tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-217825392009-07-07T16:38:32.445+07:00The ThoughtsBismillahirrohmannirrohim. I intend this blog to share my writings and to strengthen the ukhuwah with friends that I am not able to contact one by one. I am not a scholar or learn person, therefore please clarify anything that you read here with the authentic sources. Only take the truth that according to the Qur'an and Sunnah. To learn Islam with the understanding of Salaf As Sholeh please visit some Islamic links in the side of this blog. Any comment and criticize will be so much appreciate.Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.comBlogger59125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-35084785443071666882008-05-18T16:44:00.014+07:002008-05-19T08:10:13.905+07:00~ Physical Beauty and The Marriage [Part 2] ~ Picture by Sr. Fariha MahmoodWhen the beauty fadeNothings last foreverDear brothers in Islam……There is no creature in this world that can be so much deceived by the beauty of woman but you brothers….Rasulullah salallahu alahi wassalam said “I am not leaving behind any fitnah (trial, temptation) more harmful to men than women.” (Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-14475330005975590312008-05-15T14:33:00.005+07:002008-05-15T16:48:38.036+07:00~My life is belong to You~AllahMy life is belong to YouBut I am still complaining for ordeals of this lifeAllahMy life is belong to YouBut I am still moaning of my heart bleedingAllahMy life is belong to YouBut I am still transgressing your lawsAllah..My life is belong to YouPlease heal my heartBe more ikhlas and ihsan…AllahMy Life is belong to YouForgive Your weak slaveForgive Your sinner slaveGuide My HeartLead it to Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-70702945281633587002007-12-17T16:30:00.000+07:002007-12-22T10:05:39.703+07:00~Expect & respect your Wife jealousy Part 4 ~Assallammu’alaikum warohmatullahi wabarokatuhMy dear husband Ahmad… If Allah allows me I had flied to the sky to bring the stars as gift for you, but He the Almighty says the stars is for the lamps that adorn the sky and the missiles to drive away the Syaithan… Therefore I let them there as the adornment of sky so that you can keep seeing its beauty.I want you know dear, for me you are like the Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-68989165466459078202007-12-10T11:58:00.001+07:002007-12-10T20:31:02.463+07:00~Let not Our Hearts Deviate~ AllahThey were in Your partThey used to sit for Your knowledge..They used to proud with the sunnah of Your MessengerNowThey become misguidanceThey become deviateThey proud to be misguidedThey criticize the Sunnah of Your prophet …They make tafseer the Qur'an with their nafs…They proud to preach their misleadingNa’uzubillah….Allah ….“Yaa muqallib al-quloob thabbit qalbi ala deenak"O ControllerRytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-71763758273098274412007-12-06T00:05:00.000+07:002007-12-06T16:38:16.793+07:00~ Physical Beauty and The Marriage [Part 1] ~My Dear sister in Islam…What would feel when someone intends to marry you, he comes to your parent to see you. After he has seen you… He just goes back, never come back, not move forward with his proposal…Will you hate this brother?What you feel about a brother who asks people about your beauty first than your religion?Will you feel so humiliated?We may think a brother who asks about beauty… as Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-8688981093312842452007-09-12T15:06:00.000+07:002007-09-15T13:37:50.206+07:00~Romantic Husband~This writing to enlighten my sisters in Islam, to make them feel optimist if there are still good Muslim husbands among of them who mischief and cheat behind their wife….Although haram love Affair spreading in our community we can’t generalize if all man are just the same, accuses all of them are hypocrite… astaghfirullah…One sister told meHow wonderful her husband…That day they visited a place Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-25907684085065700102007-09-10T11:51:00.000+07:002007-09-10T12:59:27.613+07:00~Our Prayers – Part 2~Why those sisters prayed earlier for fajr in the airport?Maybe they thought, they were in the state of traveling so it’s allowed to pray earlier.Maybe they had to board into the airplane soon…so that they thought It’s better to pray earlier compare than not pray fajr at all…Wallahualam….As short as my understanding, it is not allowed to pray earlier although we are in the state of traveling. Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-69273684671030783472007-09-05T14:31:00.000+07:002007-09-06T06:55:19.514+07:00~Our Prayers – Part 1~I arrived in the airport earlier because it would give time to pray fajr before boarding. I went to nearby prayer room in the airport, fajr time was still long. I started reading the Qur’an waited for fajr. Some muslimah came in. They took wudhu, and then prayed…At first I thought mashaAllah they were praying for sunnah [Qiyamul lail]. But when they left straight away after the pray I started Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-7824711985355755972007-09-03T14:13:00.000+07:002007-09-04T07:50:51.555+07:00~Expect & respect your Wife jealousy Part 3 ~Assallammu’alaikum warohmatullahi wabarokatuhAishah…My Dear sweetheart…Thank you dear for clearly explanation to help me understand your feelings.Dear...... please forgive me for all trouble you felt. I promise inshaAllah will never do anything that trouble you anymore. I will try my best to give you feeling the secure of love without any doubt. There will be no space for syaithan to whisper any Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-62131165559644685752007-06-09T14:59:00.000+07:002007-06-09T16:04:59.270+07:00~Expect & respect your Wife jealousy Part 2~My dear husband Ahmad….Please ignore all what I have written previously dear….I am not crying because regretting of discontinue relationship with any other non mahram man. I believe that what I should do.The marriage is not a start for a muslimah to caring their husband feeling. It should start from long time back even before she meets him…… not for the sake of the man that going to be her Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-20635539663151492992007-05-10T11:35:00.000+07:002007-05-10T11:41:48.887+07:00~Expect & respect your Wife jealousy Part 1~Assallammu’alaikum warohmatullahi wabarokatuhMy dearest husband Ahmad….I am sorry to make you worry for my silent in these days…. I know my silent make you worry and wondering what happening with me… Please don’t worry dear…. I just need time to think…..After thinking in these few days I now completely understand why you keep your relationship with some sisters after our marriage. You must have Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-31091125237330025082007-05-10T11:03:00.000+07:002007-05-10T11:24:37.710+07:00~For all My Dear brothers and My Dear sisters part 2~Part I IMy dear sisters….Allah gifts a lot of special blessings…Allah trusts you to carry “rahim” [womb]…That makes your nature different…Makes you full of affection,Your touch is tenderness,You smile is sweetness..You are an amazing beautiful creationYou are a charming creationYour graceful movementYour “killing” smilesYou are beautifulAlways beautifulYou are sweetAlways sweetYou are unique…WithRytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-75413275626060154782007-05-10T09:40:00.000+07:002007-05-10T10:14:26.749+07:00~For all My Dear brothers and My Dear sisters part 1~This is an old wrting.... I thought good to share...Dear Akhwat wa Ikhwah fillahAssallammu'alaikum warohmatullahi wabarokatuh....I have restrained myself to not write about this topic personally. But this matter has been killing my heart and my souls many times…… astaghfirullah… I was angry a lot of time [especially with myself] due of my disability to convey the messages. But how could I say I Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-36897352287563657312007-04-21T09:38:00.000+07:002007-04-21T09:45:11.521+07:00~Worse than thirty-six of zina: like a man commit incest with his mother ~Sister in Islam says:There were 2 proposals at the day of my brother’s weddingSister in Islam says:But all rejectedRytha says:Why?Sister in Islam says:Coz he works in a bankRytha says:Why you refuse the one who work in bank?Sister in Islam says:Coz it is a bank deal with ribaSister in Islam says:So his money is haram, Actually I know what bank he works inSister in Islam says:I know it is Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-48146341561028532572007-04-01T10:58:00.000+07:002007-04-01T11:19:33.117+07:00~A Night Before Ramadan~A friend came to visit, few days before Ramadan. That was exactly the 100th days she lost her husband, so tragic, a sudden calamity happened just few months after she lost her new born baby. I spent whole night with her… engaged in conversation like haven’t met for ages….Carefully I tried to not mention his name, not lead her to anything that can bring back his memories…I wanted to keep and coverRytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-18464454555882315132007-03-29T16:04:00.000+07:002007-03-29T16:07:18.742+07:00~A friend (Part 4)~We have to ready losing a friend…at anytime.Some of friends will forget you at time they have find the comfort life, they as if do not think how lonely your life without them.Some friends will behave like want to move away from your life even if you try your best run to keep close with them, until you feel exhausted, then decide you are really unwanted; have to leave them in peace…Some friends Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-55085838467274363692007-03-23T16:09:00.000+07:002007-03-23T16:38:47.989+07:00~A friend (Part 3)~Sometimes, a concept of friendship in our childhood times seems simpler; mostly end with happy ending. Our friends surely will love us if we keep sharing them sweetness of candies, they will never abuse us if we show them the way how to do something correctly.When we grow up…. Even if we knee down and saying wallahi I am doing all of these sincerely for your goodness…. I want you also feel the Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-60546786821695671272007-03-19T13:13:00.000+07:002007-03-19T13:49:40.991+07:00~A friend (Part 2)~When we was kids we think friendship only about sharing our toys, go here and there in group… fighting because of silly reasons etc…But no matter how bad you fight each other you still can get along again after some days as if nothing happened before with no any hatred.When I grow up I understand there are so many complex matters that can be happened in friendship. Sometimes things just cant be Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-72177785673270120742007-03-18T10:39:00.000+07:002007-03-18T11:27:53.751+07:00~A friend (Part 1)~They are many friends that we made in our life… just few who remain forever..They have to move on with their life, times make they have to change doesn’t matter your life are just seem the same.I still remember some friends in my childhood time when I was about 3 to 7 years old that was the most beautiful moments because I felt I had many friends. The closest ones are one girl and two 2 boys who Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-17535293059750885062007-03-11T09:08:00.000+07:002007-03-13T08:58:34.445+07:00~K H A D I J A H~Ummul Mu’minin Khadijah… The Mother of the BelieversYou are the best woman in the earth [1] You married the noblest man in the world and jannahYou born the leader of women of Paradise Fathimah [2]You are grandmother of outstanding man in Jannah Hasan and husaynAllah the Most High and Jibril conveyed His blessing upon youGive you a glad tiding as the owner a mansion in paradiseMade of brilliant Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-33216479994770970022007-03-07T12:00:00.000+07:002007-03-09T13:41:30.274+07:00~Be lenient toward glass vessels…~Advice for husbands… and single brothers who going to marry ….Be lenient toward the glass vessels…Treat her softly with tenderness..Else she easy to get scratch,Then develop to be a crack…A small shock it will be broken to pieces…She was created from your ribs…Her bend need your soft hands to make her straight without break….Treat her kindly……Speak to her nicely…She tend to be very sensitiveWant Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-16512859048036645592007-03-01T13:13:00.000+07:002007-03-02T17:22:26.798+07:00~Allah please bring back the lights~Allah ..Please bring back the light on my faceThe light has dimmed by the ugliness of my sins…Allah ..Please bring back the light in my heart,This heart dark covered by the spot of sins…Allah ..Please bring back the light on my sightThis eyes has been blinded saw forbidden thingsAllah ..Please bring back the light on my hearingThese ears had listened so many forbidden things…Allah ..Please bring Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-53668270020758203962007-02-18T10:00:00.000+07:002007-02-18T11:03:14.147+07:00~ I hate long messages ~I am not a writer… but sometimes love to write for myself or for my close people. A friend used to say, it like punishment to read what I wrote…because…. sometimes it's too big, even one of them started praying that it will be a great blessing if someone invented word compressor to compress my words…..… Therefore I think I have to stop to make only my close people got headache and I decided to Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-25900653420417578022007-02-18T09:34:00.000+07:002007-02-18T10:35:16.594+07:00~They are the trust, They are the treasure ~My dear Sister who Seeking for Jannah….. How are you doing? InshaAllah today is better than yesterday, alhamdulillah… Subhanallah I am very proud about a sister with very high qualifications and her concern to our youth Moslems. I hope there are many muslimah who well educated, an be master in their respective fields like her..… Then we all can be one precious asset in this Ummah mashaAllah…Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21782539.post-81979501340990507172007-02-09T15:56:00.000+07:002007-02-09T16:38:17.440+07:00~To the one who has a broken heart~To the one who has a broken heart……cry if you want to cry….that really human… But you shouldn’t feel the world end….Don’t let your heart in trouble with revenge… but make that as a precious experience, a time to gain your closeness to The Owner of your heart [Allah subhana wata’ala] to share Him every single of your pains… The One and the only One who will understand you in every deep, every Rytha Nur'ainihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01877049491968248142noreply@blogger.com0