tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post2151867948780227610..comments2009-07-01T02:58:56.236-04:00WebMD Blogshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/05079273055818065505noreply@blogger.comBlogger13125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-79589387442249055202009-07-01T02:58:56.236-04:002009-07-01T02:58:56.236-04:00I happen to be a very rare individual. I am a bisexual hermaphrodite in a man&#39;s body. I choose to use the word hermaphrodite because I feel it is the word that best describes me. I came out as bisexual to my father then mother. They were for the longest time the only people who knew. Now I tell anyone who asks.<br /><br />I understand it can be hard to admit to oneself the truth about one&#39;s sexual preference. I also understand how hard it is to let others know. If you can&#39;t admit the truth to yourself, there is no way you will ever admit it to others.<br /><br />As far as the admission of your gender, that is a much more difficult thing to tell anyone as society places have demands on our gender identity. That identity is given to us without our consent or prior approval. Sexuality is much more our choice.<br /><br />Ultimately, I think it is important to accept the truth of who you really are. Living a lie is much harder than living as a minority.Sashanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-73642920626058077832008-12-14T01:02:00.000-05:002008-12-14T01:02:00.000-05:00I am a transgener female and I do want GRS/SRS. Is there anybody that knows of a psychotheapist in Indiana, either in Vermillion County, or Vigo County?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-15218158952246306422008-10-30T22:29:00.000-04:002008-10-30T22:29:00.000-04:00I am a gay guy trappped in a straight girl's body. I know that I want a sex change, I've known for years. I want to tell someone, but I'm young and people won't take me seriously. Does anyone have any advice?Call me Julliannoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-22657592045713308332008-10-15T01:14:00.000-04:002008-10-15T01:14:00.000-04:00anonymous:I'm somebody that wants a<BR/> Gender reassignment Surgery.I don't like bein male.I dress like a women and want to be a women.I need to how I can go about getting the change?Can you help wit any information .ThanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-20011742056772656452008-10-11T11:45:00.000-04:002008-10-11T11:45:00.000-04:00I'm a transgendered male. I have no desire to be with men. I guese i am a liesbian trapped in a mans body.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-37712049552122792922008-05-27T00:43:00.000-04:002008-05-27T00:43:00.000-04:00I was I could be (fixed)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-49427765728712949352008-05-27T00:31:00.000-04:002008-05-27T00:31:00.000-04:00Well I'm bi and its very hard because I love both men and women... mark. Can any one give me adviceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-87592392369578259242007-04-06T11:23:00.000-04:002007-04-06T11:23:00.000-04:00I feel sad because because I have not had sex in five years or even been held by a man in five years. I want to have sex with a man even if it is for just one night so that i can have some human contact.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-9041456361392737702007-04-01T06:40:00.000-04:002007-04-01T06:40:00.000-04:00It is interesting to note that you deal only with homosexuals, yet transgenders are not mentioned at all. From my experience, transgender people have as much a problem as homosexuals in coming out. I should also point out the transgender group also has one of the highest rates of suicide of any grouping because of so much negative reaction when they do. came outAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-43325559179481466732007-03-17T17:17:00.000-04:002007-03-17T17:17:00.000-04:00The first "anonymous" who suggested sex reassignment surgery is confusing homosexuality with being transgendered. They are two totally different things, and being transgendered is probably much more rare. Most lesbians are perfectly happy being women and would not want to be a man, and most gay men have no desire to lop off their penises. They just happen to be attracted to people who are similar to themselves rather than very different. I have a 27 year old lesbian daughter who is very feminine but has never been attracted to men. She feels they make fine friends, but cannot be soul mates for her. The last thing she needs is an new penis!!beccanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-70975925944710643712007-03-17T02:03:00.000-04:002007-03-17T02:03:00.000-04:00I was on the don't ask don't tell kind of thing with my parents...well my mom asked and I told her that I was a lesbian. She is an extremely religious person and told me she would never accept my alternative lifestyle. My sister on the other hand feels like she has failed me by not helping "fix" me. Which is absurd. I don't want to be fixed. As stated it takes a long time to understand your own sexuality before you can even begin to try and explain it to someone else. The best thing that happened was it made me and my girlfriend stronger and closer knowing that we had each other when no one else wanted to see us together. In the article it said that minorities have it hard and I am a witness to that. We live in a small town where everything is old fashioned and traditional. So my being gay was not ok. I think once you are accepting of your self and find out yourself then you can begin to identify who you are and whether you want to be happy or make others happy. That is the real choice.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-82901148470401395972007-03-08T22:18:00.000-05:002007-03-08T22:18:00.000-05:00I also have another question about this same issue. What is the best way to tell someone who you really are?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-19039763.post-41387462526750879592007-03-08T22:16:00.000-05:002007-03-08T22:16:00.000-05:00Would you recommend Gender Reassignment Surgery for some one like this?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com