Musings from Graceland

2010-01-04T18:58:00.009-06:00

A VERY INDIE CHRISTMAS INTERVIEW

A couple of nights ago, I was all set to interview my 14 year old daughter B....but, she fell asleep.

And now she's gone to her bff's house so my firstborn daughter A, also known as Indie, said that she would do a Christmas interview for Graceland.

Okay, if Indie can manage to pull her head out of the sleeping bag, the interview will begin.

"Alright, I'm good."

So....where shall we begin?

"It's your post. Or we could start at the very beginning. A very good place to start. When you read you begin with A, B, C. When you sing you begin with do, re, me."

Wow.

*Nods her head and smiles smugly*

So again....where shall we begin. Hmmmmm....I know! If you could use one word to describe your Christmas experience for 2009, what would it be?

"Stimulating."

Do I have to put that? *Looking at her with a cocked eyebrow*

*Lots of laughter* from Indie and then some random explanation about a movie she watched and an awkward scene.

So seriously, a word to describe your Christmas.

"Overstimulating?" *More laughter emanates from Indie*

Sigh.....is this how the entire interview is going to go?

"No?"

And now Little Miss M is crying hysterically for her mama. Interview to be continued later.

"WHAT?!? Why do you have to stop for HER?????"

Because she needs her mommy and is going to bed in 15 minutes.

"Does that mean I can be online until then?"

Hmmmmmmmmmm......

"So you can have bonding time."

Hmmmmmmmm......I'll be back.......

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Okay, we are back from getting the crying children --- yes, plural---- children put to bed. Why, oh why, don't they think about finding their favorite stuffed animals and doll BEFORE they go to bed and it is dark and Mommy is tired and they are hysterical? Sigh....

Back to the interview. Where were we?

"I have no bars in your room."

Ummm...let's focus, Indie. Christmas. Not your new cell phone.

"It's supposed to be a secret."

Um, yeah. Sorry. Do I need to delete that?

"Whatever."

Good. So back to the word thing. What word would you use---for real---to describe your Christmas?

"Exhausting."

Would you like to elaborate on that?

"Hey Mom....I don't suppose you would be willing to go ask Patch to bring the radio in here? "

No, but I"ll put Accuradio on. ANYWAY...please focus before your daddy comes home and I have to get off or I pass out from the Benadryl tablet. Whichever one comes first.

So, why was your Christmas exhausting?

"'Cause I was around a lot of people and I had to do a lot of things and it was too much for my introversion." *All said in a very sad, little girl voice*

I think your dad, no excuse me, I KNOW your dad felt the same way. It was a lot of fun but even I was tired by the end.

*Noises coming from Indie hopping up and down in her sleeping bag to get better adjusted*

What was your favorite part of this Christmas season?

"Reading all my new books. Watching movies with Avery [my cousin]. And I liked going to Cousin Beth's new house."

What were your favorite gifts that you received?

"My X-Men and Alex Rider books and my Gambit shirt."

What was the most fun or special thing that our family did together?

"Going to Bass Pro Shop set up for Christmas was fun. With all the fudge. Oh my gosh. That was such good fudge. Ooooooh."

Did you have a favorite Christmas song?

"Yes. I listened to His Favorite Christmas Story so much. And the Nightmare Before Christmas soundtrack which, surprisingly, some of the songs actually made me feel Christmasy. But the Muppet Christmas Carol music and movie is the only thing that can make me get in a Christmas mood even when I'm not so I listened to that a lot.

What's one thing about Christmas that you wish was year round?

"The break from school and work."

In closing, do you have anything else you want to add about your Christmas past? Ooh, that sounds like a spirit from the Christmas Carol.

"That's because it is."

Ahem...as I was saying, do you have anything else to add?

"I got a bonus at work. That was very nice. I'd only been working there two months. I liked that."

In closing the closing, I know it was exhausting for my introverted Indie, but did you have a good Christmas season?

"Yes."

That's it?

"It's a yes-or-no question so why are you looking at me like that?"

That's my Indie for you.

"The End."

2010-01-03T22:30:00.004-06:00

A SUNDAY WELL-SPENT BRINGS....?

"A Sunday well-spent brings a week of content."

Usually.

I read the above quote and though I would generally agree, I don't tonight. This afternoon, two of my daughters spent a good part of our afternoon and evening at a local inner-city ministry, WE WILL GO. As always, I leave there feeling full to overflowing with love and joy and blessings and smiles. But tonight I am not fully content. Mixed in with good things there is concern and sadness.

Scores and scores of men, sometimes over a hundred, come to WE WILL GO in search of spiritual and physical food, free clothing, prayer, fellowship, and other needs to be met each week. And during these cold months, blankets, gloves, hats, and warm clothing are a top priority. Once again, men came looking for winter coats and thick pants to protect them from the elements and once again, there was not a single men's coat. And this time, not a single pair of blue jeans either.

I've mentioned this need before here at Graceland, but if you or a group you are a part of could help keep these men warm this winter, it would be so very appreciated.

Visit the WE WILL GO website for their mailing address or contact me if you have any questions.

http://web.me.com/dlancaster/Site/Home.html

Thanks in advance on behalf of those in need,
Elysa

2010-01-02T21:42:00.004-06:00

B'S CHRISTMAS HIGHLIGHTS

Alright B, tell us a little bit about your Christmas.

"Do I have to? I need to take a shower and go to bed. Don't write this down. Seriously, do you want me to do this? M--O-O-O-O-M."

Ummmm....I wanted you to. You said you would. But you're falling asleep. Majorly.

*Deep, relaxed breathing is heard from my right*

Uh...guess this means you're not up for a Christmas interview after all?

*Sleeping Silence*

Okay, then. Guess we'll have to do the highlights of B's Christmas some other time. Just goes to show how fast a teenager can go to sleep while waiting for photos to upload at facebook.

Oh wait, maybe it has something to do with the fact that she stayed up til 6:30 this morning at a church Sunday school party and got about an hour's worth of sleep.

Goodnight sweet B and to all my readers, too. May you sleep well and dream of future Graceland musings.

2010-01-01T17:44:00.002-06:00

HAPPY NEW YEAR from GRACELAND & ME!

Hope your new year has gotten off to a great start. We've been crazy busy around here with trips to see family and friends plus parties and company. Once things calm down ... well, as calm as they ever get around here ... I'll be back to my regular blogging.

I'll leave you with a New Year's poem by Edgar Guest that I make my New Year's prayer---

A happy New Year! Grant that I
May bring no tear to any eye
When this New Year in time shall end
Let it be said I've played the friend,
Have lived and loved and labored here,
And made of it a happy year.

Oh...and that I'll return to Swaziland.

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

2009-12-25T23:13:00.004-06:00

BECAUSE HE DID IT FIRST

God has used this Christmas Day to remind me that I can give because He first gave. I can love because He first loved. I give to and love others not to get happiness, but because I am already full to overflowing with a happy heart secure in His amazing grace. God is so good.

Merry Christmas to each of you. He loves you so very greatly.

2009-12-24T23:51:00.002-06:00

KISIMUSI EVE LOMUHLE...or HAPPY CHRISTMAS EVE!

Tonight, our family had it's traditional Christmas Eve snack supper...fancy cheeses, meets, special breads, chips, sweets, crackers, fruit, and whatever other good things we thought to add to the spread. Afterwards, we watched our traditional Christmas Eve movie, A Muppet's Christmas Carol, and then each child opened one gift. This year, the gifts were ones picked out by Super Daddy. The girls all got glow-in-the-dark bracelets (A and B are saving their's for the upcoming WinterJam concert) and the boys got short swords also filled with the glow-in-the-dark liquid. It was so cute to go in the darkened nursery just a bit ago and see Baby M's bracelet brightly shining on her little wrist.

Tonight has been a wonderful time for our family and I absolutely love being here, but I also couldn't help but think about my loved ones in Swaziland and miss them, too.

So in honor of them, here's a little African Christmas cheer:

Children's Cup Christmas Parties '09 from Paul Chasusa on Vimeo.

2009-12-22T20:56:00.003-06:00

SOMEWHERE OUT THERE A CHILD IS WAITING

If you would like to be a part of bringing love, hope, and help into the life of one of these precious Swazi children, please visit www.threadsofhopewovenbygod.blogspot.com .

And on behalf of the children, thank you. Or as they would say it in Swaziland, siyabonga.

2009-12-21T20:54:00.002-06:00

NO TRANSLATION REQUIRED
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“There are hundreds of languages in the world, but a smile speaks them all.”

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Photograph by Adam Wilson taken at a Swaziland Children's HopeChest/Adventures in Missions carepoint. To see more of his photography and read about his time in Swaziland, visit his blog at: http://wearebound.wordpress.com/

2009-12-19T21:53:00.007-06:00

AN AFTERNOON SPENT IN THE CITY OF LIGHTS

The MISSISSIPPI "City of Lights" that is....Canton to be exact.

According to family tradition, we took the kids to charming Canton to see the lights, peek in the shops, ooh and aah in the Christmas museums, ride the carousel, and enjoy all the other seasonal and particulary Southern offerings in this small town now famous for the many movies filmed here.

Here's a glimpse into our afternoon:

For more information on Canton, it's Christmas happenings, and other year-round offerings, visit their website: http://www.cantontourism.com/

2009-12-18T20:30:00.002-06:00

FLASHBACK FRIDAY....THEN and NOW

Today we made our annual Christmas visit up to Canton, City of Lights. We've been going for several years now. I thought it was amazing to see how fast the kids change. The top two photos were taken four years ago.

And here we are now. Anna is almost as tall as I am...maybe half an inch shy of my height...and Betsie has probably grown 12 inches or more. They've gone from little girls to nearly grown women. I'm understanding more and more the old expression...my, how time flies.

2009-12-17T20:35:00.003-06:00

I'M DREAMING OF A WHITE CHRISTMAS

After last weekend's snow, the family is greedily hoping for more snow this Christmas season. The kids and I have never, ever had a Christmas Eve or Day with snow and it would truly be an amazing even. Here are some more photos from last week:

2009-12-16T10:37:00.007-06:00

STOP SEX TRAFFICKING BEFORE IT STARTS

From Tom Davis of Children's HopeChest:

As you read this letter there are over 2 million children forced into prostitution and sex slavery.

This can be prevented and we can do something about it. These girls need our help and there isn’t time to waste.

Right now, pimps and prostitution rings are targeting our precious, young girls. They wait for them to leave the protection of the orphanage, and then offer them a "job."

Many of the girls simply disappear: never heard from again by their friends. But sometimes you glimpse this horror.

Like the girl who was flung from the cab of a truck once her "client" was finished with her. She was paralyzed, never to walk again.

Or the young woman the police found in a ditch on the side of a busy road. Killed at the truck stop where she worked as a prostitute.

These were kids that could have been helped by our programs.

One of these stories is too many...2 million children is unfathomable. This is a direct result of evil having its way on the earth.

As Peter tells us, “Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour.” I Peter 5:8

We can’t let him continue to destroy lives. You can stop this, and help reclaim a child's future.

HopeChest stops sex trafficking before it starts. In Russia, we are taking girls into residential living centers and community centers to actively protect them from the commercial sex trade. We identify girls early, while still in the orphanage.

Our staff form meaningful relationships to role model what successful living looks like. And when that girl leaves the orphanage, she knows exactly where to go for help--to HopeChest. She is not alone.

Amongst our girls, there is no sex trafficking. In fact, our transitional living homes have a 90%+ rate of helping girls find true independent life. This is the reality of God’s Kingdom in action.

Right now these girls need you. Please go to http://www.HopeChestPartners.org and click the GIVE button to make a gift today.

You can make a gift in honor of a special person this Christmas. Perhaps you will honor someone who mentored you as we are helping these young women?

Help us stop sex trafficking now by reaching more girls in Russia today and into 2010.

To read more about the minstry of Children's HopeChest in places such as Russia, Swaziland, and Ethiopia, visit Tom Davis' blog: http://tomdavis.typepad.com/

2009-12-15T19:40:00.004-06:00

GIRLS JUST WANNA HAVE ADVENTURES!

Today, one of my best friends turned 39. I took her on a surprise adventure down roads unknown to either us. We went down one road that kept getting narrower and narrower until it ended up as a driveway in someone's yard. One road turned dirt then paved then dirt then paved then half dirt and half paved before going back to paved. We saw lots of houses that are now waterfront property thanks to the copious amounts of precipitation. We oohed and aahed over beautiful homes and lovely, lovely scenery despite the overcast skies and frequent rain.

Our main destination, of which I kept a surprise from Rhonda til our arrival, was Porches Restaurant in Wesson. Jim took me there to eat on Veteran's Day and since then, I've been plotting Rhonda's birthday surprise.

After a delish meal and a jolly time exploring the old house that is the restaurant's home, we did a little sight seeing around Wesson. We were so into it, that an old gentleman pulled over his truck to ask us if we were alright since we were stopped in the middle of the road. We just told him that we were tourists. After perusing the shelves of the public library and driving around looking at interesting buildings and old houses, we drove north to Hazlehurst (what a HUGE cemetery and interesting county court house) and then on to Crystal Springs where I lived for 3 years as a kid. We went into the post office to mail a Christmas card to my domestic helper in Swaziland while we were looking around. And as in most small towns, immediately had two strangers strike up a conversation with us only to discover that I went to school with the husband, they go to church with my best friend from elementary school, and they knew a million folks I knew way back when. And of course, before it was all over, 2 or 3 more folks (including the postal clerks) were in on the conversation. Oh, the joys of small towns!

I drove Rhonda past my old school, church, library, even the beauty shop where I got my first "wings". As we left Crystal Springs, we went down my old road and saw my old home and reminsced about neighbors and happenings.

The last spot to visit was the small town of Terry. More old houses to ooh and aah over before heading home.

What a wonderful day combining some of the best of the past and the best of the present...and building on the foundation for many future years of fun and friendship with Rhonda.

Love you, woman! Thanks for letting me celebrate your birthday with you. It was one of the best birthdays I've ever been a part of...muddiest, too.

2009-12-14T21:08:00.004-06:00

NO THORNS

"No pain, no palm; no thorns, no throne;
no gall, no glory; no cross, no crown."

William Penn

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Photo by Adam Wilson. To view more of his photos taken in Swaziland, go to his blog: http://wearebound.wordpress.com

2009-12-12T21:32:00.004-06:00

NOT A SINGLE ONE

Last week, our family went to WE WILL GO, an inner-city ministry in the heart of our metro area. We will go holds Bible studies, prayer times, and worship services along with providing food, counseling, discipleship, toiletries, and clothes. Basically, they try to minister to the whole person.

During these fall and winter months, many of the folks who are touched by this ministry are cold. Many are either living on the streets or live in buildings that are unheated or inadequately heated and insulated. WE WILL GO gives them blankets, sleeping bags, gloves, hats, and other much needed items. Sadly, they are running very low on provision for the men.

Last Sunday, a friend sent a coat with us to donate to the ministry. When I took it to the clothes ministry building, I noticed that it was the ONLY men's winter coat. There were probably 50 or so women's coats, but there was just that one and only men's coat. And as I worked in there later on helping to pass out clothing, I assisted one of the first men coming through the door. He needed a coat. That lone coat fit him perfectly. But then all the other men needing one that day had to leave and spend another week coat less in the bitter cold, hoping that this Sunday there might be one for them.

Would you be willing to provide a coat for a man in need? The Bible tells us that if we have two cloaks and see our brother in need, we should give him one of those coats. Jesus also tells us that whatever we do for "the least of these" we also do for Him. When we give a coat to a freezing man, we are not just warming him physically, we are warming him spiritually as he sees the love of Jesus lived out in a practical and tangible way. And we're also giving that coat to our savior.

It's truly amazing that when we show Jesus' love to others, we are also showing love to Him.

So maybe you'd love to give a coat but your husband only has one or maybe you're not married and you're a woman so there are no coats to be had in your household. Perhaps you can ask the men in your life to donate one. Or buy one. Money tight? Try the local thrift store or consignment shop. In many cases, if you buy one at a thrift store (such as Gateway Rescue Mission in our area), the money you spend goes to support local charities and ministries.

If you need more details about the WE WILL GO MINISTRY, visit their website at http://www.wewillgo.org/Welcome.html . If you live locally and would like to donate, I'll be glad to either tell you how to get there or I'll take the coats for you. If you don't live in our area, but you want to mail a coat or two or three, that would also work! Just let me know and I'll get you the shipping address.

Thank you in advance,
Elysa

2009-12-11T23:38:00.004-06:00

FLASHBACK FRIDAY
SONNY & CHER's CHRISTMAS CELEBRATION

Wow! Where can I get some cool Christmas clothes like these?!

2009-12-10T01:00:00.001-06:00

TIMBALI CRAFTS: GIVE A GIFT THAT GIVES MORE

I love to give a gift that not only is awesome on it's own, but will also benefit awesome people. Gifts from Timbali Crafts in Swaziland fit the bill. I've met some of the women who make these purses and crafts. I've seen how they live and heard their stories. These are amazing women doing amazing things for God but they are struggling, in some cases, just to survive. Each purchase of one of their handcrafts helps them to win this fight. Here's what the folks at ADVENTURES IN MISSIONS have to say about Timbali Crafts:

Visit Timbali Crafts to not only find some great Christmas gifts,
but also make purchases that impact African families!

Timbali Crafts is an income generating project for women in Swaziland, Africa. The 90 women who create Timbali Crafts are volunteer cooks at feeding centers for orphans and vulnerable children in their rural communities. Timbali Crafts helps to provide an income for these hard working women and their families who would otherwise have little or none. Each product comes with a tag signed by the woman who created it, and her pictures and short bio can be viewed on our website. A great way to connect with a family on the other side of the world!

Go to http://timbalicrafts.org to view the unique hand-bags and other items from Timbali Crafts. (please place orders by December 16, 2009 to ensure on time delivery)

It's not too late to host a Timbali Craft Sale before Christmas!
An easy way to make an even bigger impact. Check out our website for details.

Adventures In Missions
Online: www.adventures.org
Email: info@adventures.org
Phone: 1.800.881.2461

2009-12-09T22:29:00.003-06:00

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO THE PATCH MAN!

Today, our 2nd born son celebrated his 11th birthday. I can't wait to see where God is going to take this energetic, funny guy. Jim Carrey probably was a lot like Patch Man 30 or so years ago.

HAPPY BIRTHDAY! We love you SO much!!!!

2009-12-09T09:29:00.004-06:00

GIVE HOPE THIS CHRISTMAS SEASON

Looking for a way to bless others during this time of year? Why not consider supporting the amazing ministry of Children's HopeChest. This is the organization that we traveled with to Swaziland two years ago and I can testify that they are effective stewards of the resources given to them and lives are being changed for the good. Here is a message from the folks at Children's HopeChest:
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Africa: Lift a child from extreme poverty
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Help build 25 new carepoints to serve 5,000 orphans with food, education, and discipleship.
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My name is Musa. I am five. My mother and father are dead from AIDS. Now my sister Zodwa is taking care of me. She's 12. After my parents died, we ate grass for food, but now that is changed. Every day the go-gos cook food for us at the carepoint. At the carepoint, Zodwa and I eat two meals each day. I no longer think about food so much. Now I dream of school. Thank you for making this place for me and Zodwa. Please do not ever forget us. I do not want to be hungry again.

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With an HIV infection rate of over 45%, widows and orphans are the only people left in Swaziland. That's why Pastor Walter, already poor himself, took money from his own pocket to start our first carepoints. The smoke from the fires brought the hungry children from the countryside. They emerged from isolation, relieved that this food was free of any strings--no expectation that they would have to trade sex for food. Those modest carepoints have grown to a network that now feeds over 4,500 children each day!
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We have identified 5,000 orphans in Swaziland, Ethiopia, and Uganda who are ready for enrollment in our programs. What they need is a carepoint, a safe place where they can receive food, medical care, education, and discipleship.
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This is what children like Musa and Zodwa find at Children's HopeChest carepoints. Your gift of $50, $100, or $500 will not only provide food, but will lift children from lives of poverty through care, discipleship, and--eventually--self-sustaining projects and education.
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Make a difference in a child's life this Christmas
by giving a gift of HOPE.

Click here to give to an African child:

http://www.hopechestpartners.org/africa.asp?tpgid=93108767&sn=0

2009-12-08T11:03:00.005-06:00

WITH THIS RING: AN UNUSUAL WAY TO CELEBRATE CHRISTMAS

Missions-communication-guru and all-around-fun-and-funny-yet-seriously-passionate-guy Jeff Goins sent this to me yesterday and asked that I pass it on to the Graceland folks, and since it's about loving "the least of these" in Africa, you know I said YES!

"Here is a unique and unusual way to celebrate Christmas this year -- by being part of a radical giving campaign that helps build wells in African villages. We've all heard that it's more blessed than to receive, but this organization, "With This Ring," is really calling people to put their money where their mouth is (or would that be mouths?).

Here's how it got started:

Ali Eastburn decided to make a radical gift and give up her wedding ring to help dig wells in Africa. Since then, she has been challenging people to give radically to change the lives of people around the world. For twelve days this month (Dec. 7-18), With This Ring will be auctioning twelve different rings that have been donated, with all of the proceeds going to charity.

You can read the With This Ring blog each day to find more about the back story of a particular ring, as well as the cause it will benefit.

I've been talking about Advent, lately -- this season where we prepare for Christmas, the ultimate display of love and sacrifice. What's really great about this cause is that both the givers and recipients benefit from this campaign.

Right now, With This Ring is auctioning off the rings that people have donated from around the country. You can see the auction here:

http://www.cmarket.com/auction/AuctionHome.action?vhost=withthisring

Feel free to get the word out; you never know who might buy a ring or even donate one."

2009-12-07T23:09:00.003-06:00

A SHORT POST AND A BIG "WOO-HOO"!!!

It's late so I need to keep this short, but I just had to share our BIG news....no, I'm not "with child", nor are we moving to Africa next month, and we did not hire a full time housekeeper, but I'm still excited! Hubby found a great Black Friday deal online and we were able to use Christmas money to buy a fabulous, new HP pc. Our old one really was falling apart. It was not uncommon for our windows to just suddenly shut down several times in one hour and don't even get me started on how long it actually took to just get the thing to turn on in the morning. I could literally make breakfast faster than it could wake up.

So with no sadness, I bid the old pc adieu and say welcome to my new baby. You and me, PC, we've got a lot of good times to be a happening at just the click of the furless mouse.

2009-12-06T20:29:00.003-06:00

GOOFING IN A WINTER WONDERLAND

December 5, 2009

2009-12-05T22:04:00.007-06:00

LAST NIGHT'S SNOW

2009-12-04T16:36:00.004-06:00

FLASHBACK FRIDAY...AIN'T THEY SWEET?

A Canton Christmas many, many years ago. Okay, so maybe only a few, but my how they change at this age! Yep, those are my oldest girls in their pre-purple and blue hair days.

2009-12-03T15:55:00.001-06:00

THIS ADVENT SEASON...WAITING FOR HIS MERCIFUL PEACE

"Through the bottomless mercy of our God, One born on high will visit us to give light to those who walk in darkness, who live in the shadow of death; to lead our feet in the path of peace."

From the Canticle of Zechariah