tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-21030817.post-44830561433047103862008-04-27T23:43:00.004-04:002008-04-27T23:58:23.961-04:00My biggest struggle with David being on the autistic spectrum is developing a connection with him. With a lot of hard work over time - we have developed a deep bond and a true love for one another. What I have been trying hard to do for some time is connect and have it stick. Specifically we are working on proper actions/communication in the social setting. We are working hard to have him do simple things - for example: proper hello/goodbye and eye contact.<br /><br />Two instances happened today which remind me that we still have work to do. 1) Inappropriate physical and verbal behavior at church and 2) He punched me in the ___ (lets say "boys") at Trader Joe's. It's hard to concentrate on the checkout line when you are seeing stars.<br /><br />These are not intentional acts. At least I don't sense them to be. It most likely is a call for attention or overwhelmed by the situation (lots of people, lots of sensory inputs).<br /><br />We've made progress. I love him immensely. It's a gut check (literally) and I know we need to stay the course.JohnnyOhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15808191835352223041noreply@blogger.com