tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3885523200326604129.post-60930564566047801142008-04-28T17:17:00.000+01:002008-04-28T17:17:00.000+01:00This was a great post, and something I truely believe in. Although i would love a quick fix it with no effort (like the 'miracle' weight loss drugs), that doesn't address the stuff that got me here that I still need to get better about. I need to heal my soul.<BR/>If you talk to a psychologist, they are quick (usually) to point out that "shoulds" don't mean anything and it's what you want and do that matters. As you said, shoulds just get you feeling bad...so why not do what makes us happy as long as we're not harming other people? Who cares if you look silly if it's what truely makes you happy. <BR/>Thanks for reminding everyone of this!Diana's Body Journeyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04912893452584170970noreply@blogger.com