tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4745602340662731548.post-68483829477664877212008-07-24T22:35:00.011+01:002008-07-25T09:00:24.798+01:00<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://bp3.blogger.com/_heXJH54WoIo/SIj6NKeJjcI/AAAAAAAAAho/Pkp_hcCRixM/s1600-h/angry+woman+on+phone.jpg"><img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer;" src="http://bp3.blogger.com/_heXJH54WoIo/SIj6NKeJjcI/AAAAAAAAAho/Pkp_hcCRixM/s200/angry+woman+on+phone.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5226702471619513794" border="0" /></a>I told S about W's <a href="http://lazy-philosopher.blogspot.com/2008/07/unconventional-proposal.html">city shag pad idea</a>.<br /><br />She was not impressed.<br /><br />"So, you're telling me that you turned your back on me so you could go back to your wife and live a lie? First of all I find out that <a href="http://lazy-philosopher.blogspot.com/2008/07/secret-bubble-bursts.html">you sought out another bloody mistress</a> and now I find that your wife isn't happy either.<br /><br />I thought my sacrifice, my pain, was for a reason. I thought at least you could be happy, that you could make something of your marriage. But now you are telling me that it's all been for nothing."<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Uh-oh!</span><br /><br />"She's fucking trying to have her cake and eat it!"<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Interesting choice of phrase. For once those words are not aimed at me...</span><br /><br />"She just wants to control you. She still wants you to do everything for her and be her meal ticket but she doesn't even want to be a proper wife."<span style="font-style: italic;"><br /></span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">OK, so I've clearly made an error here. I should have kept my mouth shut. When will I learn?</span><br /><br />"It'll never work anyway. As soon as she meets someone she likes she'll want to kick you out. And she'll be insanely jealous every time you don't come home. She'll drive you nuts!"<span style="font-style: italic;"><br /></span><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Hmmm... flashes of common sense there! Yep, I think you could be right on that one.</span><br /><br />"For fuck's sake T! For once will you look after yourself and stop living your life as a compromise for the sake of people who don't appreciate it. She doesn't love you. She doesn't deserve you. The whole thing is a bloody waste!"<br /><br /><span style="font-style: italic;">Do you know what? I haven't even made it to work yet and my stress levels are through the roof.<br /><br /></span>T<span style="font-style: italic;"><br /></span><span style="font-style: italic;"></span><span style="font-style: italic;"></span><span style="font-style: italic;"></span>the Lazy Philosopherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15657014522202899202noreply@blogger.com