tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-148651582009-02-20T21:53:26.866-05:00PerfectMan4Menoreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14865158.post-36170844036955151192007-02-14T23:11:00.001-05:002007-02-14T23:17:16.780-05:00

No news yet. I've taken a long breather from the search. Hope springs eternal...

PerfectMan4Menoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14865158.post-1135122908775437612005-12-20T18:36:00.000-05:002005-12-20T18:55:08.790-05:00

So another year is right around the corner. Time for resolutions, new beginnings, fresh starts. 2005 was quite the year. While I don't normally make resolutions, I decided in late summer that it was time to find my perfect man. And I went in search of him. I still haven't met him but I'm encouraged. While I heard from almost 500 men from around the world since the quest began, most did not meet

PerfectMan4Menoreply@blogger.com10tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14865158.post-1131584425729803132005-11-09T19:23:00.000-05:002005-11-09T20:14:33.373-05:00

So I've thrown myself into a new work project for the past 6 weeks. And I've been finding great satisfaction in being creative again. I love getting up in the morning and jumping right in. Starting something new is like falling in love. There's the initial buildup, thrill, the feeling that you can't wait to get back to it/him.As I've been getting more and more involved, I find that the search for

PerfectMan4Menoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14865158.post-1127792340356227572005-09-26T23:25:00.000-04:002005-09-26T23:42:09.586-04:00

I just responded to 62 emails. Some from married men. Not sure why they're looking for a "pen pal" or "just dinner" with a woman who's obviously looking for neither. And several men nearing 80 looking to get together for a casual date. They're even too old for my mother! Quite a few women wrote me. Some to congratulate me on taking this "bold" step. Others to give advice. And then there are those

PerfectMan4Menoreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14865158.post-1127061297884918312005-09-18T12:23:00.000-04:002005-11-11T14:13:49.306-05:00

I've been traveling and am way behind on my emails. But since I have a life outside of this pursuit, I don't feel too guilty. I promise to respond when I get back. So far, I've heard from a diverse group of men. From all over the world. And I agree that it's tough to discern chemistry via email. Actually impossible as my first call with one of the men I had been corresponding with demonstrated.

PerfectMan4Menoreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14865158.post-1126023172148035722005-09-06T11:37:00.000-04:002005-09-06T14:26:36.766-04:00

Let's cut to the chase. I'm trying to understand all the skepticism out there. Why would someone like me need to do something this "radical?" My response is: why not? I wanted to set myself apart. To attract men who I would not meet unless I did something unusual - like this. I cast a wide net. I'm clear about what I want. For all the people who want to judge me because I'm too picky, be my guest

PerfectMan4Menoreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14865158.post-1124830784764468972005-08-23T17:31:00.000-04:002005-08-23T17:33:36.963-04:00

I've been getting quite a few emails asking if I'm a real person. I decided to post some pictures to illustrate that yes, indeed I do exist. But come on, after all the mystery, did you really think that I'd show my face here? So why the bathing suit? It seems out of character. Well, it is but there's a good story behind it. I bought a fabulous St. John bathing suit a few weeks ago. It was the

PerfectMan4Menoreply@blogger.com24tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14865158.post-1123627805905238582005-08-09T18:47:00.000-04:002005-08-15T22:36:17.683-04:00

I'm back home after being on the road for a week. Now it's all real. I launched the site right before leaving town. So far, the response from the men who took the test and wrote to me, has been great. I am pleasantly surprised by the incredibly articulate men out there. I'm starting to respond to everyone who wrote me. It's been both exciting and a tad odd hearing from total strangers. But I'm

PerfectMan4Menoreply@blogger.com3tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14865158.post-1122477446473769142005-08-01T03:00:00.000-04:002005-08-01T01:08:31.796-04:00

I can't believe I'm actually going ahead with this. I alternate between exuberance at moving forward and fear. What if I build it and no one comes? I must watch Field of Dreams again. After all, if Kevin Costner can get dead baseball players to appear, I must be able to attract at least one Perfect Man. And a live one at that.This is such a crazy endeavor. Not only do I wonder if anyone will

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