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Self Help Advice

2009-04-15T13:01:00.000-07:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, People Don't Know You Are Ugly 'Til You Tell 'Em. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/peopleugly.htm

This unique article helps you know what you are telling them and how to change that.

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! People Don't Know You Are Ugly 'Til You Tell 'Em

Thanks,
Jan

Self Help Advice

2009-04-01T06:41:00.001-07:00

"Is Your Relationship A 10?"
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/relationship.htm

Do you and your partner have the same arguments over and over? Do you wish your spouse or significant other would just pay attention at least once in a while? Why do you have to keep getting yelled at or keep yelling at them over the same things again and again? Why can't they just understand you?

Well, you know what? They might be thinking the same thing about you. Here's how to take steps to change that . . .

"Is Your Relationship A 10?"
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/relationship.htm

Self Help Advice

2008-12-15T07:03:00.001-08:00

Living Hell -- Are You Living It Or Giving It?
~ By Jan Tincher

Is every day a nightmare? Is the person you are living or working
with finding fault with everything you say or do? Or are you
finding fault with everything that person does? Do you wonder
how it got this way?

I used to be that way. I was finding fault right and left. Our baby
was a year old, the finances weren't great, I felt like I was being
taken for granted, and I wanted more. More from my spouse, more
from my life, more from me.

And guess what? No one was providing it. So you know what
I did? . . .

* * * Go Here For The Rest of the Article * * *
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/livinghell.htm

Self Help Advice

2008-11-14T05:24:00.000-08:00

Can You See The *Good* In Good-byes?
~ By Jan Tincher

Can you see the *good* in good-byes? Many people can't. They don't realize that nothing is bad or good, but thinking makes it so. Do you?

Here's an example:
A person is leaving. You are about ready to say your good-byes. What you *see* in the leaving determines your *tomorrows.* If you can't see the good, what are you seeing?

The bad? Right.

And what are you showing the person leaving? Certainly not the good, if you're thinking the bad. Now . . . both of you are upset. Do yourself, and those around you, a favor. Learn to take charge of your thoughts.

Let Jan Tincher, Master Neuro Linguistic Programmer, show you how . . .

Click here now! http://www.tameyourbrain.com/goodbyes.htm

Self Help Advice

2008-11-03T08:16:00.000-08:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, Being A Pack Rat *Hurts* In Ways You Don't Even Realize. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/beingpackrat.htm

This unique article shows us how *hoarding* things hurts us, even in our relationships! You want to know why? Read on, this article is very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Being A Pack Rat *Hurts* In Ways You Don't Even Realize

Thanks,
Jan

Relationships

2008-10-15T05:59:00.001-07:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, Buts Are Nice. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/butsrnice.htm

This unique article shows us how to say *No* in a very nice way . . .

It has a new way of thinking which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Buts Are Nice

Thanks,
Jan

Motivate Yourself to Feel Better About Yourself

2008-09-16T13:08:00.001-07:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, Do You Have A Wart On Your Nose? http://www.tameyourbrain.com/wartonnose.htm

This unique article shows how what we consider to be our own defect affects us . . .

It has a new way of thinking which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Do You Have A Wart On Your Nose?

Thanks,
Jan

Relationships - Do You Have A Hard Time Trusting People?

2008-08-01T07:48:00.001-07:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, Do You Have A Hard Time Trusting People?. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/trusting.htm

This unique article guides you to the place of trust that you can accept and grow even more.

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Do You Have A Hard Time Trusting People?

Thanks,
Jan

Motivating Tips For Love

2008-07-15T06:04:00.001-07:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, Do You Judge?. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/doyoujudge.htm

This unique article guides you to the place of love that you can accept and grow even more.

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Do You Judge?

Thanks,
Jan

Learn About Relationships

2008-07-02T04:50:00.000-07:00

Hi,

Here's a great article I know will help many of you, Do You Love?. http://www.tameyourbrain.com/doyoulove.htm

This unique article guides you to the place of love that you can accept and grow even more.

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! Do You Love?

Thanks,
Jan

Motivating Tips!

2008-06-13T06:05:00.001-07:00

Motivate Yourself To Succeed!

2008-05-13T05:41:00.001-07:00

Hi,

I think you will like this *anger management* article today.
"How Do You Stop Getting Upset?" helps you keep your
cool.

How do you stop getting upset? You start taking
charge of your emotions, that's how you stop getting
upset. Check it out here!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/howstopupset.htm

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and,
as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/howstopupset.htm

Thanks,

Jan

Weddings Drive You Crazy?

2008-04-29T05:40:00.001-07:00

I think you will like this thought provoking article today. *Going Crazy?* shows you how your self talk can make you think you're going crazy -- or it can take you OUT of the lowest depths!

Learn how this article can help you!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/goingcrazy.htm

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and,
as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/goingcrazy.htm

Thanks,

Jan

Motivate Yourself To Succeed!

2008-04-22T05:32:00.001-07:00

Hi,

I thought you might like another challenging article today.
Get Yourself A *Self* shows you how to see your life as
others see it.

Learn how this article can help You!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/getselfaself.htm

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and,
as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did! http://www.tameyourbrain.com/getselfaself.htm
Thanks,

Jan

Motivate Yourself To Not Talk Too Much!

2008-04-01T05:49:00.001-07:00

Hi,

I thought you'd like to read an article about something that affects many people and probably started when you were young. Talking too much.

Do you talk too much? Can you change at this late date?

Yes, you can, and you can find out how here: *Do You Talk Too Much?* Go here:
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/doyoutalktoomuch.htm .

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as in many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/doyoutalktoomuch.htm

Thanks,
Jan

Motivate Yourself!

2008-03-18T08:54:00.000-07:00

Hi,

I thought you'd like to read an article about something
that is sometimes hard to deal with: Memories that still
hurt. How do you handle them? Can you make them go away?

Yes, you can, and you can find out how in this article: *Do You
Have Old Memories That Still Hurt?* Go here: http://www.tameyourbrain.com/dooldmemorieshurt.htm

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as in
many of my articles, it's very powerful!

Read it, you'll be glad you did!
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/dooldmemorieshurt.htm

Thanks,

Jan

Motivate Yourself To Be Certain!

2008-03-11T05:45:00.001-07:00

Hi,

I thought you'd like to read an article about what is sometimes a difficult subject. Certainty. It's hard to be certain about many things, isn't it?

You'll learn how in this article: "Do You Have A Sense Of Certainty Or Uncertainty" You'll find it here: http://www.tameyourbrain.com/doucertainty.htm .

It has a technique you'll learn which is pretty simple, and, as many of my techniques are, it's very powerful!

Read it, http://www.tameyourbrain.com/doucertainty.htm. You'll be glad you did! Thanks,

Jan

Motivate Yourself!

2008-02-26T05:32:00.000-08:00

Do You Cry -- Out Of Habit?
~ By Jan Tincher

When I say cry out of habit, I'm not talking about the times when you are crying from deep pain. I'm talking about the times when you cried, but you wish you hadn't.

Things weren't really that bad. They weren't life-threatening. You could have survived just fine without the tears. I'm talking about THAT type of crying. Where, afterwards, you felt like you qualified for the *Wimp of the Year* award . . .

Does that ring a bell? Well, now is the time to change that. Go here for the rest of the article: http://www.tameyourbrain.com/doyoucryhabit.htm

Motivate Yourself!

2008-02-05T05:19:00.000-08:00

Can Paranoia Be Good?
~ By Jan Tincher

Yes. Paranoia can be very good . . .

If it's developed paranoia -- developed in a very good
way.

What do I mean by that? Read the rest of the article here:
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/canparanoiabegood.htm

Do Other People's Weddings Depress You?

2007-12-11T04:52:00.001-08:00

Are You Depressed?
~ By Jan Tincher

Do you get depressed easily?

If you do, why don't you ask yourself, not *why* are you depressed, but *how* are you depressed.

Now, don't look at me like I'm crazy. I just happen to think it's interesting to know *how* a person gets depressed.

I would just like to know, if I were in your body, *how* would I get depressed. Let's figure this out together . . .

Let Jan Tincher, Master Neuro Linguistic Programmer, show you the way.

* * * Go Here -- For Are You Depressed? -- * * *
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/depressed.htm

Weddings Go Smoother Without Negative Feelings!

2007-12-04T04:54:00.000-08:00

Do You Wish You Didn't Have Negative Feelings?
~ By Jan Tincher

Do you hate your sister's boyfriend, your spouse's parents,
the way someone cracks their gum, coffee breath, people who
mumble, people who wear purple?

The way we feel about things affects our performance, our
reactions, our well-being.

So doesn't it make sense to nullify those feelings that aren't
getting you anywhere? Let Jan Tincher, Master Neuro
Linguistic Programmer, show you how . . .

* * * Go Here For The Rest of the Article * * *
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/negativefeelings.htm

Need help with your relationship before it's too late?

2007-11-27T05:48:00.000-08:00

Living Hell -- Are You Living It Or Giving It?
~ By Jan Tincher

Is every day a nightmare? Is the person you are living or working
with finding fault with everything you say or do? Or are you
finding fault with everything that person does? Do you wonder
how it got this way?

I used to be that way. I was finding fault right and left. Our baby
was a year old, the finances weren't great, I felt like I was being
taken for granted, and I wanted more. More from my spouse, more
from my life, more from me.

And guess what? No one was providing it. So you know what
I did? . . .

* * * Go Here For The Rest of the Article * * *
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/livinghell.htm

Tame Your Brain For Weddings!

2007-11-13T05:00:00.000-08:00

Do You Have An Empty Space In Your Heart?
~ By Jan Tincher

Do you have an empty space in your heart because you've lost
a child, parent, loved one? . . .

Do you have an empty space in your heart because your family,
or a part of it, left you? Either they moved away or they refuse
to acknowledge you and/or your needs.

Do you have an empty space in your heart because you were
adopted and you don't know your birth family? Many times
when a person is adopted, they know little or nothing about
their birth parents. They may or may not love their adopted
family, but there is still that empty space. Wouldn't you
like to know what to do about it? . . .

* * * Go Here For The Rest of the Article * * *
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/emptyspace.htm

Motivate Me!

2007-10-16T08:37:00.001-07:00

Me, Me, Me!
~ By Jan Tincher

Copyright © Jan Tincher - All Rights reserved

Do you find yourself thinking *Me, me, me! What's in it for me?* during the course of your days? Do you think you have to *Look out for number 1*?

Something many people don't realize is that if you watch out for number 1, it doesn't leave much room for anyone else.

Let's think about that, and all the repercussions.

Because you know what? There are definitely repercussions! One is, if you are concerned with only yourself, you push others away. Then, guess what. You are alone and lonely.

But you can change that by taking it to a new level. A higher level, one where your belief pattern is *Harm to no one*. In other words, *Watch out for Number 1 *can still be your motto, but with a higher meaning.

What do I mean? Well, a way to watch out for yourself is take time out for yourself.

When you take three 15 minute breaks every day to relax and program your day, your day usually ends up going the way you programmed it.

Another thing many people don't realize is that if you don't program your day on purpose, you are programming it by accident. Look around your life to see what you have *accidentally* programmed. If it's not what you want, take the time to program what you do want.

Believe it or not, when you take time out to relax and program success and peace, you no longer will feel the need to *watch out for number 1* in the physical world. Instead of feeling like the more you hurry, the *behinder* you get, you'll take time to relax. *Me, me, me* is no longer the high priority you had given it. What can I do for others becomes your new mantra, and with good reason. Whenever you help others, you help yourself.

Do you know how to tell if you've left the *Me, me, me!* syndrome behind?

Well, has someone upset you, and you were able to handle it without getting angry? Did things go wrong at work, and you were able to handle it easily? Has someone embarrassed you, and you were able to handle it with your head up?

If so, congratulations! You're doing great!

To keep up the good work, make sure that the ONLY programming that goes into your brain is good programming. Who's in charge of your brain? YOU ARE!

Good luck, and good programming!

Thanks for reading.

Jan

P.S. Here's what I've found to be the best methods for handling stress:
http://www.tameyourbrain.com/stressEcourse/stressoffer.php

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Sex And Reflexes

2007-10-09T06:52:00.000-07:00

Do Your Reflexes Get In The Way Of Intimacy?
~ By Jan Tincher

For women, here's a common problem. Let's say you love to go on vacations, but you already know that every morning he'll want to make love the minute he wakes up.

You, on the other hand, like to lay there and relax. But you can't, maybe because you know what he wants, or maybe you are having thoughts like, *I've got bad breath, my hair is a mess, etc.*

Knowing he's going to roll over any minute now and start reaching for you, your first reflex might be to turn into *Ice Lady* because of what you are thinking.

He recognizes *Ice Lady* immediately and he hates it. But . . . he gives it a try, regardless. It's gotten past the stage of him reaching for you, wanting to make love. He's now just going through the actions and, all the while, the thing that sticks out in his mind most is that you are . . .

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http://www.tameyourbrain.com/sexandreflexes.htm

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