Indian Culture & Life Science

What Is The Meaning Of Yoga?

2009-01-30T13:06:00.002+05:30

In spirituality,when the finite comes in contact with the infinite,it is called Yoga.Yoga leads to the much aspired for supreme union.Yoga means addition.For the spiritual aspirant,yoga is not only addition;yoga means unification.Say there are two apples.You add another two apples to the existing ones.The total would add up to four apples.The nature and the characteristics of each apple remain same before and after addition.

Unification,on the other hand,is like sugar and water.When sugar is added to water,it dissolves and becomes one with the fluid.Yoga means this type of unification.In Yoga,undertaken for the unification of the unit with the supreme,the finite merges with the infinite.The human physical and psychic structure is most suitable for this purpose.Animals and plants act according to their inborn instincts.The cranium is very small and the conscious portion of the mind is sufficient for them.

A plant gets pleasure or pain when its inborn instincts are either encouraged or discouraged.When the inborn instincts of a plant or an animal are encouraged it gets pleasure,and when the inborn is suppressed or depressed,it gets pain.But human psycho-spiritual movement can not be suppressed.

There lies the speciality of human existence.Mysticism is the never-ending endeavour to find the link between the finite and the infinite,between the self and the super-self.When the aesthetic sense,based on the subtle aesthetic science,comes to touch a certain standard,it is called,mysticism.And when this mysticism reaches the pinnacle of human glory,or the excellence human glory,it is called spirituality.

Human being are never satisfied with something finite.The scriptures say that human thirst can not be satisfied with something limited.In the quest of unlimited,we first come in contact with aesthetic science.Aesthetic science is that which one can express in a subtle to subtler,and when it reaches the subtle point,that point is the pinnacle of the human glory.It is the duty of artists to express their work in a nice way,and place it before world.Not everyone can do this.But enjoying something with aesthetic taste is within the capacity of every human being.

Yoga is the most developed and valuable human expression so it is in the first phase of yoga that one expresses oneself through so many arts and sciences.The final point of all aesthetic movement and the final point of all branches of sciences is the supreme source,the perennial source of all energies,the supreme seat of all energies.

That is why for all people,the supreme entity must be the goal of life.That is,the supreme entity is the culminating point,the desideratum of all human expressions.When we are lacking in this spirit of movement,we degrade ourselves from the human status.

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Develop Good Personalities In You.

2009-01-29T21:58:00.002+05:30

We have two types of personalities in us,the good or the bad.The recognition and development of good qualities will lead us to freedom from pain.Negative qualities on the other hand lead one into bondage,resulting in sorrow and dependency.

The positive and the negative are present everywhere and in all times.Even in the worst ,one could find something good.If a tragedy like an earthquake happens,it reveals how there are those who help total strangers even at personal risk.We also come across those who take advantage by robbing.

Since both the good and the bad tendencies exist in us,we are both potentially divine as well as devilish.Environment,association and circumstances might exercise a major influence.For spiritual progress,meditation is good option.This means not only the company of the wise but also the company of good people,good books,good food etc.
It is therefore important to avoid what is negative and encourage the positive.Even if one sees a good quality in oneself or others,encourage it.You might find something positive even in those you perceive as your enemies.So give goodness a chance.

Negative forces attract similar tendencies that create a corresponding environment.The same is true for positive forces.It is therefore,a good idea to cultivate positive qualities.Good has the power to face all negatives.One strong good quality can fight against many negative ones.Similarly,in society if strong and positive forces arise then automatically negative forces are disappear.

Dedicating oneself to a good person brings out the goodness from within us.In the service of such person we imbibe their qualities.When one dedicates his life to God,then godly qualities emerge.These qualities are inherent and have to be invoked and literally pulled out of us.

Goodness when dedicated to a higher cause gain tremendous power.When people dedicates themselves to subtle causes like alleviating poverty,to ecology and the like they develop remarkable strength.Their goodness is used for the common good free of ulterior motives or intention of self-aggrandisement.

Goodness that is dedicated to God help in the seeker achieving God-realisation and takes him on the path to higher ideals.Being good and philanthropic due to pressure from society or the law is not permanent.But goodness that springs from within is everlasting.

Notice negative trends as they rapidly become insurmountable.One can not fight with a terrorist by becoming a terrorist.It is by strengthening the positive that one can override the negative.

Remember goodness is not an action,it is a state of being.

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The Different Stages Of Our Spiritual Evolution.

2009-01-28T16:44:00.003+05:30

Spiritual development and its evolution is slow process.It goes through some distinct stages.And in each stages,the world appears different.How life appears to us depends on where we are placed.The view is dependent on where we stand.Management will always look at things from a particular perspective,labour from another.Man from one,woman from another.The way we look at things gives them their meaning.

At different level of spiritual development the world will inevitably appear different.Broadly speaking these would be influenced by the major experiences on the path.

The age of innocence is a stage when we believe that every thing will be perfect.When you are a child,you take it for granted that everybody exists only to fulfil your needs and fancies.A child take it as a right that when he cries at night somebody will come and attend to the problem.Many adults have not outgrown this stage.They expect to be taken care of and loved.They are always expecting somebody to do something.The government should do this,the teacher should do that and so on.Everybody should do something so that they will live happy life.When such person comes to spirituality,they have the same relationship with God.

The age of disillusionment is when we find out that life is not perfect and things are inherently flawed.The child grows up and faces the reality that he is not the centre of the universe and for the most part the universe doesn't know he exists or is indifferent to his existence.This is the pain of adolescence.People in this stage say there is no God.They may become cynical or atheistic.

The age of responsibility is a stage when we start taking responsibility for our life.No more will others look after us.We will operate within the realm of cause and effect.We will get just rewards of our actions.Nobody is looking out for me and i must look out for myself says a person in the age of responsibility.He takes responsibility for his life.Many materialistic achievers fall in this category.

The age of keeper-hood is when a person starts really growing spiritually.It dawns on him that he is "His brother's keeper".Far from the world being there to take care of him,he is there to take care of the world.Instead of wanting others to share his pain,he wishes to relieve the pain of others.these are the Nobel people as like Mahatma Gandhi.Who fight to serve the world they came to and leave it a better place for their service.

The age of enlightenment extends far beyond that of "Keeper-hood".When love becomes universal,when there is complete identification,people are no more my brothers.They are me.I and they are one.Myself is the self in all.Even to love somebody there must be two.Enlightenment sees only one,the non-duel.It is the culmination of spiritual growth.

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Do A Good Deed And Throw It Into The Sea.

2009-01-27T21:11:00.002+05:30

To help others is a humanitarian attribute; a compassionate nature is proof that you are human.If your intention is to really help others,then your entire concentration must be on the word "Others".There would be no scope to think about yourself.The ideal of helping others is not a barter transaction,wherein you give something in exchange of something.It is just giving,pure and simple,and not taking.

If we entertain the selfish idea of receiving something,even a warm thank you,the idea of helping loses its charm.Then it will be just like any commercial transaction.That's why we are told,"Do good deed and throw it into the sea." What it mean is,do good and forget about it.Don't even expect a smile of gratitude in return.

Nature leaves you empty-handed.There was a farmer named Fleming in Scotland.One day he heard a call for help.He saw a boy sinking in the quicksand.Fleming pulled the boy out of quicksand;he affectionately patted him and told him to go home.Then he,returned to his farming work again.

Next day,a well dressed gentleman arrived at his hut.He said,"You saved the life of my child.I wish to present you with some reward." But Fleming said that he had only done his duty.Spotting a boy in a rags,the gentleman asked Fleming if that were his son.Fleming nodded.And the gentleman took the responsibility for the boy's education.Years later the farmer's son became a scientist,Alexander Fleming.He became renowned for his invention of Penicillin.A few months after the invention,the boy who his father saved got a severe attack of pneumonia.And his life was saved,this time by Fleming Jr's invention.

What goes around does come around.As you sow,so shall you reap,in whatever form.Nature returns everything with interest."Happy are those who long to be just and good,for they shall be completely satisfied.Don't tell your left hand what your right hand is doing.And your God who knows all secrets will reward you."

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The Qualities Of A True Teacher.

2009-01-25T20:51:00.002+05:30

The error in teaching can be subtle,Even convincing when rationally analysed.It is by the vibrations that a teacher's depth can be sounded.If he is spiritual,a sensitive person will feel,especially in the heart,deep calmness and upliftment of spirit.If he is spiritually shallow,as false teachers are likely to be even if they reason brilliantly,the sensitive person will feel in him a certain agitation and unease.

The eyes of a true teacher shine,they are always calm.His voice contains an undercurrent of sweetness and joy.His gait suggests a determined but relaxed spirit;its strength radiates outward from centre of stillness in the spine.His back is straight,and his posture,upright.

The eyes of a false teacher,by contrast,are restless and dull.His voice grates.His gait suggests inner tension.And his posture indicates a mind centred not inward,but on the world around.

These signs are to varying degrees evident in a teacher's disciples also.The greatness of a master must be judged by his worthy disciples,not by the failures among them.Indeed,out of compassion a true master may accept people of unsettled spirituality.The test of the master's greatness,then,is now much those disciples who submit themselves to his influence change for the better.

A true teacher's level of spirituality is reflected in everyone in tune with his consciousness.A tree's best fruits are those which receives most sunlight,not those which cluster densely together in leafy shade.The light that emanates from the teacher reaches those most clearly who,in their hearts,stand alone before him and "Receive Him" without other influences.

Indeed,the vibrations of the great teacher spread into the world like waves,leaving no one in the inner recesses of his consciousness unaffected.Waves on the sea subside after a time,unless the water's surface is repeatedly stimulated by wind,in this case,winds of divine grace.

The vibrations of a false teacher reveal lack of clarity in his thinking,confusion and self-contradiction like ripples on a lake that move every which way with changing winds.His vibrations affects with confusion also anyone who tunes in to them.They contradict any noble sentiments he may outwardly endorse.

The surest sign of a true teacher lies not in anything he says or does outwardly ,but the vibrations he sends out.These vibrations may be subtle,but most people will at least "Feel Good" in such a person's presence.Powerful spiritual vibrations make strong impression.Reaction to them tend to be definite and deeply felt.

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Try To love Others With Detachment.

2009-01-25T10:09:00.002+05:30

Is it possible to love without attachment? We do have so much love to give,but is it right kind of love? We tend to feel a kind of ownership over all that we love though we don't own anything or anyone.

It is easy to utter the words "I love you" than to actually mean it.Love is perceived in many ways."love,but never be possessive of what you love.Once you are possessive,you might claim,this is mine.When in actuality nothing or no one is yours."

We all are here on a spiritual journey.Along the way we find many co-travellers who become part of our lives but they too have their own destination.There is a hierarchy of love.Right on the top are parents,spouse,children,other family members and friends.Universal love is not easy to follow but may be we could try.For starters,we could do little things that make people smile.A kind word or tone would not take away from you but give a lot to the other person.

"If you want peace and happiness,you must live in love.Only through love will find inner peace and happiness.Love flourishes through giving and forgiving.Develop your love,immerse yourself in love"."Love is the basis of every thing.It is the single most important quality that has to be developed.All your thoughts must become immersed in this quality of love.Then truth will naturally established itself in your heart."

People who served are God like;there service should be appreciated,whether they belong to your peer group or not.We need to learn to love without attachment.We love those who we feel are ours.What about the rest? Why is an amazing emotion like love saved only for those few people who we perceive as ours? For instance,how might one learn to love the person who has wronged us? I guess i would say OK,don't love,but at least try not to hate.That is an improvement.

Things can never bring you happiness.Once you have bought something,its value diminishes.At first i used to think that was not true,but in the time i learnt that it is one of few truths in life.I constantly try and make an effort to not to get attached to "Things" now because at the end of the day they are things.This doesn't mean don't shop,etc.It means realise that actual happiness can not be attained from anything external.

Enjoy all the things you have and be grateful for it,as that too is the grace of God but do not expect it to give you anything.I find my peace every evening as i sit by myself and watch the sunset.That is when i feel real joy.The sunset with such ease and that is how we should be.

I would get attached to songs and smells,some smells can take back in time and songs too can transport you old memories.It is nice to remember but if we dwell on the past we are missing out on the present;we tend to miss out on new smells and songs as we are so preoccupied with the old.We have to let go,because holding on to something does not give us ownership rights.

In other words,"We have to practice loving detachment."

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Positive Attitude Has Power To Change Our Life.

2009-01-24T20:18:00.002+05:30

Life is play.We should never forget this.Attitude is inner technology.It is our inner system.It is the highest source in our life.The source that has capacity to give you whatever we want.Whatever we are now,however we are living,whatever we are enjoying are all the result of the attitude we have nurtured.

Frustration comes to tell you,"Change Yourself."Here its call and open yourself to change.Those who do not understand it this way and do not change their attitude only grow more and more frustrated.Those who do not understand and adopt a positive attitude are the ones who become seekers.

A man asked God where hell and heaven were.God took him to both places where many people were sitting at the dining table laden with delicacies.One distinguishing feature was that people in both places had extra big hands and long arm.ten minutes later,when the people in the heaven found they could not put the food from their plate into their mouth,they quickly found a more pleasant way,they fed each other and soon they had all eaten their food.In hell,they could not eat as they would not serve.

There lies the secret.The secret of developing positive attitude is through service.and this is the attitude we must develop.We need to realise that we alone are not doing all that we are thinking we are.Many forces are at play.some times we need to stop action.we need to give other forces in the world,which are also working for us,a chance.They too would like to do some work.

When a seed finds a right place,the right position in the soil,its action is over.Other forces now take over and it grows into a plant.Similarly,for the divine in us to express itself we need to allow it to act through us.

All of us have two sides;one,which is overwhelmed by desire and ego and the other,which is selfless and caring.When ego is the focus the stimuli we get are necessarily negative and do not benefit us or the world we live in.Even if they give pleasure for a while,after a point we feel frustrated.

Meditation means allowing positive impulses of service and selflessness to come through and establish them within us.This is not something we "do".It is not action.It is allowing inaction.It is learning.A learning to live within oneself and without oneself.

It is the experience of loneliness.When true loneliness is experienced,it no longer remains loneliness.It is feeling of bliss when everyday seems like a one-day match.And every morning a new day waiting to be filled with joy.

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Four Important Factors Of Insight Meditation With Mindfulness.

2009-01-24T13:13:00.002+05:30

Insight Meditation is one such technique.However,this technique is not only involves holding the mind still,but goes on to observe intensely the thoughts and feelings arising,to understand the true nature of our body and mind,and the nature of the world.So there is no conflict of within and without .The mind transgresses all barriers of conceptualisation and conditioning and moves to the realm of absolute reality.Therefore,we need to understand the preparation for it.This mindfulness.We need to understand its nature before we begin to practise it.

Mindfulness has four important factors.The most important factor is clarity of mind.A mind deluded with anger and greed is toxic;therefore it is unclear.Clarity comes when mind is free of agitation.

The second factor is staying calm for stability and peace.When we are agitated,craved and excited,the mind experiences instability and unease.It is not at peace with body.We need to bring the state of such a mind to settle into calmness and serenity.

The third preparation for mindfulness is alertness of mind.By alertness is meant sensitised but not adversely sensitive to surroundings.We can completely aware of what is going around us in detail,but it does not bother or worry us.

The fourth important factor in this practise is keeping the mind engaged in current events.We are to be ever watchful of this because the mind wanders,creates its own concepts and conditions and distorts proceedings.

Once we prepare ourselves for meditation sessions ever watchful of all these four states,we are ready to begin the practice.In all this preparation the breathing is to set to a rhythm,focusing,preferably,on the point of release of breath to the intake of the next breath,so the mind does not wander to the next event following the meditation sessions.

Now there is no threat for the mind to wonder.It is,therefore,advised that when one commences this practice it is done so at a retreat,uncluttered and disturbance-free.It is also advised that the eyes can be kept partially open looking at the angle of nose to avoid falling asleep.

Finally,the brilliance of the practice of mindfulness is that it can be done while sitting,walking,doing daily chores like cooking,writing,etc.The mind should constantly endeavour to remember all four states required for effective meditation.

Being mindful can make the difference between life and death through watchfulness.

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What Is The Difference Between Mind And Brain?

2009-01-23T21:03:00.003+05:30

We usually refer to ego as pride.We can have pride of knowledge,power and wealth.We attribute all that we are and all that we have done to our own individual efforts.We think we are superior to others in many ways.

Pride of knowledge comes because of traps laid by the mind.When our soul enters the body,it works in this world through the mind.The brain is a complex organ that receives sense impressions from the world.Our culture makes us interpret these impression in a certain way.

Beside receiving and interpreting impressions,the brain is a vehicle by which we can communicate with the world through language,to make our thoughts known to others.There are many involuntary actions controlled by the brain such as breathing,heartbeats and releasing the hormones that regulates the body functions.

Many think that brain is the seat of thoughts.But there is a difference between the mind and brain.The brain is like a computer which performance many functions.But it is the mind that controls the brain.The mind is the product of causal plane of creation,a mixture of spirit and matter.With the mind in control,many of our decisions and actions are based on meeting the mind's desire and wishes.Because the object of mind is to keep us enslaved to the world,it controls us.The soul,having forgotten itself,goes along with the mind.

We go to school and gain knowledge of this physical universe.We are bombarded by sense impressions at every moment.Our brain has the capacity to take in billions of bits of information,store and retrieve them,much like a computer.

World can be combined in billions of ways to create new stories,books,ideas new inventions.The notes of the musical scale can be combined in billions of ways to create a wide variety of music.The mind can keep us occupied and involved in this world for very long time.

The mind has forgotten that the colours of the palette it uses to paint have been created by god himself.That the notes of the scale that it uses to compose songs are God's own making.The brain it uses to communicate with the world is also a creation of God.

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Be Creative,Do Small Acts With Love.

2009-01-09T20:55:00.002+05:30

These words are from Rajnish,world know them by "Osho".

Cleaning a floor can be a tremendously creative act.Creativity has nothing do with any particular work.Creativity have some thing to do with the quality of your consciousness.Whatever you do can become creative if you know what creativity means.

Creativity means enjoying any work as meditation;doing any work with deep love.Are you thinking that if you paint,you will feel creative? but painting is just as ordinary as cleaning the floor.You will be throwing colours on a canvas.Here you go on washing and cleaning the floor.What is the difference? talking to somebody,you feel time wasted.You would like to write a great book;then you will be creative.But a friend has come;a little gossiping is perfectly beautiful.Be creative.

A man of understanding is continuously creative.Not that he is trying to be creative.The way he sits is creative act.Watch him sitting.You will find in his movement a certain quality of dance,a certain dignity.Life consists of small things;just your ego goes on saying these are small things.You would like to do some great thing,like great poetry.You would to like become Shakespeare,it is your ego creating the trouble.

Drop the ego and everything is creative.Then everything is tremendously great.If you don't love,then your ego goes on saying,"This is not worthy of you".Cleaning is great.Don't go on an ego trip.Whenever the ego comes and persuades you towards some great things,immediately become aware and drop the ego.Nothing is profane;everything is scared and holy.

And unless everything becomes holy to you,your life can not be religious.
A holy man is not what you call a Saint.A saint may be just an ego trip.A holy man is an ordinary man who loves ordinary life.Chopping wood,carrying water from well,cooking-whatever he touches become holy.Not that he is doing great things,but whatever he does,he does it greatly.

The greatness is not in the thing done.The greatness is in the consciousness that you bring while you do it.Each moment of your life has to be transformed by your meditative love.When I say be creative,I don't mean that you should go and become great painter and poet.I simply mean let your life be poetry.

Never allow yourself this tendency for being great,famous,someone bigger than life-size--never.life-size is perfect.To be exactly life-size,to be just ordinary,is as perfect as it should be.But live that ordinariness in extraordinary way.

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Live In Simple Way And You Will Be Happy.

2009-01-07T22:19:00.002+05:30

Keep it simple! that is the mantra which will help you to reduce stress and tension.Possessions and acquisitions may seem marvellous.But after a while,you do not own them,they own you.

Many times i have seen people are listening music while they are on morning walk,even some people are keeping their mobile near to their bed while sleeping.It clearly shows,they are owning you.

When our life becomes complicated with power and possessions,we move further and further away from the simple joys and pleasures of life.We fail to notice the green grass and the fresh morning flowers.We don't have time to hear birds singing or watch our little ones smiling.We drift away from the state of childlike innocence and simple joy,which is our basic nature.

Simplicity is not self-denial.It is return to those values that matters most in life.It emphasises spontaneity and intuition.It helps us to rediscover the feeling of wonder and joy that we have lost as adults.

There was a wealthy businessman,who was also a sincere,simple soul.He owned an expensive jet in which he flew about from place to place.He was asked by someone,"Whether he enjoyed his private plane?".His reply was significant.He said,"It was certainly very convenient,but i have to travel without anybody".In fact when he was young and poor and can't fly,he was happy.

A famous actress was being interviewed on television.She had made a fortune that year,over a billion dollars."Does it make you feel happy?".She was asked.She replied thoughtfully "Yes and No".Everyone thinks it is marvellous.so many people flock around me.But i really don't know,who is my true friends are and who are with me for my money and glamour".

A group of youngsters were walking across a shopping mall.They were happy and relaxed;they were talking and laughing merrily.There was a young girl among them,who happened to glance at the window of a jewellery store which they passed,On display was beautiful,brilliant diamond bracelet.The girl's eyes opened wide.She went close to the window to inspect the price.She could not afford it.

She caught up with her friends but she was not happy,laughing,bubbly girl that she was before five minutes earlier.Her cheerful,buoyant attitude had been replaced by a mood of glum disappointment.

This is worst part of about wanting things.Getting them may give you momentary happiness.But not being able to get them often makes you miserable!

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2009-01-05T21:31:00.002+05:30

It is wrong to say that we have to live only in present.one need to consider time as past,present and future.Some people operate from the past.Some are future-oriented and so they mostly operated from the future and some are present-oriented.to be wise involves balancing the three time periods.When required you have to take reference from the past or consider the future.Hence balancing time is more essential.

Do not reject the past or future.Also do not live only in the past or future.Learn from the past,enjoy the present and plan for the future.Be present in the past,be present in the future,thereby plan for the future.Being alive in the present,you will enjoy the present.It is said that,one of the reasons Hitler lost the war was because he did not learn from history.He attacked Russia in winter.Had he learnt from history,he would have known that Napoleon had lost many of his men by attacking Russia in winter.

One can learn from the past as well as from the future taking care not to be imprisoned by both.Similarly,while planning for the future,do not lose the present and miss the wisdom of the past or opportunities in the future.Hence one need to be balanced with reference to time.

Decide on your priorities in life.Establish your peak performance time during the day.Monitor your low performance time.Do any important task at your peak performance time.Do ant less important task at your low performance time.Identify your time wasters.Learn to delegate work.

Enjoy your work and you will find there is lot of time.Review your priorities from time to time.Be with people who are good at time management.Just as the past was the present at one point of time,the future will also be the present at another point of time.So be present in the past and also be present in the future.Therefore,the present is more real.

Within us,there is a dimension of time and beyond time.We live in two worlds,a world of mind,which is in time and the world beyond the time that is timelessness.When we are in sleep,we go beyond mind and experience the timelessness.One should have wisdom to use the mind and the wisdom to go beyond the mind.In a state of deep joy,we are beyond our minds.Mind is bundle of thoughts.More than heart attacks,we suffer from thought attacks.

You should be the master of mind rather than the mind being your master.The intention to be the master of mind will give you the wisdom of how to use the mind.

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2009-01-04T22:36:00.003+05:30

Whenever the things don't happen as we wish,we blame to destiny.This is how we deal with failure.We are consoling our self.Whatever situations we are living in,we are responsible for that.We can mould the situations the way we want them.

But today,most people in the world are moulded by the situations in which they exist.That is simply because they exist in reaction to the situations they are placed in.So their question will be," Why was I placed in such a situation? Is it my bad luck or is it my destiny?"

your body is just an accumulation of food,your mind is just an accumulation of impressions that you have gathered through the five senses.What you accumulate can be yours but it can never be you.What is you is yet to come into your experience.You will know it,when you are reach to unconscious sate.We are trying to live our life through what we have gathered,not through who we are.

A century ago,many things that people believed to be destiny or god's will,like diseases,infections and death.These things are in our hand today,because we have taken charge of certain things.What we call them these days,as technology.Within the law of nature,everything on the outside that can be taken charge of,we will take charge on someday.

As there is outer technology,there is inner technology also.If we know what the nature of life within us,we can completely take charge of,the way it happens.Then would you let any unpleasantness happen to you?

When it comes to outside realities,all of us are differently capable.What I can do,somebody else can't do.What You can do,I can not do.What someone else can do,you can not do.But when it comes to inner possibilities,every human being equally capable.You are not less than anybody for that matter.All of us have the same inner capabilities,unfortunately never explored,never accessed.

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2009-01-03T21:48:00.002+05:30

These days,people are talking about stress management.We manage our families,our money,our property,our business,etc...,in short we manage whatever is valuable to us.Why anybody manage stress? Because people have made stress as a part of life.

Stress is not part of life.It is not our lifestyle,it is not our family,it is not the situations in which,we exist which cause stress to us;it is our inability to manage our system.Our body,our mind,our emotions and our energy.We don't know,how this system functions? How to use it proper way?

People are capable of being stressed for just about anything.You don't need to do anything about stress;stress is like a friction of a machine.The less friction machine have,the more efficient the machine becomes.
Now i am not looking at how to manage stress,nor how to keep it under the surface.I am talking about how not to create it,because stress is our creation.If you start the simple process of Yoga,you will find that,within eight weeks,there is considerably drop in your pulse rate,heart beat etc..

All your system will work very smoothly,because your whole system is functioning at ease.When the very nature of your existence has become ease,you are restful all the time.Then there is no such thing as stress in your life.

We can be most effective in our life only when everything is at complete ease within.If our ability to act becomes effortless.naturally there is no such thing as stress in the universe.

If your body and mind took instruction from you,would you create stress for yourself? We need to look at the fundamentals of life,why our body and mind are not doing what we want them to do.

If you do a process of Yoga,it needs to be in its full depth and dimension,not just physical nor mental;it has something to do with the core of your life.If all of you is not involved in the yoga that you do,if it has not been transmitted to you,it just has been taught to you,it is just a bundle of instruction only and not an initiation.If that is so,you are missing Yoga.

Yoga is not a solution to our stress.Actually there is no need of stress in our life.Yoga is removal of problem only.You don't create stress anymore,that's all.If you don't create stress,then why do you need a solution for it? Stress is our making;it is not the situation,which is making stress.It is our making,we are giving the power to situation.So if you get a little deeper access to the experience of life within you,you will distinctly know this and you will drop it.

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How Your Happiness Affects The World?

2008-12-16T14:23:00.002+05:30

Are most people happier or less happy than you are? Ever you thought where you fall on happiness scale? The answer,you better know.I want to tell you which simply don't matter.Many people who are not happy or only fairly happy,struggle with personal happiness simply because they do not rate their personal happiness.However our personal happiness is more important and should rate among our top priorities.In fact,it really is not selfish to consider our own happiness as our top priority for following reasons.

*You Are The Only Valuable Person Of The World.

It is true,you are a valuable person.Look back at your past.Think about how different the world around you might be if you had not been born.How has your life impacted others?Don't dismiss small contributions as unimportant because the truth is that it is often these Any small changes that lead to a greater good.Think about your life right now.How many people depend on you among your family,friends and community? If you stayed in bed tomorrow how many lives would be affected by your absence?

Now think about your future.What potential exists for your life to impact the lives of others? Think about your home,your friend,community and your professional life.Don't think about probabilities but rather possibilities.You have the potential to change many lives just by being you and living your life.You are valuable because you are the sum of all these effects;your past+present+future.What you have done,what you are doing,and what you can do in the future are all the elements that makes you a valuable person,who deserves to be happy.

*Your Happiness Will Spread Around The People.

It is true that if you are unhappy then you can make it much more difficult for others around you to be happy.If a parent is unhappy then often the rest of the household will be unhappy too.Many times you heard this "It only takes one bad mango to spoil the whole basket",and this is true whenever any group of humans gathers together.If one Friend or one family member is not happy then their unhappiness can spread to infect the others in the group.

You deserve to be happy for yourself but you should also strive for happiness so if you are going to spread a mood then it will be a good one.

*Your Happiness Affects The World.

How many times have you simply going through life,not really in a good or bad mood,and then someone took a moment to give you a smile.What happened to your mood? Did you smile back? "Smiles are contagious and this may be a very powerful tool for your own personal happiness".

Can you imagine possessing the power to spread smiles? You do not need to imagine,it because you already possess that power.You just have to use it.You simply need to get yourself into the habit of smiling.Smile at your loved ones,friends and smile at stranger on the street,and soon you will be making Strong contribution to make the world a happier place.

Your happiness is valuable and important because you are a significant person,your mood impacts your family,friend,community and your happiness affects the world.

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2008-12-14T20:33:00.003+05:30

Most people recognise that,in real life anger is not a pleasant emotion,yet they appreciate the violent scenes in the movies.And then,strangely enough,they wonder why they themselves,in fits of anger,speak such words and do such deeds which break the hearts of their loved ones and which they themselves bitterly regret later.

Anger breaks hearts and spoil homes.When enslaved by anger,people violently attack,wound and kill others,some time even their loved ones.Violent heroism in the media thus breed violent crime in society.Anger is also a known cause of a large variety of disease ranging from high blood pressure to heart attacks.Anger can lead to all forms of conflicts ranging from petty quarrels to world war.

Moreover depression,a growing rapidly modern mental health challenge,originates in anger.When one is unable to discharge anger on the perceived cause of frustration,one discharge it out on oneself by going into self-pity and self-martyrdom mentality,which is typical depression.Thus anger destroys reputations,careers,families and lives.Anger is "One of the gate that leads to hell".

Where is the psychological origin of anger?

When our desires,plans and expectations for control and enjoyment are obstructed,the resentment and frustration expresses itself through harsh words and violent actions.One tries to satisfy his lust,and when he can't,anger and greed arise.

Normal man who does not want to glide down to the degraded species of life must try to give up the three enemies,lust,greed and anger,which can kill the self,to such an extent that there will be no possibility of liberation from difficult situation.

How we can deal with anger?

When angry,count numbers,one to ten,before you speak;if very angry,count numbers,one to hundred.Consciously delaying action is useful in checking angry outbursts.It said that one should not speak when one is angry.Be quite.Anger,being fiery,can be cooled by a sip of water.And a spiritual transmutation of our emotions can completely uproot anger.We are all souls,spiritual and eternal children of God.Our heart finds fulfillment only when we make god our first love and we can at once be free from contamination of this terrible sin and disagreement.

By the process of calling on the holy names and also propagation the chanting of the holy names of the god can we be protected from all effects of this dangerous age.Often we indulge in anger because we do not recognise the danger of anger.When we awaken our dormant spiritual devotion by chanting the holy names of god,that will make us strong at heart and wise at head.

We have to develop the discrimination to pre-empt provocative situations,the open-mindedness to see the other person's view-point and the assertiveness to present our viewpoint without becoming aggressive.

Will our world not be a better place if more people were similarly transformed? Let's begin with ourselves.Why not begin this transformation today? Life is short and precious,and more precious if it is used in the service of humanity.

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Can We Achieve Ultimate Success In Life?

2008-12-13T19:39:00.002+05:30

First we have to decide,what is mean by success? What we have and what we want? Can we be successful after that? There are endless questions.Every individual has to find out their own concept of success.I think it is an individual matter of thinking.But below are the some fields where every one wants to be successful.It is totally my view,you can add in the list.

* Wealth:-
Every human wants to be wealthy in their life.many of us dream to be a rich person of the world.We feel money will make us happy,money will buy every thing which we desire.It is true that money can do many things for us but we can't buy pure love,peace of mind,health,fun of sound sleep after hard work and many more things.If you have all the wealth in your locker but unable to use.Will you feel yourself successful?

* Health:-
You have very sound body but no money in your pocket.How you feel?You mat feel yourself successful but people don't.Will they make friendship with you? In my opinion only sound body don't matters most.You have good physical body but your mental condition is bad ,people think,you are healthy but you know yourself very well.95% people looks healthy but every one has some sort of pain in their life.No one is fully successful in maintaining health for life long.

* Name and Fame:-
99% population on the earth desires to be a famous personality in their life time.How many of them achieve this position? Everybody wants respect and fame,rather everyone is hungry for this.Many of us spend whole life for this reason but never be successful in achieving that.Many famous personalities agrees,they are still unhappy with their work and can achieve more than this,their best has still to come.Even you got all the name and fame still you also desire more.This is the human mentality that what we have,we don't care and what we don't have,we run behind that.Will you still feels successful after reading this?

* Family Life:-
No doubt,if you are happy with your family and relatives,then you are definitely successful in life.We want to live with peace.How many from us really happy in relationship? Many of us are quarreling for very small reasons.Still i thought,we Indians are more successful in this area of life as our family and social network are much more strong than western countries.Percent wise we may successful in this but there are more work required to do as we are heading towards micro family.

*Spiritual life:-
This will end your all worries and dreams about success.There is nothing to gain or nothing to loose.If you achieve something in this area of life,you will be successful in life.Spiritual life will teach us,what are the requirements? How we become happy? Spirituality increases our power of thinking,it builds some divine virtue in us.It teaches us to live for noble cause,which must be our motive of life.A help you offer to others ,will help you to grow up in life.

If you are successful in spiritual life,you don't required money,name,fame etc......

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2008-12-09T13:42:00.002+05:30

Recently I read a short story from marathi daily news paper.I like the story very much and touches to my heart.I thought,it must be shared with others.It may touch to your heart also.That's why I translate it.

* One day teacher enter in class room with a glass of water in hand and kept it on table.He started teaching and finished the topic by the end of period.Before leaving the class room teacher left the glass of water in hand and asked a question to students,
"How much water this glass contain and what is the weight of the glass?'

one student replied,"50 grams."
Second replied,"100 grams."
A student from last bench,shouted,"200 grams."

Teacher said,"We don't know the exact weight of glass until we measure it.But it is sure that,this glass has some weight."

He asked another question,"What will happen,if I hold this glass for a minute?"

Student replied,"Nothing."

Teacher continued,"If I hold this glass for an hour,what will happen?"

Student replied,"You will feel pain in hand."

Teacher said,"Right you are.But what happen,if I hold the glass for full day without dropping a single drop of water outside?"

A smart student replied"Sir,your finger,wrist and complete hand will get paining,you get tired.It may possible,you have to be hospitalized."

Teacher smiled and said,"Yes,you are right.It may happen,but tell me,why my hand starts paining or why I should be hospitalized? The weight of the glass remain same.I don't add or remove a drop of water."

At this moment,student stuck up.They don't know,what their teacher want to teach them.There is pin drop silence,breaking that silence teacher asked one more question,
"What I have to do,to get freedom from this pain?"

One student replied without hesitation,"Sir,Put the glass on table,so simple."

Teacher pat on back of student and said,"You are 100% right.We have to do same thing with our problems.They are also as like a glass of water."

The conclusion of this story is,we have to think over the problems we face.It don't give us pain,if we give look for few minutes.But if we take burden then we are putting weight on our head.Actually no problem is big enough.We keep thinking and thinking over it and increasing the weight on our head.Here pain starts.If we put it for long time then not only head but also complete body starts paining,our mind don't work and we got tired,as we are helpless to find out the solution.

Then,What we have to do?Simple,put the burden aside.Don't raise the problems every day.After all,only we have to solve it.Then why feel panic?
We have to use brain to reduce the intensity of problems,and to find out the solution.Once we know,How to do it,then we can keep aside any problem.

How to do this?Just like,keeping the glass of water on table.What the teacher do in story.what you say?

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2008-12-04T21:03:00.002+05:30

There is lot of darkness,disharmony and pain in our world today,a lot of injustice and violence also.And what we must realise is that,we are the reason behind all this.Our outer world is created by the fact that many of us live with broken inner lives.I therefore believe that if we wish to move forward and create a better world,we need a lot of healing of our past.

And here,a very integral part of this process of letting go of the past,lies in our ability to forgive.Indeed, we must never underestimate just how many conflicts and how much sufferings still persists,because so many of us are so rigid and unyielding and not only have very little idea about how to forgive but also wholly fail to recognise the importance of it.

One of the main reasons why it not so easy to us,because deep wounding can bind us in a perverse way to the source of pain,and we live with all the pain and sorrows throughout our life.And essentially,what forgiveness ask us,is that we learn to let go.Imagine that something terrible will have happened to us,say,that those we love most are stolen from us.What we will tend to feel is great outrage,the sense that some thing very precious,respected and that gives our lives meaning,will have been stolen from us.

Now put it another way,we are living at a time of great spiritual awakening,where much spiritual light is now emerging on our planet.And one of the effect of spiritual light is illumine us,the dark and cobwebby areas that obscure it,not only inside each of us personally,but also within humanity collectively and within our world globally.

To forgive.whether it be ourselves,another person,a nation or whatever,what is essential is that we be in a place of being able to raise our awareness to a level higher than that in which the original perceived wounding occurred.So long as we still remain caught in our old dramas,no resolution is possible.The bigger our egos,the harder it is to forgive and the less we will be motivated to want to do so.

In order to forgive, we have to be able to open our hearts,for it is essentially only with our hearts that we can experience our true self worth.I believe that the more open our hearts are,the more we are able to access the kind of wisdom that enables us to understand what lies behind why certain painful things will have taken place.When our hearts being to open,we only want justice and truth;everyone increasingly becomes our sister and brother.

The more open our hearts are,therefore,the stronger we are and therefore,the greater the possibilities for forgiveness.It empower us to recognise the purpose behind,Why certain things happens as they do,even if those things are painful and terrible.

We remember that in the act of forgiving those who may have hurt us,we not only help re-humanise them,but we also do the same for ourselves.To forgive,then,is an important part of our own transformation process.It is also significant form of service.And one powerful way of helping activate this space is to make a daily practice of seeking to behave in a loving and generous-spirited way towards everyone we encounter.

However,please remember that the cultivation of such presence can not happen overnight.We must be patient and learn to live gradually into forgiveness.While we will begin our journey calling out to it,searching for it,we may end it by the spirit of forgiveness drawing us ever closer into its own heart.

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2008-12-01T06:34:00.003+05:30

If I ask you,ever you forgiven to anyone? i have no doubt,you will quickly reply "Yes".Is it not? Which means you still remember the issue and not forgotten totally.This indicates that you haven't truly forgiven.Actually we rarely do this.We forgotten for some time or learn to live with,but we never really forgive.Then what we have to do to forgive? How do I forgive?

To understand why total forgiveness seems almost impossible or at least,very difficult,we need to ask,why we value the concept of forgiveness in the first place? What motivates us to either run from it or embrace it? Let's keep away the whole concept of forgiveness and look at it the way it is.

My question is,Why you need to forgive or to be forgiven?The answer is,when someone do wrong thing or you done some thing wrong.So,how you can decide what is wrong and what is right? It is based upon our early learning process.We were taught that certain things were "wrong" and certain things were are "right".Later,we then create connection to events we experience and use our past examples of right and wrong to inform us of whether our action or the action of people around us are proper or not.

Now one question arise in my mind,What if you were taught about right or wrong,in error? Imagine the following examples,

01)Imagine being in a country where it is "wrong" for a woman to show her face in public.

02)Imagine a situation where it is "wrong" to cross the boundary from one country to another when you are not welcome.

03)Imagine a moment where it is "wrong" to purposely exceed the speed limit while driving.

And now imagine the following,

01)Imagine being in a country where it is " not wrong" for a woman to show her face in public.

02)Imagine a situation where it is " not wrong" to cross the boundary from one country to another when you are welcome.

03)Imagine a moment where it is "not wrong" to purposely exceed the speed limit while driving.

These examples clearly show how something that is "wrong" in one instance is "not wrong" in another,which means our concept of right or wrong are not based on any specific truth,but solely upon the perception of the moment.Truth is eternal and unchangeable spiritual point of view,this means the whole concept of wrong or right is not real and simply does not exist.

When we say somebody is wrong,we are viewing things from an extremely narrow and erroneous perception.If I say,there is nothing wrong with killing the human.What is your reaction? Definitely,you will not with me,"nobody has right to kill anybody".You are right.But when our security personnel killed the terrorists in terror attack on mumbai,are they done wrong thing? In this situation the killing is right.Is it not? So killing to anybody is wrong but it also depends on the situation.

Truth is free because there is no judgement of any kind and it eliminates the need to be forgiven.Likewise,guilt binds because it is depend upon judgement and it requires your need to be forgiven.

All concepts and origins of guilt,sin,right,wrong etc. are of our own mistaken perceptions have created these concepts,which are not true.They are simply errors of thinking.

To change your course,all you need to do is to be open to see where you may be mistaken and then it will heal your perceptions of this world and yourself.

There is nothing at all to forgive.

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2008-11-22T06:32:00.002+05:30

Are you know the happiest person of the world? If i ask this question to you,what is your answer? Possibly "NO".If not,Why? You will reel off your current worries.That may be about job,kids,home,spouse,inflation etc..etc..I don't ask you to sweep these aside.Problems need to be solved,if you can or wait until they disappeared with time.If you think,you will live happily after all your problem solved,I bet,you will never.Because when today's problems are gone and forgotten,other will take their place.So,living happily is just impossible? Again answer is "NO".You have to know,how to live happily in spite of all the problems.

Happiness never depends on external circumstances rather it depends on your thoughts,beliefs,emotions,desires,dreams.You may call it as Inner Life.Happiness is about how you react inwardly to events,what you think and believe,how you feel,how problems affect you.It may sound obvious,but like many obvious things it is the same thing that is often forgotten when it matters most.We focus almost exclusively on our external lives,on getting and spending and having fun,and then wonder why we are not happy.But it is when our inner lives are tranquil that we are happiest and we call this inner peace.

So,How we can achieve inner peace? By "Meditation" or "Yoga"? These can certainly help but only if they have a positive effect on our inner life.The difficulty is that inner life is based on patterns and habits.Some you born with,most you have acquired.You don't choose,occasion by occasion,how you respond inside when something happens.This happens and you feel angry;that happens and you feel sad;or smell a certain scent and it reminds you of a particular person? Things produce a response without you thinking about it or choosing how you feel.So,the trick is to break the pattern.You can't completely avoid the problems,but you can change how you react to them by acquiring new habits.Training your inner life into different habits requires learning skills of thinking,feeling,and managing your belief and desires.Instead of "I must become a better person" you can think "I would live more happily if i worked on my skills",so the change in attitude becomes a choice,not a duty.And to these remedial skills i have added an extra set of enjoyment skills.

This process is not something you can do overnight,it is a whole new way of life,but the reward is what we all want most---Happiness.There are five main skills you need to cultivate.

01)Sympathy:-
Most religions rightly stress sympathy.As well as being a virtue in its own right it is a practical skill that counteracts negative emotions like anger,which are terrible destruction of happiness.Try it the next time someone annoys you:put yourself in their place and ask yourself what might they be thinking or feeling to behave like that.Wars are started and atrocities committed,for example,because someone decides that this is what their god wants.It doesn't mean they should get away with their action,in fact it may be necessary to take strong action to defend yourself.

02)Mindfulness:-
This involves developing your ability to focus your thoughts in the present.Mindfulness is a key inner skill because,as it gets stronger,it lets you focus on your own inner life and catch your habits in the act.Once you can see how you are ruled by them,the change you are seeking often happens of its own accord.

03)Letting-go Techniques:-
These are particularly helpful when we are unhappy not getting what we want.Generally,we are encouraged to keep wanting and to think that more will make us happier,whether it's clothes,food,cars or even love.But wanting is a treadmill;as long as you are unsatisfied wants and desires you won't be at peace,so to be happy you either have to satisfy all your desires,or let go of some of them.Letting-go skills also include forgiveness,which helps hugely if one of the things you think you want it revenge.

04)Story Skills:-
These are very useful for problems with your inner belief system,as they let you stand back and explore alternative versions of reality.belief have great power over your life because a belief is something you take as fact.Start to think of your beliefs as stories,and it is easier to accept that other things might be true as well,or even instead.From different point of view we see would see a different story,sometimes a whole different world.This is not about make believe,it is about re framing situations to look at them from a different perspective.

05)Enjoyment Skills:-
This includes such as patience,humour and gratitude.You don't have to be grateful to someone,it is enough to cultivate gratitude for things.Our minds naturally scan the environment for dangers and resources,a useful mechanism when we were hunter-gatherers.But it can make us unnecessarily pessimistic--focusing on the 10% we lack rather than the 90% we have.Cultivating enjoyment skills will help redress the balance.

Acquiring all these skills takes time and effort.The important thing is to practise them until they operate without your thinking.Your practise routine will be very individual,because everyone need to priorities different skills depending on the specific issue that are holding them back from being happy,but keep the skill in mind and you will constantly find new ways to try them out.

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2008-11-21T05:51:00.002+05:30

Nobody is born with an instruction manual for life.Despite all the helpful advice from parents,teachers,each of us must make our own way in the world,doing the best we can and quite often getting things wrong.Messing up a few times isn't that big a deal.but if you get scared and try to avoid all mistakes by sticking with just few tried and true behaviours,you will miss out on most opportunities as well.Lots of people who will suffer from boredom at work are doing it to themselves.They are bored and frustrated because that is what their choices have caused them to be.They are stuck in ruts they dug for themselves while trying to avoid making mistakes and taking risks.People who never make mistakes never make anything else either.

It is the time pin down the habits that have become unconscious and are running your life for you,and get rid of them.Here is how to do it,

* Understand the truth about your habits:-
They always represent past successes.you have formed habitual,automatic behaviours because you once dealt with something successfully,tried the same response next time,and found it worked again.That's how habits grow and why they feel so useful.To get away from what is causing your unhappiness and work place blues,you must give up on many of your most fondly held habits and try new ways of thinking and acting.There truly isn't any alternative.Those habits are going to block you from finding new and creative ideas,no learning.No learning,no access to successful change.

* Do something differently and see what happens:-
Even the most successful habits eventually lose their usefulness are events change the world and fresh response are called for.yet we cling on to them long after their benefit has gone.Past strategies are bound to fail sometime.Letting them become automatic habits that take the controls is a sure road to self-inflicted harm.

* Take some time out and have a detailed Look at Yourself:-
Discovering your unconscious habits can tough.For a start,they are unconscious,Right? Then they fight back.Ask anyone who has ever given up smoking if habits tough to break.You have got used to them and they are at least as addictive as nicotine.

* Be who you are:-
It is easy to assume that you always have to fit in to get on in the world;that you must conform to be liked and respected by others or face exclusion.Because most people want to please,they try to become what they believe others expect,even if it means forcing themselves to be the kind of person they aren't,deep down.

* You need to start by putting yourself first:-
You are unique.We are all unique,so saying this doesn't suggest that you are better than others or deserves more than they do.You need to put yourself first because on one else has as much interest in your life as you do,and because if you don't,no one else will.Putting others second means giving them their due respect,not ignoring them totally.Keeping up a self-image can be a burden.Hanging on to an inflated,unrealistic one is a curse.Give yourself a break.

* Slow down and let go:-
Most of us want to think ourselves as good,kind,intelligent and caring people.Sometimes that is true.Sometimes isn't.Reality is complex.We can't function at all without constant input and support from other people.Everything we have,everything we have learned,come to us through someone else's hands.At our best,we pass on this borrowed existence to others,enhanced by our contribution.At our worst,we waste and squander it.So recognise that you are a rich mixture of thoughts and feelings that comes and goes,some useful,some not.There is no need to keep up a facade;no need to pretend;no need to fear of what you know to be true.

When you face your own truth,you will find it is an enormous relief.If you are maybe not as wonderful as you had like to be,you aren't nearly as bad as you fear either.The truth really does set you free;free to work on being better and to forgive yourself for being human;free to express your gratitude to others and recognise what you owe them;free to acknowledge your feelings without letting them dominate your life.Above all,you will be free to understand the truth of living:that much of what happens to you is no more than chance.It can't be avoided and is not your fault.There is no point in beating yourself up about it.

What is holding you in situations and action that no longer work for you often isn't inertia.It is the power of habitual ways of seeing the world and thinking above events.Until you can let go of those old,worn-out habits,they will continue to hold you prisoner.To stay in your comfort zone through mare habit,or to stay there because of irrational fears of what may lie outside,will condemn you to a life of frustration and regret.

There is a marvellous world out there.You will see,if you try it.

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2008-11-18T14:18:00.002+05:30

Carl Gustav Jung Wrote,
"Who looks outside- Dreams.
Who looks inside- Awakes."

Connecting with god is the only important thing we can do in our life.It must be our final goal.Greater than anything we desire,connecting with divine source allows us to develop a relationship with infinite wisdom of the universe.This way you will be in the flow and everything comes easily and quickly to you.

Have you ever heard "Go with flow".What it is mean to you? Follow the masses,NO,this doesn't mean that.In my opinion,it means to connect with your own divine source and go with its flow.Do you know where from you really come? From your parents? But it is not also totally true answer.You share their DNA and your body comes from their joining.But what about soul? It comes from divine source,which can not be seen by bare eyes.You can feel its presence by connecting yourself to that source.

Many times we just sit back and watch any moment or an event that time we are directly connected with divine source.We are always connected with divine source,but the part of us that stays connected is not in our conscious mind.When I talk about connecting with source,it means connecting consciously.That is the only true relationship with source.The relationship with source is different for everyone.It doesn't take your believing in source for source to empower your being.Nor you can tell another person how their relationship with source is supposed to be.It is a very individual experience.It is the most intimate of relationship you will never experience.Your divine source never leaves you,never lies to you,and never makes you feel guilty.Source loves you unconditionally and always says yes to you,even if your belief is such that you feel the universe says "No".The universe will support what ever you believe to be true.

You have to define your own world.source does not do that for you.Source is not your ego,your personality or any characteristic of your being.Source is not your belief structure or your religious undertakings.Source is divine infinite wisdom.Some call it as God,some call it as Allah,it may know by many names or none.

You can depend on your source for any problem and it will provide you solution.It answer you by giving you feeling.When you feel calm and peaceful,it means answer is positive and when you feel more confused and at unrest,it means answer is negative.

When we develop our own relationship with our source we will find what form of communication works for us.There is no set rules and this is very personal relationship.The point is this;more than a body,more than a personality or an ego,you are a divine child of the universe with an eternal spirit.You come from source,you exist because of source,and some day you will return to the source.Connecting with your source is a step you must make on your own.This is very personal journey,no one can come between you and your source.Death can not separate you from your source.The part of you that does not reside in the physical realm,the part of you that constantly maintain twenty four hour access to all things,known and unknown,seen and unseen stands a mere breath away.

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2008-09-21T08:45:00.002+05:30

Many of us are living life as like watching television.Someone use the remote control for channel surfing,they never stop and watch channel for 5 minute peacefully.Same thing they are doing in their real life,they never concentrate on one activity at a time and just jumping from one to another and another.On the other side,we people have remote control in our hand to change the channel to any show which we can possibly imagine,but we don't do that.We are content to simply watch whatever is going on,rather than choose what we really want.This way we can not be successful in life.

The most important beginning principle for creating greatness in our life is to recognise and then utilise the principle of personal power and personal accountability.It is our personal choices and accountability that have the most significant impact on the kind of lives we will lead.Every little moment can have great impact.Do you remember the ancient proverb "The greatest wall are built with the smallest bricks".Our lives are the same,and we must begin with little things.

In order for the little things to be productive and have value,we need to understand what the big picture looks like.Our ultimate goal must defining,what we want our life to look like,who we want to be? and what legacy we will leave behind? We people never invest time to answer these important questions.You will be on path of success whenever you answer one question at one time and all your question will become clear.

But what is success mean to you? Definitely,the definition of success is different for me and different for you.You can set your own view of success,but no one will refuse that "Success is a journey and not a final destination".It can never be a spot of permanent completion.If it is so,we will stuck up.Success is a matter of finding appropriate balance while you are in motion of living life.

Ultimate success will found in balance of below independent elements.

01)What You Feel About Wealth.

Success in this area has nothing to do with the amount in your bank account.It has very less related to money.But it has every thing to do with how you feel about what you have? Do you have enough to discharge your duties? To live the life you want? Can you do the things which are meaningful to you?There are many people who are extremely rich,but not wealthy.What about you?

02)What You Feel About Health.

Your feelings about your own health are the important considerations for this issue.Success has very little to do with an outside measurement.By physical condition you may not look very strong but how stiff you are from inside,that matters.There are many people who suffer from disease,disability but who feel very successful in this area.What you think?

03)What You Feel About Your Relationship.

You have got all the success you want in life,but can't share it with your loved ones.What will be the value of your success? The ultimate joy of success is only enjoyed when we have the ability to share it with others.No success can compensate for failure in relationship at home.Success should not keep you away from maintaining relations with people.You should not think yourself different from others.Is it right or wrong?

04)What You Feel About Your Self-Achievement.

This area is really more of a foundation than pillar.A successful life is more depend on the feelings about self-achievement.How you react to others due to your achievements will make you good or bad human from others point of view.If you feel proud about your achievements and hate others for their failure, then you will not be successful.You have to help others to achieve their goals in life.this way you will be more successful in every part of life.Am I correct?

Until we have these four elements being follow in our life,we can not inspire others to their greatness.When you know who you are and you are headed in right direction,magical things happens for you and to those who are around you.Invest some time in you,find out the answers in these four areas of your life.Then only think,how successful you are? After all,remote control is in your hand,now it depends on you,how to use it?

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2008-08-31T08:48:00.002+05:30

The Physical Body is imperfect and impermanent because it is under the bondage of time,space and identity.Human beings have an incessant and indomitable desire to liberate themselves from the bondage of relativity.

If there were no such longing,there would be no Intellectual Development.The problem of Brade and Butter will predominate.The guarantee of equal opportunities and minimum requirement of life to all is an essential for the well integrated elevation and evolution of the Human Personality.

The Physical Body can not attain liberation from the triple bondage's of relativity.There are and will be relative variations in the degree of bondages from individual to individual,but whatever be the variations,each person will have to fight ceaselessly for their intellectual progress.Otherwise,there will be no Mental Growth.Struggle is the essence of Life and inaction is Death.

Human Society is one and indivisible.There is no fundamental difference between the one human being and other.All derive the force from one and sane source. Hence talk of dissension is against humanity.

Human beings should concentrate more towards their Intellectual Progress.Otherwise the mind will be converted to matter.Mind can not remain stagnant.Hence everyone must contemplate higher and subtler phenomena or should take the ideation of the Cosmic Self.

The crude and the subtle mental bodies are part of the Psychic Body of God.Hence we can not ignore anyone.Hence the need for equal opportunity.

Inferiority Complex is a kind of Mental Ailment.Intellectual pursuit is essential for intuitional development,though intellectual pursuit can bring about only temporal emancipation.

The renaissance movement aims for an enlightenment and a resuscitation of subtler and higher thinking in human beings so that all become conscious of the purpose and meaning of life.

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