Neuro Linguistic Programming

Self Help Advice

2009-05-06T15:15:00.001-07:00

Why Aren't You Number One?
by Jan Tincher

Why aren't you #1, in whatever your goals are?

If you aren't #1, it's because you aren't programmed to be. It's that simple.

Here's why.

If you were programmed to be, you would be. I show you why that's true in all areas of your life, and how to change it.

Why Aren't You Number One?http://www.tameyourbrain.com/whyarentyou1.htm

Self Help Advice

2009-03-31T08:51:00.001-07:00

Are You Ready To Forgive? No?
Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/forgive.htm

What happens if you DON'T forgive?

What if you look at that person that made you angry,
and you are still angry because you haven't really forgiven
him or her? What do you do when you are so mad at
someone, you can hardly sleep at night? How can you
possibly forgive them for doing *that* (whatever it was
they did) to you?

Check it out here: Are You Ready To Forgive? No?
Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/forgive.htm

Self Help Advice

2009-03-25T06:35:00.001-07:00

Does That Upset You?
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/doesthatupsetyou.htm

Does the same thing always upset you?

There's a reason why certain things upset us.

Certain things upset us because we have a set of rules that we govern our life by. If those rules are broken, that upsets us.

Rules are the controlling factor about which things give us pain or give us pleasure -- which things upset us or don't upset us. When we are upset, you can pretty much bet one of our rules has been broken. What are your rules that . . .

Does That Upset You? Read the rest of the article here:
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/doesthatupsetyou.htm

Self Help Advice

2009-03-24T05:58:00.001-07:00

Are You Happy?
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/happy.htm

Are you happy? If you aren't, can you figure out why you aren't?

Because, there is definitely a reason.

Wouldn't it be good to know that exact reason, so you can do something about it Now? After all, there isn't a person alive who could look back on their lives and say -- with meaning -- "Man, I wish I would have been UNhappier."

Basic Fact: Unhappy people lose at just about everything in life.

If you feel you are basically unhappy, here is how you can change that . . .

Are You Happy?
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/happy.htm

Self Help Advice

2009-03-17T05:53:00.001-07:00

Are You A Competitor . . . or Not?
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/areyoucompetitor.htm

Competition is healthy. It keeps us on our toes. We need competition to see where *we* are. *Am I first, second, last?* Where am I?

But, really, what we should be caring about is not where we are according to everyone else, but where we are in *our* life. Where we are according to where *we* want to be.

When we *compete*, we take our mind off our goals and on to . . . what? You guessed it! Beating someone. When the only person we need to beat is . .

Are You A Competitor . . . or Not?
Read it, you'll be glad you did! http://www.tameyourbrain.com/areyoucompetitor.htm

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2009-02-24T06:00:00.001-08:00

Action Or Reaction? http://www.tameyourbrain.com/action_reaction.htm

When you snapped at someone -- were you acting or reacting? When you made fun of someone -- were you acting or reacting? When you got mad at someone -- were you acting or reacting? When you teased someone -- were you acting or reacting?

Reacting, mostly, huh? And, once you've done whatever you've
done, it's just incredibly easy for the other person to retaliate.

Then, what happens? I'll tell you what, here . . .

Action Or Reaction? Read it, you'll be glad you did! Action Or Reaction?

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2009-02-17T06:30:00.001-08:00

*Are You Politically INcorrect?*
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/areyoupoliticallyincorrect.htm

Are you politically incorrect? Do you wonder if you should open the door for someone, let them go first, pay for their meal?

Why do you wonder? You open the door for someone out of respect. You let someone go ahead of you out of respect. You pay for their meal because you want to. OR . . . You DON'T. It's that simple.

This unique article shows you what politically correct really means!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Are You Politically Incorrect?

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2009-02-11T06:52:00.001-08:00

Here's a delightful article that has a great technique, "A Little Known Secret That Helps Anyone Be A Hero." http://www.tameyourbrain.com/hero.htm

Have you ever been in a meeting where you are all trying to come up with a solution, but no one can? Everyone is looking at their papers, or gazing into space, or shaking their head in puzzlement. No one knows the answer, and they're pretty sure they're not going to come up with one any time soon.

Have you ever sat at your desk at home perplexed with something, and you didn't have anyone to run ideas by to get the juices running?

Have you had a problem with your children and come up against a brick wall . . . with no solution in sight?

Well, you are not alone. Check it out here!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/hero.htm

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2009-02-05T04:51:00.001-08:00

Hi,

I am running a series of articles for the next few
weeks. They are titled *The Laws of the Universe*.
I hope you like them, they are truly life-changing
when you use them! Check this one out here:
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/lawrelativity.htm

You will love it when you learn how the universe
works and how you can make it work in your
favor!

Read it, you'll be glad you did!
The Law of Relativity

Thanks,

Jan

Self Help Advice

2009-02-03T05:34:00.001-08:00

Here's a great article for people who are growing old -- in their mind! Attention Old People Of ALL Ages! Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/oldpeopleofallages.htm

Do you feel old? Do you look old? Do you think old?

Every time I get together with certain friends, age is inevitably
discussed. I cringe inwardly and get very busy going *Cancel,
Cancel!* in my mind. This is some of what's said. (Check it
out. Does it sound familiar?)

*That's what happens when you get old.* *Especially at your
age.* *Act your age, old man/lady.* *I can't remember anything.
Al's been visiting.* *What's the matter? You got A?* (Both are
a reference to Alzheimer's Disease. It's almost an invitation.)

What do each of those sentences say to your brain? Find out
here! (Read it, you'll be glad you did!)
Http://www.tameyourbrain.com/oldpeopleofallages.htm

Self Help Advice

2009-01-27T04:42:00.001-08:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, Are You Programmed?. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/programmed.htm

Words are powerful! Sometimes you don't realize that when you
are talking to yourself, silently or out loud, your words are impressed
in your mind -- this is YOUR programming.

When something is impressed on your mind enough times, sooner or
later, it is brought into your experience. Therefore, you have
programmed your experience.

The answer to "Are You Programmed" is YES! The great thing is,
if you don't like the results, you can do as you do with your VCR,
your computer, your electronics, you can reprogram! I'll show you how!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Are You Programmed?

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2009-01-26T06:22:00.001-08:00

Hi,

I will be running a series of articles for the next few
weeks. They are titled *The Laws of the Universe*.
I hope you like them, they are truly life-changing
when you use them! Check the first one out here:
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/lawcauseeffect.htm

You will love it when you learn how the universe
works and how you can make it work in your
favor!

Read it, you'll be glad you did!
The Law of Cause and Effect

Thanks,

Jan

Self Help Advice

2009-01-20T05:57:00.001-08:00

"Do You Know How To Model?"

Do you know that if you model someone else's physiology --
their body language -- you'll experience new ways to think,
feel, and act? Check it out here:Do You Know How To Model?

You experience different physiologies every day. For instance,
if you are angry, you stand a certain way. If you are
concentrating on something, your posture is different than if
you are just sitting around waiting for things to happen. If
you are happy, you are standing differently than if you are
sad, etc.

Learn how to change your physiology in an instant. Once you
know how to do it, you can do it any time, anywhere. Change
your physiology from anger to concern to peace. Change your
life. Do it now.

I know you can. I've done it, and I'll show you how here . . .
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/model.htm

Self Help Advice

2009-01-13T18:53:00.000-08:00

If you've been reading *Tame Your Brain!* for a while now, you know
how powerful words are, and the impact they have on your self-esteem,
sometimes making you even more vulnerable. Check it out here to see
how powerfully words affect you! http://www.tameyourbrain.com/vulnerable.htm

Have you ever been to a party and someone came up to you and said,
*My, you look fat.* Or *My, you look skinny.* Or *My, you look stupid.*?

You get the idea. If you are already having problems with whatever
issue they've mentioned, those words will have a serious impact on
you . . . Even if the person came right back and said, *I was only
kidding. I didn't mean it.*

Well, now is the time to take back control of your life and your
feelings! Learn the technique in *Are You Vulnerable?*. It's very
powerful! Work with it. Do it now!

I know you can. I've done it, and I'll show you how here . . .
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/vulnerable.htm

Self Help Advice

2009-01-07T06:12:00.001-08:00

Are You Taking One Step Forward And Two Steps Back?

Are you taking one step forward and two steps back . . . in finances, relationships, losing weight or who knows what? If you are, then something is stopping you from succeeding, isn't it?

If that is the case, and no doubt it is somewhere in your life, then you need to read this article . . . Are You Taking One Step Forward And Two Steps Back?

Learn, then do the technique, now. I know you can. I've done it, and I'll show you how here . . . http://www.tameyourbrain.com/1stepforward.htm

Self Help Advice

2008-12-16T04:25:00.000-08:00

Can You *Speak* Silently?

As we all know, too many words, spoken too loudly and
too quickly, sometimes make for regrets. Once you master
the art of speaking silently, you'll find that you are more
peaceful and less regretful. Check it out here:
Can You *Speak* Silently?
Now, when I speak silently, they feel my smile.

I know I was amazed at the difference when I needed to
get the attention of my grandkids. (I hate to admit that I felt
sometimes that they didn't hear me unless I yelled. Yes,
I was from *that* generation.) But I really feel I have more
peace now. The last thing I want is for my grandkids to
remember that their grandma was always yelling at them.
Now, when I speak silently, they *see* my smile.

Remember when I said that once you master the art of speaking
silently, you'll find that you are more peaceful. You can add
that your self esteem goes up also . . . Check it out here:
Can You *Speak* Silently?

Self Help Advice

2008-12-15T06:54:00.001-08:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you during this hectic holiday season, Do You Have Stress During The Holidays? Click here now and start feeling the peace! http://www.tameyourbrain.com/stressholidays.htm

Stress. Do you have a lot of it, especially during the holidays? Wouldn't it be nice to eliminate as much stress as you can?

This is a great article that will give you simple techniques that will help you focus on what's truly important in your life! Read it, you'll be glad you did! Do You Have Stress During The Holidays?

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2008-12-09T05:51:00.001-08:00

Hi,

"You've gotta die from something. May as well be what you eat, so eat what you like." I hear that all the time. Ironic, isn't it? People are choosing their way to die . . . instead of their way to live. I'll show you more here: You've Gotta Die From Something

I have a friend who smokes. He has the same type of logic. "I'm gonna die from something. I might just as well enjoy the journey."

Can you believe it? These (normally) intelligent people are actually picking a way to die. Is that what you (maybe consciously, maybe unconsciously) are deciding to do? Decide what type of pain you want to inflict on yourself and others, and have at it?

Did you ever think that, possibly, that's not such a good ideal?

If that's the way you are beginning to think, I congratulate you, and I'll show you why. Read the article and let it make a difference in your life now. You'll be glad you did!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/youdiesomething.htm

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2008-11-25T06:01:00.001-08:00

If something bad happens, do you just give up?

Why? . . .

Learn how you can make a choice here: http://www.tameyourbrain.com/didthinksayno.htm

Why do you give up when you can make a difference in what is happening in your life at any time? If something bad is happening, you have the option of accepting it or rejecting it.

Instead, many of us say something to ourselves like "Yes, OK, bring on the bad stuff. I deserve it, etc." out of default, thinking, wrongly, that we didn't have a choice.

This reminds me of a tv show I was watching a couple years ago. (And it has stuck with me all this time!) The hero was attacked and you just knew he was done for. But immediately the hero took a breath and said, "YOU made a big mistake." Then he proceeded to beat the tar out of the other guy! Can what went through the hero's mind go through yours? You bet it can!

Read it and make a difference in your life now. You'll be glad you did! Did You Ever Think About Saying "No"?

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2008-11-18T05:22:00.001-08:00

Have you been somewhere where they *rolled out the red carpet*? Wasn't that special? What? They didn't roll it out for you? Well, hey, if that is the case, here is a technique that will show you how to roll out the red carpet -- for yourself . . . Roll Out The Red Carpet -- For Yourself

Why would you want the red carpet treatment? Because we all deserve to be treated with respect and care -- no matter what!

This unique article shows you how feel worthy to be treated with respect and care -- no matter what!http://www.tameyourbrain.com/rollredcarpet.htm

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful and you will feel great afterwards!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Roll Out The Red Carpet -- For Yourself

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2008-11-11T06:12:00.001-08:00

Hi,

There are many of you Baby Boomers who are going through health issues. I thought I'd tell you how we handled a situation that some of you may be experiencing.

When my husband had his open heart surgery there were several opportunities for stress, depression and worry. We could have had any and all of the three from the surgery, from the bills, from all that time to sit and think. Then, as if that wasn't enough . . .

This unique article shows you how to stop being a victim to worry and start making changes that put YOU in charge! http://www.tameyourbrain.com/reliefstressdepression.htm

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Relief From Stress, Depression, & Worry

Self Help Advice

2008-11-05T06:11:00.001-08:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, Are You Programmed?. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/programmed.htm

Words are powerful! Sometimes you don't realize that when you are talking to yourself, silently or out loud, your words are impressed in your mind -- this is YOUR programming. When something is impressed on your mind enough times, sooner or later, it is brought into your experience. Therefore, you have programmed your experience. The answer to "Are You Programmed" is YES!

The great thing is, if you don't like it, you can do as you do with your VCR, your computer, your electronics, you can reprogram! I'll show you how!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Are You Programmed?

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2008-11-04T04:13:00.001-08:00

Hi,

Here's a great article on standing tall, *If You Don't Stand For
Something, You'll Fall For Anything*.

If you don't stand for something, you'll fall for anything. That's
what Dr. Phil says on his TV show. I think that is sooo
profound. It takes away your lackadaisical responses to
things, doesn't it? You'll see how the "I don't care. What
happens, happens" attitude REALLY affects you.

You don't want to fall for just "anything". Here's how to avoid
that. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/ifdontstandforsomething.htm

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and,
as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! If You Don't Stand For
Something, You'll Fall For Anything!

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2008-10-27T08:42:00.001-07:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, What Did You Say?. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/whatyousay.htm

Words are powerful! Sometimes you don't realize that when you are talking to yourself, silently or out loud, your words are impressed in your mind. When something is impressed on your mind enough times, sooner or later, it is brought into your experience.

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! What Did You Say?

Thanks,
Jan

Motivate Yourself To Succeed!

2008-10-21T04:15:00.001-07:00

Hi [[firstname]],

Here's a great article on worrying, *How To Stop Worrying*.

Are you a victim? You are if you worry. It makes sense, doesn't it?
When you worry, you become a victim of worry.

This unique article shows you how to stop being a victim and start
make changes that put YOU in charge! http://www.tameyourbrain.com/howstopworry.htm

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and,
as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! How To Stop Worrying

Thanks,
Jan