Laz - A - Fare

Time for a Culture Change

2008-11-16T08:54:00.001-05:00

A few weeks ago I attended the sentencing hearing of a local, well-known, politically connected, business man from Baltimore County that defrauded individuals and banks over a number of years to the tune of $32 million dollars. What made his story bizarre was that, while he lived lavishly off of the fruits of his crime, he also established a number of charitable organizations that were doing a lot of good for the community. A modern day Robin Hood of sorts. Anyway, the scene was quite tragic. As to be expected, a number of people spoke on his behalf: various people he had helped out along the way, his daughter, and his wife. When these people spoke, they spoke as if they realized that their friend, father, and husband, was going to be heading to jail for a long period of time. Most of them sobbed the way through their speeches, speaking about what a great person the defendant was. The courtroom was packed with friends and family, many who could be seen sobbing during most of the sentencing hearing. The mood of the courtroom was quite sad; again, while he clearly was a horrible man for defrauding innocent people and institutions of millions of dollars, it did seem as if this guy was a good man, a good father, and a good husband, and the actions of those in the courtroom reflected this.

Contrast this with another sentencing hearing that I attended this week. This was a 24-year old guy from the streets of Baltimore being sentenced for a distribution of cocaine charge. Because he was considered a "career offender" (two prior drug offense charges), the sentencing guidelines were between 22 and 27 years for this charge. The only people there to support him were his girlfriend, his mother, his aunt, and his children. The mood in the courtroom was noticeably different from the prior proceeding that I had attended. Whereas the prior defendant had a serious look on his face, and broke down during allocution, this thug sat slouched in his chair, leaning back, often smiling and laughing. And while it have been that his children did not fully understand what was going on, I found it telling that they were essentially running around the back of the courtroom as if it were a playground. His mother, aunt, and girlfriend, while not joking around, sat there with an expression not very different from someone sitting in church or synagogue - just there because we have to be, and not because we want to be.

The problem, as I see it, is one of culture. For people that live on the streets of Baltimore, going to jail, even for long periods of time, is simply part of life. Mothers are accustomed to seeing their babies serve time, girlfriends accustomed to having their children see their baby-daddy through the visitation glass at prison. Those associated with the first defendant were not accustomed to seeing a beloved friend, father, and spouse, go to jail. This was evident by the demeanor of all in attendance at that sentencing. Their culture is not one of crime, violence, and incarceration. Until the culture of the streets - one in which it is "OKAY" to shirk all civic and familial responsibilities while rotting in jail - changes, this city, and others similarly situated where remain breeding grounds for criminals; one in which the children have little chance of contributing anything to society.

Parshas Metzora 5768

2008-04-11T15:21:00.000-05:00

וְהֶעֱמִיד הַכֹּהֵן הַמְטַהֵר, אֵת הָאִישׁ הַמִּטַּהֵר--וְאֹתָם: לִפְנֵי יְהוָה, פֶּתַח אֹהֶל מוֹעֵד.
” The kohein doing the purification, shall place the man undergoing the purification and the [aforementioned] items, before Ad-noy, at the entrance of the Tent of Meeting.”

" At the Nicanor Gate, and not in the [outer] court itself". - Rashi

The Torah tells us while the Kohein is performing the sacrifices associated with the purification process of the Metzora, he may not enter the court itself, but must wait at this "Nicanor Gate." The Rabbi Tzvi Elimelech of Dinov in his Shemen haMor explains why the Metzora must wait specifically at the gate named after Nicanor.

He brings down the story involving Nicacor from the Gemara in Yoma (38a). The story goes that Nicanor traveled to Egypt to buy a pair of doors for the Beis haMikdash. On the boat ride back to Israel there was a horrible storm on the boat, and it was in desperate danger of sinking unless those aboard the boat dumped some weight into the ocean. Initially, they took one of the doors made in Egypt, without protest from Nicanor, and pitched it into the ocean. However, after getting ready to throw the 2nd door overboard, Nicacor grabbed a hold of the door and said, "if you're going to throw the door in, then you may as well throw me in." Upon displaying this Mesiras Nefesh, the wicked storm calmed and the boat made it back to Israel. As they were unloading the one door that had managed made it, the workers noticed something on the underside of the boat - the 2nd door had miraculously traveled with the boat's current all the way back to the holy land.

This story provides a tremendous amount of Chizuk, as there are certainly plenty of times in one's life, that, for whatever reason, it just doesn't seem like anything good is forthcoming. Whether it be because something bad happened to us and we think that we'll never recover from it; or whether something good happened to us and we lament not being able to attain that again - we should look at the story of Nicanor and realize that just when it seems like something negative is sure to come our way, Hashem comes through for us.

This is what the Metzora is likely thinking after his ordeal - after having a skin disease and going through the arduous atonement process; he is likely to think that he'll never be able to attain his original place with the Jewish people. However, the Kohein makes him wait by Nicanor gate to remind him, that just as Hashem came through for Nicanor when it seemed as if his mission had failed, Hashem can come through for the Metzora, and for all of us.

Bris Speech

2008-03-22T23:14:00.003-05:00

The following was the speech I gave at the Seudas Bris following the birth of our son.

וְהָאֵשׁ עַל-הַמִּזְבֵּחַ תּוּקַד-בּוֹ לֹא תִכְבֶּה, וּבִעֵר עָלֶיהָ הַכֹּהֵן עֵצִים בַּבֹּקֶר בַּבֹּקֶר; וְעָרַךְ עָלֶיהָ הָעֹלָה, וְהִקְטִיר עָלֶיהָ חֶלְבֵי הַשְּׁלָמִים. ו אֵשׁ, תָּמִיד תּוּקַד עַל-הַמִּזְבֵּחַ--לֹא תִכְבֶּה.

“The fire on the altar shall be kindled with it it shall not be extinguished. The kohein shall burn logs upon it each and every morning and arrange the burnt-offering on it and burn upon it the fats of the peace-offering. A continual fire shall be lit on the altar; it shall not be extinguished.”

The verses in this coming week’s parsha that speak about the fire which was lit on the Mizbeach cite the words “Lo Sichveh”/ do not extinguish twice. There is the idea that Hashem did not waste words when he gave over the Torah to Moshe, and in this vein, Rashi explains that one who extinguishes the fire that is lit on the Mizbeach had violated TWO negative prohibitions; one for each of the instances that the Torah says “Lo Sichveh”. We must examine this idea a bit deeper to understand why the Torah was so strict that it mandated two prohibitions for extinguishing the light that remained lit on the Mizbeach.

The Talmud Yerushalmi in Yoma quotes an opinion that says that this fire on the Mizbeach remained lit “af b’maasaos”, that is, it remained lit even when the Jewish people were traveling throughout the desert. However, another question lingers – since the Jews were not using the Mizbeach while they were traveling, why did they need this Aish, this fire, to remain lit, even when not in use?

Rabbi Yosef Greenwald says that here, there is a profound lesson that each of us should apply to our own lives, but first mentions that the word “TORAH” in the Tanach is frequently called “AISH”, so in our analysis we can substitute these words interchangeably. Rav Greenwald says that the Aish haTorah/ FIRE OF TORAH is something that is undoubtedly with us when we are learning and when we are davening. However, it is not enough that the Aish haTorah be lit in our lives only when we are engaged in spiritual pursuits; it must also be with us when we are engaged in the mundane. That is, we must take the Aish haTorah that is burning when we are engaged in the spiritual realm, and somehow infuse that in the rest of our lives, whether that be in school or in the workplace – somehow continually maintaining our connection to Yiddishkeit in any way possible, at all time. This is why the Torah was so strict in mandating TWO prohibitions for extinguishing the flame on the Mizbeach – that which the Mizbeach stood for, regardless of whether it was actually being used at a specific time, needed to permeate the lives of the Jewish people.

In fact, we see this idea in the timely story of Purim. The rabbis tell us that Esther, who was in Achashverosh’s harem for a number of years, was sure to maintain her connection to Judaism while in her stay at the palace. The rabbis comment that Esther appointed 7 servants, one for each day of the week, so she would know which day she was to observe Shabbos. However, the commentaries ask – did Esther not know how to count? She simply could’ve counted the days and known when Shabbos was that way. One beautiful answer that I saw was that if Esther would’ve only had 1 servant, and that one servant would’ve seen her acting differently on 1 day of the week (on SHABBOS), they would’ve become suspicious of her actions, and possibly reported them to the king of her being Jewish. However, in appointing seven DIFFERENT servants, for the servant who worked every Shabbos, Esther was acting no differently, and therefore, would arouse no suspicion. Thus, we see that, even while in the royal harem of Achachverosh, Esther was very calculated in making sure that she maintained a connection to Judaism.

Rabbi Kosman, the Rabbi in Frederick, often says that there is no such thing as a coincidence. It’s no coincidence then that man after whom we named our child, Yaakov Yerachmiel Hammermesh, my wife’s grandfather, fully embodied this approach to Judaism. Yaakov Yerachmiel lived in one of the most horrible times in Jewish history. The eyes and ears of anyone subjected to the Holocaust sensed things that you wouldn’t wish on your worst of enemies. One would think that even if the body would be able to recover from such experiences, certainly the mind would not – that is, it would be expected that such a person would lack Derech Eretz let alone even act humanly. However, as evidenced by his children and his grandchildren, it cannot simply be by accident that they inherited his gentle Kavod haBriyos and his Derech Eretz. Yaakov Yerachmiel raised a family that, even though rooted in the most troubling of times in Jewish history, had strong Jewish values. His experiences tested his faith in ways that none of us, God forbid, should ever know from, yet his resolve to pass Yiddishkeit onto his family is apparent to anyone that knows them. Just as it was the Jews’ responsibility to keep the Aish of the Mizbeach lit at all times, it is now our job as parents to kindle the Aish haTorah at all times for our son. Peggy and I thank all of your for coming out tonight and we know that if our son is surrounded by the same friends, parents, and grandparents that we are so lucky to have in our lives, then Yaakov Yerachmiel Laz will become a Jew that Yaakov Yerachmiel Hammermesh would’ve been proud of.

Losing YOUR Religion

2008-02-18T07:30:00.003-05:00

Reading Jewboy's post about something in the orthodox world that saddened him reminded me of a New York Times article that a friend forwarded me a few days ago.

The article speaks about an Orthodox rabbi serving a 27-year sentence in an Otisville, NY federal penitentiary (where, I'm told there is at least 1 Daf Yomi Shiur) for fraudulently obtaining more than $4 million. Oh, and we're not talking about not-paying-your-taxes $4 million, we're talking collecting-money-for-a-fake-lottery $4 million. He is suing the Bureau of Prisons for the right to be able to pray outside of his cell. He claims that he cannot pray inside of his cell because of the presence of a toilet, and in doing so, he would be violating Halacha.

Thank G-d, we live in a country where we can pray where we want, when we want. We live in time period that is arguably the best for Jews in recent history. But, how do we obtain these liberty and freedoms? It doesn't come for free; it comes with the price of obeying the rules of this country. You steal money from innocent people who think that they can win money in a lottery - a clear violation of the laws of our land, yet you claim that you're owed protection from those same laws? Sounds like some real chutzpah to me.

I'm sure Rabbi Samet would scold me for speaking Lashon Hara. I'm sure Rabbi Samet could run circles around me in learning. But, I have to imagine that I have one up on him in the eyes of Hashem; after all, I didn't swindle $4 million out of anyone. I fail to understand how these people can be so Machmir in all aspects of life, but when it comes to money, they feel that they can do whatever they please. TAXES?! Who pays taxes? To a Goyishe government!? The hypocrisy in which these people live their lives is astonishing.

I would like to believe that Hashem doesn't as readily accept the prayers of people who live their lives seeped in such hypocrisy as he does mine and yours. Rabbi Samet - you know how you go about being able to daven whereever you want? A: Don't steal $4 million from innocent people and it wouldn't even be a problem in the first place. Deal with it.

Parshas Terumah 5768

2008-02-08T01:03:00.000-05:00

דַּבֵּר אֶל-בְּנֵי יִשְׂרָאֵל, וְיִקְחוּ-לִי תְּרוּמָה: מֵאֵת כָּל-אִישׁ אֲשֶׁר יִדְּבֶנּוּ לִבּוֹ, תִּקְחוּ אֶת-תְּרוּמָתִי.
“Speak to the B'nei Yisrael and have them give Me a terumah-offering. From every man whose heart impels him to generosity shall you take My terumah-offering.”

This week’s parsha starts off by talking about the different donations given to the Mishkan. The Torah starts off by talking about a person who gives Terumah, but uses the phrase “VAYIKCHU li terumah”, literally, when you TAKE for me Terumah. If the Torah is talking about one who is GIVING terumah, why does it use the seemingly opposite word “TAKE”? The famous answer from the Beis haLevi goes something like this…

The only things that we really “own” in life are those that are eternal. Sure, we have cars, homes, fancy things – but none of these items are eternal, so our ownership of these things is limited. However, when one takes something like money, which is not eternal, and gives it to Tzedaka, the money has transformed from something fleeting into a Mitzvah – something eternal. Thus, we see that “Vayikchu li Terumah” teaches us that when we give Terumah to the Mishkan, we have transformed this money into something eternal, and therefore, while we are technically giving to the Beis haMikdash – in reality, we’re really TAKING something for ourselves…we take that transformation of the fleeting money into an eternal merit.

Chazal in the Medrash to Parshas Bo tell us that, “More than the money that the Ba’al haBayis gives to the poor person, the poor person gives to the Ba’al haBayis.” How is this so? Typically, in a Tzedaka situation, we view the Ba’al haBayis as the giver and the poor person as the receiver. However, in light of what we read above, we see that really these distinctions aren’t so clear; the poor person, while receiving the money, is really a “giver” in the sense that he enables the Ba’al haBayis to do a Mitzvah – and the Ba’al haBayis, while giving the money, is really a receiver in the sense that he reaps the reward and merit for his gift.

One final example where the distinctions between giver and receiver are not so clear: the Gemara in Kiddush tells us that for a marriage to be valid, the man must give the ring to a woman. However, there is one exception where the marriage can be valid if the woman gives the ring to a man: if the man is an “Adam Chashuv/important person.” The gemara explains that while it seems like the man, in this case, is receiving something and the woman giving it, that isn’t the case. If I bring a gift to the President, and he accepts it, I will get great joy out of this. So too in our case above; the woman, by giving the ring to a very important man, while technically a “giver” in that she gives the ring to the man, is, in reality, a receiver, because she gets the joy out of knowing that the very important man retains her present.

I think the lesson to be learned is an obvious, yet profound one. We see it in marriage and in friendships alike – the only time we get anything from a relationship, or from life in general, is when we give, or put work into that venture. The more work we put in to maintain these relationships and to achieve things in life, the more benefit we will receive from them. Again, while it seems that we are the “giver” in the sense that we are putting all of this work in, we learn from the second Pasuk in this week’s parsha and throughout Chazal, that the one who wants to receive anything must be a giver.

Parshas Va'era 5768

2007-12-31T21:27:00.000-05:00

וְשָׁרַץ הַיְאֹר, צְפַרְדְּעִים, וְעָלוּ וּבָאוּ בְּבֵיתֶךָ, וּבַחֲדַר מִשְׁכָּבְךָ וְעַל-מִטָּתֶךָ; וּבְבֵית עֲבָדֶיךָ וּבְעַמֶּךָ, וּבְתַנּוּרֶיךָ וּבְמִשְׁאֲרוֹתֶיךָ.

"The river will swarm with frogs. They will emerge and come into your house, into your bedroom, and on your bed, into the houses of your servants and your people, into your ovens and into your kneading bowls."

The Gemara in Pesachim (53b) says that the frogs jumped into the ovens when they were hot (presumably killing them), as this is the only time that the kneading bowls were by the ovens. Further, the Gemara there tells us us that Chananyah, Mishael, and Azaryah, in their act of Mesiras Nefesh in jumping into the fiery furnace learned out a Kal v'Chomer from the frogs in the above verse. Namely, that just has the frogs, which were not commanded in the Mitzvah of Kiddush Hashem jumped into the ovens and gave up their lives, all the more so, they reasoned, that they were obligated to jump in the furnace.

The Shagas Aryeh fails to understand the Kal v'Chomer, being that the basis of it is that the frogs were not commanded to jump into the ovens; however, the verse, by saying that "They will emerge and come into your house...", is specifically commanding them to do so - as such, the premise of the Kal v'Chomer is destroyed. However, the Gra (who was reported to be about 7 years old at the time), explained to the Shagas Aryeh that while there was a command to the frogs to jump into the ovens, the verse also lists other places that the frogs could've jumped (i.e. the house, bedroom, bed, etc.). Therefore, each individual frog had the choice where to go. As such, it would've been very easy for every frog to think to himself, "Yeah, I'll go into the bed...I'll let the next sucker be the one who gives up his life." Nevertheless, we see that, at least among a good number of the frogs, they rejected this mindset and opted to give up their lives. Thus, we see that while they were commanded to go into the ovens, they were also given the option of entering other places; and it was this choice that Chananya, Mishael, and Azaryah learned their Kal v'Chomer from.

The lesson to be learned here is that we shouldn't habituate ourselves to constantly choose the easy path. Of course, that doesn't mean we should spend this New Years Eve jumping in the closest furnance we can find. However, constantly taking the easy-path is a cop out and we often reap less reward later in life than we would if we would've put more effort in initially (הזורעים בדמעה ברנה יקצרו). Further, it's easy, like the frogs could've done, to rely on others to do our work for us. We should learn from the plague of the frogs that we shouldn't leave our responsibilites to others and that putting in more work initially will pay off in the long run.

The Not-So-Important Law School Review Session

2007-11-21T09:07:00.000-05:00

In most of my classes we’re having some sort of “review session”, whether it is taught by the professor or by the teaching assistant. Now, how they fit a semester’s worth of material into 2 hours is beyond me, and I’m of the firm belief that if a person really NEEDS to attend the review session, they probably aren’t going to do very well in the course. But, alas, I will probably attend my review sessions, even though whatever grade I get in each course will likely have nothing to do with whether I attend one of them.

Now, scheduling a review session is very difficult. While we’re divided up into sections, there are a good number of people, including myself, that are in different sections for different courses. So, whatever time is made for the review is likely to be changed three times due to another review session at the same time, or something of the likes. So, to alleviate this problem, my contracts teaching assistant scheduled the review session for that course for next Saturday.

“OH MY GOSH HOW AM I GOING TO MISS THE REVIEW SESSION,” I heard another Shomer Shabbos person say. Well, first of all, I really hope that person wasn’t depending on a review session that attempts the impossible task of going through hundreds of hours of materials in 2. That said, ideally, it would be nice to go to such a review session, just to firm things up. So, why don’t I e-mail him and make him switch it, after all, Saturday is the Sabbath and I can’t drive on the Sabbath?!

Why? I’m a firm believer that we, as Jews, should try to call as little attention to ourselves as possible. Would I likely be able to get him to switch the review session? Sure. Am I likely to piss him, the professor, and the rest of the students in my section off that would need to change their plans for me, all because of a largely inconsequential review section? Guaranteed.

Obviously, if you need to miss class for holidays - and for certain grave injustices, there’s nothing you can do – you gotta speak up. But, I also believe that sometimes you gotta “take one for the team.” Listen, not to sound like the little oppressed Jew that’s looking to everyone for sympathy, but historically, things haven’t been so great for the Jews. We are arguably living at one of the most auspicious times for Jewry in history. We are thriving in America with little-to-no outward persecution, and we have the State of Israel. If I were the one making decisions for the Jewish people, I’d want this “State of the Union” to last as long as possible. Calling attention to ourselves for a largely inconsequential review session would piss many people off, and we don’t want to be known as the type of people that piss people off.

Bathroom Exit Doors

2007-10-18T09:58:00.000-05:00

I fail to understand why there are any exit doors to bathrooms that are "pull-doors". You would think that in a school of higher education, where people have been through 16+ years of school, they would understand the health consequences of a failure to wash hands. But, even in law school, I'd say that 20% of the people (well, men) that use the bathroom don't wash their hands. Thus, when they leave the bathroom, their urine and bacteria get all over the handle to the exit door. And I, who just finished washing my hands, must subject myself to this. All exit doors should be "push-doors", that way I can use my elbow or backside...parts of the body that are less likely to transmit the bacteria to myself or others.

Usually, I wash my hands, dry them, and use another paper-towel to open the door. But, where this isn't possible, I usually either go for the top or the bottom of the handle...places less likely to have been touched as frequently by those nasty people. Can anyone tell me the logic behind having pull-doors for bathroom exits?

Succos Torah

2007-09-25T07:17:00.000-05:00

Law school is kicking my ass. I was hoping to put something new together for this year, but it just doesn't look like it's going to happen. Luckily, I really like last year's D'var Torah. CLICK HERE TO READ.

Rosh Hashana Thoughts

2007-09-17T06:23:00.000-05:00

I found myself sitting in shul on Rosh Hashana, wishing I was a Reform Jew. Not because I wanted to drive to shul, and not because I wanted to sit next to my wife. The reason is because, comparitavely speaking, they care more about Rosh Hashana than I do. To the Reform Jew that may go to shul only a few times a year, taking off work and school for Rosh Hashana is a big deal. In a sense, their experience of Rosh Hashana is probably more like what it is supposed to be than mine: Rosh Hashana, to them, is the pinnacle of the Jewish year. Unfortunately, for me, in the routine of living every day as an Orthodox Jew, it is and was not.

Now, I think the problem lies in me more than it lies in the "system". That said, as I see it, when you live life 365 days a year as an Orthodox Jew, constantly trying to remember to daven 3 times a day; checking that bag of chips to make sure it has a Hechsher (but not Triangle-K, of course!); patting my head on the way to school to make sure my head is covered, it's only a bit natural that Rosh Hashana can get caught up in the mix of things. After all, the day before Rosh Hashana I was a frum Jew, and the day after Rosh Hashana I was still a frum Jew, so what's the big deal if I slack a little on Rosh Hashana? I found myself with these exact thoughts in shul on the first day of Rosh Hashana.

I suppose this is my test, as I sure it is many others' test in Judaism: to find meaning in the often mundane routine that is Orthodox Judaism. This test will be even harder for me over the next 3 years, as I give my best shot at law school. With more time, the test to find meaning in things is aided by daily shiurim, chavrusas, and other time for individual learning or reading. For me, the week leading up to Rosh Hashana consisted of spending most of my waking time in the library and with the only free time I had trying to catch up with my wife on how her days had been going. Erev Rosh Hashana consisted of school from 9:15-6:10pm. After rushing home to shave and shower, I found myself in shul on Rosh Hashana. The Sifrei Chaim and Meisim (Books of Life and Death) were open in front of me, and I couldn't help but think that the "Two-Times-a-Year" Jews all over the world were more properly prepared to file in from of Hashem like "Kivnei Maron" than I was.

Parshas Ki Seitzei

2007-08-24T15:10:00.000-05:00

Sorry, no time for anything this week. CLICK HERE to read last year's Dvar Torah.

Parshas Shoftim 5767

2007-08-15T21:56:00.000-05:00

To see last year's Dvar Torah, CLICK HERE.

Adapted from a shiur given by R' Baruch Simon.

לא תַסִּיג גְּבוּל רֵעֲךָ, אֲשֶׁר גָּבְלוּ רִאשׁנִים--בְּנַחֲלָתְךָ, אֲשֶׁר תִּנְחַל, בָּאָרֶץ, אֲשֶׁר יְהוָה אֱלהֶיךָ נתֵן לְךָ לְרִשְׁתָּהּ.

“Do not move back the boundary of your neighbor that the first [settlers] determine in your territory that you will inherit in the land that Ad-noy, your G-d, is giving you to inherit.” (Sefer Devarim, 19:14)

Literally speaking (at least according to Rashi), this verse teaches us that we shouldn’t move boundaries dividing our land form our neighbor’s. The Ramban says that this verse is specifically referring to the tribal borders of Eretz Yisrael. He continues to explain that by moving these borders of Israel one is, in a sense, undermining the Hashgacha of Hashem in the Gorel/lottery system used to divide the land.

The Sifri, who the Ramban actually quotes in his notes on this idea, adds further. He says, lets assume there is a machlokes on a certain matter between R’ Elazar and R’ Yehoshua, and one holds that the certain item is Tahor, and the other says Tamei. You, however, forget the exact ruling and switch up the opinions of who says which. In this case, says the Sifri, you have violated this prohibition, as you have moved the “boundary” of their rulings. The Arizal explains here that within every Halacha that Moshe gave to the Jews, he gave 49 reasons that it should be permissible and 49 reasons that it should be forbidden. Every person, when ruling on this matter, will have a natural inclination one way or another. Thus, to switch up the rulings of R’ Elazar and R’ Yehoshua is more than just a brief mental lapse; according to the Arizal, you’re switching up their entire “Shoresh haNeshama” that lead them to rule in the way that each did.

Similarly, it says in the Avos d’Rav Nosson that if someone learns for 6 months without reviewing and a person comes to ask them whether something is permissible or prohibited, the person making the ruling will switch up the ruling. That is, if the Halacha really is that the thing is permissible, the person who doesn’t review will say it is prohibited; and vice versa. It goes on to say that one who learns for 12 months without review will come to switch up which opinion says what. That is, if R’ Elazar is the one who the Halacha goes in accordance with, the person making the ruling will say it in the name of R’ Yehoshua. The question here is obvious: when thinking about Halacha, we obviously forget the source for the Halachos (who it is quoted in the name of) that we learn before we forget the Halacha itself. So, why, according to this, do we forget the Halacha first?

The answer given is that after 6 months, you’ll forget the Halacha, as this is a mere detail. It happens to be that nowadays who said what a detail to us is also. However, if you really understand the person that is saying something, you’d realize that what they say isn’t a detail; rather, it’s helping to get a better understanding of the essence of that person. For example, regarding my friends, I am likely to forget specific details about things that happened between us, but am I less likely to forget the type of person, in general, that he is.

The lesson here is that when we get to understand people, we realize that everyone’s essence is different. There’s no mitzvah to try to make everyone the same in our minds. Regarding ourselves, we shouldn’t be upset by the fact that we don’t fit into a cookie-cutter mold that it often seems that the community is trying to fit us into. Or, regarding others (and our children), we shouldn’t expect everyone to be like we are or to try to mold our children into some mold that we have envisioned for them. To say otherwise would be like saying the opinion of R’ Elazar in the name of R’ Yehoshua.

Parshas Re'eh 5767

2007-08-09T10:01:00.000-05:00

To see last year's Dvar Torah, CLICK HERE.

Adapted from a shiur given by R' Baruch Simon

כָּל-הַבְּכוֹר אֲשֶׁר יִוָּלֵד בִּבְקָרְךָ וּבְצֹאנְךָ, הַזָּכָר--תַּקְדִּישׁ, לַיהוָה אֱלֹהֶיךָ: לֹא תַעֲבֹד בִּבְכֹר שׁוֹרֶךָ, וְלֹא
תָגֹז בְּכוֹר צֹאנֶךָ.

“Every firstborn that is born in your cattle, and in your flocks---a male--- you must consecrate to Ad-noy, your G-d; you may not work with your first-born ox, or shear the first-born of your flocks.” (Sefer Devarim, 15:19)

The Bechor (firstborn) sacrifice is unique by virtue of the fact that it attains its status of “Hekedesh”/consecrated by simply being born. When the animal passes through the mother’s womb, it is automatically consecreated; Chazal refer to this type of sacrifice as “Kadosh M’eilav”, loosely translated as “inherently holy”. This differs from all other Karbanos which become consecrated only after verbally declaring that animal should be Hekdesh.

Rashi, quoting the Mishna in Arachin, wonders why, if the Bechor is consecrated automatically, does the Pasuk tell us that “you must consecrate”. Why do we need to do anything if it is inherently holy? Furthermore, there is an explicit Pasuk in Parshas Bechokosai (Vayikra 27:26) that tells us that a person SHOULDN’T consecrate the first-born…what gives?

Rashi, quoting the Mishna in Arachin, answers according to the Rabbanan, who say that the Pasuk in Bechukosai which says that a person shouldn’t consecrate the animal means to tell us that we cannot consecrate it for something else. We are therefore prohibited to bring this animal as a sin-offering because it already has the status of a Bechor. However, our Pasuk which tells us to consecrate the animal is telling us that even though there is inherently holiness by virtue of the fact that the animal was born, nevertheless, we still have a Mitzvah to verbally consecrate the sacrifice like any other.

This is actually an entire Halachic sugya in Nedarim. The Gemara there discusses which types of utterances make a Neder into a valid one. The rule is that if someone says that they want to “make this apple assur to me like a Karbon Chatas”, that works, as one can use an utterance of something that needs a verbal declaration to make it assur. However, regarding something that doesn’t need a verbal declaration to make it assur, one couldn’t use that in an Neder utterance. Thus, if one says that they want to “make this apple assur to me like pig”, it is no good, as pig is assur to us even without verbal declaration. The question arises, what about Karbon Bechor? On one hand, we could say that it is like making a Neder with a Karbon Chatas, because, as our Pasuk tells us, even a Karbon Bechor needs verbal consecration. Or, on the other hand, perhaps it is like making a Neder with a pig, as the Karbon is assur to us as soon as it is born, even without verbal consecration, like a pig.

When we look at this idea, it is a bit bizarre. Why do we have do verbally consecrate the animal if it is inherently holy? Furthremore, by other Karbonos, if we don’t verbally consecrate them they are 100% permissible for us to eat; this is not the case by Bechor – even without our verbal declaration they are already Kadosh. The Sefer Yeraim and the Smag suggest that while it has inherent holiness, we still are obligated to show some sort of Chavivus/endearment to the Mitzvah.

The underlying message here is that anything that has Kedushah or is meaningful in life requires effort. Things that happen by themselves often have little value. This is evidenced by the fact that the Torah can’t handle us, in the case of Bechor, to be inactive participants. Rav Schachter points out a Meshech Chochmah which examines why, when the Shofar blew at the end of Matan Torah, could anyone ascend the mountain. He answers there that while Matan Torah was surely an awesome event, what made it awesome was our active partnership in accepting the Torah. It wasn’t simply the Hashem was giving us the Torah, but rather, we were receiving it. Once we had received it and were ready to be on our way, the mountain lost its awesomeness and anyone could ascend. Whether it’s the beginning of a new school year or just the beginning of a Yom Tov season, we should realize this lesson that whatever we wish to accomplish can only be attained through our active partnership in whatever it is that we’re doing.

Israel Day 15

2007-07-31T16:21:00.001-05:00

With Chevron tomorrow, we needed to wrap up a few things here in town, getting last minute gifts for people and getting a few more odds and ends. After a late start we hit Meah Shearim hard for some last minute seforim and other goodies. The urge to load up on random Seforim was great, but I was able to resist knowing that we may already be overweight on the way back. Of note were the particularly funny hats we saw in one store there...

After quite a few hours of bumping around here and there we made our way back for a few hours of relaxing around the apartment. We were invited for dinner to a friend from back home (and wife) who grew up with me in Frederick and is now learning in the Mir. I particularly appreciate the fact that, regardless of how frum he is or how much he learns, he will not turn his back on where he came from or the people that helped him get to where he is today. He always wants to know what is going on in Frederick and always inquires about the Rabbi. He's a good man. There was an amazing amount of food at dinner and some great company; this dinner was sort of last minute and was definitely one of the pleasant surprises on the trip. Afterwards we met up a couple and their children from Baltimore who we are friendly with and shmoozed with them before heading home. Flying solo to Chevron tomorrow as the wife has already been and wants to spend some time around here tomorrow, and then we're heading out early Thursday morning. Time flies... :(

Israel Day 14

2007-07-31T03:17:00.000-05:00

We wanted to get an early start to maximize the pool/beach time, so we arose pretty early and did what we needed to do to get to the pool at an early hour. Thankfully, the water was a bit cooler than the day before and offered relief from the 100-degree heat. We were able to get a good 4 hours in the office (I mean pool/beach) before needed to get ready to check out of our room.

PegLaz had smooth-talked the people at reception to push back our check-out time from 11am to 2pm, so we were able to maximize our UV intake. But, the bus wasn't coming until 3pm so we watched an amateurish fashion show taking place in the lobby. We finally got on the bus at 3 with perhaps the craziest bus driver in the world. I wouldn't drive a car like this man drove a bus...I swear he was SPEEDING UP around curves which were marked with signs saying "Dangerous Curve Ahead." But, he did save us 25 minutes, so who cares if he almost killed us all, right?

We caught a cab home with some filthy Arab cab driver who was listening to some Persian radio station. The song playing was perhaps the worst song I've ever heard; he told me she was wailing about the loss of her beloved. Oh yeah, and when I asked how long the song lasted, as it seemed to never end, he told me it was 1-our. If I didn't want to throw up after the bus ride, I surely did at this point.

After laying low for a few hours, PegLaz went out shopping with her sister, while I got together with a friend (yes, same friend) for a few beers at an Irish Pub in town. This bar was definitely the nicest I've seen in Israel and offered quite a nice selection of beers and the best selection of scotch I've seen in the Holy Land. I opted for 1/2 liters of Leffe Blonde and Guiness. We met up with PegLaz and sister for some Moshiko falael afterwards and caught a ride home. More Yerushalayim stuff tomorrow, then Chevron on Wednesday!

Parshas Eikev

2007-07-30T16:27:00.000-05:00

וְהָיָה עֵקֶב תִּשְׁמְעוּן, אֵת הַמִּשְׁפָּטִים הָאֵלֶּה, וּשְׁמַרְתֶּם וַעֲשִׂיתֶם, אתָם--וְשָׁמַר יְהוָה אֱלהֶיךָ לְךָ, אֶת-הַבְּרִית וְאֶת-הַחֶסֶד, אֲשֶׁר נִשְׁבַּע, לַאֲבתֶיךָ.

"In the future, as a consequence of your heeding these laws, and your guarding and fulfilling them; Ad-noy, your G-d, will guard for you the covenant and the kindliness that He swore to your forefathers." (Sefer Devarim, 7:12)

Rashi: "If, even the lesser commandments which a person treads on with his heels, you will heed, [then He will keep his promise to you."

I was perusing Manny's Seforim shop in Meah Shearim and I stumbled across this 2-volume set on Chumash called the "Areshes Sifaseinu" by R' Eliyahu Schlesinger, the Ashkenazic Chief Rabbi of Gilo. In it he has "mussary" vorts on the Parsha, similar to the Imrei Barch that I laud and quote so frequently. R' Schlesinger offers the following insight on these verses:

Rashi's comment explaining the word "Eikev" referring to the Hebrew word, "heel", is puzzling as it seems that Rash is admitting that there are certain Mitzvos that are "lesser" than others. Can someone of Rashi's stature really claim that this is the case? Certainly, this statement begs further explanation.

The Hebrew in the text of Rashi translates "lesser commandments" as "Mitzvos haKallos". However, there is another version of Rashi that leaves out only one letter of this phrase and reads "Mitzvos Kallos". As it fits in with the rest of the (similar) Hebrew text of Rashi, removing the "Hey" changes the word "Kallos" from modifying "Mitzvos" to modifying "Adam/person." (yes, you must forgive that Kallos is feminine and plural, while Adam is singular and masculine) Thus, according to this version of Rashi, it isn't the commandments that are "Kallos", but rather, certain people; and with this, we answer our original question about Rashi's statement about "lesser commandments." However, what is this version of Rashi referring to when it discusses a people who are "Kallos"?

R' Schlesinger gives a mashul which explains this mindset nicely: regarding driving a vehicle on Shabbos, everyone knows that it is forbidden, as it is an outright violation of the Sabbath. These people know that if they were to drive on Shabbos their actions wouldn't be in accordance with Torah Judaism and they could no longer consider themselves "frum". However, there are many people that, while they would never consider driving on Shabbos, aren't so careful about the subtleties of Hilchos Borer, regardless of the fact that each act is a violation of one of the 39 prohibited activities on Shabbos. But, despite this fact, many people fail to hold these two prohibitions at an equal level. For some it may be a lack of knowledge, but there is at least a subset of people who have the knowledge, but, for whatever reason, view these Halachos as "Mitvos Kallos."

This is exactly what Rashi is explaining when he refers to people who are Kallos - they have the aforementioned mindset. And, while that mindset is horrible, it only festers and worses over the generations. Children who grow up seeing their parents violate Halachos that they are learning in school are witnessing a type of Yiddishkeit where corners can be cut. Sure, this Jew would never drive on Shabbos, but as more and more generations grow up with this attitude, what was once black and white may (chas v'shalom) become gray. This reminds me of an argument I was in recently with a friend. He lives in a town where many people get together for a "Shabbos softball game." The Rabbi of the town, upon hearing about this, sent out an e-mail to the congregations informing them of all of the potential Shabbos prohibitions that one can violate by participating in such a game and urged that the game be cut from the Shabbos agendas of many. Many people viewed the Rabbis actions as silly; after all, who was going to listen to him? I asked my friend if the Rabbi would be right to send out the e-mail if he knew that his Shomer Shabbos congregants were driving on Shabbos, to which he answered in the affirmative. The point I tried to make to him was that just because in the eyes of some certain prohibitions are on a lower level than others doesn't mean that this was the case in the eyes of the Rabbis who codified Halacha as we know it.

Israel Day 13

2007-07-30T15:21:00.000-05:00

While I'm not always one that needs to experience new things, especially in Israel, to have a good time, most of what we've done so far are things that we did on our trip to Israel last time. However, we wanted to change things up a bit and go somewhere that neither of us had been in a while...the Dead Sea.

We got a late start to the day (a lot of late starts, huh?) since check-in wasn't until 3pm, and we caught a 1pm bus to Ein Bokek. With some of my boxing-out skills at their finest, I was able to secure us a couple of seats on the ride that would take over 2 hours, despite the fact that we were at the end of the line. I kind of felt bad for the people that had to stand the whole ride, but not bad enough to give up my seat. Anyway, the ride took entirely too long due to a lot of annoying stops along the way and people who take 30 years to get their luggage off from underneath the bus. Finally, a little after 3pm, we arrived. Now, we didn't have too much planned for this little overnight aside from relaxing at the pool and at the Dead Sea beach, so we got right to it.

Unfortunately, the pool water was very warm; a little too warm to find enjoyable, so we quickly made our way over the beach. I was expecting the water to be warm, but not the (literally) 95 degrees that the water was. It literally felt like getting into a hot tub...but there was something about the whole setting that made the beach much more bearable than the pool. The water, albeit hot, was very calm and I just laid on my back, at the mercy of the salty water, for a good while. We were able to catch a good 3-4 hours of sun before we had to call it a night. Too lazy to make the 3km trip to the mall, we opted to eat in at the hotel; one of these all-you-can-eat buffet things. Being that we hadn't really eaten lunch that day and, well, the fact that it was all-you-can-eat led to a large quantity of great food consumed by the both of us and neither of us being able to move from our chairs for about 30 minutes after finishing. After finally prying ourselves from the dinner table, we retreated to our room where we watched most of the IBL all-star game.

To end off the night we took a little walk on the beach before being overcome by the 90 degree weather, despite the fact that it was after 11pm. More on day 2 of our outing in the next post....

Israel Day 11/12

2007-07-29T03:53:00.000-05:00

Friday was a pretty busy day...after getting a late start, PegLaz decided to stay in to help her sister cook for Shabbos. I ventured out to do some shopping for some friends that were coming in to Israel too late to do any pre-Shabbos shopping. Nothing too out of the ordinary except for the funny "artwork" I saw on an electrical box in Emek Refaim. I shlepped the stuff over to their apartment in Maalot Dafna and spent some time in their well-air-conditioned apartment.

Upon coming home, I got a call from my friend who asked if I wanted to go to "Lifta", some sort of mineral spring just outside of Yerushalayim. Apparently many people go their for a pre-Shabbos dip. After a 10 minute hike down to the spring (don't ever let anyone tell you that Crocs are acceptable hiking shoes), we jumped in the spring, which was FREEZING, yet refreshing. All was well there except for the plethora of Yeshiva boys in their tighty-whiteys (sorry for the visual). From there, I got home just in time to shave and shower for the onset of Shabbos.

It's interesting how they work the beginning of Shabbos in shuls here. Light Bentching is 40 minutes before Shkiya (7:05 this past week), and this is when the women lit candles. Somehow, however, in Shul they still davened Mincha at 7:35. Maybe the men specifically aren't Mekabel Shabbos with their wives' lighting, or maybe it's not Tarte D'Sasrei as it appears to me. Interesting. Anyway, dinner was at our friends down the road (you probably think that since I keep referring to everyone as "friends", I have a lot of them - it's really the same 4 people ever time) and very nice. Again, the Jerusalem evening weather made for some nice walking on the way back. Shul the next morning was nice, followed by lunch here at my sister-in-law's. Some interesting discussion about the state of Israel and those who make Aliyah, etc. Again, our friends' daughter was the star of the show.

Learned, read, and slept in the afternoon. Mincha and Maariv; nothing too out of the ordinary there. After Shabbos we got a call to see if we wanted to go to the Old City, and considering we didn't have any other plans (and it's the Old City) we went. We met some friends there and took some nice pictures by the Kotel, but a minor misplacement of the camera left us taking pictures with someone else's camera (thus, no pictures yet). We hung around by the Kotel and in the Old City before opting to walk the 35-minute distance from the Old City to Maalot Dafna for some Melava Malka. Ate some (cheeseless) pizza, shmoozed, and finally called it a night around 1:30. Dead Sea today and tomorrow....will post about it when we get back.

Israel Day 10

2007-07-28T18:28:00.000-05:00

Day 10 wasn't too terribly exciting as we were pretty beat from the previous day in Tel Aviv. We got a late start to the day and decided to do some shopping in town for some gifts. Of note, we're super excited to give our nephew his Elmo kippa. Supposedly he's been wearing his father's kippa...if you know his father, you'd know that it's too big for the little guy. Anyway, aside from that, we were fairly unsuccessful in the gift-buying department.

From there, dinner was at Burgers Bar, something we had been craving since our arrival, but had to be delayed due to the 9 days. Anyway, Burgers Bar came through in the clutch for us once again, although the amount of oil on the "chips" was a bit nauseating. Ahh, it's vacation, who cares...

In the evening we went out with a good friend to shoot some pool. The mall in Talpiyot that we went to was pretty nasty, but surprisingly the pool was quite nice. After playing for about an hour or so, we went back to his placeand hung around with him and their adorable little daughter. Things were pretty calm until we busted out the bottle of scotch that I brought along with me. I managed to hold my own pretty well, but my buddy hadn't eaten anything since lunch, so he was our comedy for the evening. I have an incriminating video of him that I will keep as blackmail, being that I'm not quite mean enough to post it here on the blog...

All in all, we are having a fabulous time. The weather is a bit hot during the day, but the evenings make for absolutely gorgeous strolls. I'll report about Shabbos tomorrow...thanks for reading.

Parshas Vaeschanan

2007-07-27T04:16:00.000-05:00

אֶעְבְּרָה-נָּא, וְאֶרְאֶה אֶת-הָאָרֶץ הַטּוֹבָה, אֲשֶׁר, בְּעֵבֶר הַיַּרְדֵּן: הָהָר הַטּוֹב הַזֶּה, וְהַלְּבָנן.

"Please, allow me to cross over and see the good land that is across the Yardein, this good mountain and the Lebanon." (Sefer Devarim, 3:25)

Rabbi Simla’i expounded: Why did Moshe our teacher wish to enter Eretz Yisrael? Did he need to eat of its fruit or fill himself of its goodness? Rather, Moshe said: “Many mitzvot have been commanded to Israel which cannot be fulfilled but in Eretz Yisrael; I will enter in order to fulfill them all.” (Sotah 14a)

It is understood from R' Simla'i's statement that Moshe Rabbeinu didn't want to go into Eretz Yisrael to eat the fruit. This, however, is difficult to understand by virtue of the fact that in the Bracha Achrona that we eat after certain foods we praise Hashem for giving our forefathers the land so that we can "eat of its fruit and be filled of its goodness." How can we say that Moshe Rabbeinu didn't want to enter to eat the fruit, yet it something that we explicity praise Hashem for? Furthermore, the Bach comments that fruits from Israel have a certain level of Kedusha because they get nourishment from the holy land of Israel. Surely this is something that Moshe would've wanted to merit.

R' Menachem Ziemba answers in a fascinating way, by explaining that Moshe Rabbeinu was on such a level that he didn't need to eat. Of course, he did eat, but only so that he shouldn't appear too different from everyone else and the way they are by nature. Therefore, since he didn't need to eat he didn't have the urge to go in to taste the fruit. However, R' Ziemba concludes by saying that by everyone else who, of course, needed to eat, they did go in order to "eat of its fruit and be filled of its goodness." Thus, it makes sense that we, beings that need and enjoy food, praise Hashem for giving the land to our forefathers for the aforementioned reasons.

It's not hard to find things to complain about when talking about Israel. Yes, the government sucks. Yes, the people aren't always the friendliest. Yes, many people replace Yahadut with Zionism. I could go on and on. But, as everyone will probably agree, there's something about this place that there is to love and that brings me back, even when spending thousands of dollars isn't in our best financial interest. One can't help feeling something different when in Israel. For some, it's the Kotel. For some, it's Masada. However, we learn from this that it doesn't have to be a religious landmark or a beautiful view; it can be something as simple as eating the fruit of the land.

Israel Day 9

2007-07-26T03:37:00.000-05:00

Above is a video that I took at yesterday's baseball game in Tel Aviv.

Israel Day 9

Today was by far the busiest of our trip so far. One of my good friends plays in the Israeli Baseball League and we really wanted to come show him support and watch some good baseball, so the trip was originally cenetered around that. Being as the game we were to see was in Tel Aviv, we planned on doing a couple other things that we wanted to do in the area anyway.

We took a Sheirut to Tel Aviv in the morning, and since the game didn't start until 5pm, we had some time to kill in the morning/early afternoon. What better way to spend the time then going to the beach? Aside from the annoying Israeli teengaers, the beach was pretty nice and the water was warm. We thought we were going to last hours at the beach, but being 95 with not a cloud in the sky, we wilted a lot quicker than we expected. We walked around a little before heading over to the game, and we saw one of those games that you see in the arcade where you need to position the little claw in order to get a prize. Now, in most arcades the prize is usually some sort of stuffed animals - leave it to Israel to have packs of cigarettes in there with the toys (see picture)!

We made it to the field at Park haYarkon (Sportek; click here to see all of the pictures I took at the games) well before the 5pm first pitch was called for. It just so happened that they were playing a double header that day and we were able to catch the last couple innings of that game, with Netanya winning 7-3 and my friend getting intentionally walked. It was definitely an interesting atmosphere there; hearing Hebrew-speaking children running around; seeing the heart of downtown Tel Aviv in the surrounding area...all while watching the American pastime: baseball. Overall, the talent was very good: the defense was stellar, the hitting average, and the pitching very competitive. This was by far the highlight of the trip so far for me; watching the game that I grew up loving and continue to do so in the land that I have come to love over the years.

The second game was close most of the way, with the Tigers unable to capitalize on many scoring opportunities. However, Tel Aviv took advantage of some suspect defense, wild pitching, and a few big swings to bust the game open in the 6th to go on to win 12-1. I was able to see my friend play in both games, and he made a great catch in the 2nd game that the umpire called a non-catch (BOO!) and almost made an amazing diving grab in the 6th inning diving into the outfield fence. The ball was in his glove but the impact with the fence jarred it loose. To add injury to insult (pun intended), he had a gash on his cheek and required a few stitches on his lip due to the force of the impact. But, I spoke to him tonight and he's all taken care of and in good spirits. I was looking forward to him eating dinner with us at some friends of ours in Givat Shmuel, but being he had to go to the hospital, he was unable to join us.

Our friend met us at the game and drove us back to his place, which took forever due to crazy amounts of traffic which were exacerbated by the current strike going on in Israel. We finally arrived at their place and sat down to an amazing MEAT dinner, the first non-Shabbos meat meal since the start of the 9 days. It was great to see them and spend time with them and it seems like only yesterday that we spent Shabbos with them, even though it was a full year ago. After schmoozing for a while, it was time to wind this day down with a bus-ride back to Yerushalayim.

We finally got on a bus after waiting for about 30 minutes and PegLaz took a seat while I paid the driver. Of course, in the meantime, all of the seats filled up so I spent the bus ride sitting on the floor (see picture for my view of the bus). That wouldn't have been SO bad had it not been for the many-mile backup approaching Yerushalayim due to some construction work....Tel Aviv to Yerushalayim in about 90 minutes...yikes. After taking a cab home and settling in, we both realized that we were zonked and that we both got some serious sun burn. Tomorrow will be a much lighter day with some laundry and other errands to take care of...what a day.

Israel Day 7 / 8

2007-07-24T16:06:00.000-05:00

I'm sure many of you would spend your Tisha B'av differently if you were here in Israel, but, considering I generally fast horribly, mine was thoroughly uneventful. Overall, it wasn't too horrible, and I like to attribute this to the advice I was given last year to eat grapes before a fast. I've done this a couple of times and so far, so good. But, I still would've liked to have enough Koach to have been able to walk around the walls of the Old City, as I heard many do.

Went to a shul here in Katemone before coming back, doing a little reading, then learning Hilchos Tisha B'av with my brother-in-law for a couple of hours. Shul again this morning followed by a nice 4 hour nap that took me right until Chatzos. From then until the end of the fast was sleep, reading, sleep, reading...you get the idea. Again, I wish I had the power to do more with the day but if this is what the Rabbis want, this is what I'm gonna have to do. Oh well.

Break fast and the evening was uneventful...we have a long day ahead of us tomorrow. Tel Aviv beach in the morning/afternoon, followed by an IBL game in Tel Aviv in the evening, followed by dinner with a couple of friends in Givat Shmuel.

No pictures today...didn't think you'd want to see any pics of need-to-be-shaven, lethargic looking people. Should have some good ones tomorrow night.

Israel Day 6 / 7

2007-07-23T09:29:00.001-05:00

I was hesitant to give this poor person money, knowing that it may very well go towards more pool toys...

We were lucky enough to get a ride back from the Shomron, which sure beats taking the bus. The gentleman who drove us back made Aliyah some 15 years ago and was involved with MDA and Hatzoloh in addition to being involved with a political party...oh yeah, and 7 kids. Interesting guy...and a scotch drinker, too!

After unpacking our stuff and some R&R (hey, we're on vacation) we headed to Beitar for the afternoon to visit one of PegLaz's friends from high school who subsequently moved to Israel. Her husband is a Bostoner Chassid and wears the whole garb, yet is a very, very normal guy and we've always gotten along very well, despite obvious differences. They have 3 kids (pictured) who are very cute and who, to their parents dismay, speak English like a bunch of Israelis. We spent a couple of hours there catching up with all that had been going on since our previous visit last summer then headed back to Yerushalayim.

It just happened that the Beitar bus dropped us off at Malcha mall, so we walked around there for a while. They had a couple of small artist booths there which had some neat stuff....aside from that (and the half-naked women), it's a regular mall. I'm always amazed at the amount of Arabs that I see at the mall and on Ben Yehuda. Funny how they can come into our hood no problem, but if we were to try to go into a mall in Nablus I have a feeling we wouldn't be as successful. Dinner was at Tal Bagel and while it was good, we're anxiously awaiting the end of the 9 Days so we can at the many meat restaurants around. I hear that there's Burgers Bar at the IBL games, so maybe we'll hit that up Wednesday night.

Just ran some errands up and down Yaffo St. today, picking up presents, food for the fast, a Talis bag, etc. 90 degrees and not a cloud in the sky pretty much every day here, so my tan is in full-effect. Tisha B'av tonight, and I hear many people walk around the entire Old City, which, in theory, sounds like a great idea, yet in practice probably isn't so smart, considering I don't fast too well. Looking forward to shaving, that's for sure.

Israel Day 3

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Nothing too wild to report today. Finally woke up at a normal hour today, so at least that was good. PegLaz wanted to get the true Erev Shabbos shopping experience, so she went out with her sister, while I headed to the Kotel to learn a little and write a D'var Torah. Of course, just as I get to the Kotel they wouldn't let anyone in because of a Chafetz Chashud/suspicious object. Couldn't have been too suspicious, considering they let the hundreds of people by the Kotel continue on with their business...whatever...

After relaxing a bit in the apartment we went out to properly scan all of the fun stores in Emek Refaim, of which there are many. Of course, as pictured, my favorite store was the wine and liquor store. I hocked scotch and wine with the nice gentleman there...liquor is at least 4x more expensive in Israel than it is in America...yes...my entrepreneurial gears are winding in my head...Anyway, there are so many fun little shops here with cool and not-so-expensive stuff; we didn't get to see all of it last year as we were staying on the other side of the city.

Dinner tonight was at the apartment with the sister- and brother-in-law and it was good to sit around and shmooze with them. Afterwards, we took a nice, long, stroll around the neighborhood and as much as we tried to get lost, we always seemed to end up in the same place. That's all for today. Shabbos in Karnei Shomron (Nivei Aliza) with the Feiglin's....more on Motzei Shabbos.

Can someone please explain the humor in this please? Something got lost in translation....

Parshas Devarim

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יְהוָה אֱלהֵינוּ דִּבֶּר אֵלֵינוּ, בְּחרֵב לֵאמר: רַב-לָכֶם שֶׁבֶת, בָּהָר הַזֶּה. פְּנוּ וּסְעוּ לָכֶם, וּבאוּ הַר הָאֱמרִי וְאֶל-כָּל-שְׁכֵנָיו, בָּעֲרָבָה בָהָר וּבַשְּׁפֵלָה וּבַנֶּגֶב, וּבְחוֹף הַיָּם--אֶרֶץ הַכְּנַעֲנִי וְהַלְּבָנוֹן, עַד-הַנָּהָר הַגָּדֹל נְהַר-פְּרָת.

"Ad-noy, our G-d, addressed us at Choreiv, saying, "Enough of your living at this mountain! Turn and travel for yourselves and arrive at the Emorite hill [region] and at all its neighbors---on the plain, on the mountain, and in the lowland, and in the Negev, and on the seacoast; the land of the Canaanites and the Lebanon, up to the great river, the Euphrates River." (Devarim, 1:6-7)

Rashi (s.v. "Rav"): "According to its plain meaning [it refers to the extended length of time]; but there is an Aggadic interpretation: You have received much fame and reward as a result of your having dwelt on this mountain--- you constructed the Mishkan, the Menorah and [various other sacred] articles, you received the Torah, you appointed a Sanhedrin for yourselves, officers in charge of hundreds and officers of thousands."

Rashi, quoting the Medrash, tells us that Hashem was praising the Jewish people for all that they had accomplished at Har Sinai and its surroundings. They received the Torah, served in the Mishkan, etc, and they had, therefore, been at this place long enough. One would think that after Hashem explains all of the noteworthy, holy, things that the Jews accomplished during their tenure at Har Sinai, he would continue with Inyanim that would be befitting of such a holy nation. However, the following Pasuk explains that the Jews are to travel to Har haEmori, hardly a place befitting of such a holy nation.

Rav Aharon Baksht (1869-1941) explains, to answer this question, that one may have thought that it wasn't proper for such a holy nation to dwell amongst the other nations of the world. However, we see from the fact that this pasuk follows the one explaining the merits of Israel that this isn't the case; the Torah and the Jewish people are for every single person in every single place. The Jews weren't meant to live in solitude in the desert forever; rather, they were meant to share that which they had gained in their experiences at Har Sinai with the world around them.

Each of us excel at different things. We shouldn't think that because there are no or few others that excel at whatever it is that we should be reserved and hold back these attributes. Of course, one shouldn't be haughty either, but we learn from these verses that we are obligated to take those things that which we excel at and take them out into the world and use them to influence others.