tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-152533442009-11-27T18:12:50.403+05:30Dedicated to the Victimised Indian Families, Who are falsely threatened & Blackmailed by the Indian Daughters-In-Law & her family members, and those Victimised families who are already falsely charged under the Section 498A. Its all about False charges of Dowry Law, Domestic Violence, Alimony, Marriage and Divorce. NOTE: All articles are my personal copyright. They may be republished if the source is acknowledged and a link provided to this site. This is not an Anti-Women Blog. Read Disclaimer.Jinesh Zaverihttp://www.blogger.com/profile/04650028929874162311noreply@blogger.comBlogger912625tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15253344.post-54273921324268078972007-08-19T23:05:00.000+05:302007-08-19T23:29:55.421+05:30

This 15th Aug I wished to all my women acquaintances “Happy Independence day and Self Dependent Life” all of them ex-feminists, after understanding my view points agree to this, that ‘yes’ being dependent is not Independence or right. Rather Interdependence is the key in a relationship. But if that is far from existence then yes the second option is independence and definitely not dependence. And

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While I was busy with my months closing at the office, I started getting sms’s from all my SIF brothers about Arjun Singh and his family slapped with a 498a. After a day, a livid Swarup Dada sends me a personal SMS for being quite on the whole issue. Well, I generally take time to react, especially if it is an individual’s involvement. And I was thinking about so many things revolving around,

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My last year's Fathers day article ideas, never got published on this blog. They are still in my mind. I was fighting another set of false charges of spamming other blogs with my article Abla to Ghost. And Ghost who blogggs took over. .But one year later some things have changed and some haven’t. The struggle has got some recognition among society. The mindsets of people and media have changed

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Kehti thi nikalo maa baap ko ghar se,Nahi to bhejdungi tum sab ko Jail,Lagadungi Dhara char sau atthannve A (498a),Dowry case hoga, Jisme nahin milta bail,Ya phir is ghar mein kar do khadi deewar,Nahi to DV Act lagaungi,Pit-Ta hua pati kahelvaungi,jo dahej mein Mangta tha Car.Budhey maa baap hain tere,Man nahi hota shaant,Is chotey se badey flat mein,Milta nahin mujhe ekaant.Ke saaree pehenna to

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While My Defination of Indian LAW** (** Indian Lady Always Wins) still largely prevails in the lower courts but Supreme Court is giving sensible unbiased judgments (but still the damage is already done in all the cases). Even some High Court Judgments of Justice J D Kapoor and Justice Dhingra are worth an applause.Case of Appasaheb was worth giving a 2nd look, which is never done if the accused

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She would never File a False DV or a 498a or 406 or 307 etc or demand Alimony. :D.In Lighter Vein: Here it is: How to have a Safe Womens Day, Everyday. :D.A tribute to the loosely drafted Gender biased Indian Laws. .But Seriously...Happy Womens Day to ALL of you. Jinesh Zaveri..This ad is picked up from one of the email forwards that I have got. And Just correlated to the burning problem of

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Anything hard-earned and drained out of the pocket is amounted to losses, such chronic state is fatal. The British did that to Indians and Gandhiji fought back by boycotting.Well I write this as I feel really upset, when my brothers call me up and tell about their state of mind on a day before hearing of interim maintenance or a regular one. I feel "Wives get interim maintenance and Indian

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I am sharing a very disillusioning event that I witnessed in the court rooms. It tells that these places are basically apt for murder type case hearings but not for arguably civil procedures, such places in long run are waste of resources, thus discounting the seriousness of its purpose and operations.It was a day of mild shower in Mumbai, Shravans father, a senior citizen had his eyes wet too.

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My Parents were discussing today, that they will now use HLL products after a one month ban in my house. Because on 27th Nov 2006 after meeting with HLL team, I had decided to throw all the HLL products from my house. And my mom and dad already were taking a stock of what all things were to be thrown out, reminiscing how Dadaji and Baa during pre-independence period did. My meeting with the HLL

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This post is dedicated to the Dear Parents and family members of SIF..There are two anniversaries to encounter, one to mourn(498a) and other to celebrate (9224335577).Exactly one year ago, 1st Mumbai helpline was launched, Dedicated to the parents as a x-mas gift. This was the day when 498a witnessed its 23rd year of un-amended existence and 22nd anniversary. One year later 498a is coupled with

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FIASCO: FALSE STATISTICS OF DOMESTIC VIOLENCE13 November 2006, Washington Times Publishes an article that brings more ignominy, adding insult to the injury of Indian husbands. It misinterpreted that 70% of Indian women were subject to Domestic Violence and marital rape. I was unaware of this SIF alert mail as my internet phone lines were dead since a week.Rick B, a radio host of CBC-1, Vancouver,

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"Domestic Violence Act" One week and already the arrests have started to take place. Again the misuse is surfacing as feared. While the real victim women may use this to her relief but the surpanakha would not miss out on this one.The Fear: 498a is a law elaborated in 2 paragraphs and the loopholes generated with the same are being misused and encashed with integrated conviction rate as mere 2%.

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23 years later…While the government is pretending sleep on the misuse of 498a, it is turning on a deaf year to the pleads of the future of the country the earning male (because legally the women is dependent) further after the share in the parental property the girl gets a few more rights that makes her a super power gender in reality and still is legally an abla.I personally would welcome any

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23 rd September 2006, Nasik, Seminar for awareness of the Vulnerability of an innocent family to the misuse of 498a was arranged by the victimised and affected Dahanuka family. With Mr Subhas Kedia's Active Participation and A Joint Effort by Save Indian Family (Mumbai) and Purushhakk Saurakshan Samiti. .The Media received the cause with an Overwhelming note. Below are some excerpts from Sakal

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I was myopic like every one of us in the past. Till I realized how vulnerable an innocent can be to a lie of a perceived abla. I am still against Dowry like I was. But my argument is enhanced further and so is my view.Just imagine if selling cocaine or brown sugar was not a crime but possessing and consuming was, then the solution would be so imperfect and imbalanced. So is this problem of Dowry.

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It is 3rd samvatsari (of Paryushan) since we mutually parted. I could not wait for this day to get over to wish you, Coz since we parted, I have been guessing regarding your where abouts, I hope you are fine and reading this...My Dear "Once-more-than-a-Friend",I break all my karmic chords with you for good,I would not be happy to see you in trouble,I would not be troubled to see you happy,I

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Dear All,.On 23 July 2005, I hopelessly vented my frustration with my first mail on Sita Surpanakha in SIF. Swarup liked my mail and this idea and he gave an unfathomable mileage. Satya suggested that I should blog this. And since then I got timely tips from Gorky, and along with others maximum of moral support from Bharti till date. And the support of other brothers is indescribable.Exactly

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Then And Now…A tale of a Middle class Indian marriage (based on true facts)IJai was quite excited, as finally he was about to meet Abha with whom he was chatting for sooo long. They came across each other on a matrimonial website some 9 months ago. He was particularly interested in this girl as she was from a very poor family and was looking for a future as a housewife (she was working because of

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From Abla to Ghost was my 34th article. And that is misinterpreted by someone who has correctly understood, but wanted a wrong message to go out. Now that person is definitely posing as Abla in society and is scared of being called as ghost in future and hence is promoting the wrong message of this article and blog elsewhere, by just spamming it in the comment box of other blogs. Who is that

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Bismillah-e-rehman-e-rahim-As-salaam-valekum.Well I have been interacting on Islam with 'Naushad' a very close colleague of mine who happens to be a Muslim but looks at other religions with some unexpected tolerance. He condemns the triple talaq in sleep and under the influence of liquor. He looks forward to convert a non muslim to a muslim. And he displays extreme patience and acceptance of

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Dearest Mummy,I was born when you were 36, your late child :-). And my marriage had made me your late child otherwise, almost dead (chuckle). I know how I have survived. Rather you know how we did. And since I was born quite late after bade bhaiya’s arrival I felt that I have missed real good time with you as compared to him and will always feel.In bhajans to Amba mata Bhaktraj Shri Amichand

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Ahhh!!! Look at that. .No!!! I know you would say those are the latest Stress Bursting Toys Branded as “rattle snake sound eggs”. (Based on the principle of Magnetism when thrown up in the air with some mutual distance opposite poles would attract each other producing a sound and the nearest similar pole would also repel thus causing the sound of rattling. If you catch it they come stuck together

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Some days back I had attended one engagement party of my very close Maharashtrian colleague. I claim the privilege to convert this feminist to a humanist. I was confronted by her initially with the same concept of your-side-of-the-story but time healed things.She was suffering from the mob psychology that prevails on a budding lady who has never seen the other gender from a different angle who

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Monday, on my way back home I was as usual humming “Tutta tutta ek parinda aise tutta ke phir Judd na paya, Loota loota kisne usko aise loota ki phir udd na paaya.” and…I saw a tree opposite Churchgate station and this was unusual as I was daily passing through that street. My visual memory was rendered to see the tree that was rich with greenness. But that day it was chopped for no good reason,

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I am a Gujju (often pronounced as Good Jew and may be that is why Hitler Spared me :-D) But, I am quite influenced by my Maharashtrian Neighbors and Collegues who have been God like during my depressing times. In Past 10 days, I have been at my lowest in eight months ever since I have been blogging. And it was getting too boring being down, so I decided to laugh it out somewhat.I am representing

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