate and that the grammar school bug WILL find a home with you. The Universe and the Law of Attraction always return to you exactly what you send out. Fear, illness, pain and dread will get returned to you in abundance until you can change your beliefs.

To start with, take the pain or ache that bothers you the most and start changing your belief about it. Instead of thinking, "There's MY backache again. Right on time," or "MY headache's back!" which reinforces your ownership of the backache or headache, for example, try simply acknowledging the ache and not claiming ownership of it. Instead, start visualizing your back without pain or your head without a pounding headache that bothers you every afternoon.

Visualization is a powerful, life-changing technique that can make dramatic changes in your health and the state of your entire life, for that matter. What you do is acknowledge the pain or illness and simply start visualizing a pain-free life or healthy body.

Make that visualization as real as possible. Call it daydreaming if you want. It doesn't matter what you call it as long as you can see a better, healthier you in your mind's eye. See yourself doing activities you've been unable to do for years or just feeling alive and vibrant, full of strength and energy. Don't visualize anything like it's a future event. See it like it is already a fact of life, already part of your life...a done deal. Anything else is wishful thinking and not visualization.

Once you've practiced visualization for a while and are comfortable with the technique, notice all the good things in your life and about your health. Start feeling grateful for all the good things in your life. It doesn't matter how small they are. Just start noticing them.

Is there a small flower in a mayonnaise jar sitting on your windowsill, a present from your toddler? Be grateful for the love your child feels for you. Did your husband move the boxes in the garage so you could get in and out of your car easier? Be grateful for his consideration. Did your headache skip an afternoon after you started visualizing life without it? Be grateful. You get the idea.

Expressing gratitude refocuses your mind and emotions on the good in your life, rather than what's bad or painful. When you reinforce that new focus with positive visualizations and honest expressions of gratitude, you will attract the attention of the Universe and get more of the same in return.

Don't be disturbed when your mind returns to old thinking and believing patterns and you start dwelling once again on your physical problems. Just quietly say, "No" and return to your positive visualizations and feelings of gratitude. Just believe!

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How Your Beliefs Control Your Health

2008-09-10T18:27:00.001-07:00

Whether you know it or not, your beliefs control the state of your health and have a large part in determining whether or not you will ever reach good health. When some thought has been reinforced in your mind by countless repetitions, it becomes your belief, your truth about yourself, even if it's not true.

Those inaccurate beliefs actually control what your body attracts from the Universe and the Law of Attraction. When you believe something is true, like you always get a cold in February, it becomes an accurate belief and will be proven over and over as the Universe sends you your February cold to match your belief.

That same process applies to anything you are trying to use the Law of Attraction to send to you. Your limiting beliefs will not allow the abundance you want to get to you, regardless of all the right actions and thoughts you are practicing every day. Put simply, if you don't believe you can get healthy, you will not because your subconscious mind will block it.

Your self image, your mental picture of who you are and what you can do for yourself, is a powerful force behind the aspects of your current health situation. If you do not believe that you are worthy of being healed or hold tight to a limiting belief in a critical or disapproving Universe or Higher Being, you will block any healing energy being sent to you.

The real problem with trying to attract healing energy from the Law of Attraction and not being successful is two-fold. First, you can be making positive changes to your thinking, feelings and activities and still keep your old belief system that limits your success. That negative Boomerang effect will spread out and retard the forward progress you are making in other areas of your consciousness.

If your real beliefs about yourself are subconscious and self-limiting, how can you know that and change them?

One way is to become aware of how you are feeling and thinking when something new pops up in your mind and you automatically dismiss it as "not for you" or "not what you believe." If you actually slow down your dismissal reaction and consider the possibility of one of those new concepts, you will feel a sense of inner conflict or anxiety.

In order to dissolve your subconscious resistance to change and start placing new, positive beliefs in their place, try mentally repeating several positive statements that start with, "I believe..." or "I am..." Even if these mantras make you feel uncomfortable, keep on doing it. Every time you repeat something positive, little pieces of your old, invisible negative beliefs will start to dissolve until you have replaced it with a new belief that will help you heal yourself.

Most of us don't know when we hold limiting beliefs that keep us from receiving the Universal abundance we deserve. A lot of our subliminal reinforcement of those limiting beliefs was imposed by what our parents believed when we were children. Your task now is to find those beliefs that have you stalled with poor health and change them into beliefs that will allow you to heal yourself.

Of course, rooting out your limiting beliefs will not be easy and should not be tackled like a major, all encompassing, emotional Spring cleaning. Take it gently, one belief at a time. Try identifying one belief you hold that could be changed into one that will be more productive for you. Write out positive statements that replace what you've always believed that might be keeping you ill.

Whatever you do, your main focus needs to be on what you believe about you, specifically what believe you deserve, and what you believe you can achieve, what is possible. You can change your beliefs at any time in your life, even if they were formed and reinforced by the beliefs of those all around you.

When you are creating a new belief for those limiting ones you've been carrying around for decades, be sure to make it one you believe is possible. If a specific one directed at a physical ailment you have keeps bouncing back at you as not believable, make a more generic replacement, like, "I believe in the healing power of the Universe and the miracle of good health is part of my life."

Any positive statement that starts to replace the old beliefs you've held in your heart will start working for you. Just believe and enjoy the change in your health!

Healing Energy From The Law Of Attraction

2008-09-08T03:06:00.001-07:00

Creating a powerful flow of healing energy through your body is a simple method to use on a daily basis that will improve your health and increase your vitality. Removing the blockages in your body that stop the natural flow of healthy energy from the Law of Attraction will begin to strengthen what you receive from the Universe.

Here are some simple techniques to use that will start healing your body:

==> Visualization is a technique that has a lot to do with your belief system. You attract what you believe. When you concentrate on being sick or not being healthy, that is exactly the result you attract.

What you need to do when you first start to visualize better health is to begin seeing yourself as healthy, vibrant and active physically. It doesn't matter what the exact image is, but how your visualizations make you feel.

For example, if you see yourself being physically strong enough to play tennis again, or to jog through the park on a sunny day, and it makes you feel strong and healthy, you will be signaling the Universe to send you more of the same. You can also simply see yourself being wrapped in a healing wave of white light and KNOW that it is dissolving all your energy blockages that keep you in a state of bad health.

When you practice positive visualizations techniques and make a choice to believe what you are visualizing, you are changing your personal belief system into a positive force that reaches the Law of Attraction and the Universe with enough energy to start a healthy abundance flow back to you.

==> Quieting your thoughts and emotions with meditation will connect you on a deeper level to your spiritual center and jump start the healing energy you already have.

Meditating is actually an easy process that doesn't need all the hoopla you can find in some books or websites on the subject. All meditation is just a process to quiet your mind and center your thoughts and emotions so your own spiritual energy can work for you.

If it helps you, play soothing music softly in the background or burn lightly scented candles. Sit in a comfortable chair and do not curl yourself up or put pressure on your knees or other joints. Be open to the Universe by not restricting the free flow of energy with your posture.

When you first start to meditate, it is normal for your thoughts to wander around the day's problems or disappointments. Just gently bring your mind back to a focus on relaxation and peace and visualize the healthy changes you want. The more you practice this the stronger you will get.

==> Breathing techniques are the simplest, but one of the most powerful ways to start healing your own body. Everybody knows how to breathe. That's a given if you're still alive. The trick is learning how to breathe to start healing processes in your body.

Most of us take quick shallow breaths rather than the deep, slow breaths that will sustain our good health. When you slow down your breathing, your entire body relaxes and you reach a more peaceful, spiritual state. Breathing deeper puts more oxygen into your bloodstream and energizes your body's energy centers, which starts healing.

Here's what to do:

Inhale slowly, expanding your abdomen first and then your chest. Hold your breath for a couple of seconds and then very slowly exhale until your lungs are empty. Repeat this process as often as you can during your day, but take a break for a few seconds between deep breaths so you don't get dizzy.

These methods really are that simple and get easier with practice. It works. Just believe!

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Gratitude: The Key To The Law of Attraction

2008-09-05T16:51:00.001-07:00

The biggest stumbling block that gets in the way when most of us start out using the Law of Attraction is our own self talk. We all develop an internal dialogue that gets in our way without our even being aware of it most of the time. Sometimes it's downright scary when you take a real look inside yourself and find out what you really think of YOU.

When it comes to the Law of Attraction, most often thoughts of what you do NOT have are what are revolving in your head. Life is rough at times and when you don't have enough, it's really hard to stay positive and not worry about what you're lacking. Other times, things irritate us out of all proportion to the event. My downfall is usually "rush" hour traffic. Ever wonder why they call it that? No one is rushing anywhere. But, I digress.

The most valuable tool you have at your disposal in using the Law of Attraction is an attitude of gratitude. Gratitude is a process. Of course not everything can cause you to feel grateful. The hardest part of the process is to stop what you're doing now. Stop the worry. Yes, there are things you need and want. Things go wrong in every life, but you have to learn to let go of the things over which you have no control. Trying to control the uncontrollable will drive you straight to a padded room. So what are you supposed to do instead? Concentrate on what you DO have. Do you have children? How about a good car? A job? Friends and family?

Imagine life without your children, a way to get to work, your family or your home. Now feel the gratitude for these things that ARE and how it makes you feel. That feeling and those vibrations are heard and answered by the Law of Attraction and the Universe. Every day when you get out of bed, take just a minute to think of your "gratitude list." There are more things than you think that have gone into your successes, even those things you don't think of as successes.

Now the best part of focusing on that you're grateful for is that you immediately begin to attract even more for which to be grateful. Concentrate on what you already have and you'll bring more into your life. Replace the negative view with positive vibrations and you will be amazed at what starts manifesting in your life. The more you do this, the stronger the vibrations are that you're sending out into the Universe.

Being in a constant state of gratitude and taking joy in what you have allows you stay in the moment and maintain the positive vibrations. Those emotions cannot help but draw more of the same. This is the simplest act, and the most powerful thing you can do to manifest what you want and need in your life. Remember to stop the negative internal talk and instead send out vibrations of gratitude and joy. You will receive that joy in return. Just believe!

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Can The Law Of Attraction Return Your Health And Vitality?

2008-09-03T02:58:00.001-07:00

When you begin to change your belief system by removing fears and the expectation of catching every illness around you, better health is sure to follow. Since the Universe sends back to you exactly what you send out, simple changes can make a great deal of improvement in your everyday health.

Changing your attitude and emotional focus will begin to remove the energy blockages that repel the abundance the Universe, through the Law of Attraction, wants to send you.

Good health is the natural state of your body, but fatigue, negative thoughts, stress and bouts of illnesses beat us down until we lose our vitality and start to believe that we are always going to be sick and drained of all energy. That belief, if not changed immediately, will become your reality.

Suppose you could turn years of feeling ill, or unable to get well, completely around until you begin to feel like your old self, healthy, robust and full of strength. How would you like to feel great most of the time, instead of always ill or so tired you can hardly get through a day? It's possible.

There's so many causes for most diseases and illnesses that one solution for everyone is not possible. But there are mind-sets and emotions that attract good health. Let's consider three important ones:

==> Developing positive emotions will change your reality, especially the condition of your body. Since you attract conditions that reflect your thoughts and feelings, positive emotions create peace and happiness within your body and spirit. That relaxation of stress and fear will start dissolving the blocks to your energy flow that you've created to make it impossible to get healthy.

Negative emotions, on the other hand, keep us angry, afraid and so full of frustration that we get ill and stay that way.

To achieve a state of well-being and improve your own health, practice feeling happiness in everyday things, gratitude for what you already have in your life, true joy every day, a sense of humor and deep love.

==> Improving your attitude and beliefs about yourself will increase your own power to heal yourself. Believing that you will get well will start the process of actually getting well.

If you accept a negative diagnosis concerning your health, you are limiting your possibilities for a healthful life. Your belief system is the most powerful tool you can use to improve your health. Illness isn't a punishment for something you did or didn't do, but a product of your own emotions and beliefs. Your determination to revise your thoughts and feelings will work for you. Just believe!

==> Regaining your health and vitality is not just a product of your cleaned up emotions. While we are spiritual beings, running on pure energy, we need to replenish our bodies with food and clean water. It takes additional energy to dissolve blockages and heal the damage we've done with our negativity.

When you get enough rest, stay hydrated by drinking clean water and eating food full of nutrients, you provide the fuel your body needs to rid itself of energy blockages and imbalances.

There are no guarantees that you'll never get sick or suffer from a disease, but believing that you deserve good health will start the healing process for you. Believing that illnesses and diseases are a personal problem or that they are inevitable is a self-defeating prophecy that will be true as long as you hold onto your fears and negative expectations.

Bring your thoughts, emotions and beliefs into positive balance and good things will start to happen for you. Just BELIEVE!

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Are You Making Yourself Sick With The Law Of Attraction?

2008-09-01T03:41:00.001-07:00

It is well-known that your life and the major events in it are crafted by the emotions and thoughts you send out to the Universe and the Law of Attraction on a daily basis. When those thoughts are full of fears about catching the latest illness of the month or focused on memories of your history with disease, you just attract more sicknesses in response to what you are sending to the Universe.

While it might be convenient to blame all illnesses on the Law of Attraction, it is not logical. Your illnesses can be the result of many causes, including your family's genetics, your own lifestyle habits and your daily moods and patterns of thought.

The big question might be, "Why do positive people get sick, then?" Let's examine that belief some.

The entire Universe is made up of energy. That includes our physical bodies, our environment and even our emotions, thoughts and belief systems. If everything we consider normal is actually energy in a purely physical representation, it seems reasonable to believe that our emotional mind sets, our core beliefs, can effect our health even if we seem positive on the surface.

A person can be positive and still worry about negative possibilities or neurotically fear catching some virus or disease that keeps them focused on their dread of getting sick. When fear controls your emotional balance and belief system, you are actually building blockages to the energy flowing through your body and coming from the Law of Attraction.

The most common causes of energy blockages are negative lifestyle habits, like poor diet, excessive drinking or lack of sleep on a regular basis, excessive worry that keeps you focused on your lack of money or a good job, for example, and limiting beliefs that keep you from expecting an abundant response from the Universe.

Your natural energy flow, if not complicated by your emotional state, is vibrant and direct, allowing for no detours or roadblocks that cause illness and disease or a lack of abundance.

Think of it like a plugged sink in your kitchen. When grease and soap scum build up in the pipes, the water won't drain. It is blocked and the natural flow of water is prevented from flowing naturally until some external force is used to remove the blockage from the pipes.

The same thing happens to you when you start concentrating on the lack of something in your life, groundless fears that cause you stress and attract illness right to you, or believing that you will be sick every winter or will suffer from allergies every spring. Everytime you do that you will be correct.

At first, the blocked energy flow will be minor and unnoticeable. As your fears and mental focus on the "what ifs" in your life gain strength, your healthy energy flow gets increasingly blocked and soon disease and illnesses become part of your life. Until you change your thinking and focus on being grateful for what you DO have in your life, you will delay your return to a healthy state indefinitely.

When you change your belief system and start just believing in all new possibilities for your health, like the next disease or virus is NOT an inevitable problem for you, the Universe will start believing it, too, and things will start to change for the better. Try it. Just believe!

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Can The Law Of Attraction Improve My Health?

2008-08-29T05:24:00.001-07:00

What do you think about your health? Is the current physical state of your body a product of your lifestyle or your family's genetics inherited from your ancestral genealogy? Do you believe your illnesses and physical problems are just a run of bad luck?

Or, do you believe in the power of the Universe and the principles of the Law of Attraction that state the we are responsible for creating the state of our health with our thoughts and beliefs? There's an increasing understanding worldwide that we do create our own destiny with our personal beliefs and mind sets.

The principles of the Law of Attraction certainly explain why some people are seemingly indestructibly healthy and never get sick, while others battle constant illnesses all their life. If you notice the different belief systems both types of people hold and their approach to their lives, you will notice that the healthy individual is happy, focused on the positive elements of his life and has no time for negative considerations. The person with multiple bouts of illnesses will be negative about most aspects of her life and expecting to catch the next bug that comes around.

The basic understanding of the Law of Attraction is simple. What you focus on and believe will happen is exactly what you attract in your life. The Universe sends you back more of what you are sending out from your emotions and thoughts.

When your negative emotions or fears get the upper hand on your belief system and start sending a negative frequency to the Universe, a whole set of related events and situations will show up in your life to match and reinforce your negative mind set.

Does this mean that your emotional state or limited beliefs caused you to have poor health or a specific disease? Probably not. Many factors play a part in your health, like eating habits, lifestyle behaviors, genetics and the emotional and mental attitudes you hold close to your heart and refuse to change. Your mind set has a part in this, even though most of it is on the subconscious level.

While you might never know exactly why you got sick in the first place, you do have a choice about how you will think and feel about it. Those thoughts and feelings will control your reaction to your illness and you can change those emotions to create different outcomes than you've experienced with other illnesses.

If you believe you are doomed to be seriously ill and do nothing to change your belief system into something more positive, like a mental image of your recovery and stronger health, you will not improve your health one bit. Different outcomes from recurring illnesses require different emotional responses and actions to old situations.

Think about it. If the same health problem or illness keeps showing up in your life and you do nothing about it, you will keep on getting the same poor health. Change the way you think and you will change the frequencies of your life.

How many times have you said something like, "My kids always get sick in February," and then been surprised when it happened. If you believe that everytime the wind blows you will get a headache, you will start expecting it when a breeze tickles the leaves on the tree outside your window. The Universe will send you the mother of all headaches to match your powerful expectations.

Understandably, it is difficult to pick apart your own emotions and thoughts when you are very ill. To start with, listen to your own intuition and follow your instincts. When negative thoughts surface just say, "No," and create a new vision of peace, serenity and good health. It works.

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Your Ideal Partner And The Law Of Attraction

2008-08-27T04:57:00.001-07:00

When you want something in your life, like your ideal partner, you can use the Law of Attraction in a specific way that will attract a mate to your side.

What you need to do, in a nutshell, is start living like you already have your ideal partner in your life. When you can create and maintain this reality, you will be living your life inside the reality you are trying to attract.

You can do this by adjusting your thoughts and emotions away from waiting and hoping for the arrival of your dream lover to actually being the person your future mate would want to be with. You need to think, feel and act like someone who already has their dream partner in their life.

Your ideal partner can be blocked from finding you if you focus on your loneliness or the isolation you feel lost in. Can you hear love songs without feeling sad and sorry for yourself? Does the sight of other happy couples make you impatient about waiting for your life to fill with love?

What those emotions are doing is making sure that you live in the emotion of the LACK of an ideal partner you want. Feeling isolated, lonely, sad and sorry rapidly builds barriers and emotional blockages that will prevent the Law of Attraction from sending you any abundance. You have to turn those emotions around and send out positive, happy vibrations to the Law of Attraction if you want to attract a mate.

The following techniques will help you turn your negativity and fear around and make your emotions and thoughts send the right vibrations out to the Universe.

==> Start thinking and feeling like your ideal partner is already in your life. I know this sounds too simple, but it does work.

==> Instead of feeling lonely and isolated, feel loved and cherished. Be happy everyday and project a secure attitude rather than sad and sorry.

==> If you can feel happiness when you see other couples, you will be sending joy and a feeling of being connected with an intimate significant other to the Law of Attraction.

==> Using the power of gratitude, romantic movies and love songs will add pure joy to your heart. Be grateful for the inspiration they instill in you to attract the attention of the Universe.

==> Affirmations that your soul mate will come into your life at the right moment, along with the belief that your significant other is already here, will send a powerful beacon to the Law of Attraction the will get results. Don't just wish for it behind your affirmations. KNOW it is true. Feel grateful that you have that knowledge.

Affirming and visualizing that your ideal partner is already in your life is powerful and effective, but it's not enough unless you make it real for you, like you are already involved. Visualize the activities you would both enjoy.

Now, start LIVING the activities you've been visualizing. If picnics in the park are one of your visualizations, have a picnic there often. Go out to dinner where you visualize your intimate, romantic dates with your ideal partner. If following through on these activities alone isn't comfortable for you, take a friend out to dinner or share your picnic with a family member.

The things you really want in your life will appear once you start living like your significant other is already part of your life.

Attracting anything in your life, whether it's more money, a better job or your dream lover, is achieved the same way. Get a very specific picture of what type of person you want to enter your life. Make room in your closet and your life. If you focus your beliefs and feelings on the type of life partner you want and making it real, the Law of Attraction will send you more than you expected. That's how it works.

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Do You Have Room In Your Life For Your Perfect Partner?

2008-08-25T04:16:00.001-07:00

Using the Law of Attraction to change the way you look at yourself and the people in your life is a powerful technique to attract your perfect partner. But, what will happen when your perfect partner arrives, looking for you?

The question you have to answer if you want to find and keep the intimate relationship the Universe will send you is, "Do you have room in your life for a new person?"

Besides needing to make room in your closet, adding a new person in your life will require changes in your daily routine that might cause some stress before you find a comfortable new routine. If you've been looking for a life partner for a while, some of your routines and activities might be rigid enough to make adjusting to a new set of routines a stressful problem.

In order to make a comfortable transition, you can start making ample room for your new relationship right now, before the Law of Attraction fills your wish list. There's three major areas of concern that can be adjusted before they become problems and create distress in your new relationship.

==>Do you have time for a committed relationship in your daily schedule?

When the Law of Attraction sends your perfect partner, the thrill of it all will tend to take over your entire life for a while. You will be so much in love that you will drop everything to enjoy the new sensations and deep feelings that are filling up all the empty places you've felt for a long time. While this might be considered normal with new lovers, it can be disastrous to the rest of your life.

Before you get so entangled in the abundance of love the Law of Attraction sends you that you ignore life's necessities, make adjustments in your schedule that will allow you to enjoy your new life to the fullest. Maintain contacts with your family and friends. Do not neglect your job.

What you can do, however is decide which activities you use to just fill up your free time so you are not alone 24/7 on evenings and weekends. Keep the ones important to you, but remove the ones that are not. If you don't have time to spend exploring the pleasures your new relationship and creating new activities to enjoy together, neither one of you will be happy together.

==>Are you making room for your new partner in your home?

Take a look around your home and see if there actually is room for someone else in your life. New relationships come with furniture, clothing, books and a whole list of possessions that will need space. Can you provide the space needed to make your partner comfortable?

Create the space before the Law of Attraction fills it for you.

==>Are you emotionally ready to accept your perfect partner in your life?

Emotional acceptance will require you to clean up your own fears and put away negative memories of past relationships that fell apart. If you don't, the Universe will send you more of the same instead of a perfect partner. You can do this with positive affirmations and clear visualizations, which send your exact message to the Law of Attraction.

It's one thing to create emotional space in your life for an intimate relationship and quite another when your dream partner turns up with a U-Haul and a pet dog.

While you are waiting for your perfect partner to appear on the wings of the Law of Attraction, make room physically in your life and in your heart. Sharing you life with another requires openness, honesty and intimate communication.

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Using The Law Of Attraction to Attract the Love of Your Life

2008-08-22T04:46:00.001-07:00

When you are trying to attract a meaningful relationship you will find yourself dwelling on your need for a perfect partner or intimate relationship in your life. Stop doing that right now!

The first thing you can do to start the energy flowing from you to the Universe is to quit trying to attract your dream partner.

Here's why.

When you concentrate your energies and emotions on finding the perfect one to hang your romantic feelings on you are sending a very strong message to the Universe that screams "need." And what's the Universe going to do? Send you some more need to dwell on, of course.

If you go to every party or gathering with the expectation of finally meeting "The One," you will feel disappointment and the Universe will notice and send you some more of the same. Feeling disappointment is a negative emotion and emotions and feelings are actually frequencies of energy that carry your message to the Law of Attraction.

If you are willing to let your expectations go, to quit holding them tightly against your heart, you will quit trying to orchestrate or control how the abundance from the Universe gets sent to you. This is a necessary step you have to take in order to change what vibrations you are sending out.

Another mistake you might make is expecting every social event or small gathering of friends to be the time you will meet "The One." That also signals desperation and need to the Universe. Instead, change your focus to the people around you and enjoy them as friends. Looking at everyone you meet as potential love partners is a beacon of need that pierces the Universe like an arrow.

You will have to be open to new experiences in order for your perfect partner to find you. When you create openings for your potential partner to fill, it makes it more likely that someone looking for you will fill that opening.

While it might be a good idea to go places where your perfect partner might go and engage in activities for the same reason, remember that your perfect partner can find you anyplace. Don't exhaust yourself trying to be everywhere at once.
So, can you actually attract someone specific using the Law of Attraction?

If the person is attracted to you also, the answer is yes. You cannot force attraction, no matter how much you want it. If the object of your desire does not want to be with you, it will never happen. Save yourself heartache and don't try to force relationships.

If you want to get back with someone you've broken up with and they're not interested, the same warning applies. If you're still carrying those feelings, you have to release them. There is no way for the energies of the Law of Attraction to be used this way. It won't work and will backfire on you.

It more productive and beneficial to your emotional well-being to believe that there certainly is someone who will be better for you. This someone possibly has a lot of the same qualities as the person you just broke up with. Just believe that there's a better match out there just waiting to find you. That's all you have to do. Just Believe!

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Lasting Relationships And The Law Of Attraction

2008-08-20T03:42:00.001-07:00

When you're looking for a lasting romantic relationship everything you think, feel and believe makes a difference in how successful you will be in your search. The Law of Attraction has always been the driving force behind the kinds of people you have attracted into your life, whether or not you knew it.

The people in your life and the way they treat you is directly a result of the way YOU think about yourself. The simple fact is that your relationship with yourself is what attracts your friends and lovers or sends them away.

It is easy to start feeling fractured, or less that whole when you do not have a romantic relationship that consumes you with love and passion. You feel empty and search for love to make you feel whole. As long as you feel that way, the Law of Attraction will keep sending the same unsatisfying energy back at you.

Here's the truth: You are whole already. You never were empty and drained of the qualities that would make you whole once again. That feeling of emptiness, though, might be driving you to look for Mr. or Mrs. Right everywhere so you can feel connected and part of a relationship that completes you.

Unless you change the way YOU feel about yourself and start treating yourself the way you want to be treated, nothing will change in your relationships. Your search for a "soul mate" will come up empty.

Think about YOUR image of your "soul mate," or passionate lover, that you have been looking for most of your life. What picture do you have buried in your heart that the Universe keeps sending back to you in various forms? Was your image of the lover you want in your life crafted by Hollywood images or, even earlier, by fairytales? Might be time for a new image.

Here's a simple method of changing your relationship with yourself and making a new image of the perfect partner you wait for.

You are in total control of your reality. When you believe that you do not deserve a passionate relationship or that you have to create one that might be "good enough" from the people in your life that treat you shabbily, you are wrong.

Change your belief and your reality will change with it. That's the simple, but
extremely powerful, concept that will remove all the blockages you've created and start attracting better relationships for you.

It is YOUR job to make yourself happy and whole and not anyone else's responsibility. When your perfect partner, or romantic lover, drops into your life, you need to be happy, secure and a complete person, BEFORE they find you.

You are sending emotional frequencies to the Law of Attraction 24/7 when you focus on what you want from the Universe. That includes romantic partners. Feelings of desperation, lack and sorrowful need just attract more of the same to make you feel deeper desperation and need.

Feeling happy and fulfilled by the conditions of your life, including your own activities and accomplishments, will send frequencies of happiness to the Universe. You know what that means, don't you? The Universe will send you happy people to match the change in your feelings and beliefs. One of those happy people would probably be your life partner.

Simplicity is the call to action here. Your present state of lack or neediness was created by your relationship with yourself. Change that by moving your attitudes and beliefs about yourself into a more positive approach and your entire life will change for the better.

Visualize what you want like it was already a fact. Practice affirmations that are specific to what you want from the Universe. Consciously be grateful for the love already in your life. Just believe.

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Attracting The Perfect Partner With The Law Of Attraction

2008-08-18T03:31:00.001-07:00

Everyone of us has had a picture of our "Perfect Partner" in our minds at one time or another. And the Law of Attraction probably sent you more than one version of that "Perfect Partner" several times as your picture changed with age and circumstances.

With the frenetic pace of most lives over the last couple of decades, you probably were too involved in everyday problems to notice the arrival of your "Perfect Partner" and let the answer to your desires pass on by.

It's never too late to change all that and send a new focused signal to the Universe that will get a return to match your vision of your perfect partner. Here's how to do that.

The first thing you have to do is be happy with yourself and feel like a whole person. When you rely on another person to make you feel complete, it will never happen. When you have changed your attitude and moved past your previous fears and feelings of not being worthy of a satisfying intimate relationship, you will be ready to attract your perfect partner.

If you haven't moved on yet, spend some time sending gratitude for what you already have to the Universe, practicing positive affirmations and just believing that you deserve loving intimacy.

Before your dream relationship can even start you have to decide in detail exactly what traits you want your partner to have. The more specific you can be, the better chance you have of manifesting the perfect person to fill your dreams. Let's make a list of the qualities you want.

Get a piece of paper and write down these questions, leaving enough room between them to note specific traits:

>> What do you imagine your partner will look like?

>> What type of personality will your future mate have?

>> Will your partner have spiritual beliefs? If yes, what will they be?

>> Does he or she have future ambitions? What are they?

>> What activities do you imagine the two of you will enjoy?

Be as detailed as you can be. Leave nothing out that's important to you. When you are finished, read over your list to make sure you covered everything you want in the "Perfect Partner" for you.

Go back over the list and circle any qualities or traits that YOU have.

Now ask yourself these questions. Will your partner and you have the same spiritual beliefs? Do you have the same type of personality? Are your ambitions the same or close to it?

Notice how many traits you have and compare that number with the number that you DO NOT share with the partner you are trying to attract. With that comparison in mind, do you think the person you described in your list IS the perfect person for you? Do you think you would be the perfect person for the partner you described?

You and your partner would be two separate people with differences. That is to be expected. If the differences are many and you see that you would have very little in common with your dream partner, what you have been dreaming about is probably not realistic.

You don't have to throw out your dream or burn your list. Note the traits and qualities on your list that are important to you and do not match those you already have. Write them down on another piece of paper or highlight them with a marker.

Start developing those traits missing from your compatibility list. Don't go at it with a vengeance. Be easy. Start visualizing yourself with the quality you want to develop, like you already have developed it. See yourself as a person with that quality. Recite affirmations, beginning with "I am..."

When your perfect partner finds you, both of you will recognize the other by the matching feelings and energy being exchanged. When YOU are the perfect partner for the partner you want, the attraction will be magic.

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Loving Yourself With The Law Of Attraction

2008-08-15T03:27:00.001-07:00

When you think back on some of your past relationships do you cringe at the memory? Do you wonder how you ever got involved with so many soap operas in your own personal life when you wanted something different?

Now that you've been exposed to how the Law of Attraction responds to your emotions and beliefs, you might be wondering what you could have been thinking to provoke such bizarre past relationships, or even some you're involved in right now.

Before you beat yourself up, remember that what we send out to the Universe is usually done in our subconscious and by default. You might not have consciously sent out the energy that attracted that group to your side, but they showed up anyway, like ants at a picnic. Want to know why?

One of the foundations of the Law of Attraction is that all of your personal relationships are simply a mirror of the relationship you have with YOU. One way to check this out is to see if there's a common theme running through your relationships. Do other people treat you like you treat yourself? Does any of this sound familiar?

When you make mistakes do you berate yourself mentally until you feel beat up and useless? Are your demands on yourself more than is necessary to do a good job or be a competent homemaker?

How many times do you push yourself harder than is necessary? Do you ignore your own care to take care of someone else? Do you neglect your own well being and forget to nurture yourself? Do you find yourself surrounded by people who do not respect your or your efforts to provide for their needs? Do you allow yourself to be mistreated?

Have you noticed that most of the people in your life do not care about you? Does anyone really love you, or are you just a convenient person to have around while they wait for someone significant to fill up their lives? If so, turn your attention back on you and see if you treat yourself the same way.

Make a list of some of the actual qualities of your relationships with the people in your life. Be sure to include family members, your spouse or partner, children, friends and co-workers. Take some time with this list and don't hurry through it. This is the first step you have to take in order to begin to make the changes needed to attract what you have always wanted in the people gathered around you.

Don't make this task complicated and difficult. Just list the people in your life and leave room for the qualities that define the way they relate to you AND how you relate to them. Look particularly for the actions and attitudes that actually define your relationships.

When your list is as complete as you can make it, think about how you actually treat yourself. Find any recurring themes that subconsciously defined your friends and lovers throughout your life and right now. Do those themes tell you how you treat yourself? Probably.

Let's change that using the principles of the Law of Attraction.

Think about how you would like to be treated. What do you want from a new group of friends? List a few qualities that are important to you that you have NOT been receiving from your relationships up to now.

When those two lists are completed to your satisfaction, answer this question: Are you willing to start treating yourself the same way you'd like others to treat you? If your answer was "Yes" we have work to do. If it was "No" go back to the beginning of this article and start over.

The quality of what you send out to the Universe and the Law of Attraction matches the quality of what the Universe will send back to you. It's true and it's exactly that simple.

When you change the way you treat yourself, wonderful things start happening all around you. Other people treat you exactly like you treat yourself. New relationships form that are fulfilling. Remember that all your relationships are copies of your relationship with yourself.

Perhaps you've been without any intimate relationships in your life for years. Let's think about that a little. Are you still waiting for someone to find you and sweep you off your feet? It's a great fantasy, but do you know what that attitude really means? Usually it means that you are not yet open for a strong, personal relationship.

The truth here is that you are blocking the possibility of intimate relationships by your self-treatment and resulting negative energy sent to the Universe.

Here are a few questions to ask yourself. Are you frightened about yet again having your heart hurt? Does the thought of trusting again frighten you? Do you believe that you deserve intimacy and true love? If not, you will not improve your life any until you can change how you treat yourself.

Make small changes to start with and notice the improvement. The Law of Attraction will fill your life with love and abundance as soon as you let it.

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Will The Law of Attraction Send You Romance?

2008-08-13T04:37:00.001-07:00

Romantic relationships are the fabric of dreams for almost everyone on this planet and those dreams will attract the notice of the Law of Attraction like a rocket streaking through the night.

Why? Because the emotions behind your dreams of romance in the arms of a prince on a white horse are stronger than most of the other dreams you have. The need for romance or close personal relationships lives in every one of us and the Law of Attraction will deliver the object of your dreams as soon as you tell it what you want.

Your thoughts, coupled with your emotions, send signals to the Universe 24/7, whether you know it or not. What that means to you is that the condition of your love life reflects what you believe you deserve to have or are afraid to reach for.

The basic truth about the Law of Attraction is that whatever you focus on the most, the feelings and attitudes behind your desires, will get a response from the Universe to match what you are sending out. Wondering about all those strange people around you with less than positive attractive traits? Are you surrounded by people you have nothing in common with? You thought them up.

Think for a moment about the current state of your personal intimate life. Do you have a relationship with a significant other, a loving, intimate connection that satisfies you? Or are you waiting for the most perfect person to fall into your life? How long do you plan on waiting?

Most of us create our lives by accident, by default, as a shield against rejection and fear or to avoid feeling left out of the mating game, so to speak. You can change all that, regardless of how deeply this pain or fear is ingrained into your heart. Let's start right now.

We are all spiritual beings and the reality of the circumstances of our lives is the product of our thoughts and emotions on a day-today basis. We don't actively set about to create what we don't want. We just don't know how to change the circumstances that we've held close to our hearts so long that they seem normal.

The Law of Attraction works in simple and very direct ways and will send what you want or need straight into your life and heart, if you can change what you think and feel about your dream lover.

Let's start with the most powerful of the spiritual vibrations you can use to make changes: Gratitude. Instead of feeling lonely and not worthy, start feeling real gratitude for the people in your life that you are connected to. Those people can be family members, co-workers or neighbors. It doesn't matter who they are. Just be grateful for their existence in your life and express it in your thoughts everyday.

That process would be using positive affirmations and visualizations to rid you of your fears and replace them with people who care about you.

The next very necessary change you need to make is to erase the limiting beliefs you have about your attractiveness or ability to find real love. When you limit your beliefs about yourself, you block the things you've been emotionally asking for. Change your beliefs and your life will change.

This is a subtle and possible giant stumbling block when you first set out to make dramatic changes in your life. Even if you have all the best and positive emotions and feelings generated and express gratitude all day long, one limiting belief will toss all your hard work to the curb to make room for the Universe's express delivery to match that belief.

If you don't believe you deserve love and an intimate relationship to go with it, you won't get it. If you believe that other people are not trustworthy or will hurt you, you will fill your life with people who match your fears.

It's simple. Fill your life with GRATITUDE for what you do have and BELIEVE you can find love and the Universe will send you so much love that it will knock you off your feet. Open your heart and get ready. It's on the way.

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Taking Action With The Law Of Attraction

2008-08-11T04:50:00.000-07:00

When you start feeling that sparkle all around you after you've taken some action for yourself by making choices that led to new opportunities, you can believe that the Law of Attraction has found you.

To keep the energy flowing in your direction and not blocked by doubts and fears from your emotional locker, keep releasing your desires to the Universe with positive visualizations and affirmations. Don't let anything stop you from visualizing a new life.

Just visualize what you want in minute detail and the parts will start flowing into your life, just like magic. Don't slip into useless attempts to control the Universe and to force things to happen. It won't work and will backfire on you. Don't be afraid to take action, though, if it is action that feels right to you.

For example, if you decided to write children's books and wanted to take some action that would enhance the energy you are sending out to the Universe, find a class at the local college on writing. Hang out in bookstores and talk to other browsers about the books their kids like. Find local authors and take them out to coffee and chat.

All activities like those actions are actually positive affirmations and they send out the positive energy they created in your emotions to the Universe.
If you cannot find any clear action to take, just relax, visualize what you want several times a day and be on the alert for possibilities you never considered before.

Those opportunities might come to you in a form you didn't expect or when you were doing something else unrelated to your job search. Maybe you'll go to lunch at your favorite diner and notice an advertisement in a newspaper left behind by a previous diner. Perhaps you'll bump into an old friend at the grocery store and get a job lead in the conversation. The possibilities are endless and you should pay close attention to all opportunities that "just show up" in front of you. There are no coincidences.

Once some opportunity drops in front of you, no matter how it's cloaked, you have to take some action. Hesitating and analyzing the opportunity will dilute the abundance you requested when you sent your desires to the Universe. And, since the Universe returns exactly what YOU send out, you might want to consider what spiritual truckloads of apathy or "nothing at all" would do to your job search.

When you set this whole process of using the Law of Attraction to change your life or some circumstances of your life in motion, you have to remain open to all the opportunities that will just show up. They might not be what you expect or arrive in a direct, easy to notice manner. But arrive they will.

Some opportunities might not be direct job leads, but new paths that will lead to your dream career. When you asked the Universe for help, you set in motion an energy force that will fill your needs, but not necessarily the way you expected it.

Think of it as an adventure and your first step into the life you've always wanted. It might be a totally foreign concept to grab hold of, but don't let fear of the unknown stop you from grabbing what you want. If you think about it and recognize what you had been attracting with a lifetime of negative and self-defeating attitudes and expectations, you should be eagerly awaiting the arrival of a new life crafted by you and the Law of Attraction.

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Visualize Your Perfect Job With The Law Of Attraction

2008-08-08T04:35:00.000-07:00

By now that you should have a good idea why your past attempts to get a satisfying career or job didn't work for you. Don't waste any time berating yourself. Instead, let's get to work on attracting an exciting, passionate career designed just for you.

Getting the Law of Attraction to notice you and to send you what you want is easy if you keep in mind how the Law of Attraction works. When what you send out to the Universe is all wrapped up with your fears, negativity and emotions, you will get more of the same returned right back to you. The Universe always sends you MORE of what you are projecting. Sound familiar?

The actual method you have been using to attract what you don't want is the same method you will use to get what you do want.

That would be visualization. This technique is very powerful and, if you think about it, is the exact technique you have been using to attract a career you didn't want. All those thoughts and emotions you dwelled on every workday morning, dreading going to your office, were very powerful visualizations that kept you stuck in a dead end job.

Let's change your focus and start attracting what you DO want. Practicing this will turn your dreams for a more fulfilling job into a reality.

Let the Universe know what you want.

While you might know specifically what you want, it is a good idea to tell the Universe exactly what that is. Details are important here. If you do not craft a very clear and specific description of what you want, your returned abundance will be less than you wanted.

Your visualizations, or requests from the Universe, need to be sent out in a specific manner to be effective. Instead of projecting a wish list for the future, use the present tense, like it is already a fact in your life and keep that picture in your mind, 24/7.

It is helpful if you can run a movie in your dreams that shows you already doing the job you want. Make it real. See yourself at your desk or workplace, get a cup of coffee, answer the phone, chat with coworkers, make appointments. When you can accomplish this dream technique, your new career will be real to you and to the Universe.

Think about it like this, using your own job choice:

"I now have an exciting and fulfilling career as a writer of children's books. Ideas for new books fill my mind and create opportunities for future projects. I earn $50,000 per year and work happily at home at my own pace. Publishers seek me out daily."

Be very specific about the details, what you will be doing, when and where, how much you will earn...anything at all that matters to you.

Believe you already have it.

Recite your visualization statement as often as you can. There are lots of spare moments you can use to make your dreams come true: in the shower, driving, grocery shopping (repeat it instead of reading the scandal magazines while you are waiting in the checkout line). Do not feel doubtful or negative about it in any way.

Say it with absolute confidence and conviction in your mind's voice. At all times, avoid frustration with your current job. The Universe works on its own schedule and fretting over the length of time it takes to work for you only makes sure you experience more delays. Just Believe!

Be patient and wait for your abundance.

If you follow the methods discussed above, amazing opportunities will drop into your life when the Universe is finished gathering the best possible choices and opportunities to fill your request.

Trying to rush this process will only get you frustrated once again and concentrating on your lack of fulfillment, which leads to dreading going to work again and restarts the circular agony blocking your good stuff from the Universe. Be strong and, if those negative thoughts pop up, quietly change them.

Gently repeating your positive affirmations will kick any roadblocks to the curb without you getting involved at all. Be patient and just believe!

While this visualization process might seem too easy to actually be an effective tool in your arsenal, just let it happen and do not try to force outcomes to suit your desires. At the same time, if you see an opportunity that wasn't there yesterday, grab it. It might be the Universe sending you a gift to match your dreams.

Just Believe!

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Are You Passionate Enough For the Law of Attraction?

2008-08-06T05:21:00.001-07:00

When you get excited about something, truly excited, your emotional frequencies heat up and send a clear message to the Law of Attraction that will not be ignored. Remember that you get back exactly what you send out to the Universe. Like attracts like! Being passionate supercharges those returns!

This passionate boost to your energy works in every aspect of your life, including your job. When you are involved in projects or activities that exhibit glowing enthusiasm and a passionate focus, your emotional frequencies send vibrations to the Law of Attraction that demands a positive response. It is impossible to get anything else.

Attracting a better job or the career of your dreams will get the same response from the Universe if you will find something about your current job to feel passionate about, besides the paycheck. Money is good, but your day has to be exciting enough to create more of the same.

This might be a good time to list all your passions. Think about it for a few minutes and list everything you do that excites you, your hobbies, talents, activities, skills and anything creative you do. How many of these passions do you use in your job? Not many? Start bringing some to work with you and use those passions in your daily tasks to improve both your work atmosphere and your enthusiasm when it comes to the Law of Attraction.

One of the considerations to keep in mind is that the only thing that matters is the ESSENCE, the real nature of your passions and not what they are physically. More important is how you feel about what you do. Try to determine exactly what it is that you love so much when you are listing your passions. How do they make you feel? The feelings are the most important part because what you project to the Universe with your feelings is what you get back.

When faced with naming their passions or what they really want to do for a living, most people start qualifying their choices until they stop being a passion and become, instead, a negative attitude. For example, "I love to __________ who's going to pay me to do that?" Fill in your own blank. Here's a good one: "No one's going to pay me to __________?"

Both of those statements, regardless of how you fill in the blanks, will block any abundance being sent to you from the Universe and get you a surprising response. You will find your life full of more opportunities to not get paid. You get back exactly what you send out to the Law of Attraction, even if it is from your subconscious.

In order to make beneficial changes in your career and find the perfect job for you, determine the real nature of your passions and then find the job that needs that passion or create one for yourself. As you get happier with your new focus, the Universe will send you more opportunities to increase your options and expand your abundance. That's how it works.

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