Two + Two = FOURever Family

Two Years Ago Today...

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...we left for China. Here is what we wrote on our travel site once we landed in Beijing. (We plan to update that site this week, for our two year family birthday! The update is LONG overdue!)

This is in the kitchen at the crack of dawn after no sleep! We were READY to go!

Thursday, November 15, 2007

Well, we're here (Beijing). I still cannot believe this is happening!!

We did not sleep Tuesday night and left our house Wednesday morning at 4:00 am to go to the airport. It is now approximately 10:45 am Indiana time Thursday (11:45 PM Thursday in Beijing). We arrived at our hotel about 45 minutes ago. It is a very nice place. It has a huge bathroom with an awesome shower. The main room has a big flat panel TV with TV stations that speak English!! It is late here so not much is open, but there is a "Power House" across the street (probably not associated with my favorite Power House Restaurant back home).

We had a good trip. Almost 30 hours in airports and on airplanes, and it got old real quick. We met some neat people in Minneapolis, including another adoptive family (from another adoption agency) adopting a 10 month old. We may see her and her family again in Guangzhou at the hotel. We met some missionaries going to the Philippines for three years and a nice older couple just traveling places they have never been. They are touring Asia via a cruise.

We have much more to share, but with no sleep for two days now (except for come cat naps on the plane) is really getting to us. But, we just wanted to let you know we were here!! Tomorrow we'll be doing some touring so you'll want to stay tuned!!!

At the time of this writing, we only have 2 full days left before we meet the girls! GOD IS GOOD!

You can check out our travel site for additional pictures too...At this point, the anticipation is building!

Admiration

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Today is Veteran's Day. The day my students are donning red, white, and blue. The day banks are closed and mail doesn't run. But, oh, so much more.

Photo compliments of Google Images

Today we had a Veteran's Day convocation at school. I have to say, it was the best ceremony/convocation we have ever had. There was a Color Guard that presented the flags, did a flag folding ceremony, and explained the importance of the flag. The history of Taps was explained and played by a high school student. Two Veteran's spoke, and many more were honored.

The students were amazing. So respectful. So proud.

I cried. Looking at the varying ages of Veterans, and some still active, made my heart swell. When the flags entered the gymnasium and the soldiers saluted, tears flowed. Such brave men and women. So proud of them.

Now is my opportunity to thank many blogger friends for supporting their sons, daughters, husbands, wives, and family while they serve. The sacrifce you make will never go unnoticed by me. Thank you.

And to those who serve. Words cannot express the gratitude I have for you. Thank you so very much for your willigness, your bravery, your honor, and your service.

And personally, I want to say thank you to my nephew Chris Price. He is serving in our Army. He left a loving wife and adorable baby boy to train. Thank you, Chris! I LOVE YOU and I am SO proud of you!

I also want to thank Paul Zettel. He is one of our best friends in the world. He is active in the Navy and has had many tours out on ship. Thank you, Paul, for your service. And thank you Christy for holding down the fort so well while he was gone. (Thanks to the whole Zettel family! All three men serving in the Navy!)

Find a Veteran today, and thank them!

Memorial Box Monday--Barbie KitchenTable

2009-11-09T12:39:00.000-05:00

Reread the title. Huh? Barbie Kitchen Table? Yep, you read that right.

This week, I'll add a Barbie sized kitchen table. Why, you ask? Let me fill you in.

Growing up, I was spoiled. I am the baby of our family. I have two older sisters and and older brother. My mom had me later in life (YES, I was a accident, but that's ok, I'm still her favorite! HA! We'll see if that evokes some comments from the family!). So being the baby, with no older siblings in the house, I got to go with my mom everywhere she went. Time alone with her. It was wonderful!

We often found ourselves at my aunt Connie's house. Let me give you some background on my mom and her sister. They are both loud, loving, laughing women. They are NOT afraid to tell you their opinion (so THAT's where I get it!). They would (and still will) listerally give you the shirts right off their backs if you would need them. Neither hold on to material possessions and are of the mindset that if they have it, and you want it or think it would look better in your home, take it!

I love my aunt's laugh too. It's infectious. I love nothing more than to try and get a giggle out of her. It's just something that makes my heart warm.

Well, when we'd go over to my aunt's, my cousin Tiffany was often there. She is older than me (but only by months) and way wiser than me. Where I was spoiled, she had to work for what she had. She is so much more self-diciplined than I am. She taught me a lot about life and about being independent. She was so brave (she'd climb under the park tunnels) while I was a wimp (I'd blame the white shirt I was wearing for not climbing through them). And we look as different as night and day. She has dark hair and features, and is thin! I'm blonde with fair features, and a chubb-o!

But this is where the kitchen table comes into play. I'm not even sure if Tiffany would remember this or not, but there were many times when we were together at Aunt Connie's and we would sit under the kitchen table. We would sit there while my mom and aunt (her grandma and aunt) would sit at the table drinking coffee and solving the problems of the universe. We would take our sodas or toys under that table and sit for hours. We got shooed from there a time or two, but mostly we were free to just be there. Nestled securely under the women we most admired and loved.

When we were under that table, all was right with the world. We were untouchable. The problems (jobs, family issues, etc.) that were discussed above the table never reached our safe world below. We just knew we were safe.

Recently, my aunt had a scare. A heart issue came up and we held our breath while we prayed to God to be merciful. He was.

While in the hospital, I called my aunt to check on her. She was in good spirits and laughed and laughed with me on the phone. But, it was during this call something more important transpired. I was able to talk to Aunt Connie about God. She told me she had been doing some serious communication with Him. She said though things aren't always perfect, she does have a personal relationship with Him!

WHOO HOOO! I know I'm an emotional/hormonal wreck, but when she said those words, I wanted to shout and cry all at the same time! I now know, without a doubt, I will see my aunt in Heaven. (Though, trust me, Heaven is NOT ready for her yet!)

Therefore, I'm putting in a little Barbie kitchen table. For it was under that table, I felt loved, safe, and cared for. It was under that table where I learned about life. And it was under that table my love grew for my aunt and cousin.

I know this is an extremely personal entry. And I never asked permission from mom, Tiffany, or Aunt Connie. But, friends, I wanted to post this to remind you to NOT waste opportunities. I was a nervous wreck talking to her, because I wanted to broach the subject. But I didn't need to be. God opened up the door!

And because of this heart issue and latest hospital stay, sweet Abby has been asking about and praying for Aunt Connie often! She is so loved!!!

What did you put in YOUR box this week? Not sure what a Memorial Box Monday post is? CLICK HERE!

GIVEAWAY TIME!

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Everyone needs a midweek pick-me-up, so tonight we did the giveaway!

We reviewed and are giving away a chalkboard placemat compliments of Paper-Source! You can find our review HERE.

The girls were fresh from the bath, and excited to help with the giveaway!

I think it's hysterical that they're both making the same face in this picture...but I'm not sure why!?!? Laney got to hold the bag and Abby drew the name out!

And the winner is.........

Congratulations, Brandi! The placemat is already boxed and ready to ship! I emailed you (found your email on your blog---gorgeous daughter by the way!) and just need your address!

This was fun! We'll try to do it again! Paper-Source was so kind to send us this. Maybe in the future we'll review one of the products you all loved!

Have a great week!!!

All Saints Day / Halloween Wrap Up

2009-11-01T21:34:00.000-05:00

Greetings! Here are a few pics from All Saints Day at preschool and Halloween. The drawing for the chalkboard (per previous posts) will be mid-week. Enjoy the pictures!!!

WOAH, Wednesday---First Preschool Pictures

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ABBY

LANEY

I know we're biased, but Oh. My. Word. They are TOO cute. We want to eat them up! (And stop them from growing up!)

A Chalkboard Giveaway!

2009-10-21T21:29:00.002-04:00

Life! It's nuts! But you know that, so I won't go into more detail about why I've been MIA. On to the good stuff!

A giveaway!

Abby, Laney, and I have had the fun opportunity to play with and review a dinnertime wonder! From the moment the box arrived, the girls were giddy to see what new treasure had come!

We received a chalkboard placemat from a very neat paper project company called Paper-source!

Included in the set was one chalkboard placemat, four pieces of colorful chalk, wooden chalk holder, and a recycled felt eraser.

Once I unwrapped the chalkboard placemat, I'll admit, I was a little disappointed it wasn't flexible or thinner. It appeared to be just a chalkboard. But once I put it on the table for the girls to enjoy while I cooked, I appreciated it's sturdiness! If it were as flexible as I had imagined, it wouldn't have stood up to the drawing, erasing, and movement.

OUR THOUGHTS:

The girls were thrilled to be using the chalkboard while sitting at their little table. This provided a much needed alternative to paper/pencil or coloring that we use to pass the time while I'm cooking. It settled them down and gave me a chance to focus.

We were also impressed with the fast shipping! This is key for excited little girls!

It was just the right size for their little table, and provided an opportunity to share. Which they did! Readily! At one point, one of them drew a line down the middle to establish how far the other one could draw (or erase!) on the board.

They practiced their letters, drew flowers, and people figures and had great fun! Obviously, for our dinner table, we would need two, but I think it would a worthwhile purchase.

The girls thought the chalk holder (for one piece of chalk) was pretty neat. It kept the chalk from rolling off of the table onto the floor. They changed their color choice quite often because it was fun to prop theirs up on the holder.

OUR WISH:

One of our only wishes is that the felt eraser was of a better quality. We were thrilled it was made of recycled materials, but it was thin and left a thick haze on the board. To truly clean it off, we had to use a paper towel. This is common with other chalkboards, but it annoyed us all.

THE LOWDOWN:

Size--14 3/4" x 18 1/2". This was perfect for their little play table, but for our dinner table we would obviously need two.

Cost--$15.95

THE GOOD STUFF:

We want to share the joy! We have a brand new, boxed-up chalkboard placemat from Paper-Source ready to ship to YOU! What a great Christmas gift this would make!

There are no strings attached! Oh wait, yes there are. Here's the deal:

1. You HAVE to leave a comment! If it's an anonymous comment, please leave an email address where I can notify you of your win.

2. If you want a SECOND entry into the drawing, go to the Paper-Source website (it's great!) and tell me about another product you like, or would use!

3. The drawing will be held on Halloween! October 31, 2009 we will draw a winner and ship the fun gift out on Monday!

Check out the Paper-Source site. They have some fun craft kits and stationery to meet all your needs!

Good Luck!

For the next two days...

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please pray.

CLICK HERE.

Memorial Box Monday-with hours to spare!

2009-10-12T20:47:00.001-04:00

Ok, so Linny challenged us again to leave a story for her...and I did. But thought I'd finish it here. Here's a recap:

This week's item for my memorial box is a plastic apple. When I finished my student teaching at a school I LOVED (funny though, our rivals while growing up) I had no idea where God would plunk me. I had taken a teaching assistant job at that same school, but it was only to finish out the year. By May, I had people asking all around me about what I was going to do for a job. I consistently said, "I'm not sure where God will put me. But I trust Him, wholly." And I meant that. I did NOT worry one ounce. Not one bit. I felt TOTAL peace.

Tony trusted Him too, but being the planner (and financial guy) wondered alongside all the others where I would work. We were married in the spring of 1999, so he was 100% supporting me while I student taught.

Literally, all summer everyone else seemed to sweat what I was going to do. I had put my resume out at only a couple of places. I KNEW God heard my heart, heard my cry. And He was faithful. Seriously, though. EVERYONE hounded me about what I was going to do. Come on people, I serve a big GOD!

About two weeks before schools started all around this area, I got a call. It was from the school where I had student taught, and was a teaching assistant! One teacher moved into the role of Assistant Principal, which opened up her teaching position. They were offering me THAT position!

On Linny's blog, I explained that God not only gave me the cupcake, but He iced it AND put a cherry on top! The position that opened was for a 5th grade Language Arts position (don't judge my writing here!). God knew my heart was with the older kids (1st graders are whole other animals!) and that my passion was Language Arts. So NOT ONLY did He provide a job, He designed that job specifically around me!

Of ALL the schools. Of ALL the positions. THIS position, at THIS school opened up for me. I just know it. And since I have taken that job, I have had the time of my life. I have had both 5th and 6th grade, and I have loved it.

My loving Father, my Daddy, my Teacher, Abba, blessed me with my current job as a teacher. What better symbol than an apple? It represents my teaching, AND my trust. I trusted Him 100%.

Thanks for the challenge, Linny! I needed the reminder!

P.S. Stay tuned! The givewaway is nearly ready!! It was a fun little project I got to do, and now I get to give it away!

Think Bigger Than Yourself

2009-10-07T14:07:00.000-04:00

First, read http://www.nogreatergift.blogspot.com/

They're working to bring home their daughter and are asking for help!

You can:

1. Donate Money AND be entered in a drawing (amazing prizes)

2. Purchase gorgeous small pottery pendants where half the money goes toward their fundraiser.

I want to challenge you, friends! I know you'd come through for us if we were doing a f undraiser to bring our next child home (who knows, we might just do that!) so step up, help out, and be the hands and feet of Jesus now!

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Tony's Misc. Post

2009-10-04T22:30:00.000-04:00

I just wanted to drop by here and say hello. Life has been busy with the girls, work, local happenings, and etc... So here is an update.

One of the things we have been doing recently is geocaching (visit http://www.geocaching.com/ for more information). If you are not familiar with geocaching, it is basically treasure hunting with your GPS using coordinates posted on the website. Our best friends Paul and Christy introduced us to this when they were in town a few weeks ago. I think they have over 400 finds. We are up to a grand total of 13.

Below you will find a picture of my first geocoin found locally. I placed it in a "travel bug hotel" near Greenfield Saturday. I picked up a "travel bug" and plan to drop it somewhere in our hometown. I know, you probably think we are crazy, but it is a lot of fun. There are geocaches hidden everywhere, some right out in the open. Fun stuff.

(Here I am posing with the purple hippo - the photo was a requirement of finding the cache hidden nearby...)

Last weekend we hit a awesome car show with my parents and Robby and Ally. It was a perfect day and we saw tons of awesome rides! Robby even bumped into his pal Kenny!!

Sweet 57 & a sweet chevy truck!

Abby thinking something was a bit too loud!

Sweet 60 wagon!

Rat rods rule!

This weekend I had to replace the radiator in my Jeep Grand Cherokee. Some would say "trade it in". I say, with 180,000 + miles, it is a pretty good Jeep. Luckily other than Dad fixing the exhaust recently, we have not had to do any work to it in a long, long time.

The project went well. My theory is that since I was listening to TBN while working on it, that had a positive effect. The only snag was a lost small plastic fitting (probably a $1.00 item) that connects the transmmission line to the radiator. Luckily Mom and Dad stopped by and, after searching forever, my Mom spotted it under Rett's Jeep. Thanks Mom!!

The girls got into the project as well as you will see in the pictures. The only loss is the black pliers seen in the pictures. They are somewhere in the yard I am sure. The girls were having a good time using the pliers to pull grass from the yard (I found a pile of grass on the hood of my black Nova).

Abby helping putting the hardware on the new radiator.

Here they are posing with their tools...you cannot see it in this photo, but Laney even had grease on her face!

Well, this is totally random, but I felt I needed to show you some pictures. I have not had much time to post due to many evenings spent working, spending my computer time on geocaching.com and etc. This week we begin puppy kindergarten for Cooper. "Parents night" is Monday. This should be interesting...we'll keep you posted. Next week I get to go with the girls on their first offical field trip with their pre-school, a trip to the orchard. We'll keep you posted regarding that trip too.

Thanks for checking in...

Prayers are the only way to save her!

2009-10-02T14:35:00.001-04:00

Flashback Friday can wait.

There is a passionate family working hard to bring their daughter home. If they cannot bring her home ASAP, she'll be put in a mental institution forever. She is asking we storm the gates of Heaven today and tomorrow for God to move the government for sweet, sweet Ruslana. That's the least we can do!

Join me?

Read about it here.

Flashback Friday

2009-10-02T09:23:00.000-04:00

Well, my last Flashback Friday post went over like a lead balloon! Only a couple of you remembered Jem and the Holograms! I actually felt sad for you! She was great!

So, this week, I wanted to do another Saturday morning cartoon hit, but I figured I'd need therapy if you didn't remember this one either, so I'll hold off on that. Instead, I want to highlight one of my favorite television shows from when I was an elementary school kid..

Anybody remember a spunky little girl who dressed in rainbow colors? Her hair was always in pig tails and she was being raised by her foster dad? (Hmmm, maybe that's where I first started thinking/learning about adoption?) Of course I'm referring to PUNKY BREWSTER! Her name was Penelope, but she went by Punky. She was left in a grocery store with her dog, Brandon (who names their dog that?) She eventually gets adopted by her foster dad, Henry. (Ohhh, I remember when that actor died in real life! I was so sad!)

I LOVED this show...I remember playing with my nieces (who are just a few years younger than me) like we were foster children and/or adopted. I am sure we were NOT politically correct at all, but we were just kids. I really do remember playing like one of us adopted the other one and felt so loved and safe. We even acted out when we were first "adopted" to see if our mom would still love us! Isn't that wild that I remember that?

So today, Friday, I salute Punky. She was a snazzy dressin', trouble finding, little cutie. (She had a cool name in real life too...Soleil Moon Frye.) She was one of the first to introduce adoption and the love that goes along with it, to me!

Thankful Thursday

2009-10-01T12:25:00.000-04:00

Hmmm...so much to be thankful for.

1. My new great-niece born this week! (www.reidhosp.org Click on Reid Babies, then recent births) Her name is Kynlee Grace and she is just beautiful!

2. It's October...WHOO HOO! I LOVE this weather, season, time of year! L-O-V-E, LOVE IT!

3. Two cutie patooties that make me laugh EVERY single day! Such sweet spirits! Thank you, Jesus!

4. Thankful my brother-in-love's surgery went well and he is recovering @ home! (even if certain places feel like Chinese stars moving around!)

5. God's heart for the orphan. It challenges me.

6. Text messages straight from God!

7. Pastors at our church who "get" the big picture. We need to get outta our seats and BE the hands and feet of Jesus!

8. Thankful we serve a mighty God who carries us when we're weak!

9. For friends.

10. My job. My students make me laugh. That's a good thing, right?

11. I'm thankful for YOU! My faithful readers! I forget how many of you there are until one of you mentions a post Tony or I did. So often you don't leave comments, so I think there are only a few readers out there!

12. A fun blog experience will be coming up soon! You'll want to stay tuned for this one! One word. GIVEAWAY!

13. You fill in the blank here. What are YOU thankful for???

Thankful Thursday

2009-09-24T18:10:00.000-04:00

Here's a sentence I never thought I'd say...I mean, what are the chances this situation could actually happen?

I am thankful that the Saunders family spent ~~half~~ the night with us!

(They got in about midnight, through the humidity and fog.)

Uugh. didn't get me cropped out in time, but here we are! Friends new and old. Thank you, God!

As unreal as it may sound...and as much as Satan didn't want it to happen, Linny, Dw, Graham, Emma,
Liberty, Isaiah, Elizabeth, and Elijah spent the night at OUR house last night! The poor things, after terrible RV trouble and driving for days on end, got stuck staying in our basement on air mattresses. But seriously, who HAS that many beds??? Hahaha.

Here was a United Nations meeting in our living room. All surrounding a Little People metropolis.

We had the best time, albeit short, with their family. Every single one of them is so special. They have tender hearts, sweet smiles, and a passion for God. I am so proud to call them friends. (Even IF Dw thinks it's weird!)

I know this has an arm in the shot...but I HAD to show you Isaiah mid-throw. This game resulted in four kids chucking 200 balls all over the basement! FUN! And I mean that!

Liberty is just darling with the little ones, and a chatterbox--MY kind of girl! And Emma fits into her role as big sister like a perfect little Mama. Graham's quiet charm is endearing, while Isaiah's smile could melt any cold soul! Elijah and Elizabeth fit in so comfortably here that it would have been fine by me if they just stayed!!! And Linny and Dw...they make it all look easy.

Elizabeth rockin' out on the harmonica! Yes, the same one that at least five kids shared!

AND...Dw made it out alive! No felons here! AND, there were NO ducks on tables here, Graham. Unless you count the little, yellow, rubber kind.

Sarah came over w/ her kiddos and so a great time was had by all. Loud yelling, laughing, tackling, and cooking was going on in the basement. PRICELESS!

Chris, Sarah, Jaxson, and Paige

Sweet Elizabeth cuddling the twin dollies.

To end our morning, we circled up in prayer. These sweet people prayed for US, and like goofy fools, we didn't even pray for THEIR trip or safety. But trust me friends, we have been praying since they pulled out in their RV in Colorado, and will continue to do so until they make it back home.

Thank you, God, for connecting us. Sweet people. Sweet memories!

Elijah thinking, "Maybe if I lay low over here, they'll just leave me be!"

Wordless Wednesday

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Flashback Friday

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It has been a while, but I wanted to do a fun flashback Friday today!

Is it sad that I can remember the exact lyrics to this cartoon that I used to adore?

Is it sad that my cousin, nieces, and friends of our ours would sit around and practice said song and tape record ourselves? This cartoon and doll set once boasted a contest where the best singing group could rerecord the song for the show and we thought for SURE we'd get to do it.

Is it sad that I wanted to dye my hair pink just like this main character?

Is it sad that I thought I'd grow up to be part crime fighter, part rock star?

Is it sad I wanted an alter ego like this main character?

Of course I'm talking about JEM and the Holograms!

Photo from: antiquiet.com

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Now, just to prove how pathetic I am...the song...straight from my memory!

Jem! Jem is excitement!
Ooooh, Jem!
Jem is adventure!
Ooooh, Jem!

Glamor and glitter,
Fashion and Fame...
JEM!

Go ahead, laugh. I don't care. I still want to be Jerrica Benton, owner of Starlight Music. And, her alter ego, JEM! And I want back-up singers like the Holograms!

Can anyone name the holographic computer chick who helped Jerrica out? I can!

Oh man, this trip down memory lane is fun! I loved so many Saturday morning cartoons....those were the good ole days!

Thankful Thursday

2009-09-17T09:37:00.003-04:00

Today I am thankful for these little girls. No, wait. EVERY DAY I'm thankful for these little girls. But today, I'll tell you about it. They just make me laugh.

I want to document some fun conversations that we have been having...

On the way to church last week, we heard the girls bickering in the back seat. Tony, at this point, tells Abby to ignore Laney (because every two seconds Abby was whining about what Laney was or wasn't doing). I further explained to Abby that ignoring meant not to listen to or pay attention to her. Two minutes later we hear this:

Abby: Baba, Laney is TOUCHING ME!
Laney: IGNORE ME!
Abby: OK!

HAHAHHAHAHA! It was hysterical. We laughed and laughed and laughed!
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We've also had two funny prayer time situations. The other night when Laney was finished praying, she ended with, "BYE!" and then caught herself, giggled, then said, "Uh, Amen!" :)

The next night, Abby said she wanted to do the bedtime prayer and so we all closed our eyes and she started off, "A, B, C, D..." We all peeked at each other and started laughing! Just a bit tired and confused, I'd say!

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Goodness, God has spoiled us with these girls, and for that...I'm THANKFUL!!!!!

By the way, can you guess who is who in the picture?

Memorial Box Monday-The Chrysler

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Most of you know my friend, Linny. She has inspired, encouraged, challenged, and changed me. You can check her site for weekly Memorial Box Monday posts. Below, you'll see what she says about them.

"The purpose of each Memorial Box Monday post is to remind myself and others of God's great faithfulness, His powerful provision and His Unexpected Gifts in each of our lives. It is not a sign of super spirituality to have a Memorial Box. It is something that anyone who has seen God work in their lives can do. There are no rules....just sharing the story of something recent or long ago about how God showed up in your family (or just to you if you are single) to meet a need, rescue, protect, heal, or even give a surprise you didn't expect!"

Well, this week, I'm killing two birds with one stone. Our senior pastor at church challenged us last week to find the person who had a big influence on our spiritual walk and thank them. He said to seek out the person who answered your questions, and maybe even helped you ask Jesus to be your Savior. What a challenge! AND, what a great MBM post too!

Over the course of my life, many people have been instrumental in helping me form a relationship with Jesus. When I was a child, my brother and sister-in-love had me go to church with them all the time. And I could always count on my grandmother to be at church (I can even remember EXACTLY where she sat in our old sanctuary). And my youth group leader (now mother-in-love), and friends, and my parents...many people were vital to my early learning about Jesus.

But when Pastor Dave asked us to find and thank this person...I immediately thought of someone else. My husband, Tony. Oh, how I love this man.

Many moons ago (um, 19 years for those who are curious) Tony and I started dating. I first met him at youth group (thanks to a friend who invited me) and thought he was cute. Little did I know, he was checking me out too! *GASP* an upperclassman! WHOO HOO!

Fast forward a few months and Tony and I started dating. (Met him in May, started dating in late August). One night stands out in my mind more than any though. We were cruising through town in his mom's burgundy Chrysler equipped with an 8-track and everything. (SWEET!) We were planning on going to the movies, I think. Anyway, I knew Tony was different, and I knew church had to do something with it. So I started asking questions while we were driving.

Let me back track a second. I was a freshman, and he a sophomore. He had been in church since toddler hood, and I had just started going regularly. I had him duped! He thought I was a Christian already. He later told me, had he known I wasn't a Christian, he would have never asked me out! HA! Thank you, Jesus for not shedding light on that!

Anyway, we had gotten closer and formed a friendship/relationship. So when I started asking questions about God, church, being "saved", etc. he was more than happy to answer me. I remember the conversation getting pretty deep. I also remember my heart thumping out of my chest. So the closer we got to my house, the more emotional I was. I knew I was a sinner, and I knew I wanted what Tony had. That peace. That joy.

We ended the night sitting in my driveway talking. I asked Tony what I had to do...how do I pray. And, bless his heart, he gave me the steps to salvation. He told me I needed to acknowledge who God was. I needed to admit I was a sinner and ask for forgiveness. And I needed to ask Him to come into my heart so that I could live for Him. (Rough high school version). So there, in that Chrysler, in my driveway, with my boyfriend (now husband) as a freshman in high school, I prayed and accepted Jesus as my Lord and Savior. (I'm crying now, thinking about it!)

Friends, the feeling I had. Oh, the joy that BURST out of me. I was sobbing...but elated and scared all at the same time. The release was overwhelming. We hugged and cried (at least I think he did) and I felt simply amazing.

I remember bounding in the house to announce my joy to my parents. I won't go into detail, but my news wasn't well-received. My parents thought I should have been older before I made this big decision. My spirit was crushed a little, but right then, I began to lean on Jesus. (If you ask my parents now (and maybe they'll respond here) I think they are proud that I made that decision and that I have since tried to live a life pleasing to God.)

So during that date night in August, a young man led this young woman to God. And I want to take this opportunity to thank him publicly.

Tony, love, you mean the world to me. Because of you, I am proud daughter of Christ. A child of God. Because you were not afraid or embarrassed to witness to me, even in high school, I became a Christian. I would not be the person I am today, spiritually or otherwise, if it weren't for you. Because you cared enough about me and my relationship with God, others in my family have come to Him as well. You are a man of integrity and passion. You are steady and hold fast to your convictions. You challenge me, inspire me, and make me joyful. You are a wonderful spiritual leader of our home, and for our children. A model of the type of person I would want them to marry. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. I can never repay you for what you did. Just know, that I love Jesus. And I love you.

So the symbol I'm choosing for the Memorial Box in my mind, is a Hot Wheel. It's a little red Chrysler, with comfy leather seats, and an 8-track.

I am blessed and so thankful.

Transparent-again

2009-09-11T13:17:00.002-04:00

Ok, maybe it's guilt. Maybe it's a need to share my life with the world. Maybe I need someone to say, "It's ok...just try harder next time." Whatever the reason, here it is:

Today, I have been praying CONSTANTLY for Josh, the young man from Linny's blog that is missing in the wilderness. I told Linny that I would be fasting along with praying today. She has great posts about fasting...check her side bar out. But today, I only fasted breakfast. I was starved by lunch and gave in, even though I was praying about NOT giving in.

Linny has challenged me to grow spiritually. This is one of the strongest women of God I know. She has explained how when we fast, we petition God to be favorable in our prayers. It draws us to Him and strengthens our spiritual discipline. You can fast for specific purposes, specific answers you are seeking. And I was doing just that. But I am weak. I am one chubby mama that is weak.

There. I said it. I feel so disappointed in myself. NO willpower.

Forgive me, Lord. Give me strength so that I will yearn for your heart and hold true to Your teachings. Help give me self-discipline so that I will not disappoint You. And Lord, please please return Josh to his family. Help the rescuers have fresh eyes, and sharp senses. Protect Josh, until they find him. Thank you, God. Thank you, Father.

Thankful Thursday

2009-09-10T10:04:00.003-04:00

After yesterday's blah post...I need this.

Today, I'm thankful for freedom. I'm thankful I have a voice for that freedom. And I'm thankful that this Presidential term is one day closer to ending.

I'm also thankful for people willing to stand up and fight for what's right. I'm thankful I can call them friends.

I know I talk about Linny a lot. She's a bloggy friend I've never met (but will in TWO WEEKS--WHOOP WHOOP JESUS!) and have only spoken with on the phone, texts, and email. But friends, I value her.

This morning she posted on her blog about a serious issue affecting our country. Regardless of your political party, there are some freedoms that will soon be taken if we don't take action!

Take TWO minutes to read her post!
Then take TWO (or more) minutes to pray
Then take TWO minutes to take action.
Then take TWO (or more) minutes to pray about fasting.

We're talking about less than ten minutes here people. And our future could and will be impacted!

Read it and pray for our nation, our administration, and our freedoms!

Blah.

2009-09-09T12:35:00.002-04:00

I've done my usual blog walk. I've checked out a couple of dozen blogs (I am on my lunch break!). I've even wandered from my regulars, to THEIR regulars. Everyone has so much to say. I've read about cancer, the first day of school, traveling to other countries, beans and rice, hair products, family birthdays, auctions, CDs, hair cuts, God's promises, the birds and the bees, prayer requests, and a variety of other topics.

Why is it I can't find a thing to talk about?

Why is it I feel so blah?

Why is it I feel so alone?

I have such a great life. I have a fantastic husband, wonderful daughters, a supportive family, fun friends, a comfy home church, a good job, more material junk than I should have, weekend plans for months on end, food in my belly, a beautiful home, and a God who lets me rant, cry, and praise all in the same breath. What more could I want? What more should I want? Why am I feeling this?

Some will say it's hormones. My surgery was two months and three days ago. Who knows...maybe it is. But the feeling is getting annoying. It's blah mixed with a dash of anticipation, and a smidge of irritation. That's one recipe for disaster.

I feel like I'm nearing a crossroad. Does that even make sense? Like something big is on the horizon (hence the dash of anticipation). It's not fear I feel...just interest and wonder. I remember feeling this exact same way RIGHT before we heard our news about the girls. No, no, we're not waiting on news about any pending children...at least I don't think we are. Now if someone calls us out of the blue and says, "Rett, I have a question for you..." and goes on to ask if we'd be willing to adopt again, I'll just flip. That would be the memo of all memos from God. (And although I'd be single parenting because Tony would just die, I'd do it!!! )

It's just I feel a stirring in the atmosphere. An uneasiness. Like pressure changes before a storm.

I need to lean in toward God. I need to crawl up in His lap. I have pretty much been at an arm's length from Him lately, and I need to run toward Him again. I want to feel His warmth. I want to refocus. I need to. Because this crossroad, time of change, anxiousness is the pits. I need Him.

Jesus, I need you. Draw me close to You. And prepare my heart. My family's heart for whatever You are going to call us to do. Whoever you are going to call us to be. Prepare us. Because for now, I feel so unprepared. And I don't even know how to prepare.

So there. My post about nothing, and about a ton. It's what's on my heart.

Foto Friday--On Thursday!

2009-09-03T11:33:00.005-04:00

Original picture

Since I keep messing, er, shaking things up around this blog, I thought I'd do Foto Friday today!

I used the site Picnik to alter the pictures here. It is an awesome site that is easier to manipulate than Photosh*p. I found out about this site, from a fellow blogger Our Treasures From Afar. Neat blog...you should check it out!

Mind you, I only played around with it for a couple of minutes...but I still think they look neat!

So what do you think? Which one do YOU like?

Black and white and soft all over.

Just a touch of color.

Intense.

Picnik.com is such a neat site. I'll be jazzing up my pictures from now on! AND upgrading to get a variety of additional options!

Thankful Thursday, on Wednesday

2009-09-02T10:37:00.002-04:00

Yes, I do know my days of the week, but it seems that I'm thankful on other days than Thursday...so I just have to post!

Today, my friends, I'm thankful I'm sick. Yes, you read that right. I have a raging sinus infection and double pink eye, but I'm thankful. I'm thankful I have a job that gives me sick days to take without penalty. I'm thankful that I have coworkers that will help pick up the slack when my sub plans are way below par due to the sickness. And I'm thankful I can pick back up where I left off tomorrow at work. I'm thankful for a specific coworker who shared her pink eye medicine...it seems to be working!

I'm thankful that God's timing is perfect with this sickness. I called my principal last night, to schedule today off. And then, in the middle of the night, Abby stumbled into our room not feeling well, and with a fever. YAY! Not yay that she's sick. But YAY that I had already planned on being home!

While I'm on a roll with this sickness, I'm thankful for my huband. He's currently at the doctor with Abby. I'm thankful he has a job and an employer that believes in family first. I'm thankful for the gift of healing that our doctor has. And I'm also thankful for my sister who was willing to come over and pick up Laney today. I decided to keep her here among the sickies (I know, probably bad idea) because Abby will perk up, she always does, and will want to play. Abby will be lost without her sister here. And I'm enjoying some bonus time with the girls today, even if I don't feel 100%.

Speaking of Abby, that girl's heart is just so sweet. She climbed in bed with us last night and immediately asked ME how I was feeling! She was concerned about ME. Even with a fever of 102, she was worried about me! Bless her heart. This morning, after Tony left for work, she ambled into the kitchen where I was making oatmeal. She had been dozing up until this point. The very first words out of her mouth this morning were, "How are you feeling, Mama?" She had asked ME before I could even ask HER! Her tenderness makes me want to cry!

So, today. I'm thankful for sickness. This sickness. Today, right now.

Sorry, no pictures though. NO ONE wants to see us sick. NOT PRETTY!

Row that Boat, Santa Kitty!

2009-08-30T21:21:00.007-04:00

A child's perspective can be so clear, so innocent, so true. Here is the version of "Row, Row, Row, Your Boat" that the girls sing.

Row, row row your boat,

Gently down the streaaaam!

Merrily, merrily, merrily, merrily,

Life is ABOUT a dream!!!!

No, not "Life is BUT a dream..." But ABOUT a dream. And you know what? They're SO right. Life is about a dream. A dream to do and be the best person for God we can be. At least, that's the way I see it. So precious!

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Tonight, before the girls went to bed, I asked them what they wanted to be when they grow up.

Abby's answer: Santa Claus

My thoughts: Totally possible! Abby is the epitome of Santa. She has a heart that is so big. She is extremely giving, and will often put others needs before hers. And she loves children. Let's just pray she ditches the white beard!

Laney's answer: A kitty cat

My thoughts: She is already channeling the spirit of cats. She's extremely fickle. She loves to groom herself. (She recently said, "When you're done with my hair, will I be stylish?" And when she gets her way, she nearly purrs!

Just some three year old joys I wanted to share!

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OH--and yesterday, I took Cooper the Wonderpuppy to the vet (doggie doctor in twinoddler terms) for his second round of shots. (MUCH better this time-except for pooping in the waiting room...um, Cooper, not the girls) While we were there, I spotted the big pad scale they use to weigh the dogs. So, like any good Mama, I told the girls to hop on up there to see what they weighed. (Didn't get caught either!) heeh...the stats are below, if you were curious!

Cooper

Age: 4 months old

Weight: 7 pounds

Abby

Age: 3 years (turns 4 in Jan.)

Weight: 30 pounds

Laney

Age: 3 years (turns 4 in Jan.)

Weight: 29 pounds

Have a great week! Enjoy some fun pictures from our summer!
Our first "camp out" on our living room floor!

We are WAY too cool for this firetruck you posed us in front of!

Our cousin Jarrett is WAY fun. He comes up with silly games all the time!