tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14851130.post114160160978769953..comments2009-07-13T16:45:39.922-04:00DavidCakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07145856267504030971David@AbsentMindfully.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14851130.post-1141808385602062212006-03-08T03:59:00.000-05:002006-03-08T03:59:00.000-05:00Well, Im not sure what you are going through right now. But I know this for a fact. A couple of months ago I was a complete mess, I thought for sure that the entire world had come crashing down on me. Well, it kind of did lol. You helped me stay strong and think possitive through one of the hardest times in my life. You listened to my rants and cries for at least 2 months and never once got annoyed with me. Well at least not that I know of =D. It put you in a tough situation having a mess like that happen between two of your good friends, but you were still there for me! I dont even have the words to thank you for that =D. When everyone else was telling me how stupid I was, you understood. <BR/>Thanks =D<BR/><BR/>Oh, and you know I am always here for you! Whenever you need anything! HUGSSSSSSS!Melanienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14851130.post-1141673806406431392006-03-06T14:36:00.000-05:002006-03-06T14:36:00.000-05:00First, make sure the person wants help. If they are not asking for your advice, don't give it. Second, when you have shared your past experiences realize that the person you are trying to help has to make their own mistakes to learn anything. And finally, just because the person feels better today does not mean that things will not be terrible the next day. Or if they don't hear your words today, they might make sense in a week or never. <BR/>Just do what you do with a good heart. You have been helpful to others but you can't live their lives and you can't take their problems too personally.<BR/>-heather (Just my point of view ... here I am giving advice about giving advice!)-heatherhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07703099748328574930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-14851130.post-1141622222725551242006-03-06T00:17:00.000-05:002006-03-06T00:17:00.000-05:00don't worry man you got a good shoulderAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com