Comments on Daughter of Hope: Romancing Your Husband

Wow. I have to say, that is a tall list! I am a ro...

2008-05-07T20:17:00.000-04:00

Wow. I have to say, that is a tall list! I am a romantic at heart, but like you, I don't try as hard as I used to! Just doing a fraction of the things on this list would be nice. =)

I've been thinking about you a lot, friend. Glad ...

2008-05-07T11:08:00.000-04:00

I've been thinking about you a lot, friend. Glad to hear things are going well!

I was trying to decide how blatant to be on some topics, but I think that you're definitely dead on. Good food and good sex are pretty much the basics of happy husbands. Lots of romantic gestures towards husbands will revolve around facilitating the atmospheres of food and sex.

I also believe that there are other aspects of "romance" like encouraging and edifying words that are good to remember. I love this topic, so we'll see where it goes. :^)

Hey Alicia! :) Long time no comment. Been busy m...

2008-05-07T11:00:00.000-04:00

Hey Alicia! :) Long time no comment. Been busy moving! (we finally got our forever home, praise God!)

Anyhow had to speak up on this one because as you might remember from my old blog, this is one of my favorite topics.

The older I get, the longer I've been married, and the more "experienced" I become I have found that romance is for women. The flowers, the candles, the lovey-dovey stuff is for us.

Men, well....they like the physical and visual. So you are dead on when you say buy a new nightgown :)

I've learned in 15 years of being with the same man, he really likes it when I initiate ANYTHING. I don't have to have flowers and candles. He just wants me to be the agressor for once!

Just my .02