tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-13205212.post-123980301330234612007-06-19T19:14:00.000-05:002007-06-19T20:00:51.228-05:00The Death of Father CarrI saw the headline about Fr. Carr in the Northwestern Monday morning. Through the first cup of coffee and long before the morning cobwebs disappeared from my head I knew I had a job to do. I had all day at work to think about it and develop a level even attitude regarding it.<br /><br />I went to the evening meal at the Salvation Army Monday from 4:30 to 5:30. I posed a general question: "What's your thoughts on Father Carr?"<br /><br />The first person I saw was Bones. He had heard nothing about it. I told him the headline. Bones sez: "You're s%*##in' me." Later. "This is the happiest day I've had in a long time."<br /><br />Zbobzap sez: "I don't dare use the words I want, (since we're in the Salvation Army Building), but you can guess." Later. "He's going to get pretty hot where he's going."<br /><br />Female, about age 40: "I could care less. He was nasty to everyone."<br /><br />Another woman: "I've never heard anyone say a good word about him. Good riddance."<br /><br />Middle aged man: "I was out there for lunch Sunday with J__. Neither of us <em>were even told Father Carr passed away!" </em>"Typical. Clients are <em>NEVER </em>told anything."<br /><br />That was the general demeaner of about three dozen comments I received.<br /><br />I did the same on Tuesday evening. The nicest comment received was from a woman named S__. She said: "It's sad when someone dies, but maybe it's for the better. Maybe things will be run better out there now."<br /><br />My comment: Father Carr was vicious. He delighted in kicking people who were down. A person would have to speak to thousands of former clients or would be clients to come up with any other answer.<br /><br />Someone else can write the accolades. I invite <em>any </em>writer (or would be writer) for the Northwestern to stop by the Salvation Army at the noon meal (11am-12:30pm) or evening meal (4:30-5:30pm) and pose questions about Father Carr. Note that citizens of Oshkosh are more than welcome to walk in and inspect the Salvation Army during the public meal times. A small red kettle is usually present and folks are more than welcome to have a bite and chat with people who use the Army facilities.<br /><br />I implore anyone who is curious about the subject of Father Carr to take time to ask former clients about him.<br /><br />Next: A public challenge to the Board and Transition Members of the Place 2B.<br /><br />Peace.Garyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/14089389433231675841noreply@blogger.com