Comments on Empty Lunchbox: Just Let Go...

Thanks you guys. I really appreciate all the love ...

2006-03-13T09:17:00.000-06:00

Thanks you guys. I really appreciate all the love and support I'm getting from this from everyone. I know this was probably something that I could never say to anyone face to face, but I'm glad that I was able to let everyone know what I was going through.

I love all of you, and I'll keep you all posted on my progress. I've lost 5 lbs. since Thursday already. I'm very optimistic.

Guilt is the hardest thing to let go of, because w...

2006-03-12T17:42:00.000-06:00

Guilt is the hardest thing to let go of, because we feel like we deserve it. We feel like it's just and right for us to feel this way, otherwise we obviously didn't love her as much as we say we did.

I'm proud of you for starting on this path. I'm with you, always, even though I can't be by your side when you need me. I, too, realized that I was killing myself over it...slowly but surely.

It's been a long, hard, dark road to this point... but I know we've both beaten ourselves up enough. She loved us, we loved her. She wouldn't have wanted us to wallow in it for the rest of our lives.

I love you, my Sissypoo. My Other Half, my Late Born Twin. We'll get through this like everything else... holding each other's hand.

I'm always here if you need me. I love you.

This post makes me so happy and leaves me so optim...

2006-03-10T22:37:00.000-06:00

This post makes me so happy and leaves me so optimistic for the future. I never got to meet her, but have spent enough time with her daughter and granddaughters to know what kind of woman your Gramm was. You're right, she never wanted anything but for you ladies to be happy, and this is a step toward a happier Marlena. Lots of us have things we need to let go of, recognizing them is the first step. It's also the hardest.

No Problemo Marls... That's what friends do, be th...

2006-03-09T20:30:00.000-06:00

No Problemo Marls... That's what friends do, be there for each other... Even when they didn't know that's what they were doin'... I'm proud of you Marls, and I'm sure your GrandMother is too...

Tony

Thanks, girl. I'd hire someone to do it for me too...

2006-03-09T20:21:00.000-06:00

Thanks, girl. I'd hire someone to do it for me too if I had the money. Its VERY easy to put on, to take it off? Not so much.

Thanks Tony. And thank you for sending those pictures when you did. They've made a big difference in kick starting this process for me.

Wow...That's a whole lot of "Personal" goin' on th...

2006-03-09T16:57:00.000-06:00

Wow...

That's a whole lot of "Personal" goin' on there Marls... And, if your 4, (2 more than me) fans can't handle it, that's a real shame... Cuz' as far as I'm concerned, you can only truly appreciate someone that you understand (On any level)... Especially when that person (You) shares such an important piece of your life with us... Now, while I did not laugh as I have with previous posts, I feel like I understand better than I did before... And, I wouldn't trade that for all the "Toilet Sagas", "Stuff on Your Cat", or "Comic Thievery"... Thank You for makin' me feel that much closer to you...

Your Friend,

Tony

I'll be there with you. And maybe I'll lose some ...

2006-03-09T16:56:00.000-06:00

I'll be there with you. And maybe I'll lose some of that weight too. Well, my own. I can't lose yours for you. But if I could, I would hire someone to do it for both of us.