<?xml version='1.0' encoding='UTF-8'?><?xml-stylesheet href="http://www.blogger.com/styles/atom.css" type="text/css"?><feed xmlns='http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom' xmlns:openSearch='http://a9.com/-/spec/opensearchrss/1.0/' xmlns:georss='http://www.georss.org/georss'><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808</id><updated>2009-05-11T00:26:37.146-04:00</updated><title type='text'>teeny books</title><subtitle type='html'>a blog for the illiterate.</subtitle><link rel='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005#feed' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/posts/default'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/'/><link rel='next' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default?start-index=26&amp;max-results=25'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email></author><generator version='7.00' uri='http://www.blogger.com'>Blogger</generator><openSearch:totalResults>224</openSearch:totalResults><openSearch:startIndex>1</openSearch:startIndex><openSearch:itemsPerPage>25</openSearch:itemsPerPage><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-1294701113639993795</id><published>2008-05-06T21:37:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-05-06T21:48:23.793-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='goodbyes'/><title type='text'>blogger no more</title><content type='html'>Well, the time has come friends, to officially say goodbye to the blogger version of teenybooks and move onto &lt;a href="http://teenybooks.com/"&gt;teenybooks 2.0&lt;/a&gt;. I had originally planned to wait until the design was complete, but after playing with wordpress for a while I found myself quite addicted and haven't really been able to make the switch back. (we're getting it all worked out and it should be done in a week or so...)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Updated your rss reeders please: &lt;a href="http://www.teenybooks.com/feed/"&gt;http://www.teenybooks.com/feed/&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The archives will remain unchanged for as long as blogger lets me keep them up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Cheers!&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://teenybooks.com/"&gt;http://teenybooks.com&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;email me: marcia (at) teenybooks.com&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-1294701113639993795?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/1294701113639993795/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=1294701113639993795' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/1294701113639993795'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/1294701113639993795'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/05/blogger-no-more.html' title='blogger no more'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-2623026037741496403</id><published>2008-04-28T23:24:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-28T23:27:09.990-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writers'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='writing'/><title type='text'>The Night Owl</title><content type='html'>"I work at night. I don't just mean I write at night - I am writing this at 1.53am, as it happens - I mean I function at night. After sunset, I think as clearly as I ever will. I want to walk about, play the banjo and wear hats. I want to enjoy being alive in an uninterrupted and possibly creative way. Left to my own devices, I would always keep my office hours between 10pm and 4 or 5am. Sadly, the rest of the world fails to understand this and tends to telephone me most mornings. Traffic noise, hammering next door, unforgiving travel schedules, the necessity of meeting daytime people and purchasing food; they all conspire to drive me from my bed and disturb my natural order, so I spend my life jolting from one kind of jetlag to another."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2008/apr/27/5"&gt;A L Kennedy&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Read the rest.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-2623026037741496403?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/2623026037741496403/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=2623026037741496403' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/2623026037741496403'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/2623026037741496403'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/night-owl.html' title='The Night Owl'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-1171284137928989209</id><published>2008-04-26T15:33:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-26T15:41:15.458-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blogs'/><title type='text'>Learning to Love you More: old fave</title><content type='html'>I was hanging out yesterday with a friend in Prospect Park, discussing the joys of walking (how can something that I do so often that its easy to take for granted, bring me so much peace and joy its beyond me) when he told me about an art project he'd joined in on with &lt;a href="http://www.harrellfletcher.com/"&gt;Harell Fletcher&lt;/a&gt; called the "Long Walk Home" which basically consisted of gathering a group of people at Grand Central Station and walking each and every single person home. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I bring up this story because it reminded me of Harrell Fletcher and Miranda July's website: &lt;a href="http://www.learningtoloveyoumore.com/"&gt;Learning to Love You More&lt;/a&gt;, which as always been one of my favorite blog-project websites.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My favorite assignment &lt;a href="http://www.learningtoloveyoumore.com/reports/55/55.php"&gt;photograph a significant outfit&lt;/a&gt;. Click on the list of names on the right hand side to see each person's report.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-1171284137928989209?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/1171284137928989209/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=1171284137928989209' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/1171284137928989209'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/1171284137928989209'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/learning-to-love-you-more-old-fave.html' title='Learning to Love you More: old fave'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-3122097296214207277</id><published>2008-04-26T15:08:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-26T15:27:43.429-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='poetry'/><title type='text'>Misunderstandings</title><content type='html'>I woke up this morning a little bit before 5am and I was lying in bed thinking and thinking. So I got up and wrote a little bit and then blogged a bit. As I was looking for the post that referenced my resolution, I came across Auden's poem "&lt;a href="http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/01/more-loving-one-old-favorite.html"&gt;More Loving One&lt;/a&gt;."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It was a poem I'd first heard the stanzas of "If equal affection cannot be, / Let the more loving one be me" during high school on a show that I watched at the time. I wrote it down and searched for the complete poem. What I realized was that the meaning of the entire poem had been obscured from me by those few lines.  Being a person who always feels things deeply I was resigned to accepting the fate of that second stanza.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was reading it this morning and I kind of chuckled to myself as the rest of the poem revealed itself. Seeing it in its entirety. The end of the poem is like a small epiphany, Auden says "Were all stars to disappear or die, / I should learn to look at an empty sky / And feel its total dark sublime, / Though this might take me a little time." Which means that yeah while he discusses the inequality of feeling as having weight, that he'd rather love more than less, he also realizes that if the object of his strong affection were to leave or disappear that he'd learn to live with it and appreciate the sky (or life rather)for what it was without it eventually.  That everything would be just as awe inspiring without the things that we believe make them so important.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Revelations are beautiful that way, whether referring to the revelation at the end of the poem or realizing that you'd never really understood it until now.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-3122097296214207277?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/3122097296214207277/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=3122097296214207277' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/3122097296214207277'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/3122097296214207277'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/misunderstandings.html' title='Misunderstandings'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-8023814781769189352</id><published>2008-04-25T20:03:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-26T09:37:04.685-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blogs'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='blogging'/><title type='text'>Being Analog in a Digital World</title><content type='html'>Well folks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We've nearly reached the end of my blogger blogging era. I've been playing with the idea of drastically changing my blog since a little &lt;a href="http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2007/12/blogging-better.html"&gt;before the New Year&lt;/a&gt;.  So here it is, April and I'm excited to be nearly there, it had gotten to the point that everything about blogger's clunky back end design had begun to annoy me.  Posting photos was still a chore, the look of the actual blog was bad and I still didn't have my own domain name.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The change isn't quite complete, since I'm still playing with everything and figuring out the look (I keep talking about the mysterious banner at the top which will be created through my own cunning and genius...well not really...I've got lots of creative friends), but quite soon.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I will keep the archives here active as long as blogger will allow. It would be ashame to lose my virtual documentation of the past three years.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-8023814781769189352?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/8023814781769189352/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=8023814781769189352' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/8023814781769189352'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/8023814781769189352'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/being-analog-in-digital-world.html' title='Being Analog in a Digital World'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-3220284255037049431</id><published>2008-04-20T20:30:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-20T22:34:40.930-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='film'/><title type='text'>Before Sunrise, Before Sunset. Paris.</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Last night I dreamt that I was watching the same movie over and over again. Maybe it was everyday, but definitely repeatedly over the course of the dream (since in dreams time expands and contracts at will).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I couldn't remember the movie, but I woke up with the thought that it might have been Before Sunset.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Before Sunrise and Before Sunset are my two favorite movies ever in life, the latter weighed a great deal in my decision to go to Paris. I watched them almost exactly a year ago and the idea popped into my head to buy a ticket right then, to leave the next weekend if I could.  The idea of walking with someone and discussing everything through the streets of such a beautiful backdrop struck me as one thing I infinitely wanted to experience in my lifetime.  Even now, watching it again, I still have that small ache in my chest at the end. I still feel that same tug. (I watched them both again this afternoon to relieve myself of the funk that I woke up in...Definitely did  the trick)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The last ten minutes of that movie, sigh...if you haven't seen it, add it to you Netflix list. You'd have bought a ticket as well. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;object height="355" width="425"&gt;&lt;param name="movie" value="http://www.youtube.com/v/obuV1KrvEYo"&gt;&lt;param name="wmode" value="transparent"&gt;&lt;embed src="http://www.youtube.com/v/obuV1KrvEYo" type="application/x-shockwave-flash" wmode="transparent" height="355" width="425"&gt;&lt;/embed&gt;&lt;/object&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-3220284255037049431?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/3220284255037049431/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=3220284255037049431' title='4 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/3220284255037049431'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/3220284255037049431'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/before-sunrise-before-sunset-paris.html' title='Before Sunrise, Before Sunset. Paris.'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>4</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-8502713825251660070</id><published>2008-04-18T01:49:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-18T01:54:52.120-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>My First Guest Spot</title><content type='html'>Nope.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I haven't stopped writing my long Parisian post in case you're waiting and wondering where my usual morning updates are, they've just moved briefly to Wordbk for a small guest stint.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;a href="http://wordbk.com/2008/04/17/the-fool-on-the-hill/"&gt;Word.&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-8502713825251660070?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/8502713825251660070/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=8502713825251660070' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/8502713825251660070'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/8502713825251660070'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/my-first-guest-spot.html' title='My First Guest Spot'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-4020415021348300157</id><published>2008-04-16T08:11:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-16T08:44:06.464-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='books'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='bookstore'/><title type='text'>Shakespeare and Company</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JS_QZViFyWo/SAXx12JkGSI/AAAAAAAAAdo/LjMzZ1X00mo/s1600-h/DSC07298.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JS_QZViFyWo/SAXx12JkGSI/AAAAAAAAAdo/LjMzZ1X00mo/s400/DSC07298.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5189820052985354530" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If you're ever in Paris and happen to be as big of a fan of books as I am, visit the original &lt;a href="http://www.shakespeareco.org/"&gt;Shakespeare and Company&lt;/a&gt;,  opened by George Whitman:&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;           &lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;&lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;strong&gt;The Rag &amp;amp; Bone Shop of the Heart &lt;/strong&gt;&lt;/span&gt;               &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;When Frances Steloff was president of the American Booksellers Association she told me that my bookstore had drifted into being the sort of place that might have been designed by the world's greatest architects. I have let my imagination run wild with the result that a stranger walking the streets of Paris can believe he is entering just another of the bookstores along the left bank of the Seine but if he finds his way through a labyrinth of alcoves and cubbyholes and climbs a stairway leading to my private residence then he can linger there and enjoy reading the books in my library and looking at the pictures on the walls of my bedroom.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;                              &lt;p style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I may disappear leaving behind me no worldly possessions - just a few old socks and love letters, and my windows overlooking Notre-Dame for all of you to enjoy, and my little rag and bone shop of the heart whose motto is "Be not inhospitable to strangers lest they be angels in disguise". I may disappear leaving no forwarding address, but for all you know I may still be walking among you on my vagabond journey around the world. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;               &lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;- George Whitman&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt; &lt;/p&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-4020415021348300157?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/4020415021348300157/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=4020415021348300157' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/4020415021348300157'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/4020415021348300157'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/shakespeare-and-company.html' title='Shakespeare and Company'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_JS_QZViFyWo/SAXx12JkGSI/AAAAAAAAAdo/LjMzZ1X00mo/s72-c/DSC07298.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-4194015534388239121</id><published>2008-04-16T06:20:00.008-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-18T08:37:56.187-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='People'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='personal'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Hopelessly Rafael: A Brief Parisian Anecdote</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;It was on my third day of my Paris trip, after my brief day trip to Versailles, that I met Rafael. I had not, up until that point, actively made any effort to seek company. I would even go so far as to say that I had been avoiding interacting too much &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;with anyone &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;from the hostels and was appreciating the self explorative tone my adventures had taken. But there he was...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I was standing outside smoking a cigarette when he approached me, and though I can't remember the details of the beginning of our conversation,  I do remember that he began to ask me questions as openly and inquisitively as a child, that I found it hard not to answer or to keep my little self imposed wall up. I was trying to maintain a quiet silence in my head which is sometimes good for writing.  I found it nearly impossible.  His smile was king, green eyes unwavering and he had a small patch of grey hair just behind his left ear (I've always found something completely endearing about prematurely grey hair, maybe I find it instantaneously warm and disarming through stereotypes of my own creation).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He loved the american language, be it in book,  film or music.  He seemed to love the words "nice" and "good." Often telling me, "Oh, Marcia, you are verrry nice" or "KFC was verrry good."  He was from São Paulo, Brazil and we discussed in length the corruption and the danger of growing up there (it was verrrry bad). We also discussed crowded trains, families, awkwardness in front of cameras, the Parisian weather, the importance of soccer, writing, art and whatever else that crossed our minds. I introduced him to a few phrases in English and tried to help whenever he was struggling with explaining a certain concept.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We stood outside smoking cigarettes and talking till it began to rain harder (there seemed to be a little drizzle on almost all my Parisian days) and he invited me in for a drink. He told me about the night before (Verry Bad).  Rafael had just arrived at the hostel, early before he could check into his room and needed to use the pay phone at the corner to let his parents know he'd arrived safely.  On his way outside he ran into a girl who also happened to be from Brazil, they struck up a brief conversation in Portugese, both excited to find  someone that reminded them of home.  Much later when he returned to the hostel he ran into the same girl again, this time drinking with a few other people.  She invited him over for a drink. Drinking turned to dancing. (She was verrrry attractive). She seemed to like Rafael a lot. So he, being 'nice' and 'good' Rafael, told her he had a girlfriend at home that he loved.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He looked at me his eyes all big and earnest, "but she didn't care. It was not very nice. You could tell that she had too many glasses of wine. I tried to leave and she kept saying stay, stay, stay. She buys me a glass of wine. I said no and she buys it anyway.  Just like that. Then, do you know what she did?"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had a guess.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"She kissed me!!"&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He briefly explained the logistics between a brazilian kiss and an american kiss using hand motions (though I'm fairly sure a drunk kiss is a drunk kiss)  which seemed to involve her nearly sucking his entire face. He pushed her away, maybe a minute too late, but he felt incredibly guilty. He had to tell his girlfriend because they told each other everything but he kept telling me how horribly bad he felt and how he'd left. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;(I sat there maybe wanting to tell him that he shouldn't tell his girlfriend, that it was just a slip in judgement or that it was she who  kissed and maybe therefor not such a big deal. He'd stopped it anyway. But I said nothing. ) &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;The girl was upset that he pushed her away and Rafael felt bad about that too.  He reiterated how attractive the girl had been. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Then he said, "The Man in me wanted to go upstairs and lie  with her, but the...um..."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"Boyfriend," I supplied.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;"No...the Human in me. The Human in me that loves another Human knows that my love is much bigger than that desire."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At that moment, I fell a little in love with Rafael myself. I saw in him something great and desirable which I'd felt once and had been lost along the way.   He was a hopeless romantic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;He believed that he could tell his girlfriend what had happened and because they loved one another it could be worked out. That any problem could be resolved. That love was powerful. Maybe I'd &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;even &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;stopped completely believing that men like that could exist.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Still there is a part of me of course, that thinks, that thought, he's young and that the world will teach him a thing or two.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;But I really hope it doesn't.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-4194015534388239121?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/4194015534388239121/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=4194015534388239121' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/4194015534388239121'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/4194015534388239121'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/hopelessly-rafael-brief-parisian.html' title='Hopelessly Rafael: A Brief Parisian Anecdote'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-6563651937386393628</id><published>2008-04-15T10:34:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-15T11:41:00.290-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Career Choice: Fail</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;For the record, writers get no love. And if you're thinking maybe I'll take up a career in writing, don't move to france.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;France of all places. Home to the historically intellectually astute. Philosophers. Poets. Novelists.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Do you know what the french are interested in?&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Photographers.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;If photographers and writers were in a battle for drumming up career interest  in Paris, writer's get the smack down (old school wrestling style) each and every time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(of course I hardly consider the opinion of a waitress and a cook to matter &lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;that&lt;/span&gt; much anyway)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;(yes thats my bitterness talking)&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-6563651937386393628?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/6563651937386393628/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=6563651937386393628' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6563651937386393628'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6563651937386393628'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/career-choice-fail.html' title='Career Choice: Fail'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-3105865110291938805</id><published>2008-04-15T05:32:00.001-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-15T05:37:12.392-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>My One Purchase</title><content type='html'>&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JS_QZViFyWo/SAR3KWJkGRI/AAAAAAAAAdg/McYntIwPevU/s1600-h/DSC07331.JPG"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JS_QZViFyWo/SAR3KWJkGRI/AAAAAAAAAdg/McYntIwPevU/s400/DSC07331.JPG" alt="" id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5189403690265745682" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I am extremely pleased with it. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-3105865110291938805?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/3105865110291938805/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=3105865110291938805' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/3105865110291938805'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/3105865110291938805'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/my-one-purchase.html' title='My One Purchase'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JS_QZViFyWo/SAR3KWJkGRI/AAAAAAAAAdg/McYntIwPevU/s72-c/DSC07331.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-160404579056503838</id><published>2008-04-15T04:22:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-15T09:07:58.487-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>The Eiffel at Night* (to expand a bit on bk's post)</title><content type='html'>&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://wordbk.com/extras/last-5.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="margin: 0px auto 10px; display: block; text-align: center; cursor: pointer; width: 400px;" src="http://wordbk.com/extras/last-5.jpg" alt="" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;*He was &lt;a href="http://wordbk.com/2008/04/14/eiffel-at-night/"&gt;so excited &lt;/a&gt;about all the beautiful ladies, I thought I'd give a more in depth and marica-esque account of the night.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Sunday night was my last night in Paris.  It rained all day but the sky was still bright and things took on this different light that I'm sure only happens in Paris. The sky is still incredibly blinding on clouding days in Paris, everything seems a bit whiter than one would expect. I found myself squinting even on the rainy days.  We decided to walk to St. Germain for dinner and hang out in a part of the Latin Quarter we hadn't explored (or he rather, I realized once we got there that it is where I had wandered the sunday prior and  had my brief  epistolary affair with the older gentleman over espresso and lunch.)&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;After wandering over Pont Neuf from the apartment, we settled inside Cafe Jade on &lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style=";font-size:85%;" &gt;10, Rue Buci&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;, a very hip and modern little restaurant/cafe/bar, though I don't think it made the superfuture guide. The walls were adorned with the names of famous artists from all over the world in bold colors. The crowd seemed our age, gorgeous in a very Parisian way...and yes the women were absolutely beautiful. They were all stylishly dressed, everything about them had that flair and simplistic style that we'd expected to find right upon entering France simply everywhere. It did dominate a bit of our conversation as every woman that walked into the room seemed a bit more alluring than the one prior. And at least to my and bk's probably ignorant standard of Parisianesque, they fit the bill completely.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;The rest of our conversation was the sort of conversation that Paris breeds. At times heavy, at times wordly, at times thoughtful, at times philosophical and at times light and airy.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Diner was delicious. I had the duck, which was delicious  and which if I close my eyes I can almost still taste. Bk had the rumpsteak I believe...I must say it makes me happy, the number of restaurants that serve fries with everything.  We had two carafes of wine. The clock struck 10:45. I nearly turned into a pumpkin. My one goal for my last night in Paris was to see the tower sparkling at night.  We had to run/walk back to Pont  Neuf, which is where bk had suggested seeing the tower, as opposed to the foot of the tower. I am exceedingly glad that I agreed.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This was the magic I'd been waiting for it, that one moment to cap off my trip and make me completely sad I had to leave and return somewhere that could never be quiet enchanting or charming as this (though ny has its charms).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Standing at the northern most alcove of Pont Neuf, with the water of the Seine River dark green and swirling beneath me. The rattling of the rain against my big yellow umbrella muffling out the sounds of the city. The traffic at my back, the Norte Dame at my back, to my right and my left the dazzling Paris city lights and just like that she began to sparkle, her great big spotlight twirling in the clouds. Like a stationary firework, that never dies out. And I'd hate to be repetitive but it was incredibly magical.  Everything was exactly staged like I might have been the starring lead in a my own little Parisian adventure movie. The entire city seemed to breathe and pulse and be there just for me.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I think I left a piece of myself there in that little alcove of the bridge or maybe I gave up something that I'd been holding onto.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I had a dream about it tonight, seeing the Eiffel Tower from the bridge, the entire moment, right down to my soggy tote bag seemed to recreate itself in my head.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I wish that I could have the same dream every night for a very long time.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;font-size:85%;" &gt;&lt;span style="font-style: italic;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-160404579056503838?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/160404579056503838/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=160404579056503838' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/160404579056503838'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/160404579056503838'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/eiffel-at-night-to-expand-bit-on-bks.html' title='The Eiffel at Night* (to expand a bit on bk&apos;s post)'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-6373186074351900197</id><published>2008-04-13T03:52:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-13T04:33:44.378-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Blazey and Sonya in Paris</title><content type='html'>Two or three days ago, over a glass of wine while we lounged around the apartment (maybe there wasn't wine but it seems fitting) bk turned to me with a devilish smile and said 'do you think think the courtyard by the big building is a good place to meet someone?'*&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I looked up from my book and shrugged. 'Sounds good to me.' paused for a beat. 'Wait who are we meeting?'&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;bk just replied 'someone I know.'&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;And this began my two day inquisition. No question was too big or too small. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'who are they?' someone i know&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'what are their names' george and jordan&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'where do you know them from' ohio&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'how long have you know them' five years maybe&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'are they designers' one is&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'are they tall or short' they're not tall&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'black or white' white&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'are they like you or blazey?' um....like me&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'why are they in paris' they came to party&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;'where are they staying' i'm not sure&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Somehow the story of george and jordan began to take a life of  its own, the gay couple from ohio, that I was reassured would thoroughly enjoy meeting. The first day we waited for them at the Centre Pompidou, I kept looking for the stylishly dressed gay couple (bk said they were like him).  They ended up not making it and we got coffee and went shopping instead.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The second day we were scheduled to meet them at four pm at Notre Dame. After going to Shakespeare and co (another blog post all together), we walked along the Seine till we reached a short bridge that connected Paris' left bank to the Ile de la Cite. I tried to not ask any more questions. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Right as we walked into the small courtyard I saw a curly head in the distance. 'Oh my god, that guy looks just like Blazey from behind. Look at his hair, look at the way he walks. That's so weird...wait....standing with the brown haired girl that looks...sorta like sonya...these people are like their doppelgangers...bk you have to follow them and take a picture."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It was absolutely hilarious. I was so convinced that they couldn't possibly be in Paris that we followed them for a whole five minutes without it ever dawning on me that it might be them and even as Blazey turned and his face came into view my first thought was 'wow, Blazey came to paris without telling bk, friendship-fail' I had been told that he was surprising her with a weekend trip to San Francisco.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It was a great evening in Paris...not so much of a bad way to end my two weeks. Its a little weird seeing them in the Cafes and against the backdrop of all the Parisian buildings, a little weird and a lot of fun.  &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Brooklyn storms Paris. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;These guys are the best at surprises. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;*(&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://www.centrepompidou.fr/Pompidou/Accueil.nsf/tunnel?OpenForm" style="font-weight: bold; color: rgb(51, 102, 204); "&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;Centre Pompidou&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span"  style="font-size:small;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt; is very close to our place).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-6373186074351900197?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/6373186074351900197/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=6373186074351900197' title='2 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6373186074351900197'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6373186074351900197'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/blazey-and-sonya-in-paris.html' title='Blazey and Sonya in Paris'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>2</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-7930464340145180490</id><published>2008-04-11T14:33:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-11T15:13:14.021-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Bk Takes Me Shopping.</title><content type='html'>One of the highlights of having bk join me for my Paris adventures (convincing him didn't take much arm twisting) was all the cool kid stores we'd go to along the way. We've sort of got this perfect mixture of new and old going on. Yesterday I took him on my walking tour of Montmartre and the Sacré Cœur, through old charming Paris, to the place where Amelie was filmed, Today we went to all the hip stores in Paris. Artoyz (a big little toy store with all of the &lt;a href="http://flickr.com/photos/bking/2366963604/"&gt;little&lt;/a&gt; &lt;a href="http://flickr.com/photos/bking/2335263167/"&gt;figures&lt;/a&gt; that bk and his friends collect) and Kiliwatch (a big expensively priced but cool vintage store)...There were a bunch of others. Even I got into the swing of things, spending money.  I'm consistently amazed at the amount of work that goes into designing stores. We walked into one and there was a narrow spiral concrete staircase that led to a little cavern underneath, fashioned after a cave with arched walls of brown concrete bricks.  Everyone in most of the stores were really nice (another kick in the face of the french rudeness myth) and I think that most of the bored attitude you encountered in any of them would be akin to any high end retail store.&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Another thing that I love about Paris...walking through the streets (nearly running at times to keep up with his longer legs) are the things you run into along the way. We passed the Gallerie Vivienne, which is one of the great passages in Paris...most of the roof is made up of these ancient skylights. Slightly brown and yellowish. You walk through a hall with shops on both sides until you reach a big dome, with the same skylight/greenhouse effect and a big light fixture hanging down that reminded me of a cross between a candelabra and a chandelier. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Somewhere in the midst of this we stopped to eat at a small cafe (my food was cooked this time) while it rained and was sunny at the same time.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-7930464340145180490?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/7930464340145180490/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=7930464340145180490' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/7930464340145180490'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/7930464340145180490'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/bk-takes-me-shopping.html' title='Bk Takes Me Shopping.'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-5840000646545106378</id><published>2008-04-11T14:24:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-11T15:43:42.584-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>The Eiffel Tower, the dreamer and me.</title><content type='html'>The couples made it more beautiful. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I know its a cliche, but lest we forget, I am a girl and I do have a great big heart.  Seeing these two couples standing in front of the Eiffel Tower, one young, one older about twenty feet apart from one another standing  on the great big lawn/garden. They were both embraced, the younger couple just staring out across the at Paris, taking everything in, the older couple alternately kissing and looking up at the tower, whispering to one another in that secret language that two people in love share. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It was the first time I felt completely overwhelmed by the romantic nature of the city of lights. It made me both a little hopeful and a little sad in equal measure.  Like bk said: "Its universally understood that you can't go to Paris without thinking about love, wishing for love or being in love."&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;At the Eiffel Tower is the moment when it gets the best of you. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-5840000646545106378?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/5840000646545106378/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=5840000646545106378' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/5840000646545106378'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/5840000646545106378'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/eiffel-tower.html' title='The Eiffel Tower, the dreamer and me.'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-8896465079912704283</id><published>2008-04-10T20:20:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-11T06:28:41.404-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Notre Dame</title><content type='html'>I don't want to lose track of my days...&lt;div&gt;I think its easier with the time spent talking verbally about how things go and how life seems and the nature of things (because Paris breeds that or I breed that or a mixture of the two).&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Being alone its so much easier to tell your verbal story to someone. The world. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Two days ago we went to the Notre Dame.  Which is much larger and more majestic than it is in any photograph you've ever seen.   I'm always struck when I stand beneath something with that much history by the passage of time, the number of people who have stood in that very spot and thought the exact things that I thought. The people who spent their entire lives building and perfecting every inch. The people who went through great pains to restore it after parts were destroyed. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;A note about the woman begging from &lt;a href="http://flickr.com/photos/bking/2402357523/"&gt;bk's photo&lt;/a&gt;. The whole situation was a little intense. She followed us across the courtyard in front of the Notre Dame, asking for money because of the photograph. I can't say I was nonplussed by the whole thing. He seemed a little less phased.  I think I'm not sure I agree with his whole idea of not paying someone who is begging, especially considering that its the least you can do if you're going to snap their photograph and exploit their lifestyle for your art. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;There are lots of impoverished Romany people in Paris. (what we call and probably offensively gypsies). They're outside of every major tourist attraction. The first thing they say is "Do you speak English?" though I believe its the only english they speak, once you say yes (and I think for the first day bk kept saying yes) they'll show you a hand written note. I have not, since I've been here seen anyone give them money. You'll also find a few women, like the one in the photograph, sitting or kneeling (sometimes on Metro stairwells) saying nothing, heads bowed and holding a cup.  There is something about it that I find slightly unsettling. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-8896465079912704283?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/8896465079912704283/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=8896465079912704283' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/8896465079912704283'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/8896465079912704283'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/notre-dame.html' title='Notre Dame'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-6348172777594552008</id><published>2008-04-09T04:50:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-10T06:00:43.121-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='food'/><title type='text'>Last Nights Dinner (And 3 bottles of Wine later...)</title><content type='html'>&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2230/2400011107_69e3420c28.jpg"&gt;&lt;img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 320px;" src="http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2230/2400011107_69e3420c28.jpg" border="0" alt="" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;div style="text-align: center;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;photo courtesy of &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;a href="http://wordbk.com/"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-size: small;"&gt;&lt;span class="Apple-style-span" style="font-style: italic;"&gt;jaybeekay&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Last night, being the daring traveller that I am, I decided to try steak tartare. I think that because of the name, I expected raw steak, raw steak which seemed not so bad in the scheme of things, when considering how much I eat steak rare to the point that its only brown on the outside. Besides, I'm gutsy. I'll try anything once. When in Rome?&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I was not expecting what I got.&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Steak Tartare is raw ground beef with an egg on top, for those not in the know, served with capers, onions and parsley and sliced potatoes on the side. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I did eat it, most of it. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It wasn't so bad, if the texture didn't get to you. The capers gave it most of the flavor and they serve it with worcestershire sauce (i googled the spelling nic). Also the large quantities of wine consumed before (one bottle), during (one bottle) and after (one bottle) helped. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;I can still taste the capers. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;Maybe I should be a little less daring. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-6348172777594552008?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/6348172777594552008/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=6348172777594552008' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6348172777594552008'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6348172777594552008'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/last-nights-dinner-and-3-bottles-of.html' title='Last Nights Dinner (And 3 bottles of Wine later...)'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-8671039375201280360</id><published>2008-04-09T04:33:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-09T04:50:48.224-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Apartment Living</title><content type='html'>Monday was uneventful. I decided not to wear myself down with traipsing all around the city. Bk was coming Tuesday and I didn't want to feel rundown and tired by the time he arrived. I did check out and fall in love with the beautiful apartment in Le Marais. On a street lined with galleries and cute little shops, behind a large, tall green door (it was so parisian and interesting looking that I thought for a long while that it couldn't possibly be the place), Past two courtyards, up four flights of wooden stairs that slope and sag. Is the most charming little attic apartment.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The apartment thing is nice, it feels homey. There are wooden beams across the roof. Lots of windows, one overlooking a small terrace, that I believe we have access to, and the courtyard.z The other out across to the other buildings.  A tiled floor in the living room and kitchen, with small spanish rugs.  Two or Three big wooden amours.  A real bed (its been a week, hostel mattresses  are like cardboard) all with white linens...there is something quite charming about that. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;This morning bk made breakfast (croissants, eggs, cheese, juice).&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;It feels almost like living here. &lt;span class="Apple-tab-span" style="white-space:pre"&gt; &lt;/span&gt;Watch out. I might run away. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-8671039375201280360?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/8671039375201280360/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=8671039375201280360' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/8671039375201280360'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/8671039375201280360'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/apartment-living.html' title='Apartment Living'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-4423746353032967943</id><published>2008-04-09T03:49:00.005-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-09T04:33:29.531-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Sunday Night, Paris Snow.</title><content type='html'>Sunday Night found me at dinner at a wonderful restaurant in Le Marais with the Cali Boys. A girl from the hostel, Brianna tagged along as well. &lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;The best french onion soup I've ever tasted (a bit on the salty side but I like that sort of thing).  Chicken Supreme--cooked in riesling with fabulous oniony chivey mashed potatoes. I wish I had taken a picture because they really were fabulous.  We exchanged information, finally. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt; Afterwards I attempted to go out but with a Metro that stops running at 1am and everything being closed on Sunday Nights it was mostly a failed attempt on my part. I'm not sure whether or not they ever made it out, at 12:30 I ran to catch the train and said my final goodbyes to all of them. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;What really made the evening for all of us was the snow. It snowed in Paris in April. I've never seen anything more enchanting or magical than all the statuesque 16th and 17th century architecture with snow flakes falling all around it. I wanted the weather to be warm while I was in town. I wanted there to be lots of sunshine. But it felt like a small gift from Paris to me. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-4423746353032967943?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/4423746353032967943/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=4423746353032967943' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/4423746353032967943'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/4423746353032967943'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/sunday-night-paris-snow.html' title='Sunday Night, Paris Snow.'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-3024796305137228982</id><published>2008-04-08T03:39:00.004-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-08T03:52:42.349-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Missing Post and Photos</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Just for the record, I'm not slacking on the posting.&lt;/span&gt; (or only posting photographs of guys from California).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;At Oops Hostel the internet is free but the connection is slow and gives out (they only allow you to use it in 30-60 min and it gives no warning when they sign you out) so I end up losing emails, blogpost and get cut off in the middle of uploading photographs.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There was a great photo taken from the coffee shop where Alexander and I shared an espresso on Sunday which overlooked the Pantheon. There was a photo of the biggest and most beautiful dog I'd ever seen, tied to a gate surrounding a huge fountain. The sign that said "beer goggles, the cheap alternative to plastic surgery."&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;There are also a couple of post that I've written in my head that will hve to wait as well till later.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-3024796305137228982?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/3024796305137228982/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=3024796305137228982' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/3024796305137228982'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/3024796305137228982'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/missing-post-and-photos.html' title='Missing Post and Photos'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-2608132709874968443</id><published>2008-04-06T09:20:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-06T09:36:18.028-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>The Parisian Afternoon</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;This afternoon was very nice and relaxing. All of my plans usually are in flux for most of the day so I never made it to the Museum. I started walking north from my hostel and ended up at Rue de Muffetard (sp?) where there is an outdoor market quite by accident. It was one of the places and things I wanted to do while in Paris, just to see and experience. I continued walking north (hoping to make it to the Seine) bu stooped to get chinese food (because its inexpensive).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When I stopped in an older french gentleman upon realizing my difficulty ordering offered assistance and asked that I sit and eat with him. Me being me, said sure why not? Talk to more french locals get to know a bit about the culture.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Afterwards he invited me to a café to sit on a terrace and enjoy the sun light. We drank espresso talked about french poetry and literature. Talked about life. Talked about American culture and linguistics. He explained to me the importance of French Appertifs which is loosely translated into appetizers but is a very important french way of life. Its the way, he said, that he french get together and talk about life and enjoy one another's company and it can go on for hours, you eat or you don't eat, but its really about communing with another person. Enjoying company.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Then we walked to the river (it was nice to have someone point out the architecture and the nuances of the city along the way) where we sat on a very narrow staircase (his secret of course) that led straight down into the water.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I suppose for now that's it. I really would like to head to the room and take a (hopefully) short nap. Maybe when I wake up I'll call some people to see what their dinner or evening plans are...&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Till later. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-2608132709874968443?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/2608132709874968443/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=2608132709874968443' title='1 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/2608132709874968443'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/2608132709874968443'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/parisian-afernoon.html' title='The Parisian Afternoon'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>1</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-6358904506564529044</id><published>2008-04-06T05:21:00.006-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-06T05:56:16.783-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>A Few Random and Un-ordered Notes</title><content type='html'>&lt;ul&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Blogging after a bottle wine, a beer and a cocktail is a lot like emailing after a bottle of wine, a beer and a cocktail. Except of course that everyone can see it. You wake up the next morning and think...wait...did I just say that. Why yes, M, yes you did. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;a href="http://flickr.com/search/?q=oops+hostel+paris"&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Cool design hostels&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt; attract cool looking people. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I'm still quite exhausted (I haven't really gotten that rest yet).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Headed to the Musee D'Orsay today most likely.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Most people recommend going to the same places in Paris...Musee D'Orsay, Montmartre, Versaille, so far they're all right. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Free internet is a gift from Bob. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I did not change my hostel plans (that seemed like a much better idea last night, than this morning and was contingent on where I would end up Monday Night...which is looking like the apartment!!).&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Hostels say they're in a great location...thats usually not true.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Moving your luggage over and over again makes you realize what you could have left at home...which was probably a lot. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Don't buy things that don't fit your bags.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Hostel free breakast is always a baguette and a croissant and maybe with cereal, coffee and orange juice.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I'm getting excited at the idea of having consistant company. Trips alone are fun...I'd like to travel alone alot more, but it'll be nice to have someone around to motivate me to get out and do things again since my energy is lagging. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Everything I brought is wrinkled which means I'm only wearing a few things anyway. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I'm less surprised by the amount of time people spend chilling at their hostel than I was when I arrived.&lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;li&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I'm having a hard time keeping track of what day it is. Is it Saturday? Sunday? the 5th? &lt;/span&gt;&lt;/li&gt;&lt;/ul&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-6358904506564529044?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/6358904506564529044/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=6358904506564529044' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6358904506564529044'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6358904506564529044'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/few-random-notes.html' title='A Few Random and Un-ordered Notes'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-6638349658338178420</id><published>2008-04-05T19:54:00.003-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-06T05:21:34.170-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Last Night-Today</title><content type='html'>&lt;em&gt;*Edit &lt;/em&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This morning.&lt;br /&gt;I woke up.&lt;br /&gt;I looked around.&lt;br /&gt;Room full of guys still.&lt;br /&gt;And remembered I had no Credit Card....still....right.&lt;br /&gt;Sucktastic.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Majority of my day (11:30am-4:30pm) was spent on the phone with the bank trying to get an emergency bank card or cash. Finally they sent me cash and I had to literally dash to the Western Union to get a replacement. I'd love to recap last night but I think I'll save some stories to tell when I see people.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Once I got the cash I decided to make that trip to &lt;a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/22823662@N03/2358393280/in/photostream/"&gt;Chez Hanna&lt;/a&gt; on 54 Rue des Rosiers in the 4th arrondissement (Marias). I'd read about it on &lt;a href="http://www.voiceofacity.com/paris/?p=985"&gt;Voice of a City&lt;/a&gt;. Plus I seriously wanted to take a stroll around the 4th and check out what all the fuss was about. First, the falafel was seriously delicious and came with all sort of goodies (eggplant on top was great). Second, the 4th arr is seriously where everyone beautiful and young and paris seem to be. I'd been looking for the stylish french women (outside the champs where its mostly tourist anyway) and finally found them there. Dressed to the nines in the latest and greatest, the girls of Le Marias would give new yorkers a run for their money. The styling is similar but very different in a way I find hard to put into words. Maybe its less the outfits and more the personality or a mixture of the two intersecting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I walked past a bar, considering as always to stop by and have a drink, and who would happen to call my name but Timothy, one of the now infamous CA boys. He'd been stopping into to have a drink while the rest of the guys made a trip up to the Eiffel tower. So we sat for a beer during happy hour and then went to dinner at Takami (sp?) on Rue De Temple, where I had a sushi and skewers of meat and cheese, it was a very weird and very delightful take on the kebab.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Following that we headed to the most scandalous club I've ever been to. I did meet lots of people from Germany, Poland. Paris is a lot like NY in that everyone is from somewhere else or visiting.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Jeff, Mick, Josh and Mick all met up afterwards and thats when I said au revoir. Too much party the night before, it was around 12am and I didn't want the subways to stop running. Leaving me stranded with no way to get to my very far hostel. We rode the subway to République (it was the moment of saying goodbye to someone four of five times, only to realize they're going the same was as you).&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Tomorrow I switch hostels.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I am considering, much to Tim's encouragement, changing to their hostel (they switched this morning) instead of the very fashionable Oops (which is actually not too far away). Their's is much cheaper and I figure as long as I'm having fun why not let the good times roll.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Plus I'm ready for a little company after a week of near solitude.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;When does bk arrive again?&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-6638349658338178420?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/6638349658338178420/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=6638349658338178420' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6638349658338178420'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/6638349658338178420'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/last-night-today.html' title='Last Night-Today'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-2678215503328580660</id><published>2008-04-05T19:35:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-05T19:53:27.580-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>The (self proclaimed) Best Falafel in the World</title><content type='html'>&lt;a href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JS_QZViFyWo/R_gOCcCsz2I/AAAAAAAAAdA/fHzwfIllGLo/s1600-h/DSC07148.JPG"&gt;&lt;img id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5185910405967171426" style="DISPLAY: block; MARGIN: 0px auto 10px; CURSOR: hand; TEXT-ALIGN: center" alt="" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JS_QZViFyWo/R_gOCcCsz2I/AAAAAAAAAdA/fHzwfIllGLo/s400/DSC07148.JPG" border="0" /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;That was my sole objective for the day. I read about Chez Hanna on Voice of the City, a blog written by people from Paris for people visiting Paris. A sort of personalized Not for Tourist guide. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt;This falafel marks the moment when my day turned around. &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div align="center"&gt; &lt;/div&gt;&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-2678215503328580660?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/2678215503328580660/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=2678215503328580660' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/2678215503328580660'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/2678215503328580660'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/self-proclaimed-best-falafel-in-world.html' title='The (self proclaimed) Best Falafel in the World'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><media:thumbnail xmlns:media='http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/' url='http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_JS_QZViFyWo/R_gOCcCsz2I/AAAAAAAAAdA/fHzwfIllGLo/s72-c/DSC07148.JPG' height='72' width='72'/><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry><entry><id>tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17389808.post-5498213397478108722</id><published>2008-04-05T06:24:00.002-04:00</published><updated>2008-04-05T06:30:33.760-04:00</updated><category scheme='http://www.blogger.com/atom/ns#' term='Paris'/><title type='text'>Last Nights Party</title><content type='html'>&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;Um......&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;It did involve Absinthe. But when in Rome I suppose, do as the californians do. &lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;&lt;/span&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;span style="font-size:85%;"&gt;I was exhausted from too much travel so I went to take a nap and woke up to six fairly attractive guys from California who invited me out to a disco for a little dancing in Paris.&lt;/span&gt; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Lets just say that I've got quite a few stories to last me a life time from last night. The guys were great though and I'm glad to have met them, they invited me out again tonight, but I think I'll sleep instead.&lt;div class="blogger-post-footer"&gt;&lt;img width='1' height='1' src='https://blogger.googleusercontent.com/tracker/17389808-5498213397478108722?l=teenybooks.blogspot.com'/&gt;&lt;/div&gt;</content><link rel='replies' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/feeds/5498213397478108722/comments/default' title='Post Comments'/><link rel='replies' type='text/html' href='https://www.blogger.com/comment.g?blogID=17389808&amp;postID=5498213397478108722' title='0 Comments'/><link rel='edit' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/5498213397478108722'/><link rel='self' type='application/atom+xml' href='http://www.blogger.com/feeds/17389808/posts/default/5498213397478108722'/><link rel='alternate' type='text/html' href='http://teenybooks.blogspot.com/2008/04/last-nights-party.html' title='Last Nights Party'/><author><name>mh</name><email>noreply@blogger.com</email><gd:extendedProperty xmlns:gd='http://schemas.google.com/g/2005' name='OpenSocialUserId' value='08341589007687716422'/></author><thr:total xmlns:thr='http://purl.org/syndication/thread/1.0'>0</thr:total></entry></feed>