tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1844790399648908015.post7291558464687610370..comments2008-11-22T13:26:48.885+08:00kythhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/01161143976750489810noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1844790399648908015.post-3667666069777176362008-11-20T18:22:00.000+08:002008-11-20T18:22:00.000+08:00Test my understanding of comments-owner-approvalAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1844790399648908015.post-67433305559381569242008-11-17T13:32:00.000+08:002008-11-17T13:32:00.000+08:00What's more,what's your point about comments-owner-approval?fluffyjayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18241757464513832976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1844790399648908015.post-51139659305056268052008-11-17T13:30:00.000+08:002008-11-17T13:30:00.000+08:00This is exactly the trigger which dragged me into this show from the very beginning!fluffyjayhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18241757464513832976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1844790399648908015.post-62128292095359561922008-11-17T00:24:00.000+08:002008-11-17T00:24:00.000+08:00I guess the 'point' thing is kind of related to isolation. If only you(and some 'smart' people, especially those who admire you or have sth in common with you) get the point, while others do not, you will feel a kind of superiority over the majority. This is in fact, in my humble opinion, a kind of resurrection of confidence, which you did not have. By differentiating people like you who got the point with those who cannot get the point, you are putting yourself in the position of judge and isolate the latter group. For example, on bbs you give some hints, when someone (esp. someone close to you) understand the sublte hints immediately and reply to you, you will think highly of him. However, if someone tried his best but still cannot understand what you are talking about (sometimes because you two are not close enough), you usually will not give this person high opinion. By such isolation, you can feel your confidence back. So this might be the essence of "zhuangbility", which also proves both "zhuangbility" and the "point" thing originate from hollowness of your mind and lack of confidence.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com