<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733</id><updated>2009-11-04T10:48:14.658Z</updated><title type='text'>Family Lore</title><subtitle type='html'>Musings of an English Family Lawyer</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/'/><link rel='hub' href='http://pubsubhubbub.appspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>1197</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-204387178214689381</id><published>2009-11-03T20:38:00.007Z</published><updated>2009-11-03T21:18:56.363Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Reason'/><title type='text'>No fossil rabbits in the Precambrian</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SvCXWZd1aCI/AAAAAAAACjc/3cz4nd2vTns/s1600-h/Greatest+Show+on+Earth.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 289px; height: 437px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SvCXWZd1aCI/AAAAAAAACjc/3cz4nd2vTns/s400/Greatest+Show+on+Earth.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399982364266162210" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I am ready to shuffle off this mortal coil I will not be able to console myself with the thought that I did anything &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;useful&lt;/span&gt; with my life. I did not make any great scientific discoveries, I did not save lives and I did not teach children the wonders of the world. I was a &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;lawyer&lt;/span&gt;. Still, it could have been worse - I could have been a politician.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Why these depressing thoughts? Well, I have just finished reading Richard Dawkins's latest opus, &lt;a href="http://www.amazon.co.uk/Greatest-Show-Earth-Evidence-Evolution/dp/059306173X/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&amp;amp;s=books&amp;amp;qid=1257281129&amp;amp;sr=8-1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Greatest Show on Earth: The Evidence for Evolution&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;. It is not that the book is depressing - far from it. It is that whenever I read a science book I realise how little of real value I or any lawyers have achieved by comparison to the great scientists to whom we owe our knowledge of the universe around us. As the title suggests, the book sets out the massive body of evidence that proves beyond any reasonable doubt that evolution is a fact, every bit as much as it is a fact that the Earth is round and that it orbits the Sun. Unfortunately, as Dawkins points out, the book is very necessary, as there are still many who will deny this truth even 150 years after it was discovered. Quite why they deny it is beyond me - perhaps it is ignorance, perhaps it is lack of intellectual capacity, perhaps it is indoctrination, or perhaps they simply deny it for their own ends. Dawkins is not so naive as to expect that many of the deniers will read the book, but hopefully a few will, and any furthering of the truth can only be a good thing.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you are a denier, then do yourself a favour and buy this book. If you are not, then just get it to wonder at the story of evolution, and of those great people who uncovered it.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-204387178214689381?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/204387178214689381/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=204387178214689381&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/204387178214689381'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/204387178214689381'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/11/no-fossil-rabbits-in-precambrian.html' title='No fossil rabbits in the Precambrian'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SvCXWZd1aCI/AAAAAAAACjc/3cz4nd2vTns/s72-c/Greatest+Show+on+Earth.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-338184706402795247</id><published>2009-11-02T06:47:00.010Z</published><updated>2009-11-02T09:26:50.346Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finance/Property'/><title type='text'>Needs Must</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Su6hVYPVwSI/AAAAAAAACjU/ruoJlEt1eM4/s1600-h/Money2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 441px; height: 349px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Su6hVYPVwSI/AAAAAAAACjU/ruoJlEt1eM4/s400/Money2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399430391919919394" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Reading the big-money cases reported over the years and dealing (occasionally) with cases involving significant wealth myself, I've often been amused by the amounts that parties claim they &lt;span style="font-style: italic; font-weight: bold;"&gt;need&lt;/span&gt; to live on. However, a case hitting the headlines in America takes the amusement to a whole new level.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jamie McCourt is the wife of Frank McCourt, the owner of the &lt;a href="http://losangeles.dodgers.mlb.com/index.jsp?c_id=la"&gt;LA Dodgers baseball team&lt;/a&gt; (although his sole ownership is disputed by Mrs McCourt). The pair appear to be heading for a highly-public and highly-acrimonious divorce after he dismissed her from her position of chief executive officer of the team, after she allegedly had an affair with her driver (or was it her bodyguard, as some reports suggest?). She responded by filing for divorce and reportedly seeking alimony (that's maintenance to you and me) of an eye-watering $488,000 a month, or about £300,000 a month. She claims that she needs this for such essentials as private jets, five-star hotel accommodation, "personal care" (£7,000 a month) and flowers in her office. Even in the state that is not known for its lack of excess this has raised a few eyebrows, with &lt;a href="http://www.ocregister.com/articles/ocregister-href-mailto-1961520-height-valign"&gt;one local paper&lt;/a&gt; remarking that the divorce "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;seems destined to titillate and disgust the common people in Southern California who wouldn't even know how to spend $500,000 a month&lt;/span&gt;". Nope, nor would I, although I wouldn't mind finding out.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-338184706402795247?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/338184706402795247/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=338184706402795247&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/338184706402795247'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/338184706402795247'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/11/needs-must.html' title='Needs Must'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Su6hVYPVwSI/AAAAAAAACjU/ruoJlEt1eM4/s72-c/Money2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-1931434566576458831</id><published>2009-11-01T12:19:00.005Z</published><updated>2009-11-01T13:13:26.005Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Cohabitation'/><title type='text'>Control, or React?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Su2JSQ3mUgI/AAAAAAAACjM/7B7HFzrlWUk/s1600-h/ross_clark.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 68px; height: 99px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Su2JSQ3mUgI/AAAAAAAACjM/7B7HFzrlWUk/s200/ross_clark.jpg" alt="" title="Ross Clark" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399122475145908738" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/inconsistent.html"&gt;posted a few days ago&lt;/a&gt; about the Law Commission's proposal that cohabitants should have an entitlement on intestacy. My good friend John Hirst of &lt;a href="http://jailhouselawyersblog.blogspot.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Jailhouselawyer's Blog&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; has drawn my attention to &lt;a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/comment/columnists/guest_contributors/article6896048.ece"&gt;this article&lt;/a&gt; in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Times&lt;/span&gt;, in which Ross Clark (left) argues against the proposal, saying that: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;For any cohabiting couples who don’t like the inheritance laws there is a simple answer — get married&lt;/span&gt;."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The whole issue of cohabitants' rights raises strong feelings, especially amongst those who are against. Most family lawyers are in favour, as they have seen first hand the injustices that the lack of rights can cause. It is all very well saying "if you don't like it, get married", but this raises the fundamental question of whether the law should be used as a tool to control how people conduct their relationships. Personally, I do not think that it should, or even that it could - in a free society, at least. If people want to live their lives in a certain way (and it is not that they can't be bothered to get married, as Clark suggests) then they should be free to do so. The law should react to changes in society (rather than try to control them) and ensure that injustices do not happen as a result of those changes.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-1931434566576458831?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/1931434566576458831/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=1931434566576458831&amp;isPopup=true' title='7 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1931434566576458831'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1931434566576458831'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/11/control-or-react.html' title='Control, or React?'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Su2JSQ3mUgI/AAAAAAAACjM/7B7HFzrlWUk/s72-c/ross_clark.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>7</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-3691821078024151496</id><published>2009-11-01T10:13:00.003Z</published><updated>2009-11-01T12:08:30.997Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Post of the Month'/><title type='text'>October Post of the Month</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Su1fZTvW5vI/AAAAAAAACjE/gu-grnbYeYA/s1600-h/Post+of+the+Month+October+2009.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 109px; height: 320px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Su1fZTvW5vI/AAAAAAAACjE/gu-grnbYeYA/s320/Post+of+the+Month+October+2009.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5399076416687367922" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Non-lawyers often seem to find it difficult to understand that lawyers must maintain a distance from the cases they are dealing with. In the family context, it would be all too easy to get involved in some of the highly-charged and often distressing situations that lawyers deal with, but to do so would be to fail in one's professional duty. The corollary of this is that lawyers are often accused of not caring, as discussed by Lucy Reed of &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Pink Tape&lt;/span&gt; in her post &lt;a href="http://pinktape.co.uk/2009/10/09/dont-you-lot-ever-think-about-the-kids/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;‘Don’t you lot EVER think about the kids?’&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, my Post of the Month for October.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The particular source of the criticism that Lucy discusses is a children's guardian, who is quite clear in their view as to how the case should be resolved and becomes frustrated by what they see as lawyers (acting for parents) causing unnecessary delay. However, as Lucy says, parents are entitled to a fair trial too: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;For what is fairness if it is not something applicable to all parties?&lt;/span&gt;". She concludes: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I think about the kids all the time. How could one not? But then I get on with giving sound advice and acting on my instructions, and put my faith in the court to work out the right solution&lt;/span&gt;."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It would be nice if this post were read in certain quarters, before lawyers are insulted in this way.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-3691821078024151496?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/3691821078024151496/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=3691821078024151496&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3691821078024151496'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3691821078024151496'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/11/october-post-of-month.html' title='October Post of the Month'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Su1fZTvW5vI/AAAAAAAACjE/gu-grnbYeYA/s72-c/Post+of+the+Month+October+2009.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-6495548878913386860</id><published>2009-10-29T15:23:00.005Z</published><updated>2009-10-29T15:55:36.164Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Cohabitation'/><title type='text'>Inconsistent</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Sum6fn3D2pI/AAAAAAAACi8/YcdyA_W94TQ/s1600-h/Law+Commission.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 200px; height: 77px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Sum6fn3D2pI/AAAAAAAACi8/YcdyA_W94TQ/s200/Law+Commission.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5398050680818883218" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;The &lt;a href="http://timesonline.typepad.com/law/2009/10/rights-for-unmarried-couples-on-death-but-not-in-life.html"&gt;point has already been made&lt;/a&gt;, but it does seem a little odd that the &lt;a href="http://www.lawcom.gov.uk/intestacy.htm"&gt;Law Commission is proposing that cohabitants should have an entitlement on intestacy&lt;/a&gt;, while at the same time the Government has shelved plans to give cohabitants property rights upon separation. If the Law Commission's proposals are passed into law, we could have the very strange situation whereby if your partners dies intestate then you will automatically receive part of their estate, whereas if they leave you then you will receive nothing. Of course, we already have the situation whereby a cohabitant can benefit from their deceased partner's estate if they make a successful family provision claim although, as the Law commission points out, such a claim is expensive and stressful, and involves litigation against the deceased’s relatives and even perhaps the cohabitant’s own children.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Time for a bit of joined-up thinking, perhaps?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-6495548878913386860?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/6495548878913386860/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=6495548878913386860&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6495548878913386860'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6495548878913386860'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/inconsistent.html' title='Inconsistent'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Sum6fn3D2pI/AAAAAAAACi8/YcdyA_W94TQ/s72-c/Law+Commission.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-9118685264293588864</id><published>2009-10-28T07:45:00.010Z</published><updated>2009-10-28T09:28:51.091Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finance/Property'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Legal Profession'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Law Reports'/><title type='text'>White v Withers: Not swept under the carpet</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SugOHL2yqtI/AAAAAAAACi0/QotDJRMqxR0/s1600-h/Marco+White.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 421px; height: 202px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SugOHL2yqtI/AAAAAAAACi0/QotDJRMqxR0/s400/Marco+White.jpg" alt="" title="TV chef Marco Pierre White" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397579670008015570" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;TV chef &lt;a href="http://www.marcopierrewhite.org/"&gt;Marco Pierre White&lt;/a&gt; has succeeded in his appeal against the striking out of his claim against his wife's solicitors, &lt;a href="http://www.withersworldwide.com/"&gt;Withers LLP&lt;/a&gt;. The full report of the Court of Appeal judgment may be found &lt;a href="http://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWCA/Civ/2009/1122.html"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;here&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;, and a summary in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Times&lt;/span&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/article6892910.ece#cid=OTC-RSS&amp;amp;attr=989864"&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;here&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The case may involve a celebrity and a top London law firm, but it clearly has application across the board. It is a very frequent occurrence for a party to an ancillary relief claim to remove or copy documents belonging to the other spouse, often because it is feared that the other spouse may seek to hide assets from the court. Such documents are, of course, known as "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Hildebrand&lt;/span&gt; documents", so named after the 1992 case &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Hildebrand v Hildebrand&lt;/span&gt;. Lord Justice Ward summarised the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Hildebrand&lt;/span&gt; rules as follows:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"The Family Courts will not penalise the taking, copying and immediate return of documents but do not sanction the use of any force to obtain the documents, or the interception of documents or the retention of documents nor I would add, though it is not a feature of this case, the removal of any hard disk recording documents electronically. The evidence contained in the documents, even those wrongfully taken will be admitted in evidence because there is an overarching duty on the parties to give full and frank disclosure. The wrongful taking of documents may lead to findings of litigation misconduct or orders for costs."&lt;/blockquote&gt;White alleges that his wife told him that Withers had told her to take his mail. Withers, following the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Hildebrand&lt;/span&gt; guidelines, maintain that they advised Mrs White that she was only entitled to take copies of documents that she found in the matrimonial home, provided she did not break into any of Mr White's property to obtain access. They considered that White's claim was an abuse of process, designed to 'hassle' his wife. However, the Court of Appeal was particularly concerned about a letter to White from his daughter Letty, which had been intercepted and which White did not see until it was produced by Withers. Lord Justice Ward:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;blockquote&gt;"solicitors are officers of the court and if they are shown to have done wrong they should face the judgment of the court. It is not conducive to the administration of justice that such claims are simply swept under the carpet. It is in the public interest that the bounds of proper conduct be clarified. The interception and retention of Letty's letter ... leaves me with such an uncomfortable feeling that for my part I would be reluctant to shut out the claimant and deny him his day in court. Thus I am not persuaded that this claim has been shown to be an abuse of the process."&lt;/blockquote&gt;Let us hope that, now it is proceeding to trial, the case does, indeed, clarify 'the bounds of proper conduct'.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-9118685264293588864?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/9118685264293588864/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=9118685264293588864&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/9118685264293588864'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/9118685264293588864'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/white-v-withers-not-swept-under-carpet.html' title='White v Withers: Not swept under the carpet'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SugOHL2yqtI/AAAAAAAACi0/QotDJRMqxR0/s72-c/Marco+White.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-3111065600891382319</id><published>2009-10-27T07:10:00.005Z</published><updated>2009-10-27T07:28:25.289Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Legal Profession'/><title type='text'>Essential CPD</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SuadvZa4-CI/AAAAAAAACis/0A8a5Gd7iB4/s1600-h/CPD.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 467px; height: 103px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SuadvZa4-CI/AAAAAAAACis/0A8a5Gd7iB4/s400/CPD.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5397174641053202466" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2008/12/keep-up-to-date-and-earn-cpd.html"&gt;threatened some while back&lt;/a&gt; to start making CPD courses. Unfortunately, that project never came to fruition. However, I am pleased to announce that I am now making CPD courses for the &lt;a href="http://www.cpdchannel.com/"&gt;CPD Channel&lt;/a&gt;. The courses provide one CPD point (or one hour) each, and comprise an audio, a set of notes and five multiple-choice questions, all for £25. My first three courses are now available and are all designed for those new to family law, or those returning to the subject who require a refresher. They are: &lt;a href="http://www.cpdchannel.com/course/detail.php?course_id=120&amp;amp;download_id="&gt;Essential Divorce&lt;/a&gt;, &lt;a href="http://www.cpdchannel.com/course/detail.php?course_id=121&amp;amp;download_id="&gt;Essential Ancillary Relief Part 1: The Law&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.cpdchannel.com/course/detail.php?course_id=122&amp;amp;download_id="&gt;Essential Ancillary Relief Part 2: Procedure&lt;/a&gt;. Further courses will follow, including more advanced topics and updating courses.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-3111065600891382319?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/3111065600891382319/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=3111065600891382319&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3111065600891382319'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3111065600891382319'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/essential-cpd.html' title='Essential CPD'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SuadvZa4-CI/AAAAAAAACis/0A8a5Gd7iB4/s72-c/CPD.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-8885869787335877535</id><published>2009-10-26T06:44:00.006Z</published><updated>2009-10-26T08:19:07.143Z</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><title type='text'>What price vulnerable children?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SuVaxl-WEJI/AAAAAAAACik/-YHW6PT-q94/s1600-h/Family2.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px; height: 294px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SuVaxl-WEJI/AAAAAAAACik/-YHW6PT-q94/s400/Family2.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5396819536527102098" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Times&lt;/span&gt; today has a series of three articles describing the dire state of the under-resourced family justice system, and its consequences for 'vulnerable children' (a phrase that appears in the headline of each article). &lt;a href="http://business.timesonline.co.uk/tol/business/law/article6889888.ece#cid=OTC-RSS&amp;amp;attr=989864"&gt;One article&lt;/a&gt; is by &lt;a href="http://www.blacklawsdavis.co.uk/site/people/profile/christina@blacklawsdavis.co.uk"&gt;Christina Blacklaws&lt;/a&gt;, who seems to be running a one-woman campaign to highlight the problems, and is essentially a layperson's version of the &lt;a href="http://www.lawgazette.co.uk/opinion/comment/cafcass-and-the-family-justice-system-are-failing-vulnerable-children"&gt;article&lt;/a&gt; that she wrote for the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Gazette&lt;/span&gt; last month. The other two articles are both by Frances Gibb, &lt;a href="http://business.timesonline.co.uk/tol/business/law/article6889883.ece#cid=OTC-RSS&amp;amp;attr=989864"&gt;one&lt;/a&gt; concerning the risks of the proposed cuts in legal aid and &lt;a href="http://business.timesonline.co.uk/tol/business/law/article6889843.ece#cid=OTC-RSS&amp;amp;attr=989864"&gt;the other&lt;/a&gt; dealing with the post-Baby P increase in care applications and its consequences for Cafcass.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Times&lt;/span&gt; has, of course, long taken an interest in the family justice system, and has been running a campaign to open up the courts. Whether or not there is any 'agenda' behind the publication of these articles is unclear, but two things are certain if more resources are not pumped in:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;1. The unacceptable delays in the system, which must harm the children involved, will only get worse.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;2. The quality of service that those children are likely to get from those within the system will deteriorate, simply because there will not be enough experienced professionals (be they social workers, Cafcass officers or family lawyers) to cope with the demand.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What price vulnerable children?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-8885869787335877535?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/8885869787335877535/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=8885869787335877535&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/8885869787335877535'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/8885869787335877535'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/what-price-vulnerable-children.html' title='What price vulnerable children?'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SuVaxl-WEJI/AAAAAAAACik/-YHW6PT-q94/s72-c/Family2.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-651485915497823553</id><published>2009-10-21T18:55:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T19:28:31.212+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Reason'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Civil Partnership'/><title type='text'>All men are created equal</title><content type='html'>In Maine they are voting upon the possible repeal of the state’s newly approved law allowing same-sex couples to marry. Here, 86 year-old veteran Philip Spooner puts the case in favour of the law with dignity and eloquence:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object width="500" height="315"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/GrEbJBFWIPk&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;rel=0&amp;amp;color1=0x3a3a3a&amp;amp;color2=0x999999&amp;amp;border=1"&gt;&lt;param name="allowFullScreen" value="true"&gt;&lt;param name="allowscriptaccess" value="always"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/GrEbJBFWIPk&amp;amp;hl=en&amp;amp;fs=1&amp;amp;rel=0&amp;amp;color1=0x3a3a3a&amp;amp;color2=0x999999&amp;amp;border=1" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" allowscriptaccess="always" allowfullscreen="true" width="500" height="315"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-651485915497823553?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/651485915497823553/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=651485915497823553&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/651485915497823553'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/651485915497823553'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/all-men-are-created-equal.html' title='All men are created equal'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-2780915278778224570</id><published>2009-10-21T08:12:00.009+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T19:05:15.763+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><title type='text'>The Baby P Effect</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/St7NH6QqF4I/AAAAAAAACic/jDhgRhCBsO8/s1600-h/Family.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 383px; height: 273px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/St7NH6QqF4I/AAAAAAAACic/jDhgRhCBsO8/s400/Family.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5394974939418335106" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The newspapers are full of stories about the substantial increase in care applications. See, for example, &lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2009/oct/20/children-taken-into-care"&gt;this report&lt;/a&gt; in the &lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2009/oct/20/children-taken-into-care"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Guardian&lt;/span&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/children-in-care-numbers-soar-1806255.html"&gt;this one&lt;/a&gt; in the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Independent&lt;/span&gt;, both of which appeared in the last 24 hours.  Now, this isn't new news - it has been reported for some time that the numbers are up, but I haven't done any care work for many years, so I have hesitated to comment. However, I think that some comment is required.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The primary reason for the increase is, of course, the Baby P case. Agencies are fearful that they will be vilified for making mistakes by failing to protect children, and are therefore applying for care orders in 'lower level' cases, where they would not have done so previously, effectively passing responsibility to the courts. This, of course, is having the effect of overloading the system, which is struggling to cope. This, in turn, will mean more delay in cases where children are in real danger. It will also almost certainly mean that more children will be removed from their families unnecessarily.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This is not the way the system should work. It is, however, the inevitable result of those working in the child protection system being subjected to hysterical, uninformed media criticism, without proper support from government. As I have said here before: who would be a social worker? It is virtually impossible to do a proper job when you know that your every decision will be publicly scrutinised, and your first mistake will likely be your last. I'm sorry, but no system is perfect. People &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;do&lt;/span&gt; make mistakes, and anyone saying that we 'must prevent another Baby P tragedy' is just not living in the real world. We cannot prevent tragedies from ever happening. We can, however, minimise them, but this will only happen if those working within the system are allowed to do so without fear.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;*     *     *&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Update:&lt;/span&gt; I find it somewhat ironic that the media are now saying that &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/6388655/They-wanted-to-take-away-our-child.html"&gt;innocent families are suffering&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-2780915278778224570?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/2780915278778224570/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=2780915278778224570&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/2780915278778224570'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/2780915278778224570'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/baby-p-effect.html' title='The Baby P Effect'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/St7NH6QqF4I/AAAAAAAACic/jDhgRhCBsO8/s72-c/Family.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-7582576523302232594</id><published>2009-10-21T06:57:00.005+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-21T07:15:41.598+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Divorce'/><title type='text'>Not clever...</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/St6mCXRtzhI/AAAAAAAACiU/z53Ipg6NH4s/s1600-h/guantanamo.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 455px; height: 299px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/St6mCXRtzhI/AAAAAAAACiU/z53Ipg6NH4s/s400/guantanamo.jpg" alt="" title="Like married bliss?" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5394931963174702610" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I suspect that quite a few hen-pecked husbands around the world may empathise, but for a Saudi man to allow his wife to find out that he has &lt;a href="http://www.google.com/hostednews/afp/article/ALeqM5jbqZw7_0BighUWqkXWyJ2E-z6wvw"&gt;nicknamed her 'Guantanamo'&lt;/a&gt; is not very clever. Now she is apparently threatening divorce unless he pays her "substantial" compensation. Either way his wallet is going to get a lot thinner...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-7582576523302232594?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/7582576523302232594/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=7582576523302232594&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7582576523302232594'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7582576523302232594'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/not-clever.html' title='Not clever...'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/St6mCXRtzhI/AAAAAAAACiU/z53Ipg6NH4s/s72-c/guantanamo.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-6254434284319707050</id><published>2009-10-20T20:39:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-20T21:19:56.803+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Divorce'/><title type='text'>Come lie with me (allegedly)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/St4W0jo8EtI/AAAAAAAACiE/yFjOGKyZ-C8/s1600-h/Continental.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 459px; height: 174px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/St4W0jo8EtI/AAAAAAAACiE/yFjOGKyZ-C8/s400/Continental.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5394774495812391634" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Personally, as a divorce lawyer I can't see anything wrong with &lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/business/2009/oct/20/pilots-and-a-pension-divorce-sham"&gt;this&lt;/a&gt;, even if the divorces &lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;were&lt;/span&gt; a sham just to get the pension payouts. Well, it's all good business for us, isn't it?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-6254434284319707050?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/6254434284319707050/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=6254434284319707050&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6254434284319707050'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/6254434284319707050'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/come-lie-with-me-allegedly.html' title='Come lie with me (allegedly)'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/St4W0jo8EtI/AAAAAAAACiE/yFjOGKyZ-C8/s72-c/Continental.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-621298707463949151</id><published>2009-10-18T10:17:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-18T10:29:13.238+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Child Support'/><title type='text'>Child Support Jackpot</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Strd9K4WIfI/AAAAAAAACh8/PSBCvJVY43U/s1600-h/Casino.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 457px; height: 303px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Strd9K4WIfI/AAAAAAAACh8/PSBCvJVY43U/s400/Casino.jpg" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393867546692035058" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Not all new ideas from America are good, but I certainly like &lt;a href="http://www.casinogamblingweb.com/gambling-news/gambling-law/casino_gambling_winnings_help_pay_child_support_in_colorado_54653.html"&gt;this one&lt;/a&gt;. In Colorado, casinos are now required by law to do a computer check on any patron who wins more than $1,200 in jackpot winnings. The computer will check to see if they owe any child support and if so, the winnings will be paid to the state rather than the winner. The new law is working, too - apparently it has recovered over $600,000 in its first year. Something that should be considered over here perhaps?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-621298707463949151?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/621298707463949151/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=621298707463949151&amp;isPopup=true' title='10 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/621298707463949151'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/621298707463949151'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/child-support-jackpot.html' title='Child Support Jackpot'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Strd9K4WIfI/AAAAAAAACh8/PSBCvJVY43U/s72-c/Casino.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>10</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-1159819728879896324</id><published>2009-10-17T10:35:00.008+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-17T12:33:49.621+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Marriage'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Reason'/><title type='text'>Keep your prejudices at home</title><content type='html'>I nearly posted about this story when I first saw it earlier in the week, but I decided against it. However, now that the story has &lt;a href="http://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/judge-blocks-mixedrace-marriage-then-says-im-not-racist-1804368.html"&gt;found its way this side of the Atlantic&lt;/a&gt;, perhaps it does deserve a comment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Keith Bardwell, a justice of the peace in Tangipahoa Parish, Louisiana, refused to officiate at the marriage of a mixed-race couple on the grounds that it would not be fair to any children they might have. Now, I don't like a media witch-hunt demanding that someone lose their job, but it is difficult to see how Mr Bardwell's position can still be tenable. Even if he has a point (and I certainly do not believe that he does), it is obviously not his position to choose who should and should not marry.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The story is very reminiscent of the &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2008/12/ladele-council-did-not-discriminate.html"&gt;Lilian Ladele case&lt;/a&gt; in this country, where Ms Ladele, a registrar, was quite rightly disciplined after refusing to conduct civil partnership ceremonies.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-1159819728879896324?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/1159819728879896324/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=1159819728879896324&amp;isPopup=true' title='3 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1159819728879896324'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1159819728879896324'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/keep-your-prejudices-at-home.html' title='Keep your prejudices at home'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>3</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-7445222904992448199</id><published>2009-10-16T12:16:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-16T12:31:20.464+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Blogs'/><title type='text'>Wigless: New family blog</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SthXERtPdeI/AAAAAAAACh0/PkP1ICZFtVI/s1600-h/Wigless.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 467px; height: 155px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SthXERtPdeI/AAAAAAAACh0/PkP1ICZFtVI/s400/Wigless.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393156284760421858" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/new-dawn.html"&gt;posted recently&lt;/a&gt; about the improving health of the UK family law blogosphere. Well, now I'm pleased to report the establishment of another new UK family law blog. &lt;a href="http://wigless.wordpress.com/"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Wigless&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; is a "take on the Family Bar", and is written by a student barrister who will be starting as a pupil at a family law chambers in October 2010. He says that the blog will be his "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;little critique on the most recent developments in the wild and wacky world of family law&lt;/span&gt;". Excellent. The content on the blog is naturally limited at present, but it already shows great promise. Add to your blogroll!&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-7445222904992448199?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/7445222904992448199/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=7445222904992448199&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7445222904992448199'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7445222904992448199'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/wigless-new-family-blog.html' title='Wigless: New family blog'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/SthXERtPdeI/AAAAAAAACh0/PkP1ICZFtVI/s72-c/Wigless.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-4269867325990065766</id><published>2009-10-16T07:12:00.006+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-16T08:42:55.703+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Pre-Nuptials'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finance/Property'/><title type='text'>Stupefying Legislative Ineptitude</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StgVzIUIzzI/AAAAAAAAChs/moJPJdpO4F4/s1600-h/Anthony+Julius.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 99px; height: 132px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StgVzIUIzzI/AAAAAAAAChs/moJPJdpO4F4/s200/Anthony+Julius.JPG" alt="" title="Anthony Julius" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5393084521925627698" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;There is an &lt;a href="http://www.ft.com/cms/s/0/f3d14f8a-b8bd-11de-809b-00144feab49a.html"&gt;interesting article&lt;/a&gt; by &lt;a href="http://www.mishcon.com/people/anthony_julius"&gt;Anthony Julius&lt;/a&gt; (left) in the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Financial Times&lt;/span&gt; today, in which he discusses reform of the ancillary relief laws, with reference to the views of Baroness Deech. He says that "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;reform based purely on making pre-nuptial agreements enforceable – as outlined by Baroness Ruth Deech on Tuesday – is not the way forward&lt;/span&gt;". I agree there, although I'm not sure that Baroness Deech is only suggesting that pre-nuptials be made enforceable - I've haven't read her speech, but I understood that she is also proposing a European-style community property regime.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Julius then goes on to discuss three objections to the current system that allows courts to disregard pre-nuptials: that it violates the principle of contract-making autonomy, that it reflects a larger judicial unfairness and that it has the vice of judicial unpredictability. It is when he discusses the third of these that the article becomes most interesting. Julius points out that in 1984 Parliament abolished the requirement that the court attempt to place the parties in the financial position in which they would have been if the marriage had not broken down. He agrees that that was, of course, unworkable but, he says, "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;in an act of stupefying legislative ineptitude, no other requirement was substituted&lt;/span&gt;", with the result that "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;judges have been left to fill the legislative gap, making things up as they go along, inventing rules to govern the division of matrimonial assets, or “finding” them in the factors listed in the Matrimonial Causes Act&lt;/span&gt;". Sometimes, he says, they merely rely upon the 'aspirational quality' of "fairness". As a result, it has "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;become almost impossible, when advising a divorcing husband or wife, to predict what the courts would decide in their case&lt;/span&gt;". Yes, I think that pretty well sums it up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;What is required, Julius suggests, "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;is legislative reform of the criteria for asset and income division on divorce&lt;/span&gt;", although he does not indicate what form that reform should take. What overarching 'requirement' (or 'duty', to use the original wording of the MCA) should the court be given? I have to say that it is hard to think of a requirement that would fit every case and that would not be as bland or unpredictable as "fairness" - anything more specific would surely seriously fetter the discretion of the court. Or should that discretion be (largely) taken away by something like the community property rule that Baroness Deech is proposing?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Whatever the answer, let us hope at least that the addition of another powerful voice to the debate will help to encourage Parliament to finally grasp the nettle and deal with this matter that affects so many lives.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-4269867325990065766?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/4269867325990065766/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=4269867325990065766&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4269867325990065766'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/4269867325990065766'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/stupefying-legislative-ineptitude.html' title='Stupefying Legislative Ineptitude'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StgVzIUIzzI/AAAAAAAAChs/moJPJdpO4F4/s72-c/Anthony+Julius.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-8270978122758556153</id><published>2009-10-15T11:01:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-15T11:23:30.480+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Reason'/><title type='text'>Reality Check #2</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Stb3-T06vXI/AAAAAAAAChk/6l6R2rAfEtg/s1600-h/Karzai.PNG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 100px; height: 101px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Stb3-T06vXI/AAAAAAAAChk/6l6R2rAfEtg/s200/Karzai.PNG" alt="" title="Would you die for him?" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5392770253668924786" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;A completely different sort of reality check is, I think, urgently required when it comes to Afghanistan. As &lt;a href="http://www.divorcesaloon.com/afghanistan-arianna-huffington-on-sharia-law-and-the-best-interest-of-the-child"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Divorce Saloon&lt;/span&gt; points out&lt;/a&gt;, President &lt;a href="http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=karzi"&gt;Karzi&lt;/a&gt;, 'our' man in Kabul, has passed the Sharia Personal Status Law which includes in its provisions that custody rights are granted only to fathers and grandfathers, that women can work only with the permission of their husbands, and that husbands can withhold food from wives who refuse to have sex with them. What on Earth are we doing sacrificing the lives of our soldiers and spending billions supporting a regime that passes such abominable laws?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-8270978122758556153?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/8270978122758556153/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=8270978122758556153&amp;isPopup=true' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/8270978122758556153'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/8270978122758556153'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/reality-check-2.html' title='Reality Check #2'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Stb3-T06vXI/AAAAAAAAChk/6l6R2rAfEtg/s72-c/Karzai.PNG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-1276475344199523305</id><published>2009-10-15T07:26:00.005+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-15T11:01:21.019+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finance/Property'/><title type='text'>Reality Check #1</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Stbym1hd9UI/AAAAAAAAChc/6wglwFbLR3k/s1600-h/Michelle+Young.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 107px; height: 99px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Stbym1hd9UI/AAAAAAAAChc/6wglwFbLR3k/s200/Michelle+Young.JPG" alt="" title="Michelle Young" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5392764352839152962" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;Ouch. Michelle Young &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/6328579/Wife-at-centre-of-400-million-divorce-claims-exceptional-hardship.html"&gt;received a painful reality check&lt;/a&gt; when she appeared in court this week in the possession hearing relating to her home in Regent's Park. When she claimed 'exceptional hardship' the lawyer for her landlords pointed out to her that she is no longer rich and that the rent on the property in which she wished to live was £8,666 a month, and suggested that benefits and council housing might be more appropriate for her and the children. Still, she can console herself with the fact that life must surely be even worse for her husband - after all he is £27 million in debt, isn't he? Oh wait, he &lt;a href="http://www.timesonline.co.uk/tol/news/uk/article6853156.ece"&gt;has an income of £6000 a week&lt;/a&gt; and &lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1219321/Broke-tycoon-moves-1m-flat-estranged-wife-daughters-face-eviction.html"&gt;lives in a £1 million flat&lt;/a&gt;...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-1276475344199523305?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/1276475344199523305/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=1276475344199523305&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1276475344199523305'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1276475344199523305'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/reality-check-1.html' title='Reality Check #1'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Stbym1hd9UI/AAAAAAAAChc/6wglwFbLR3k/s72-c/Michelle+Young.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-7090182956902450512</id><published>2009-10-14T18:16:00.005+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T22:19:58.929+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Divorce'/><title type='text'>Croc beats husband</title><content type='html'>Meanwhile, the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Telegraph&lt;/span&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/6326349/Mother-chooses-pet-crocodile-over-husband.html"&gt;reports&lt;/a&gt; upon a wife who preferred a crocodile to her husband. I'm sure many wives can relate to that...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StYKPZk23nI/AAAAAAAAChU/INVvLIIXo-s/s1600-h/Croc3.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 455px; height: 229px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StYKPZk23nI/AAAAAAAAChU/INVvLIIXo-s/s400/Croc3.JPG" alt="" title="Cute..." id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5392508863502540402" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-7090182956902450512?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/7090182956902450512/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=7090182956902450512&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7090182956902450512'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/7090182956902450512'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/croc-beats-husband.html' title='Croc beats husband'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StYKPZk23nI/AAAAAAAAChU/INVvLIIXo-s/s72-c/Croc3.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-8078792339245315424</id><published>2009-10-14T18:00:00.002+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T22:20:38.029+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Marriage'/><title type='text'>40,000 Moonies Wed</title><content type='html'>If I was still practising, I would have been there handing out 40,000 business cards...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StYD3VRNzAI/AAAAAAAAChE/bWAZ3_q99Kw/s1600-h/Moonie.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 467px; height: 204px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StYD3VRNzAI/AAAAAAAAChE/bWAZ3_q99Kw/s400/Moonie.JPG" alt="" title="A business opportunity..." id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5392501852959788034" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-8078792339245315424?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/8078792339245315424/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=8078792339245315424&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/8078792339245315424'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/8078792339245315424'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/40000-moonies-wed.html' title='40,000 Moonies Wed'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StYD3VRNzAI/AAAAAAAAChE/bWAZ3_q99Kw/s72-c/Moonie.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-5791810593317343964</id><published>2009-10-14T08:23:00.003+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-14T09:42:44.491+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Divorce'/><title type='text'>The Myth Lives On</title><content type='html'>The pronouncement yesterday of the decree nisi in the Adrian Chiles/Jane Garvey divorce produced the usual slew of tabloid headlines about it being a 'quickie' divorce. There must have even been someone at the High Court timing the pronouncement, with several papers reporting that it took a mere 83 seconds. Yes, I suppose that is quick, but the fact of the matter is that there is no such thing as a 'quickie' divorce. Either the divorce is defended or (as here) it is not. If it is not then the divorce can proceed on the papers, without the necessity of an attendance at court. However, that does not mean that it is particularly quick - it is still likely to take around six months from start to finish, assuming that the decree absolute is not delayed while financial/property matters are being resolved, as is often the case. It can be shorter - the quickest I got a divorce through in 25 years was about three months, but that depends upon how quickly the court deals with it, and nowadays most courts take considerably longer, in my experience at least. The media, however, seem to be convinced that it can be done much more rapidly - I've seen reports that it could only take a couple of weeks - often with the underlying suggestion that this speed somehow undermines the sanctity of marriage. This is just playing upon ignorance.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;So, I'll say it again: there is no such thing as a 'quickie' divorce. It is a myth.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-5791810593317343964?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/5791810593317343964/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=5791810593317343964&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/5791810593317343964'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/5791810593317343964'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/myth-lives-on.html' title='The Myth Lives On'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-3216487377643556026</id><published>2009-10-13T14:58:00.005+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-13T15:27:07.353+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Pre-Nuptials'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finance/Property'/><title type='text'>Time for Reform</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StSOB1Qu7MI/AAAAAAAACg8/xeUYTcB1L3M/s1600-h/Baroness+Deech.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 403px; height: 193px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StSOB1Qu7MI/AAAAAAAACg8/xeUYTcB1L3M/s400/Baroness+Deech.jpg" alt="" title="Baroness Deech" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5392090815997603010" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Baroness Deech is back in the news. In a &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/politics/lawandorder/6311968/Engaged-couples-should-see-lawyers-to-discuss-prenuptial-agreements.html"&gt;speech today&lt;/a&gt; she will apparently say that our divorce laws (at least insofar as they relate to finances) should be remodelled along European lines. This will involve a community property regime, and pre-nuptial agreements being enforceable. The speech may be new but this is, in fact, old news - precisely &lt;a href="http://news.bbc.co.uk/today/hi/today/newsid_8256000/8256131.stm"&gt;what she was saying&lt;/a&gt; when she hit the headlines a month ago.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;As I've &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/09/baroness-deech-reactionary.html"&gt;indicated before&lt;/a&gt;, I don't agree with everything that Baroness Deech says, but I do agree that there should be more certainty in our ancillary relief laws. I also agree that the government has shirked responsibility for re-examining the law, and that it is time for legislative reform, rather than leaving the matter to the vagaries of judicial interpretation (and re-interpretation) of old laws.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-3216487377643556026?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/3216487377643556026/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=3216487377643556026&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3216487377643556026'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3216487377643556026'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/time-for-reform.html' title='Time for Reform'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StSOB1Qu7MI/AAAAAAAACg8/xeUYTcB1L3M/s72-c/Baroness+Deech.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-9107842454900714545</id><published>2009-10-12T07:33:00.011+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-12T10:34:28.596+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finance/Property'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Divorce'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Children'/><title type='text'>In the news...</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Some snippets&lt;/span&gt; picked up in the news this morning that I thought were worthy of comment:&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StLnW6w4k-I/AAAAAAAACgs/RoAwoFOEo7k/s1600-h/Anne+Tanner.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 10px 10px 0pt; float: left; cursor: pointer; width: 121px; height: 113px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StLnW6w4k-I/AAAAAAAACgs/RoAwoFOEo7k/s320/Anne+Tanner.JPG" alt="" title="Anne Tanner, chin on hand..." id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5391626084833334242" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Anne Tanner&lt;/span&gt; (left) posted &lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/commentisfree/2009/oct/11/child-custody-divorce-parents"&gt;a piece in the Guardian's &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Comment Is Free&lt;/span&gt; column&lt;/a&gt; which asks why absent fathers find it so difficult to gain contact with their children, and what can be done to improve the situation. The article, of course, starts from the premise that: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;When parents split, children are all too often separated from their fathers&lt;/span&gt;". I'm not sure what she means by "all too often", but I do wonder whether this problem is exaggerated. OK, one child being denied a relationship with their father is one too many, but the vast majority of fathers &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;do&lt;/span&gt; retain contact with their children, and many of those who don't choose not to. Leaving that aside, what does Tanner suggest we do about the problem? Two things: more mediation and make the courts more accountable. These things seem to be rolled off like some panacean mantra, but the fact of the matter is that mediation is already available, and opening up the courts suggests that there is either some anti-father conspiracy in the family justice system, or that somehow those working in it will try harder if they are more accountable. Where I do agree with Tanner though, is that the adversarial system exacerbates conflict - as I have said before, an inquisitorial system would surely be better suited to deal with these issues, although to be perfectly honest, I'm not sure how this would work in practice.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Meanwhile&lt;/span&gt;, in the Telegraph Boris Johnson has&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StLnkcz_qdI/AAAAAAAACg0/bPpDzmuub9Y/s1600-h/Boris+Johnson.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 110px; height: 109px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StLnkcz_qdI/AAAAAAAACg0/bPpDzmuub9Y/s320/Boris+Johnson.JPG" alt="" title="...Boris, also chin on hand" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5391626317311486418" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/columnists/borisjohnson/6303708/If-anyones-going-to-make-money-out-of-misery-it-may-as-well-be-us.html"&gt;his own unique slant on the news that Mrs Young has secured litigation funding&lt;/a&gt;, as I reported in my &lt;a href="http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/shrewd-investment.html"&gt;last post&lt;/a&gt;, and the concerns that this may add to London's reputation as 'the divorce capital of the world'. "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;I am inclined to see this Divorce Fund initiative as the latest evidence of the resilience of the London economy&lt;/span&gt;", he says, "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Just as the financial services industry is reeling, they come up with a new and inventive offering. Rich wives and toyboys across the world can see the prudence of pestering their spouses to maintain an address in London – just in case it all goes wrong. London lawyers hit pay dirt. London hotels are full of witnesses and the UK media have the joy of reporting the case in a circulation-boosting way&lt;/span&gt;." OK, all a bit cynical, but Johnson does make one good point, and I was going to mention it in my post yesterday: this may be a new way for those with substantial family assets ("&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;the folk who winter in Verbier and summer in Palm Beach&lt;/span&gt;", as Johnson puts it) to fund their litigation, but it will be of no interest whatsoever to the vast majority of those who use our divorce courts to argue over more modest assets.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-weight: bold;"&gt;Lastly&lt;/span&gt; (and I do like to end on a lighter note), I &lt;a href="http://in.reuters.com/article/entertainmentNews/idINIndia-43090320091012"&gt;read on Reuters&lt;/a&gt; that a Malaysian state, concerned about its soaring divorce rate, is offering "free honeymoons worth up to $440 each to rekindle the romance between married couples on the brink of divorce". Now, I'm not sure what the Family Bar Association of Malaysia has to say about that...&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-9107842454900714545?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/9107842454900714545/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=9107842454900714545&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/9107842454900714545'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/9107842454900714545'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/in-news.html' title='In the news...'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StLnW6w4k-I/AAAAAAAACgs/RoAwoFOEo7k/s72-c/Anne+Tanner.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-3548291358955697708</id><published>2009-10-11T14:54:00.004+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-11T15:32:42.702+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Finance/Property'/><title type='text'>A Shrewd Investment?</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StHsd9TPmCI/AAAAAAAACgk/XYuM8W97nB8/s1600-h/Dice.gif"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 458px; height: 309px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StHsd9TPmCI/AAAAAAAACgk/XYuM8W97nB8/s400/Dice.gif" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5391350228354832418" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Young&lt;/span&gt; divorce case continues to make the headlines. The &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Daily Mail&lt;/span&gt; reports that Mr Young is apparently &lt;a href="http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-1219487/Tycoon-400m-divorce-battle-dates-American-model-20-years-junior.html"&gt;dating an American model 20 years his junior&lt;/a&gt;. Now, I'm not interested in that (although I admit it adds extra tabloid-titillating flavour), but what &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;is&lt;/span&gt; interesting  is the report in the &lt;a href="http://www.ft.com/cms/s/0/97f1005e-b50f-11de-8b17-00144feab49a.html?nclick_check=1"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Financial Times&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt; (and elsewhere) that Mrs Young has secured litigation funding for the case from &lt;a href="http://www.harbourlitigationfunding.com/"&gt;Harbour Litigation Funding&lt;/a&gt;. As they explain, litigation funding "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;is where a party, who is not the Claimant to an action, agrees to cover all or some of the costs of the litigation, in return for a share of the proceeds if the litigation is successful&lt;/span&gt;". In other words: no win, no fee. Harbour has apparently previously funded 66 commercial cases, but this is the first time that it has funded a divorce case. I assume from this that they consider Mrs Young has a good chance of success in her ancillary relief claim. Time will tell whether it proves to be a shrewd investment for them.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-3548291358955697708?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/3548291358955697708/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=3548291358955697708&amp;isPopup=true' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3548291358955697708'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/3548291358955697708'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/shrewd-investment.html' title='A Shrewd Investment?'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/StHsd9TPmCI/AAAAAAAACgk/XYuM8W97nB8/s72-c/Dice.gif' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21147733.post-1013791836724610955</id><published>2009-10-08T07:46:00.006+01:00</published><updated>2009-10-08T08:36:07.347+01:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Legal Profession'/><title type='text'>A Breath of Fresh Air</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Ss2V7f7DcXI/AAAAAAAACgM/QRDIiyVk7z0/s1600-h/Yvonne_Hossack.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0pt 0pt 10px 10px; float: right; cursor: pointer; width: 113px; height: 113px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Ss2V7f7DcXI/AAAAAAAACgM/QRDIiyVk7z0/s200/Yvonne_Hossack.jpg" alt="" title="Yvonne Hossack" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5390129178446360946" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;I've just read the &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Lawyer of the Week&lt;/span&gt; column in &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;The Times&lt;/span&gt;. This week it &lt;a href="http://business.timesonline.co.uk/tol/business/law/article6863798.ece#cid=OTC-RSS&amp;amp;attr=989864"&gt;features Yvonne Hossack&lt;/a&gt;, the solicitor who campaigns against the closure of care homes and was cleared of allegations of serious professional misconduct. Now, I've not really followed this case, but Yvonne Hossack sounds like a breath of fresh air for the general stereotype of public school, egocentric, venal, supercilious lawyers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;On the subject of supercilious, I was particularly amused by her 'worst day as a lawyer'. After making strenuous efforts to get her client to complete and return his Form E on time, she was rewarded by the District Judge calling her a disgrace to her profession. Typical. What happens to some people when they are promoted to the judiciary? Were they always pompous arses (in which case why on earth were they appointed - old boy network? masons?), or does the thinner atmosphere at their rarified level go to their head? Every lawyer who has ever practised in court must have come across them from time to time. Don't they remember that they had similar problems with clients for whom they acted prior to their elevation?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I also enjoyed her response to the question: What would your advice be to anyone wanting a career in law? She replied: "&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Remember that the law and justice are not a married couple. At best they are a one-night stand and part company in the morning.&lt;/span&gt;" I certainly could not have put it better.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/21147733-1013791836724610955?l=www.familylore.co.uk'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/feeds/1013791836724610955/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=21147733&amp;postID=1013791836724610955&amp;isPopup=true' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1013791836724610955'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/21147733/posts/default/1013791836724610955'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://www.familylore.co.uk/2009/10/breath-of-fresh-air.html' title='A Breath of Fresh Air'/><author><name>John Bolch</name><uri>http://www.blogger.com/profile/16676004014279763939</uri><email>john@familylore.co.uk</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='09091821135639082434'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_LByXmYhLTdA/Ss2V7f7DcXI/AAAAAAAACgM/QRDIiyVk7z0/s72-c/Yvonne_Hossack.jpg' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry></feed>