tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20182651290947928152007-05-16T14:14:31.175-07:00Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comBlogger58125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-35675659648809311272007-05-16T13:50:00.000-07:002007-05-16T14:14:15.801-07:00

Good evening everyone, I just wanted to comment on some of the comments left by one of the readers. He or she mentioned that: "My father never spoke ill of my mother but he talked about money problems around us (not to us) sighed about bills, we in turn felt guilty about holidays. He always expressed how much he missed us, too much in fact, he always asked if we wanted to stay longer and we

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-40171126997345651422007-05-10T14:58:00.000-07:002007-05-10T15:03:43.001-07:00

Dear Readers, Tonight, I am going to share with you the comments of one of my readers. I would like to thank her or him for sending me her or his thoughts, and for her or his good wishes. She or he wrote the following: "Hello,I am not going through a divorce, I am married and have one child we struggle, work and build upon our relationship every day and while I would like to say it's great

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-43925014044455167372007-05-03T14:19:00.000-07:002007-05-08T18:33:05.924-07:00

Dear Loyal, and New Readers, Tonight, I will talk about in-laws and the problems they may cause. I understand that we all love our families, i.e. our mom, dad, brothers, sisters, etc...However, this does not mean that, when we get married, we should let them dictate to us how we should behave with our spouses. Unfortunately, it seems almost impossible to keep family members from interfering.

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-73427356793952767172007-05-02T16:56:00.000-07:002007-05-02T17:38:05.009-07:00

Good evening! Tonight, I am going to talk a little bit about kids and parenting or parental guidance. The key idea here is for divorced parents to raise their children to the best of their abilities without trying to interfere with the other parent's rearing skills. Sure, you may disagree with the other parent in terms of raising your children, which might be one of or the main reason for your

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-6463122385809197422007-04-30T15:30:00.000-07:002007-04-30T15:44:52.087-07:00

Dear Loyal Readers, A little more on that subject..... When the Law metes out justice, and hence, Child Support, it does not check how the money is spent and on whom! In other words, the parent, who is awarded Child Support, may use or misuse the money in any way that she or he pleases. Now, how fair is that? The idea behind Child Support is to ensure that the children are well taken care of,

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-91909174022106739372007-04-24T15:00:00.000-07:002007-04-24T15:27:14.183-07:00

Good evening! Last time, I mentioned that I would expound on the subject. Here is how Family Law operates, which, you will see, defies any logical thinking. It really makes you wonder who wrote these Family Laws? In essence, here is what happens when there is a divorce that involves minor children. The Law gives the Children, and Child Support to one parent, and leaves the other parent with

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-66481427428203375842007-04-18T15:39:00.000-07:002007-04-24T15:25:34.237-07:00

Dear Readers, More on the fairness of the Law..... The sad reality is that one of the parents, whether it is the mom or the dad, may try to use the Law to his or her advantage. If the Law were more equitable, such issues would not occur as often. During my divorce, I went to the library and read up on Family Law. I encountered a site that published statistics regarding divorce in all 50 States

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-42693679851248005352007-04-17T15:16:00.000-07:002007-04-24T15:26:19.363-07:00

Good evening everyone! Tonight, I am going to talk about a very sensitive topic: The Law! Is the Law or are the Laws fair to all parties involved in a divorce? This is a very difficult question to answer because it depends on the perspective of the parties involved. In other words, moms may feel a certain way about certain laws, whereas dads may feel differently about same. Let's take a look

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-37342903492130870702007-04-13T17:17:00.000-07:002007-04-13T18:31:51.978-07:00

Dear Loyal Readers, Life gets so hectic sometimes that I did not have the chance to write for the last few days, but here we go..... Another interesting, yet very sad, aspect of divorce is GREED! Unfortunately, many people are driven by pure greed as opposed to principles or scruples! In other words, some people are more interested in how much money they are going to get from a divorce than

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-22074109031925547392007-04-03T13:45:00.000-07:002007-04-03T14:32:55.013-07:00

Good evening! I have talked before about Child Custody and how important it is during and after a divorce. I was just reading an interesting article about Britney Spears and Kevin Federline. Apparently they have been fighting over legal and physical custody of their two sons. This comes as no surprise, again, as a child is the most important thing out of a marriage! Back in January, 2007, they

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-46176366841983649272007-03-29T15:20:00.000-07:002007-03-29T15:34:39.160-07:00

Good evening, Dr. Dreamer here: tonight, I am going to talk about post divorce. What really happens when the divorce is final? All of a sudden, you will find that your life is totally different from what you once knew! If you work, you will no longer come home to a full house. If you did not work during the marriage, you will no longer be waiting for your spouse to come home. Furthermore, you

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-51207813693152577742007-03-27T17:19:00.000-07:002007-03-27T17:48:24.094-07:00

Dear Loyal Readers, One of the issues that you may encounter after divorce is the repercussions of the parenting styles. I am currently having a big problem with one of kids in regards to school. My child's attitude is one of "so what?" when it comes to academics! Unfortunately, my child sees that my ex does not care about academics, and, therefore, thinks that this is OK! I know that this is

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-72654438187837420762007-03-26T14:44:00.000-07:002007-03-26T15:16:23.882-07:00

Hello everyone! Back to the impact of the in-laws on marriages, and divorces! One of the most important signs or flags to look for is rivalry between your in-laws and you. Sometimes it is initiated by one party or the other, or by a combination thereof. Usually this rivalry is negative in nature and fosters hard feelings which will, in turn, cause tension with the in-laws. This would add a lot

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-27062893716434271182007-03-21T15:21:00.000-07:002007-03-21T15:43:41.546-07:00

Dear Loyal Readers, I hope that everyone has had a good day! Here is a subject that is probably long overdue for me to discuss! The impact of "In-laws" is horrendous on a relationship, be it a boyfriend-girlfriend relationship or a marriage. If the In-laws are positive people, they may play a very nice role in bringing the couple together when they have problems or differences. On the other

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-24882088100550502112007-03-18T11:06:00.000-07:002007-03-19T09:26:07.990-07:00

Hello, Today, I am going to talk about a Single Dad! I know a Single Dad who works very hard all day, and after work, he works very hard taking care of his children. He is a very devoted Dad. After work, he picks up the kids from school. He helps them out with their homework. In fact, he is the type of Dad who spends the time to look at all the details pertaining to his children's homework.

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-19855082611671883652007-03-16T15:06:00.000-07:002007-03-16T15:50:38.519-07:00

Good evening! On the first part of "single mom", I talked a little about "A". Tonight, I am going to fill you in on some new developments. One of the major problems, when a relationship ends, occurs when there are minor children involved. As you know from part (1), "A" has a baby, and her ex boyfriend left her to go back to his former girlfriend. While this is sad enough in and of itself, her

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-16001228594454990022007-03-14T15:15:00.000-07:002007-03-14T15:21:17.173-07:00

The Friend Of the Court, FOC, is an entity that facilitates the handling of child-related issues and other issues, such as Child Custody, Parenting Time, Child Support, and Spousal Support, formerly Alimony. The Friend Of the Court does not exist in all states. The Friend Of the Court helps the Court with the above issues.

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-83164139394632638452007-03-13T15:07:00.000-07:002007-03-13T15:48:47.297-07:00

Dear Loyal readers, Tonight, I will expound on "things in common". The more things in common you have with your girlfriend/boyfriend, or your husband/wife, the better the relationship will be both short term and long term! In fact, the long-term relationship is the one which benefits the most from that. Again, the interests that people share help a relationship work even after so many years of

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-18132944490682171752007-03-12T14:53:00.000-07:002007-03-13T15:47:46.942-07:00

Good evening! Last time, I talked a little about "having things in common" and how important that is in a relationship whether it is while dating, or during a marriage. A couple of days ago, I remembered something interesting, which I thought I would share with you. First, I would like to mention that I do not have all the facts about what I am going to share with you. I remembered that Andre

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-74291775347006483262007-03-09T13:40:00.000-08:002007-03-09T14:19:57.481-08:00

Hello, Needless to say that this is one of the most important topics! During the difficult times of a divorce, you want to make sure to keep your focus on your kids. In essence, your kids should always come first. Try to shield the kids as much as you can. It is best if you can avoid arguing with your spouse in front of the kids, as this only hurts them. Talk to your children about the divorce

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-26697144944901890192007-03-08T14:45:00.000-08:002007-03-08T14:59:28.557-08:00

Dear Loyal Readers, Tonight, I am going to add to the dating, relationship, and marriage warnings. I remember that as a teenager, my friends and I used to like to chat about what we would like in a partner! Those were the fun days for sure! We were so young and so full of zest and hope……. It is interesting to see that one of the criteria that we set as teenagers was correct, and was more

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-40449046894406249062007-03-07T17:16:00.000-08:002007-03-07T17:39:39.313-08:00

Good evening everyone, I hope that you have had a good day/evening thus far! A little more on reality..... You realize that it' s reality when you are dragged to court over every detail. When you go to court, you see how much your ex has it in for you, unless, of course, it is for a legitimate reason. However, the latter is seldom the case! When you and your ex are at odds, and clash

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-62334541429666806562007-03-06T14:02:00.000-08:002007-03-06T14:20:08.879-08:00

Dear Loyal Readers, Tonight, I just want to talk a little about the "Reality". The Reality is when you realize how devious your ex spouse is!!!!! You wonder how you ever got together with that person in first place. It is sad and deplorable that our world is fraught (filled) with such people who have no scruples! Life does not have and should not be that difficult. It is rendered so difficult

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-82241832906136234022007-03-04T13:52:00.000-08:002007-03-04T14:29:07.630-08:00

Hi everybody, Today, I am going to talk about one of the most important topics: The Wedding! There are two steps to a Wedding: (A) the preparation that precedes the wedding, and (B) the wedding itself. Part (A) is really critical in determining some of the red flags. This is a period when people are somewhat under a certain amount of pressure in order to meet deadlines. Generally, people show

Dr. Dreamernoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2018265129094792815.post-57070309613998918782007-03-03T15:16:00.000-08:002007-03-04T14:32:59.072-08:00

Hello everyone, I hope that you are having a great weekend! Tonight, I am going to talk about nostalgia or yearning. We, as human beings, are bound to remember, at least from time to time, the good times or what I call "when things were fine"! One of the things that I noticed is that, during the divorce, my ex and I were viewing, and most importantly, feeling matters differently. First, I have

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